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>>17551200
Pls help. How do I get horrifying images like that out of my head

Pls help

>>17551200
Distract yourself with some happy stupid horseshit. Avoid /b/ for awhile

It's harder than in highschool, but people tend to have an easier time finding others to hang out with because of circumstances and experience.

Most people find some friends in college, but they tend to drift apart after they finish it. Friends made in highschool and earlier tend to stick, at least that's how it happens for most people where I live.

It gets harder.

>>17551155
It depends. The environment is very different, but that can make things easier or harder, depending on the person. Tell us more, OP: what do you find challenging now?

Make sure there are not tight spaces, not having any walls covered is best, air out your apartment daily. If you get mold make sure you clear it off using some of the nastier cleaning agents you can get for cleaning walls.

If you do this and the mold still shows up often you should move

>>17550998

>>17550998

tell the landlord. it's their responsibility to fix that shit.

alternatively: move the fuck out. the landlord will have to decide between spending the money for a damp course to deal with the issue and get reliable rent money in or deal with a high turnover of tenants and the gaps in rent payments due to vacancy if they don't.

either way it's not your concern.

>>17551038
The mold was in a closet. The trouble with this apartment is that there is no way for the humidity to evacuate the bathroom and I have to open all the windows. I signed for 1 year but I am deeply concerned of having health issues related to the mold. I can't see any but the closet kinda smells a little bit, just a faint smell

Date the nigger and produce some beautiful genetic abominations of mixed children OP

>>17550995
Definitely say something before it happens. Tell them casually and see how they react. Chances are they'll be surprised, but if you have a normal family they'll accept it and then when she comes over she won't have to see them look stunned like "whoa not what we were expecting"

If they're actually hardcore racist and don't approve then you will have to have a stern talk with them after they vocalize it to you that it's your choice to date her and they have to accept that and can't embarrass you or put her down. If it's that bad you may consider cancelling. On the off chance you say something nasty you will have to side with your girlfriend.

But I don't know your family so you know the degree to how they'll be about it more than we do, like my dad threw the word faggot around in almost every other sentence but he wasn't homophobic or anything, just caught up on a word he didn't see as a slur. But definitely tell them, you'll at least curb the awkward "whoa didn't realize you were black" look that she'll get if you were to take her in without telling them.

You should give the rents a heads up, if only for the girl's sake. If they're going to have some fucked up reaction, better if it isn't right in front of her.

That being said, I think interracial relationships are almost always a bad idea for both parties involved... but best of luck to ya

Little of both.

>>17550955
Nah you're a selfish bitch

>>17550955
You are a bitch,honestly he is right. You should find a woman to do it. Also,why did you want this piercing? Only a bitch would like to have,in order to show it to men. Was his desire to have this piercing?

>>17550607
What the fuck do you want OP? An asexual gf or getting over your performance anxiety?

>>17550687
Considering the former would probably be impossible to find in a desirable form, I should probably find a way to get over the performance anxiety

>>17550607
Stop being a pussy, perhaps?

I don't agree with or endorse your sexism, but obviously having super rich parents is better than having one of the worst childhood possible. Plus people with the worst childhood are too fucked up to be particularly wise ever.

>>17550561
>sexism

Implying that the basic biological principle of parental investment doesn't apply to humans.

By specifying two genders I didn't mean that one is inferior to the other.

You should pack your shit and go back to tumblr.

>>17550561
I'm pretty smart. Science is part of my damn name for god sake. Yet, I still can't figure out how you read OPs post and came to the conclusion that they were endorsing sexism.

I'm curious as to how your brain came up with that. Could you please explain?

i molestered a little boy. he was ten. i was 14. he totally wanted it but i feel guilty. help.

I wish I wasn't so nervous and insecure when we had our first kiss. It was my first ever kiss and while I was freaking out about getting it right, you thought I was disinterested and didn't want you to kiss me.

>24 year old male high school teacher
>Have to resist the urge to slam teenage pussy every day
>They don't make it easy
>They flirt to get better grades
>They wear low-cut shirts on test days and come up to ask me questions about the answers
>One girl sitting in front of my desk says aloud one day "I would get naked for an 'A' in this class" to 'nobody in particular'
>When I judge debate rounds they come up and shamelessly flirt with me

I question if this is really worth 60k and three months off per year with paid sick days.

Give yourself two solid slaps and then answer

>Why are you such a proper faggot mate?

>>17550295
Two aren't enough. Gave myself 3.

Maybe i'm stupid when I go full "feelings" mode.

>>17550316
Loved the maybe, really made me sensibly laugh irl.

>>17550088

define 'normal'.

he liked you. he was devastated you turned him down.

if i were you id just ditch him. it sucks but if you stick around ur only liking him as a friend, and you only feel that friendship because of the romantic effort he puts into it. normal friends dont bring flowers and make lunch or do half hte stuff this guy does for you regularly.

>>17550097
We always cook for each other, it's not special. Understand he's not the romantic sort. He'd always say that stuff was corny and lame.

The flowers were a first.

>>17550154
Hey, ask him where are you two going to stand right now. Ask him if he would like to not speak to you for a while and tell him you understand and that you really appreaciate him and hope he will be for you there like you'll be for him.
Tell him it will be best the faster he becomes disenchanted with you

https://poloniex.com/exchange
>>>/biz/

If he refuses to do crypto trading then yes, definitely take away his laptop if he doesn't do anything productive and optimistic with it.
God the day somebody becomes more sociable because they spend their time on a computer is the day America takes down the FED.

Out of curiosity what college/profession are you majoring in?

>>17550062
I don't think he's a wiz with numbers like Rainman.
And I'm majoring in chemistry, with the hopes of going to pharm school or going back to the army as an officer as a last resort. He's majoring in art, but I don't think he'll ever work someday. College is just something to keep him occupied and help him make friends I hope. I've sort of accepted I'll be taking care of him for the rest of our lives

>>17550052
>He's majoring in art
Ok, no problem. Tell him to get his ass on Patreon. Draw some lewd art, draw and write a comic book.
Tell him to also learn some graphical animation for general purposes, both 2D and 3D.

I was chatting with a girl who I thought was 21. She was funny, cute and was super sexual in her chat. Anyway we lived in the city and decided to meet up with each other. Low and behold it was some late 30s women that had decent tits but her body was pretty bad. She wasn't ugly but plain. Anyway she wanted us to fuck and apologized for lying to me but I told her I wasn't interested. I was more amused that someone was that desperate to get laid they lied about everything about themselves.

>Anon you faggot you could have banged her

And she could have had an std. Fuck that. Also the fact that she lied to me turned me off completely.

>>17549795
Never, and honestly it seems incredibly hard to actually be catfished, you really must be a bit of a silly

I've dated online a lot and seen plenty of fakes, it's not hard to tell they're lying.

The closest thing I got was a girl who was incredibly good at taking selfies but then, when we met, she wasn't nearly as cute. But that was mostly because she really overlooked her look

>>17549795
a few people have tried to catfish me but i knew it was a catfish because i reverse image searched their pic after talking to them for a few hours. i remember one person catfished me and i sent them links to the picture they sent me and they still denied it. was weird. not sure if they where gay guys trying to get nudes or horny hambeasts.

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>>17549569
Dying alone, alcohol mainly

I have a fragile ego

Being financially superior and more knowledgeable about things than everyone else in the room is how i deal with my inferiority complex

I think I'm stupid, that I'm not worth dating, and that I get too angry and need to walk on eggshells.

I know I'm not stupid, I read in my free time and make a point to learn new skills. I'm also probably a decent catch, I take care of myself and I'm good company. I do get too angry, but I've gotten a lot better at not losing my temper. Also, I smoke a lot of weed.

>>17549496
Are you the one in the picture?

>>17549504
yeah

>>17549496
You should lose weight,then it will be easier to make friends :/ this is unhealthy

>>17549417
How old are you? You sound spoiled really. What are your hobbies?

I'm 22. Outdoor hobbies mostly.

>>17549465
Strange. Can you go into any more detail of hobbies? Type of people you hang out with? Do you visit pol or play games at all?