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I'm 23 From Latvia
Graduated with average mark 5.5/10
Already left from 2 universities. Because studying here IMO is shit.
I have a stable job with 500 eu per month. Can make more money if tryhard.

Maybe I'm wrong, maybe it's placebo, but I really want to expirience education abroad, in a countries like Germany, Holland, Austria, Belgium, UK, Ireland and many more.

With education first of all I really would like to have decent social expirience, because i'm up for many diffirent subjects to learn. Courses like design/computer science/programming/3d animation are preferable, but I'm up for many diffirent subjects aswell.

Sadly i wasted this summer being neet as always, because this september could;ve been an opportunity to study today already.

I don't think anyone will take me on a free so I'm ready to pay.

Ofcourse I have to do a good research (via google) before considering it.

Now I want to ask you guys and girls. What would you suggest? What country would you choose if you had an opportunity to study somewhere? Can it be worth? How much should I save? If you need more information, just ask, I'll try to repond asap.
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/Denmark
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>>17549631
I would like to hear more details about it, but thanks for input
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>>17549649
Free education all the way up to phd.
State pays everything.
Very like the UK.

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>Tl;dr is it immoral to scale back some workers hours but not others?

I run a machine shop and was wondering how you would feel if you were an employee who was hired for full time but had his hours scaled back to 32 hours because of a lack of work, but other guys still came in 40 hrs some weeks?

Basically we still have some areas that require workers but other areas that are dry atm, and the skillsets for the machines dont allow cross operation (some guys cant run these machines thatre in demand). So, they would never get a 40 hr week until things picked back up in their area, whereas the other guy would get fairly steady 40 hr work weeks.

Would you scale back altogether and run the machines yourself so its equal? Or would that be even more of an asshole thing to do?
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Not immoral since you are trying to keep the company afloat from the work-recession, but keep in mind that the reduced-hours will make those employees question you about it and they may seek work elsewhere if it is not short-term.

>CNC drafter here
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>>17549592
There's nothing immoral about it, shit happens, you need to do what's best for the business.
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>>17549592
I believe pretty strongly that managing people is one of the hardest jobs in the world precisely for this reason: often, there is no single correct answer that will please everybody. You must make decisions that will inevitably piss people off, and then, dealing with your pissed-off employees is also part of your job. No, it isn't immoral. It just sucks.

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I think seeing too much insane and edgy shit has numbed me to things, like a video shared on facebook of a guy whipping a cat with a belt. I chuckled. Then I regretted it a bit. It feels like I'm losing my empathy for animals a bit (Although I was very pissed off at a /b/tard who posted a severed dogs head with the caption "LOL!"). How do I reclaim the care I had for animals?
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>>17549546
Go to a psychologist
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>>17549551
Is it that serious?
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Bumping because my mom is being complicated about letting me see a psychologist

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I have zero interest in sex or women, but I really want to be a dad. Due to my mental, financial and legal records, I can't adopt, and I sure as fucking hell couldn't manage to raise a kid alone.

How much of a terrible idea would it be to just date a single mom?
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1. i think you're lying about no intrest in sex
2. sure, why not, depends on the woman.
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>I have zero interest in sex or women

So you are asexual or you are lying to yourself because women are not in the least bit interested in you.

>How much of a terrible idea would it be to just date a single mom?

A terrible idea because the single mom will want sex. Faking it to just to satisfy her will cause her to feel hurt and disgusted with you. This will eventually cause her to leave you and you back to square one.

See a sex therapist.
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>>17549797
I'm asexual af

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LSD
today I'm going to try lsd, some advice about portions, experiences, thanks.
I don't have a good place to do it you think a shopping mall it's a good idea?
please don't say me shit like don't do drugs and things like that.
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>>17549513
Don't do drugs!
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https://erowid.org/chemicals/lsd/lsd.shtml

Best website on this matter
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>>17549513

>shopping mall

Lmao dont do this

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Ok guys, I don't know what to eat for dinner. Any meat based recipe you could suggest?
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>>>/ck/

Also
>Meat based recipe

What the fuck does that mean? Do you want pork? Beef? Chicken? Veal? Lamb? How about being more specific and posting what you have in your fridge/pantry?
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>>17549517
The fridge is almost empty and I have to go to the store to replenish it. So the possibilities are potentially infinite.

I enjoy lamb and veal mostly.
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>>17549540

Make meatballs (I really like using ground turkey, but veal will do fine).
1 LB ground meat
1/4 cup grated Parmesan
1/2 cup bread crumbs
1 egg
1/2 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper

then make mashed potatoes
Cube 5 potatoes, boil them until they break apart easily with a fork. You could peel them first, but you don't have to, I like leaving the skin
Drain the water
add butter, maybe 1/4 cup
add 3-4 cloves pressed garlic
add a little bit of milk at a time, mashing it thoroughly each time, until you get a texture you like
Let it sit and marinate while you finish the meatballs so the garlic can cook a little bit in the hot potatoes

Brown the meatballs on all sides in a big pan, then add a can of mushroom soup. Usually the can will call for you to add an equal amount of water or milk; do that. Boil the meatballs in the mushroom soup.

Steam some carrots or beans while you do this

Put a serving of potatoes on the plate, serve the meatballs & mushroom gravy on top of it, & the vegetables on the side

ta-da

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I had an argument with the girl i was dating because she was ignoring my texts for about 6 days. I thought she was ghosting me so i had a go at her and said some pretty cruel things. She replied to me basically saying "wtf, why you kicking off, i have been busy, i cant deal with this behavior", she sounded oblivious about why i was annoyed. I sent her another text trying to explain why i was pissed off. she hasnt replied. should i just block her at this point or should i send her another message? also, wouldent most people assume they are being ghosted if they are ignored for 6 days? thanks
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>>17549509
You were just dating,you didn't have relationship so I guess she is not interested in you anymore. If she was,she would looking forward to talk and see you
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>>17549523
yeah, thats what i though, so i had got pissed at her because she was ignoring me rather than ending it. dont know why she couldent of just been honest if this is the case.
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>>17549532
thought*

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I'm 22 and still find myself dying my blond hair black, sporting a leather jacket and spending my weekends wandering the city with a bottle of whiskey and Spotify's Kylo Ren playlist, looking for a fight/trouble and never finding it.

Apparently being an edgy teen fuck isn't something you naturally outgrow as I thought, but I still keep preferring it, and I don't know how to stop that bullshit and just fucking grow up.

So the fuck do I do?
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DESU My pussy is wet.
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>wanting to out grow the edge
You know that love isn't real OP.
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You embrace global white supremacy and let your hair grow blonde again.

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I'm 80% sure I'm schizotypal, I identify with most things that describe schizotypal people.

I know that a lot of people are like me, not a vast majority, but a good bunch, but I don't want to solely appeal to them, I want to appeal to everyone and im almost afraid that this stands in the way

Basically:
>im not afraid of acting dumb or eccentric.
> but in many social situations im afraid to open my mouth for fear ill say something stupid.
>I also have a fascination with the paranormal.
>many other quirks

How do I act normal?
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OnIine buIIshit tests are hardIy accurate.

If you're reaIIy worried, go see a shrink and taIk to them about it and see what they say.
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>>17549462
What I understand is that you have a lot of stress. Don't name what you have by using Internet. You should go to a doctor to talk about how you feel,he would tell you what it is better.
I also used btw to don't talk because I feared that I would say something stupid. I didn't like friends,I couldn't trust anyone. With the right help I got rid of all these.
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>>17549462
Gonna hate the answer but, practice. Plain and simple, put yourself in situations that present an opportunity for normal behavior and behave normally. Don't talk about strange beliefs, tell jokes that fall in safe territory, and NEVER respond to a hallucination in public. T. Imschizotypal

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Why is my girlfriend doing this?

>be me and her, together for almost half a year
>I'm her first kiss, and took her virginity
>She write me a long message on 2 days ago (which is the date we first met) about how she can't imagine being with anyone else, how she used to have such low self esteem before I came along, I treat her so good and she loves me, and how she's so happy she got with me etc
>I always do cute things for her and buy her things, treat her like a princess

Then out of fucking nowhere, yesterday (1 day after she written that nice long msg), she met some new guy in school and they get along pretty well, but I found out he confessed to her and she doesn't know how to respond. I told her well say you have a boyfriend, but she tells me she feels she doesn't need to. And how some guys are always trying to hit on her but she won't let anything happen. Then tries and twists what I say as if I don't trust her. Then we argued, now she saying she's not even with me and she's just gonna get with this new guy she doesn't even care anymore.

Clearly she's having some serious immature episode and I know she won't do anything anyway because like I said, I'm her first for everything, I just don't get why she wants to act like she's single or something. Doesn't make me feel appreciated you know.

Anyone know why she's being like this?
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>>17549415
>now she saying she's not even with me and she's just gonna get with this new guy she doesn't even care anymore.
So basically you don't have a problem because she broke up with you
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She's an attention seeking whore Iike aII women.

Deprive her of attention and she'II coming running back to you with her taiI between her Iegs begging for forgiveness.

Thats when you kick her ass to the curb and teII her to get fucked Imao
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>>17549427
She clearly has other guys giving her attention, why would she care about OP? What makes him so different?

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Best approach to getting a girI to go on a date?

ShouId I go to out on weekends and find a girI that way? Is it reasonabIe to just start taIking to a girI I see on the street or at university and ask her on a date?
Never reaIIy done this before so I don't know whats 'creepy' and what isn't.
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>>17549397
>Is it reasonabIe to just start taIking to a girI I see
It is reasonable, but think of the environment of where you are at when you approach someone and try to correlate (the reason why you are approaching them) to the setting.

Or you can make up anything as a reason to be approaching them, but try not to sound autistic/creepy.
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Contrary to what PUAs would like you to believe, normal girls don't date guys who randomly approach them, no matter how 'smooth' they are.
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Yeah that could work but most people will say no to a total stranger. Also there is no "best way" to ask a girl out.

I have to get up at 6:30 am to be at work at 8:00 am which is about 25 km/ 16 mile away.
Then be back home at 3:00 pm - 4:00 pm.
And have to be asleep by 11:00 pm, which leaves me with 6-8 hours to myself.

How to manage time to watch chinese catrtoon, play vidya, etc..?
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Sleep less
Spend less time eating
don't watch cartoons
don't play games
Use the time on the bus/train to fulfill your daily checks (4chims, Facebook, reading unimportant texts and responding to them, WhatsApp, whatever else)

I wake up at 6:30 to get to work at 8, get back home at 5:30, shower to 6 or so, eat and play guitar till 7, go out with buddies or biking, meet gf at 8 or so, spend time together to 10-12, meet with shared friends, get back home at 2:30-3

Sometimes I feel like I have too much time, like the day can't pass by fast enough. I literally have too much time in the day.

Granted, I can use the internet at my job so it's mostly reading, writing and 4chan during work hours.
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>>17549406
That's unhealthy.
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>>17549386
Imagine if you had depression,and you needed 12 hours for sleep!

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I'm retired and living abroad in a tropical third-world country.
The philippines, to be exact... close to the capital.
Have 3 young kida and married almost 10 years.
Wife behaves weirdly these last 2 months.
Checked her messages on friday to find her planning with her pinoy fuckbuddy the best way to kill me soon.
She strangely said she had to go to work on saturday but went to meet him and didn't sleep home (again).
He works either in the police or local FBI equivalent.
Current laws of this country officially allow any citizen to kill anyone they see fit.
Today my wife kicked hard our 4 year old daughter.
I don't have friends nor relatives nor know anyone here trustworthy... nor do I speak their language.
What can I do?
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>>17549375
Go to the ambassad maybe to get advice and protection ?
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>>17549378
I agree, get your kids and go there,show them the messages and don't go back at home
Btw,do you have any idea why she wants to kill you?
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>>17549375
Do you have relatives in other country? If yes get your kids and leave the country without tell anything

How do I stop girls from stealing my essence?
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>>17549363
don't drink the fluoridated water
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>>17549500
>The camouflage one

Fucking kek

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Females explain yourselves
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Not a femanon but just cuz u enjoy it doesnt mean you should let it happen.

If a guy gave u viagra and jerked u off doesnt make it ok (unless ur a fag ofc)
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>>17549336
Is this the same as when men in prison claim being on top doesn't make you gay?
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21% if you read the article. The rest doesn't orgasm. Same thing with straight men being fucked in the ass. They hate it because they know they supposed to dislike it but they get aroused.

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