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So my wife has ms. I married an older woman who is in her 30s, I am about to turn 26. How fucked am I?
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>>17551845
That depends. How early was it caught? What stage is it in at this point?
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Maybe not a ton. There's plenty of ways to deal with it and it can be dealt with. Lots of support groups and plenty of treatment options.
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>>17552135
Tell her you want an open marriage. She's going to die sooner or later, and you're going to end up dating and marrying someone else. It's worth it to see if she'd prefer to give her blessing to another woman rather then expect you to remain celibate for the rest of your life.
>I'd divorce her and move to a new town, but I'm a heartless sociopath...
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What is the difference between in-person universities and online classes. I am looking into Independent studies and it looks like it would be a good choice for my current situation.
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I don't understand the question.
One is accredited and the other is not.
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>>17551824
give me more info on how online classes wouldn't be accredited?
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>>17551833
Many online only schools are not recognized by the accreditation agency, resulting in a degree that is completely worthless. This is why ITT Tech was such a scam because they charged retarded amounts of money for a degree that companies would not recognize as legitimate.
Do your research on whether the institition is accredited.
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Hey yall.
I'm doing a small response paper assessment and one of the things it's asking me to write about is a social justice activity I have done, and how it has me and others around me.
What's a social justice activity I can say I did that doesn't make me sound like a tumblr feminist? I don't really need to have done it, but it should sound plausible.
I fucking hate my class (positive education) but I gotta do what I gotta do to get my masters over.
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Say you go to forums and promote both sexes to be treated fairly and that you don't tolerate misogyny. Posters were banned and new rule changes were implemented for your tireless efforts.
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You can say something like:
You're trying to eliminate gendered language in your own vocabulary
Or
You've done personal experiments to understand life from the perspective of POC or people with disabilities. I did the disabilities one when I had to write this paper. I said I got into a wheelchair and went through the day trying to see how hard they have it. I didn't really do it, but you can get it if you're creative enough
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>>17551820
Way to sound like a complete cuck.
>>17551831
Better, but still completely unlike me and I really don't want to give off the impression that I would actually do shit like this.
Is there anything I could say that would sort of give a "fuck you" towards social justice as it is today, without getting me failed?
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I don't know where the middleground is, /adv/. Some of the women I've tried to be in a relationship with, either think I'm too intelligent (and they perceive that as pretentious), in terms of how I speak, which is the same way I've always spoken, I just maybe know a few more words. Or...I'm just too dumb for them, and I can't understand them, their cues (it's like they're hiding something), and they want something from me, but they don't, and they can't express that to me. I understand body language and social cues, but when someone acts in direct opposition of what they say or vice versa, I don't know hot to interact with them.
I'm either too, apparently, intelligent or brain dead idiotic to figure out them. I know women aren't all the same. That's not even what I'm trying to say here, that women are just enigmas, but some really are, and some are I guess dumber than me. Where is the happy middle ground?
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You do a mental health check up for possible aspergers? Dead serious btw.
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>>17551762
Sounds like you're autistic. Not kidding. Try a psychiatrist.
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>>17551762
Your problem is trying to understand them. Most women are no better than dogs. Give them a bone and entertain them. They arent really capable of anything more than that
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Alright /adv/ I'm not depressed but I know, with my attitude and personality that I'm not going to amount to fucking shit and that my life can honestly go around 3 ways, drug addiction, murder, or dying in the woods after I thought I could actually homestead with my lack of knowledge on it. The only reason I haven't killed myself is because of my little sister. My question is, should I keep waiting until she's 18 then blow my head off as to make it easier for her emotionally, or will my toxic pessimistic views and shitty character rub off on her and I should do her a favor by not being there to ruin her?
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Wait until your 18 then off yourself in the least damaging way as possible. Remember dipshit she has to attend your funeral and so restoration of the face is costly.
Btw how old are you and what are you currently doing with your worthless life?
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>>17551727
27 and absolutely nothing.
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>>17551763
Good to know. Btw don't do it immediately when she turns 18, maybe wait a couple of month if not a year. You don't want your little sister to feel like you held out until she was 18.
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whats it like to be in love /adv/? 2016-09-10 01:03:40 Post No.17551609
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whats it like to be in love /adv/?
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24yr old never had a gf kissless virgin /fit/izen reporting
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Like complacency... don't feel anything, don't mind if she's in my private space or touching me.
Sure you want to be a team and protect them, but that's the same feeling as having a blood-brother.
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>>17551609
I feel unreciprocated love all the time and it makes me wanna kill myself
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It's a great feeling knowing someone else wants to have you around. That they'll give you a lot of themselves and open up like that. Of course it comes with the possibility of the worst feelings you'll ever experience.
Update on the most fucked situation ever.
A recap of previous posts:
I have a close friend, Cathy, that's married to a nice dorky guy that treats her great. Husband and I are friends, but not as close. About 9 months ago she confided in me that she felt "in a rut" with him. Then she had a crush on a coworker that's also married (Brandon). Then she was flirting with Brandon and texting a lot. The whole time I said "talk to husband. Talk to shrink. Think about counseling. Cut Brandon off." Let's go down the list of what happened.
Starts fucking Brandon and having full-on affair.
Doesn't use condoms. Not on birth control either.
Fuck in her & husbands bed.
Cathy, husband, Brandon and Brandon's wife do activities together.
Wife is suspicious of her, Cathy attempts to befriend wife to show her that she can trust her.
Cathy goes to a bar with mutual friends, disappears with a Mexican gangster she's been grinding on for 45 minutes- lies to everyone about where she's been.
Cathy and her husband meet one of my friends, Tom, at a party.
Cathy gets Tom's number and starts texting him daily.
Cathy goes to a bar with mutual friends but no husband, invites Tom, and starts making out and groping him in public, pulling her skirt up, etc.
Cathy also fucks Tom in her bed.
Affair with Brandon is ongoing.
She also inexplicably invites Tom on an outing with her husband.
Examples of shit she said:
I don't feel bad.
I want to be selfish for once.
I have options, I shouldn't be tied down.
I want (wife of Brandon) to trust me so we can be around each other more. I don't know why she doesn't like me.
You just don't understand because you've never been married.
I know it's wrong, but I don't want to die alone or hurt husband.
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Your friend Cathy really sucks.
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>>17551547
Agreed.
Keep in mind, the whole truth didn't come out to the group until the public Tom incident. She'd been telling each of us in the group different true info, and different lies. Individuals had already been dropping her due to whatever truths they had been told, but it was never discussed until after that.
Unanimous decision: this bitch is a psychopath who gives zero fucks about anyone, we don't want shit to do with her, her behavior is escalating, aaaaand someone needs to tell her husband before he gets AIDS or is raising someone else's baby. I fell on that sword as I was the closest to husband, and I'd be the least effected by the fallout from droppin truth bombs.
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Wasn't this exact story posted here like 3-6 months ago?
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Can you lose sympathy? 2016-09-10 00:21:31 Post No.17551513
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I think I may be turning into an asshole. Or a bad person. Whatever. I'm not exactly sure why I think this, anyone I ask about this subject seems to think otherwise - but you all know how friends and family will sugarcoat and such such. My brother seems to think that the only reason I believe this is because I have low self-esteem. And honestly he's one of the last people i'd expect to lie to me, seeing as how he's a pretty blunt and for the most part honest guy. Plus he's never been afraid to tell me when he has any issue with me, so that's something.
Anyway, over time I just feel like i've been becoming more pessimistic, and I don't like it. I can't really come up with any examples of me being mean to anyone, but I still feel as if I don't do good enough. As if i'm always letting down people around me or just fucking up their live by being there. No i'm not kidding, I really just give more of a shit about what other people feel than what I do. I don't really think that I get bothered by to much anyway, so it's fine, but I don't want to be inadvertantly going around treating people poorly.
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I'm 18, so is it because i'm some sorta angsty fuck with no life experience or something of the sort? I've heard the opinion that what you're like as an 18 year old is what you shall remain as for the rest of your life - being that the early years of adulthood heavily influence the rest of your life. But i've also heard the opinion that 18 still counts as some dumbass kid how has no idea what they are doing yet, and that who I truly am as a person will show itself soon enough.
But i've really got no idea.
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I tend to lose sympathy to those who [really] do something wrong to me.
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Therapy is your best bet mate.
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my girlfriend is going to get fat 2016-09-10 00:13:16 Post No.17551486
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my girlfriend is going to get fat
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at the moment shes a 10/10 slightly thick but firm girl of 5'6 but shes suddenly decided to eat like a insane pig and there is nothing I can do to dissuade her.
how long do I have until shes fat? I want to say with her as long as possible but I need to make preparations for a new girlfriend because I am completely 1000% unattractive to fat girls and im a very sexual person.
a month? 5 months? assuming she eats like 2000 calories a day whats a vague estimate?
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>>17551486
*unattracted
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>>17551486
just dump her and be glad you aren't married.
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>>17551503
>or become a pig farmer.
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I received a voice-mail about a job application telling me to call back, tried calling back at different times and haven't been able to get in touch with the employer.
Should I just re-apply and hope they call again? Not really sure what to do here.
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p-please respond
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If you tried multiple times wait another day and then move on from the job. Apply to other jobs in the mean time.
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Did you leave messages when you called back? It's standard practice to say when you are most likely to be available.
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How do I convince my gf that Jews did 911 and that the holocaust didnt happen?
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What do you mean the holocaust didn't happen? Inflated numbers? Sorry i am new, only late summer did i join
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>>17551467
Your girl friend?
Good one.
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>>17551467
time machine.
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Overcoming the Westermark Effect 2016-09-10 00:02:17 Post No.17551460
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Overcoming the Westermark Effect
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Women always ask me, "What's your type?" I never have a good answer. So today I sat down and made a list of the groups of traits, physical and not, that I find attractive. Going back over it, I realized something rather surprising: I had essentially described in great detail a girl who is a childhood friend of mine.
Being that she and I have known one another since we were 7 years old, I am not actually attracted to her even though I am attracted to every quality that she has and the amalgamation of those qualities. This is the Westermark effect, and it exists to prevent inbreeding. The problem is that it seems to be blocking me from actively pursuing my ideal woman in this case.
How do you overcome this? 4chan seems like the place to ask people this for some reason.
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Why ruin a good friendship?
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>>17551466
Isn't that just making friendship better?
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>>17551460
Realize your true feelings for her and marry her
How do you cope with loss?
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>>17551360
Don't be a loser
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>>17551376
"Life isn't about winning or losing"
Why do people say this?
It's all out of sorts.
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>>17551360
Use the feeling that you have from losing to push you forward. Don't be a loser and improve yourself so you never have to feel the pain you feel again
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Most of /adv/ is "wah-wah why am I such a useless fuck". So, in the spirit of not being one, marathon something with me this weekend.
Dedicate your weekend to learning or doing something - start on music, learning to draw, a language, clean your house, fix up your car, go out three times a day, what the fuck ever.
Basically, post what you are going to do and report back on progress once or twice a day while this thread is up.
Give tips and whatnot if you can.
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Finish part I of Burckhardt's "Civilisation of Renaissance Italy".
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Respond to people on LinkedIn. Prepare for telephone interviews on Monday.
I could probably do something else, but a few interviews or recruiter messages can dominate my whole day, they really stress me out.
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Now that you mention it, there's this book about PR that I'm going to devour like a starving coyote this weekend.
Thanks for the spark OP. I read The Millionaire Fastlane a few weeks ago and it really pulled me out of a rut, but since then I've backslid. Your pic sent that book's inspiration flooding back into my body.
I'll post updates here this weekend so long as I'm not the only one doing it.
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Should I make sexual advances on my gf yet? 2016-09-09 22:49:39 Post No.17551216
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Should I make sexual advances on my gf yet?
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My last thread got completely ignored so I'm asking again because I'm kinda hoping for an answer already
I need help on wether I should do this thing or not.
I've been going out with a long time crush for a good week already. I've been to her house a few times and every time I do we make out on her bed and end up just cuddling and kissing each other under the sheets nothing sexual.
However she has this gay friend who hates my guts and kept telling her that the only reason I'm with her is to fuck her.
She even tested me on text asking if i wanted to have sex with her. I knew it was a trap so I said no and she revealed she was just testing me and was happy with my response
She once mentioned I turn her on really badly about a week later over text but doesn't say anything like that in person
Then her gay friend comes over and apparently she lied to her. Saying that while we were under the covers she gave me a hand job, which I assured him was a lie which is really strange considering it's the guy who lies to his friend about that.
This Saturday we'll be on a date to some art museum before going my house where we'll surely watch a movie and cuddle in my bed.
Should I advance on her sexually? As in should I go on already and touch her pussy and such? Should I suggest her giving me a hand job? (Having sex is not a possibility because I still live with my parents despite being 19. I am going to college of course)
I feel like she wants to do it and I'm afraid she'll get bored with me if I don't make any sexual advances but at the same time I'm scared that she'll assume I was in it just for sexual reasons, which I'm not. I really do like this girl.
We've been going out for around three weeks now.
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Escalate slowly, maybe one extra "base" every other date. Sporadically limit some dates to just kissing and/or cuddling so she views you as less predictable than the average bear.
That other guy sounds like a fuckwit who is likely taking out his insecurities on you. It'll come back to get him, eventually.
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>>17551249
Thank you for the response. It does make sense actually. I'll keep this in mind anon
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Is she virgin?