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this thing just killed two of my cats. what do i do?

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My posture is shit. It gets a lot better when I exercise and stretch properly, but one thing that's always bothered me is what to do with the shoulder I'm laying on.

I can only fall asleep on my side, and the bottom shoulder rolls out in front, letting that scapula stick out in a stupid direction.

If I use more pillows, my neck hurts in the morning. If I try to keep my shoulder where it should be, it just goes back to how it was before as soon as I fall asleep.

So, basically, what do you do with your bottom arm when you sleep on your side? Do you put your hand under your pillow or stick it out in front of you? Is it totally normal for your bottom should to come out to the front, stretching your back muscles?

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So me and my ex got back together 5 months ago or so, and been having sex without condoms since then.
We live in different cities, but get together every two weeks or so.
Yesterday she told me her vagina is bloated and feeling some kind of pain. The last time we had sex was a week ago.
ls there a chance of me having something or is it the result of some other cause?

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whenever I try to break up with my boyfriend he tries to kill himself and manipulates me into staying with him. what are some ways I can break up with him while ensuring he won't kill himself? pls help

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guys i need to get out of work. i need an simple believable excuse.

thanks in advance

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. If you can't automatically intuit this, the only way to build up that intuition is experience. So ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. (See above. Start somewhere, build experience.)

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.

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Don't NYPA me anon. Please just this once. my girlfriend went missing about 3 hours ago, I'm not joking around, and i just need some help. advice? help? something... i know there's people on here that know some of this shit better than me, and how to find people off IP, ping, triangulate, etc... just talk to me. sorry for the stress all. really...

she's in texas

anyone that knows the how to's on something like this, id be so fucking grateful you guys...

thank you

she texted "help me" "please tell someone i need help" "remember i love you" "just never forget i love you" at 2:41 pm PST, i hadn't talked to her in a while, she was at work, a restaurant north of Dallas, TX. No one at the restaurant knows where she is, i've already talked to them. Yes we've all tried calling of course, no responses or other texts other than those first texts.

after those texts there's been no answers on the phone or text. her phone is on, but no response.

she was supposed to be off of work for a break, but hasn't shown up since and sent those texts out.

police are already on it, credit card shit is already being monitored. family obviously already knows, people are around her work looking for her, what other details are needed?

24 years old, black shortish hair, other info that I'm not going to give to everyone on 4chan...

anything helps anon

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I had an argument with a friend today, and he used my speech impediment(I stutter once in a while, but I'm always afraid of speaking now.) as ammunition. I immediately started crying, because my impediment has... let's just say severely affected my relationships with my family and my friends.

Basically, how should I "toughen up" so that these things don't affect me?

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What's the "secret" to getting really good at anything?

Practice, I understand that, but what else besides talent makes some people so much better than others are certain things?

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thers a girl that keeps talking shit and im ready to fight her fat ass. anyone got any fighting tips??? Im a girl 5'5 and 130lbs if that makes any difference

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>Have soul crushing oneitis for this girl
>Learn she has a new boyfriend
>Get really depressed over her to where I try to sleep it off
>Make a oneitis thread about her on /r9k/
>One of her friends happens to be browsing the board at the same time
>Messages her about the thread and leaks her name and Facebook info
>Anons start messaging her left and right
>She asks me if I posted about her on 4chan "because I know you use that stuff" and "what is a oneitis?"
>Confess to her that I did it and explain to her that oneitis basically means that she's constantly on my mind and I can't get over her
>She's demanding me to take down the pic of her but it wouldn't let me delete, so I had to wait for the thread to 404 (also Desuarchive was down thank god)
>She was very much pissed off at me for giving away her info even though all I posted was her pic
>At the end of our conversation after the thread got deleted, I told her "I take full responsibility for what I did and I understand if you never want to speak to me again"
>She read it and never responded
>It's been two weeks and she hasn't blocked or unfriended me as of yet and I've never messaged her or reacted or commented on any of her posts either
Should I start messaging her again, and if so what should I put?

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How does one deal with people who are unresponsive and either don't know, or don't make, an effort towards keeping a conversation alive?
This is taking for granted they actually want to talk, if they don't then there's nothing unclear about the situation.


I am talking to someone but it doesn't seem he ever cares about keeping any conversation going (ie gives short, clear cut answers that make the subject a dead end). I've asked him if I'm doing anything wrong but he said that isn't the case and it's actually an issue of his that everyone perceives him as disinterested but I'm still left wonder about what I'm supposed to do now.
Should I keep pushing? Should I forget about him? This is all done online by the way and by text, but any tip of any kind is well accepted.

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How do I deal with being so repulsively ugly /adv/?

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Alright so I don't usually post personal problems on here but I really need someOne to listen all right so sometimes I like to do blow and goes off of craigslist I know it's shady I always make sure they are older guys so if anything goes wrong I can protect myself or get away. I am 5'6 135 pounds. So I made plans with this older guy to do a blow and go at some park to meet up. When I got there it was almost dark and I couldn't really see the guy. He was a lot bigger than he had said in the emails its dark so I can't really see him. He pulls it out and I start blowing him and I look up and see he is a younger dude I thought it was very odd and then no less than 6 seconds he starts trying to pull my pants down. We had discussed that I just wanted to blow him and that was it. I even told him I don't get fucked in the ass or want my dick sucked. So I start saying no so this 6'3 easily 230 guy grabs me and slams my body and head onto the park table. I cried for him to stop the whole time and he was so much bigger than me that I had no chance to get away from him. He finished in me and pulled up his pants. In fear of him going all crazy and thinking I am going to eat on him I play it like everything is cool and he gets calm fast and leaves. I literally feel like I am going crazy. I feel so helpless and defeated I don't know what to do other than pills. Thanks for reading.

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Just a couple questions.
I figured that this was the best board to ask them.

1. How hard is it to subsist off of a low skill job?
If you live in a state like Ohio, the average rent for a 1 bedroom apt. is $570.
Is it feasible to be able to pay off rent and other bills with a low skill job? As in a job that requires a college degree, but isn't particularly stand out.

Maybe low skill wasn't the best way to describe it.
I know this is subjective, but maybe substitute low skill for mediocre.

2. What are daily struggles that someone who isn't an adult might not known about? I would assume the more money you make, the easier it gets, so maybe the answer varies, but what can I expect in general?

3. Opinions on grad school? Is it a waste of money?
As far as higher education, I know that my Mom wishes she went on to get her phd(she still did attend grad school though), but that might only apply to her field(therapy). With a phd, she says she would be making a lot more money for doing the same work.

Does this apply to other fields?

4. This also depends on your profession, how long you work, etc., but do any of you guys still commit to any hobbies as a working adult? Do you have the time?

For me, I would love to keep working on my music as a working adult, and ideally that would be my, but I'm not going to college for music, and I wouldn't want to drop a job to do music instead.
How feasible would it be for me to do both? Do you guys know of any musicians who started off holding a job and doing music at the same time?

Sorry if this is a lot of questions, or if they don't really make sense. I'm not too sure how many adults are on this board/website anyway.

Any input is appreciated.