Why do I often start feeling blue when the night comes? The whole day might go well, but then out of nowhere I'm all weepy.
>>17543588
Have you considered imbibing large amounts of alcohol per night to ease the pain
>>17543598
Yes
>>17543588
It could be a depression. Are you sad for something? Do you have problem with stress?
Is this acne? I don't know what this stuff is. I starated getting this mid July, and it continued to get worse. I've been putting lotion on this stuff but it's not seeming to affecting anything.
It doesn't itch, but it's unattractive in my opinion. I'm nineteen, and haven't had a problem with acne other than on my face.
Any idea what this stuff is?
Other arm
chest
Keratosis pilaris. And no, you can't do shit about it other than exfoliate and moisturize
Alright /adv/ I just read a thread asking about side effects of jerking off many times a day and I've decided I really need to chill the hell out. I've never seen any valid reasons to stop until today, but I think it's time for a nofap.
I jerk it at least once or twice a day. Though three isn't uncommon. In the past I've gone three maybe four days in a row without fapping but it was only because I was on vacation with my family. During our most recent vacation (about a month ago) I found it particularly challenging and caved after a couple of days.
Here are my questions:
Should I stop cold turkey or take a couple of days to slow down?
How long will it take to notice the mental effects of not jerking off?
Any general tips to keep me from my temptations?
Cold turkey, bro. Just ignore it when you get urges. You'll feel normal after a week.
Whenever I feel like doing NoFap for a few weeks or whatever i stop cold turkey. I notice mental effects in 2-3 days. Stay off nswf boards or those notorious for posting porn anyway. Find a few good books to read instead or something
I haven't fapped in a week and a half, I got depressed and now I have come to the realization that I'm a 20 year old virgin with bad social skills and a fear of talking to strangers.
So yeah, not going too great here, where's the good part of this whole thing?
How many days can you function properly off of 3 hours of sleep a night?
Every day? You don't die from lack of sleep, you just fall asleep if it gets bad enough.
>>17543534
That's what I want to avoid, falling asleep during the day.
>>17543527
After a while you start taking micronaps without knowing it. How fast depends on how much energy you're expending each day.
I have an abundance of fruit flies in my room but no food source as there's no food in my room. Why are they swarming to my room? And how do I get rid of them.
I have no bug spray plus I hate the smell, and I'm not fast enough to swat em, so I've been killing them with burn relief spray.
Also how closely related are the common house fly and fruit flies?
>>17543525
Had them back in the days. Sucked them in with a hoover
take everything out of your room, vacuum the floor, and throw away trash. They wouldn't be in there if there wasn't something for them to eat
Didn't you already post this earlier today?
1) Get the food out of your room. You may think you have no food in your room, but the flies disagree, and they've got hundreds of votes against your one. Your mission is to find whatever it is they think is food and get rid of it. Don't just throw it in the trash can; get it out of your house immediately.
2) I reccommend getting a Venus's flytrap if you want an efficient way to get rid of the flies without using sprays. Any plant nursery should have some.
I'm in love with a lesbian and I'm a male. I've never had feelings like this and I've never connected with someone like this before. Should I tell her or should I let it bottled up?
>>17543509
Tell her man, you'd regret it more if you didn't. The worst she can do is reject you. Hell she may want to take things further with you, try new things. Has she had any bad experiences with guys involving relationships?
>>17543509
Are you sure that you are in love with her? Sometimes people have the illusion that they are in love with a friend just because they are having a lot of fun
>>17543509
Tell her. She will tell you no, but the finality of this will help you in the process of letting go and starting to heal.
Hey /adv/ I'm buying a new headset for my new PC and was hoping to get some recommendations
It needs to be able to
>be wired
>plug into a certain socket (will post a pic soon, on desktop)
>Have an inbuilt microphone that's a good quality
>ideally have a thick wire as i subconsciously chew on cables like a retard
My price range is £30.
>>17543497
Pic related is the cable the headset should ideally come with
>>17543497
Aside from the certain socket, you're looking at the kingston hyperX which should be around that price point and Imo has really good quality build, sound and the microphone is removable for when you wanna just chill without it.
>has thick wires
>over ear comfortable
>Microphone removable with standard 3.5 mm jack
>>17543508
had a similar headset to this for console. Was called the "Hyper cloudx" or something along those lines. .
Solid, reliable, would recommend.
So I've decided to stop talking to this girl, she was my first love experience (20yrs M), it was wonderful when it lasted, but now after some talking she wants nothing with me.
I can't be her friend anymore because its killing me, there are a lot of memories and experiences surrounding her, everytime I talked to her or any interaction makes all those memories come back, and it hurts too damn much, I can't for the love of god see her just like another friend, we were so close and became too attached to her, it pains me to do this but I can't be her friend anymore, its too much for me.
I told her yesterday that im okay with everything and Im good, I didn't tell her about this obviously.
what should I do now? any tips and tricks?
Its my first time dealing with this so Im a little lost
It's gonna take some time to heal, trust me. What you can do for now is try to distract yourself with this board or any board you like, watching tv, hanging out with people, ect. It hurts when people do this, and if it still hangs in your mind a lot, try talking to someone close about it.
>>17543493
Im gonna go to my psychologist to talk about this, I have a deppresion and I sure as hell don't want things to mix up.
>>17543501
That is a wise choice, best to stop the spiral before it gets too far.
I cannot discuss these things with my friends or acquaintances yet since I'm ashamed of giving hints of not really knowing who I'm supposed to be to people who see me often.
I feel as if I'm mimicking other people personality traits too much, usually the first symptom is that I start to use their catchphrases uncounsciously, this is something I ignored but today I am at the question if there is a trace of my raw personality to go back to.
Sometimes I fear that I'll be acting like some fictional character (like the kids that run like anime characters), I'm 26 years old, I don't think that I'm helpless enough to no do something about it, I just want to know if someone else relates to it and what are his/her thoughts about it, are people really self-conscious about who they are all the time? I feel like I am and that it shouldn't be like that.
OP your picture is fucking retarded
How is he going to reload his guns with one hand? How is he even going to aim them with that dumbass helmet on? You couldn't even shoot those guns with one hand anyway, much less reload them. Where are the magazines for the guns? Does he keep them under his autistic man-dress? I mean fuck shouldn't he have like a belt or something for the shotgun shells? This whole picture is dumb as shit, he has fucking modern guns, medieval armor and a fucking jetpack. It's like some shit a fucking twelve year old would come up with. How the fuck is his armor going to help him if they have FUCKING GUNS this shit is retarded goddamn. Good thing he has that tactical tard-skirt over his torso, otherwise he'd be fucked. This whole combination of shit makes no sense. Where the fuck does he put his guns when he's not fighting? It's not like he has straps or anything, he just has to carry them around like an autistic larper everywhere he goes. Does he really just awkwardly hold that shit while he does everything? How does he piss? Goddammit the guns have a fucking place to attach a strap why wouldn't you use it? He doesn't even look cool. Whys there a fucking staryu on top of his head? His armor doesn't even make sense anyway, it's for deflecting melee weapons but he has guns and CAN FUCKING FLY. Why the fuck does he need medieval armor? He can just fly away ffs how is anyone going to hit him with a sword?
Fuck your picture OP
>>17543465
Let's start with the basics: who are you? What IS your personality?
Hell, might as well take a personality test to see what comes up:
>https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
>>17543614
> who are you?
That is a difficult question for me, I don't know how to answer it.
>What IS your personality?
I treat strangers and acquaintances with respect and civility. Friends and family get the same treatment but sometimes I dump too much of my train of thoughts on them that I feel as if I'm drowning them with words and feels, my way of thinking is straight forward but may seem chaotic from an outside perspective.
I like to make my folks laugh because I love to laugh with them, I feel that is a better connection to laugh together than just having the same interests and stuff like that.
I took the test and I got INTP. I took a couple of them years ago (don't know about their validity though) and got ISTP so maybe I'm not too far from that spectrum.
I cant deal with the concept of pregancy. The entire "baby grows in a woman" thing is fucking disgusting. I dont like it one single bit. And then the entire shitting out the baby out the front entrance? ewww.
I would be far more comfortable with artificial wombs where the baby just grows and you harvest it after a while. This is far more sterile and less confusing.
I think its important to pass on your genes but not in the messy old way.
What to do? I thought about donating sperm so you can pass on your DNA without all the annoying/disgusting stuff. Would this be an option?
PS:
Just my opinion so no bully pls.
Are you a woman?
I feel exactly the same way, except I'm a woman. Donated eggs when I was 22 and decided that would be my contribution to society. There's usually a pretty high demand for both male and female donors, because there's a plenty of childless couples who want kids, so yeah, it's definitely an option if you don't have any genetic diseases that could pass on to your genetic offspring.
>>17543440
>thought about donating sperm
Yes, I'm sure OP is a woman.
Someone stole mah girl. As you might expect I am white hot mad and can't stop thinking about it.
How do I calm down/move on /adv/?
>>17543370
Was she actually your girlfriend, or just a girl you had a one-sided crush on and someone else asked her out
>>17543380
I don't think she was his girlfriend
>stole
Literally can't happen
That girl never liked you in the first place
Forget about whore
>I let my gf do something that's so much easier for her to do and she's more likely to do it correctly, and generally she'll be able to do it in like 5 mins
>"URGH you're so incapable! Why do I have to do EVERYTHING for you? You don't respect my time!"
>I do the thing and I mess up/i take too long/i don't think to do x with it
>"URGH you're so incapable! I still have to do everything for you! You don't respect my time!"
What do I do in these situations? Usually it's a language barrier thing as I'm living in her country and don't really speak it yet (but I am learning).
>I need x for visa
>I look up how to get x and don't find any results in English
>try my best to google translate the pages and spend like half an hour doing so
>get a general idea of how to obtain x
>I forget to google about possible requirement y
>"Why didn't you google about x at all??? Why do I have to do everything for you?"
If I do it, I'll likely mess up somehow and she'll be mad at me. If I ask her to do it, she gets mad at me anyway.
Leave the relationship.
It's obvious you're a beta male.
Either learn your place as a beta male or leave.
Pretty much this guy ^
I mean, really? Why are you in this relationship? What the hell are you getting out of this?
>>17543373
This. She's being a cunt and you're enabling her by not breaking up with her on the spot. If her time is better spent checking FB and instagram than helping you then she can leave
I'm obsessed with fire, not like pyromaniac obsessed but with flame designs and fire spells in video games. I'd like to name my future son after something that derives from or is reminiscent of fire.
Would Magmo, after Magmar be an acceptable name for a boy?
>>17543330
Magmo after Magma, not the pokemon Magmar.
>>17543330
No.
10/10, would bully
Maybe just go with "Flamer?" Why overthink it?
>be me
>have crush on a girl from my school
>find out she's fucking some random guy
>don't know who tho
>feeling kinda pic related
Wat do, /adv/?
>>17543312
become atleast 16 years old.
Find someone else to crush on?
Move on with your life?
Improve yourself?
>>17543317
I am 18
What are some plans to acing this? I have not been revising regularly, but I'm willing to give it my all. Results are pretty okay. I'm getting B's and C's. Help me please /adv/
>>17543235
study.
/thread
>>17543243
Well, yeah, but how should I study?
>>17543249
Hard.