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Hey /adv/. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's always been long distance. The time difference sucks, he's 19 hours ahead of me, but somehow we make it work. Neither of us really every go out with friends, we usually just stay home and skype. But tonight he's going out drinking. I drink too, but only at home. I don't know why but the thought of him being 6,000+ miles away piss drunk really bothers me, especially because I know he'll be out with mostly females as that's who he works with. Any advice? I can't tell him to not go, and I can't tell him not to drink. I don't want to be THAT girlfriend. It just sucks that he'll get home at like 3am, but that'll be 8am for me. There's no way I'm staying up waiting that whole time. I don't know what to do, and I don't want to make his night a downer by complaining. What do I do?
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>>17548906
inb4 "jealousy/trust issues" bc true, I am a very anxious and jealous person
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>>17548906
Right off the bat, long distance is shit.
You're someone in the West Coast of America with someone in China/Australia or some shit?
You can't make it work.
Just can't.
You can't compete with someone he can touch. Nor can he compete with someone he can touch.
You're better off being friends.
Elsewise, the lucky one to make a real relationship will hurt the other.
Because long distance can't compete with actual intimacy.
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>>17548919
I mean, I don't see why it can't work. I'm saving up to move in with him.
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did I fuck up?
this girl at school is hella flirty with me and she asked to use my phone, and then texted herself to get my number. I accidently texted her that I love her when I was drunk and half asleep and she said it back after like 4 days of talking to her. Is it bad? also is it bad to talk about real emotions with a girl? will she think I am a numale?
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>>17548859
bmp
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Do you love her? If she said it back, I highly doubt she means anything real by it. It's common among normies to say I love you to each other, you know? Kind of like a courtesy.
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>>17548918
yea, I kinda do, and I know what you mean. We were talking about some real emotional shit and it just kinda slipped out and I fucking hate that it is basically normie ettiquette to say I love you at some time durring every conversation. The phrase doesn't even mean what it's supposed to any more, it just doesn't mean anything.
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Why can't more females be like this? 2016-09-09 06:17:24 Post No.17548854
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Why can't more females be like this?
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Why can't more femanon's be this easy to talk to?
Generally, I'm a somewhat shy dude, and I'm very afraid of rejection, so I generally avoid females I feel won't give me the time of day... and already avoid ugly ones I would never give the time of day... lose lose. Next, years and years just keep passing me by, no GF, and it feels like the world could care less.
About 6 years ago, I remember cutting the grass, minding my own business, when all of a sudden;
>A wild female appears near the park with her friend ^_^
>She keeps yelling hey you, hey you!
>I look over, ignore her, and keep cutting the grass
>I run inside my house, take a shower
>Walk outside with my niece (she was a little girl at the time)
>Walk to the park with said niece, pretend not to notice said girl
>Said girl tells me to come over
>I walk over
>We talk, she says I'm cute and asks if I'd like to take her number down
>I wonder what the catch is O.o
>She tells me she's 13, but she said it's cool, because she has dated someone my age before "I was 21 at said time" I freak out for a second, because she passed for 18, take her number, walk away, texted her for a few days, blah blah-things didn't carry on long for obvious, law-abiding reasons. Lol
Anyways, I've been alive for almost 30 years, and someone my own age has NEVER approached me in this manner. Why aren't more of you femanon's more up front like this girl was despite her age? She wanted something and she actually made an effort and took some of the pressure off. I feel that if more women did this, it would help me boost my own confidence. Other than this instance, I've never been approached like that.
Make no mistake.... then and now, she was a high to mid 8, so it wasn't like she was a hideous 5 or 6.
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Just how you talk about women shows the issue on you. Ay 30 you should have the basics of communication down with a foundation for confidence. That situation there just reeks of a dodgy girl and why you took the number is beyond me.
There are many girls who are normal but if you are 30 and still type like that, I think you still need to work on the maturity department. The final line rating her look and trying to reassure us she isnt ugly pretty much highlights the core of your problem. You need to grow up.
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>>17548873
Also the girl is question is 13. Don't forget about that.
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You haven't described yourself at all. Maybe you just aren't attractive. Do you have decent looks, friends, a good career, and in general have your life together? That's kind of expected at 30.
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Hey guys, AustraIian uni student here.
I'm currentIy studying an arts degree for a year to raise my GPA so I can swap into another degree, but I can't decide what I want to swap into.
I reaIIy enjoy science, especiaIIy chemistry and I was thinking of swapping into a pharmaceuticaIs degree, or a science degree with a chem major but I don't reaIIy know what career I couId get with just a science degree.
Can anyone here give me advice, especiaIIy AustraIians, of good degrees to study that wiII get me a good, preferabIy high paying job?
>pic unreIated
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Weird, I was about to ask the same question as you. What uni do you go to?
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Bump, reaIIy wouId Iike some advice fellas.
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>>17548827
that pic is great Imao
UQ, you?
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how do i know if what i feel is love?
i have a boyfriend who i have been with for about 5 months now. he treats me like a princess, provides for me, and is about as perfect as any boyfriend could be. i am in no way a good gf however, because i am whiny, irritable, and diagnosed bipolar for genetic reasons because of my dad being bipolar.
anyways, people talk about being absolutely enamored with their significant other and wanting to spend every waking second with them, do everything with them, etc. i am not that way at all. in fact, a lot of the time i would rather do things with my friends than him. however, when i think of not being with him or him leaving me or something i almost break into tears and immediately go to him to talk and make sure hes ok and we are ok and stuff like that.
how do i know if this is what love is?
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>>17548757
How many times have you cheated on him? I know you've thought about it.
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>>17548757
theres no real definition of love, not one that could help you decide. everyone and every culture has different ideas about what makes it REAL love.
people who want to spend every waking moment with their significant other are GENERALLY using them as a mask so people can't see how empty they are.
soem are legitimately just a great combo with their partner (these tend to be the few that actually survive years and years of dating)
but some people, no matter how much they love someone are sitll independent, and at the very least enjoy spending time with their friends.
you might be that. you might love your bf as much as you could, but that doesn't mean your life revovles around him. love does not mean spending every waking moment on them
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>>17548766
none. unless you count one time i sent a guy nudes then immediately cried over it and told my bf about it. then once. we had been living apart for a while then and it was hard on me but he knew that and forgave me but said there would be no second chances after that.
>>17548773
ok good thank you.
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Living literally next to home, worth or bad idea? 2016-09-09 05:35:21 Post No.17548750
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Living literally next to home, worth or bad idea?
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So, here's the thing, I moved a few months ago to this house in suburbs, really big comfortable and stuff. I never checked through my window cuz I see my garden and street, literally from my window I can see the entrance of a parking lot and a big company, Google it and it's a printing company, next to it there's a TV channel and a pharmaceutical.
I lost my job on downtown last week. So I was thinking about going to the of these companies, but they're so literally close from my house it's weird or not at all?
I was reading this https://forum.quartertothree.com/t/living-near-work-weird/56265/25
really enthusiastic until I saw this post..
>Close is one thing, living SO close to where you work that when you go home you literally are still there- that's weird.
>In other words, if your gf comes over to visit and she can look out your window and see your office/cubicle/whatever, that's weird.
>If your boss works late and on his way out can look across and see you getting your mail- that's weird.
>If, when you show up late for work one morning(cause that's how you roll), your co-workers can all look out the front door and see you coming out of YOUR front door- that's weird.
>If the delivery person rings your door, you open it and look at the item and say "no, that's supposed to be delivered to me...at work" and can POINT to where you work- that's weird.
So that's it, what fucking do, it's not like I'm going to bluff I literally live In front of the company, but still.
What do?
Tl:Dr found a nice job, but it's literally crossing the street from my home, I can see everything there from the window in my room, weird or golden opportunity?
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I fucked up the title, it was living next to work
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>>17548750
how is that a bad idea at all?
Just don't piss anybody off to the point they'd want to damage you or your property and it works out great.
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>>17548750
thats convenient.
you can sleep in til the very last minute. you never have to worry about traffic.
do it anon. who cares if he sees you get your mail. just have curtains.
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There's that cutie girl in my class that looks at me most of the time. I don't know if it's a "who the fuck is this piece of shit" or a "he's kinda cute" look. How to know that?
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omfg anon you know the answer you are just too scared to go talk to her so you pretend that you can't tell to justify you gaping vagina.
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>>17548754
If I knew the answer why would it post a thread about it? What the fuck dude lol.
I asked her how it was going between two classes and she just looked at me.
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>>17548758
>and she just Iooked at me
probabIy not a good sign bud
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Hey /adv/, so I'm in a pretty bad/difficult (yet doable but by a sliver) situation and I wanted to get some ideas/suggestions/feedback.
I'm on felony probation and was violated for a month in January (for three years of little notes they had been taking to use against me if I ever fucked up pretty bad).
Well I fucked up pretty bad and they violated me.
Grillfriend threw me out, kept all my shit then sold it and was felt like I was fucked. Well luckily, I found a SUPER nice room in a SUPER nice house in a SUPER nice neighborhood for $450 so that took care of my housing situation.
Well probation wants me to go to these classes once a week at $45 a pop so that's $180 a month. You can work you way up to once a month but it'll take years; so that's $180 a month.
I get food stamps so that takes care of food.
I get disability and after rent I have $350 left.
Minus $180 for classes.
Oh and $25 a month in probation fees.
That leaves $145 for gas, hygiene or putting it my saving (I currently have $700).
I live pretty spartan so it's doable but it sucks.
Oh I forgot to add that I go to community college and get $4,000 in student refunds but I want to save every penny.
My landlord/room mate says he's not going anywhere for anytime soon so I'm glad I found long term, cheap housing; one less worry.
So my options are:
A) Live a decent but cheap life but get grants so I can save that up for a condo or something one day.
B) Get a job but since I have a felony, it's gonna be hard. And I need a total break job on my car and I kinda live in the boonies
I guess that's it.
What say you?
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>>17548668
try to apply, take one thats reasonable if it is offered. if not, you can live off of what oyu got going on now.
theres no reason not to try tho
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Live cheap, stay out of trouble, and the job will come naturally.
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>>17548675
OP here, I agree; giving up is not the way to go, it's just when during the interview and they fucking love you and want to hire you but then you have to disclose the felony that they say no.
Tons of no's kinda takes on you mentally.
But fuck it, who dares wins.
Thanks, mang.
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Starting second year of college and clubs are starting up again this week, one I attend is having their meeting today. Girl I used to have a crush on and asked out is going to go. She rejected me in an odd way, tried to stay friends, and I went no contact between the last semester and now for a while.
We've barely talked since then, and she changed a whole bunch in her personality over the break it seems. She rejected me because her boyfriend cheated on her or something and said she couldn't "be in a relationship" or something, aka some bullshit she made up to make me feel better about it.
We haven't talked for months, only contact we've had recently is her messaging me online saying hey and me just giving her generic small responses and the conversation last for like 5 minutes max.
I heard from my friend today who she's also friends with that he ran into her the other day, and she asked about me for some reason. I just asked what he said and he said, "Nope, haven't heard or seen him much."
I'm afraid she's going to approach me and want to talk tomorrow, and honestly I don't want to not go to a club I enjoy because of this girl. I don't know what to do, because one of two things will happen.
1. I actually do manage to just brush her off, talk slightly, and leave it at that or
2. I get feelings for her again despite my best judgement.
I'm seriously confused, I have no idea what I'm going to do, from what I can tell her messaging me first a couple times and then asking my friend about me is definitely a sign she at least wants to say hi and catch up slightly with me, but I'm not sure if I can even handle being her friend without feelings like shit or something since I know there's unreciprocated feelings there. I have no idea what to do.
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>>17548661
why do you even need a plan? just go to the club. whatever happens happens.
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>>17548685
Cause I'm a fucking idiot and half the time I can't speak or think straight in these types of situations.
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Don't be scared of love OP. You only get one life one day you will look back on ALL of your relationships; long term, short term, official, unofficial, flirts, friends, friends that could have been more and friends that were more, ones that worked out and ones that didn't.... You won't regret any of them anon, except the ones that never happened.
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I don't feel like a real person.
What can I do to change this?
I don't think I have much of a personality. My interests bounce around from one thing to another, never really sticking. I've been told I'm not expressive, that I look like I'm bored or angry about something all the time. I'm never someone who people initiate conversation with or invite to do anything.
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>>17548651
You can bounce on my benis to live a little
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>>17548653
What a faggot
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Yeah you are
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My girlfriend is vicious when she argues. She makes all kinds of insults and attacks on me involving personal things. She keeps attacking my intelligence and insinuating I'm just stupid.
Just now I told her that it's very hard to keep my composure because she's being so cruel, and she just responded to me saying to blow up in anger at her because she knows I'm pissed.
Context: she's becoming Marxist more and more and attacking me for not being feminist and a capitalist (want to own a farm) I'm kinda conservative but I've told her I don't mind what her politics are I just like her for her.
Anyway we have couples counseling next week but this kinda stuff makes me feel really terrible.. I wish I could talk to someone . She hates all my friends because they were problematic so I stopped talking to them. I feel so alone I only talk to her and my family now. She has friends why can't I have any. I just want to die.
What do I do. I feel so low..
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>>17548606
Chances are she's also cucking you with a nigger for that 'diversity' quota.
Dump the stupid bitch. And I hope that experience was a good red pill on females in general, they're all trashy whores that ain't worth any of your time.
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Ask yourself why you picked such a person and why you're still staying.
Have a nice day.
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Damn, I don't want to insult or something but you seem really dominated by this woman, If I was you I'll try to get a better person for a relationship, this is to negative and I don't see it enhancing your life, if things get better after the counseling then good, but you should try to solve this.
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>ringing up customer sandwiches
>Indian guy asks me if he can swap the ham on his sandwich for turkey
>tell him okay
>go to take my break
>guy storms over to me, yelling that the sandwich artist wouldn't let him make the switch
>half-heartedly apologize
>"No, this is not okay, sir! You have deceive me! You take my money, no turkey! You take my money! It not okay!"
>apologize again and try to leave my body
>he storms off
>finish my lunch
>manager comes over and informs me that I'm fired
Now what? Get a new job? Cry and bitch? I lost my last job for dropping a bottle of wine - Am I cursed?
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>>17548585
>oh no i had bad experiences at shit tier jobs
>AM I CURSED
everyone gets fired for stupid reasons. get another job and more importantly work towards getting a BETTER job.
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You're not cursed you're incompetent
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>>17548585
Not that half of this matters now that you're already fired, but here's what should have happened:
>tell him okay
>the sandwich artist wouldn't let him make the switch
What to do here: you tell the sandwich guy to make the switch. If he doesn't, you make it yourself. You told the customer that you could make the switch, if that doesn't happen you need to rectify it. If your coworker is told to make it and he doesn't do it, either he's refusing because he's a piece of shit or because there's a policy saying he can't. If it's policy, then you're a moron for not clearing the swap with your manager before doing it. If he's just a shithead, make the sandwich and let your manager deal with him. Point is, don't promise customers something then proceed to not deliver.
>apologize again and try to leave my body
What do you mean "try to leave my body"? If that's a euphemism for getting drunk or high on the job, that's the reason your manager fired you right there. In his eyes, you got fucked up and couldn't do your job because of it. It doesn't matter whose fault it actually is if drugs are involved, they will place the blame squarely on your shoulders.
>he storms off
>finish my lunch
You shouldn't have let him storm off. He probably put all the blame on you, mostly for just not giving a fuck. You should have fixed his problem, then taken another break, and if your manager said anything about it you should have told him you had to stop in the middle of your break to help a customer because the line guy was incompetent.
Point is, the guy overreacted, but frankly foreigners often do (inb4 make sandwiches great again). But you also failed at your job, and because you got fired for something relatively minor tells me that either 1. your manager is a piece of shit and you're better off now or 2. this is not the only incident that's occurred and he was waiting for something solid on which to fire you.
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Hi guys, wondering, what fetish is it when you photoshop your wife to represent a dirty porn magazine?
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well do you think books and magazines are sexy? then you would probably be an Objectophile
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>>17549256
>Objectophile
Or as far less stupid people call it, a "fetish."
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>>17548576
A coward's kind of cuckolding - you get off by imagining other guys seeing porn pictures of your wife. Shrinks would say that's actually repressed homosexuality, because you identify with her, arousing them.
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So I've been talking to this girl that lives 2 hours away for 10 months now. were basically best friends and we always comfort and tell each other we love each other, but we've never gotten to hang out because she's always busy and is very ill. I made the mistake of asking her what we were and she told me she doesn't know because we never see eachother and thinks well stop talking and now she's telling me that she's talking to a guy close to her but they're nothing serious but they might get serious and I think I fucked up by asking her and Idk what to do. should I just tell her to date that dude or try to hang and convince her to date me or just stay friends or what
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she's also told me she wanted to have sex with my virgin ass so this makes me extra confused
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sounds like she's so ill she about to die so she decided to be a whore till her dying breath
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>>17548646
she's not going to die but like c diph or something and she's going to have to have to have like part of her colon removed but she just like gets like waves of not feeling good until her surgery
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What the just happened? Was this a stroke? Couple hours ago suddenly my sight went blurry, unfocused and really bright white. And worse, my ears started to hurt strongly and loud pressure/tinnitus started. I felt dizzy and I felt scared, out of this world, something bad going to happen. I started to drink water and tried walked around, hoping it would end. Still couldn't see normally.
After 2-5 minutes I started to see and feel better. Still heard odd tinnitus but it wouldn't hurt anymore, but sounded melodic like music.
Now I'm ok but have had headache whole time after. Never experienced something like that.
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I don't know but I had something similar.
Years ago, I was riding my bike.
Then my vision began to dim and ears began to ring.
My jaw felt loose and my mouth filled with saliva.
When I got off my bike and sat down, I couldn't see. My vision was so far restricted. I felt cold and shivering despite the summer heat.
I ate a protein bar and rank water while my vision was gone. I sat there for more than ten minutes with my head between my legs. I was blind the whole time while my ears made roaring noises inside my head.
I went to see a doc after for tests and nothing came up.
I have no idea what it means but whenever I hear that echo of blood in my ears, I feel afraid.
I think it was a heart thing. Maybe a rogue palpitation or something.
The symptoms are very similar to oxygen deprivation.
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>>17548508
Thanks for sharing. Good to hear that some has experienced similar and is just fine. I hesitate going to doctor about this.
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>>17548554
Go the doc.
Anything that affects vision is serious business.
I may have had a stroke then. Maybe you did too. Just go to the doc.
Brain shit is nothing to fuck with.