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How do I not look 12? I'm 19.
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>>17600253
spend the next 2 years working out and youll look like youre 21 by the time youre 21 or you could do nothing you look like a normal 19 y/o
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>>17600261 This.
Give yourself time, OP. Work out and eat right. You're still growing. You're pretty normal.
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>>17600253
Grow a beard.
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broke up with my girlfriend of almost 3 years
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2016-09-24 01:50:51
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a few weeks ago i left my girlfriend who i loved so much... we dated for almost 3 years and we had broken up before for about a year but we got back together january of this year and now we're apart again but this time we had a mutual break up but i just need help... she wasnt telling me she loved me at all and she was never there to help me when i had anxiety attacks, she would yell at me when i did anything... and when i would basically be on my hands and knees apologizing she wouldnt forgive me... she always talked about breaking up, she never really wanted to see me, and when i would try to kiss her she would dodge it and it breaks my heart seeing this now, she would tell me i cant talk to certain people and she really made me hate myself and made me feel like garbage constantly... like im unloveable, this all happened about a month before we broke up... i still cant get over her though, all my friends told me to leave her and that i was in an abusive relationship and toxic and everything and i didnt listen, she messaged me a few days ago and said she wanted to be friends, i told her that i still love her a lot and it would be awkward because im still attracted to her and everything and i told her id love to be friends with benefits if we could and she called me rude as fuck and said she didnt wanna be my friend anymore and that its my fault bc i didnt wanna be her friend and she deleted me on facebook, i want her in my life but im still so madly in love with her... i would love to be friends but i dont wanna see her move on or anything it sounds selfish but it would destroy me... but i care so much about her, should i be her friend after everything and are there any ways of coping with a breakup when you still care a lot for the person... any help is greatly appreciated... i just need something...
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>>17600234
You have to block her on everything and move on.
You are being selfish.
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>>17600234
Well you said it yourself, she didn't appreciate you one bit, so instead of trying to place her on a pedestal and saying that you still love her, think of how absolutely shit she made you feel and how pathetic it would be to want that again. Getting over a girl isn't easy man, but you're better off without her, it will hurt for a time, then one day you'll wake up and feel a bit better, then another day you'll wake up and have almost forgotten about her. Don't be friends, block all social contact and don't try and peek into her life, work on yourself and your hobbies and distract yourself.
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>>17600234
I wished every fool that comes here wanting their gf back would read this. It nearly always ends and just drags out the whole process of moving on.
Do not be her fucking friend OP
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How do I break up with someone who's severely depressed?
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I would also like to know this. I don't want her to just kill herself, I still care about her and I want her to be happy but we are not happy together. But she was so much more depressed before... I'm so scared something will happen and it will be all my fault...
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They're probably not going to kill themselves
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You don't.
Either you care about them to help them through it or you gamble and break up with them.
There isn't some safe play where you get to break up and feel good about yourself.
How do make friends as a transfer student
Hello, I'm a transfer student at UWM
School started a month ago, and I have only made one or two friends, but none that I've met first, only ones that my roommate knew.
How do I get out there and meet new people
Sorry for grammar, am drunk. Love you /adv/
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>>17600212
>How do make friends as a transfer student
>make friends as a transfer student
>friends
>transfer student
Make friends with other transfer students you retard.
Also, get the fuck out of my country. Trump 2016
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Start with clubs or something.
You like music? Go to some local concerts.
You like sports? Go see local games.
You like roleplaying stuff? Go join a DnD club or something like that, or hit up your local hobby shop and get in on game nights/drafts/etc.
You like just partying/socializing? Go to some local clubs.
You get the picture. Then just talk to people. They will probably be willing to be friends if you are both there for the same thing.
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>>17600221
Trump wants to deport illegal immigrants, not legal ones you fucking retard.
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Hey /adv/, is it a bad idea to bang your ex?
We dated for 6 months. Sex was pretty good. Have been broken up for 6 months and i haven't gotten any since. I joined pof and she started messaging me telling me not to stalk her. I said sorry Nd didnt message her from then. A few weeks later she starts negging me and yadda yadda she asks me to come over and get stoned.
Originally i said no thank you. If she asked me sooner i would have. I was getting ready to go to tell you the truth. She's kinda crazy but I'm kinda horny.
What are you thoughts?
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Why did you break up with her?
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It's probably a bad idea i know.
Who here has slept with an ex? How did it turn out?
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>>17600200
She would start fights over nothing and was controlling/manipulative.
She ended it a few times cause i wasn't religious but we always got back together.
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Okay /adv/
Long story short..
Had a girlfriend, we broke up, friend tries to get with her behind my back, I find out, get rid of friend, other friends in group take his side, fuck you guys too, she friend zones him, he gets tired of being a Cuck and they stop being friends, he gets a girlfriend, they broke up just the other day.
Should I try and fuck his ex or be the bigger man?
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"Help a guy out bump"
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>>17600185
why does this still matter to you, didn't you get rid of him
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>>17600185
she is your fuckin ex too and no you shouldn't have anything to do with her. You are dismissing her role in this, not only with your ex friend but your other friends.
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Hey everyone. I am a fuckup of monumental proportions. I won't get into the full details as that would take hours but I've been with a girl for 8 years whom I deeply love but have always had huge communication problems with.
We met in highschool and I have always had this gnawing doubt in the back of my mind that I was only going through with the relationship because I was a desperate teenager, but also one with integrity - I said I would stay with her, so I did, despite my unhappiness with the relationship.
Well it's been 8 years and we have had a huge amount of financial problems and had to live in my mom's backyard in a tent for the past few months. My relatives in another state heard about it and offered to put us up - for free! - in their house so we could go back to school.
We would be leaving everything behind, but we immediately accepted. Going back to school has always been our dream, and both of us were forced to stop early due to circumstances out of our control.
Well now it's a week away from move out date and we have had a lot of screaming matches and I broke up with her without meaning to - we had a long conversation in which a lot of the things I have always been afraid to admit to her - or myself - and it was clear that we were separating.
Here's the problem. Aside from emotional backlash, we have basically been acting as if we were married this whole time - shared bank accounts, making large purchases together (computers, car, etc), her family is paying for our phone line, we have pets that we both adopted together. She even managed to get transferred to her job in another state, but now that I can't/won't go with her, it's going to be a huge problem for her to move out or be independent (her work makes schedules a month in advance, she is not on the schedule in our state this month at all)
What the hell do I do? I still really love and care about her, but I can't continue this relationship. I'm miserable. But I want her to be happy.
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Anyone...? Anyone? Bueller?
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I hate self-bumps but if any kind soul is out there that has been through something similar, and could share their experience, I might still feel like living.
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>>17600136
> I can't continue this relationship. I'm miserable.
You said it your self.......
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Ok /adv/ I got a problem on my hands and I'm going to try to explain best I can so bear with me.
So there's this girl that likes me as several of her friends have told me (FYI I have bad social anxiety and am a beta) but recently shes been making some moves like grabbing my hand and pulling me along to places with her getting touchy with me lots of stuff like that.
Now that doesn't sound so bad right so I should just man up but there's another problem.
My best friend really likes her and has been trying to win her over for a while now and I'm pretty sure he sees that she likes me because she's does alot of flirty things towards me.
Now he's known her for years now and I only moved here 2 years ago.
So what do /adv/?
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>>17600077
Talk to your friend about it. See if it will cause an issue.
Also consider whether or not you want to form a relationship with the grill. Is she nice, smart, pretty?
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>>17600122
I will try and talk to my friend about it but I think it will most likely cause some problems.
And she is pretty, nice, smart the whole package.
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>>17600139
Talk to your friend
>Doesn't talk to friend
>Always regrets a potential relationship
>Friend doesn't have balls to get girl after months of crushing (presumably)
>Hate yourself
>Talks to friend
>Friend expresses that he doesn't want you to form a relationship
>If he was good friend, he would understand that the grill doesn't like him.
>Not good friend
>Op has improved life with awesome grill
Make your pick, nigger
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What makes a great blowjob? What do guys love?
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>>17600010
Getting their dick sucked
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>>17600010
enthusiasm.
your technique doesn't have to be amazing. enthusiasm and stamina will be enough. use your hands a lot.
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>>17600010
Stimulation of the head and surrounding area
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So I was signed up for EMT-B class at community college and missed one too many classes due to sickness and I'm probably going to get kicked out.
Wat do?
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>>17599977
continue being a fuck up till you grow up.
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>>17599977
being an emt sucks anyway
go to real college and get a decent job like physical therapist or financial analyst
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This was the universe telling you this isn't for you
Find another career path
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>Working on programming
>20 minutes in
>hit a wall
>can't figure out what is causing an error on a line of code
>mind starts going fuzzy
>can't think straight
>eyes fell heavy as fuck
>ask genius brother for help
>tells me to change this and this
>keep fucking up, making rookie mistakes
>he explains to me what's wrong
>everything still fucking fuzzy and none of it sticks
>feel completely exhausted
>want to nap so bad
>sleeping just makes it worse though
What the fucking hell is wrong with me? What is this bullshit? I have had to deal with this for too fucking long now and no one seems to understand what I mean when I explain it, especially doctos
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>>17599966
take your time with the work and study
when you get tired - take a 15 min cat nap - less than 15 it doesn't help - more than 15 and you will feel groggy
also, people who post threads like this leave out a lot of info - how much time do you spend on the internet? forums? chatting? gaming? 4chan? etc
do you do this until late at night?
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>>17599997
I spend quite a lot of the time on the computer considering I program and animate. But I only get this problem when I'm studying programming and hit a wall. It's like my mind just says fuck this shit and then I lose sense of reality and just feel like a fucking vegetable
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Wait, you're feeling excessively tired in the middle of the day to the point of wanting to go to sleep? Studying shouldn't be triggering you to feel that way.
You should consider having a sleep study done because excessive daytime sleepiness is a major symptom of sleep apnea. That's what I ended up having.
I'm not that big, I'm around 4.7 inches hard. I've come to accept that. My previous two girlfriends have told me I give amazing head, but my last girlfriend straight up had a problem with my penis size. She would cum but she said it still wasn't satisfying for her. She also said at times it felt really good inside her and other times when she couldn't feel it. She used to blame it on her having a weird body but then turned the blame on me. I'm with a new girl now, seeing each other for a couple weeks now and I'm just a little downtrodden with my performance. We haven't had sex yet, and I'm afraid I'm going to have the same problem as I did with my ex. I know how to give good head, but how do I dick her down despite my size? Are there any ways to hit certain spots that I should know about?
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>>17599945
it's pretty small desu but it's what you've got.
if the current girl isn't able to tolerate it then move on and find one that will suit your tastes and is okay with your penis.
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I'm personally 5.6"
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>>17599967
I'm sorry to hear you're a manlet
Hey so I recently applied to Temple University and I got 3.6 GPA and a 1350 SAT grade. Will I get accepted? And what do you think of the uni in general? Thanks
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>>17599943
>implying temple is difficult to get into
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This >>17599959
And that's an SAT out of 1600, right?
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Yes it is...btw does anyone know how to reply to a specific comment on 4chan mobile
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Is college supposed to be the worst time of your life?
It seems like everyone around me is having the fucking time of their life, but here I am being a socially anxious, mentally unstable, stressed out mess barely able to survive my classes.
In the year I've been in college:
>Haven't been to a single party
>Been out to the bar once
>Haven't gotten laid, gotten a number or so much as met a fucking girl
>Haven't developed any new cool new interests, done anything fun or exciting
Is it supposed to suck this much? Am I supposed to be in a constantly state of fucking hating myself?
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>>17599893
if you're spending more time on 4chan than out and socializing then, yes, college will suck.
you get out what you put in. there are thousands of kids in their dorms doing the same shit you're doing, feeling the same way you do. you can find friends in those groups if you'd like.
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you're supposed to do something. so, you know, do something, instead of thinking why nothing is happening.
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This >>17599992
OP, there usually is a day or two when all the clubs on campus hold open tables when they try to recruit new members and all the freshmen swarm these, trying to figure out what they want to do.
Did you not go to this?
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Hey /adv/ I am sinking deep.
My girlfriend and I broke up almost 2 months ago and I am becoming too depressed for my own good.
I had been through a break up before, it was hard but not like this time, this time I was caught by surprise, out of the blue, this girl was always showering me with her love and saying what she felt about me and how I was the man of her life and how she had never been happier with no one else, wanted to have my kids and marry me (we are 22 so it felt a bit too soon for those conversations sometimes but oh well I just rolled with it because I loved her as well), then she goes on a working trip for 2 weeks and comes back saying she'd feel like an hypocrite if she didn't tell me she had met a guy who she was developing an interest on, she said she'd keep on talking with him and had to see where that would lead her and that was it for us.
2 months in I've heard multiple stories of our common girl friends about how she's crying about this and still says I am the man she wants to marry and what not. But apparently she has had coffee(s?) with that other guy and is always sharing some pretty depressed musics / images on her facebook now...
So I am holding onto that feeling that she might have regretted it right away and realized that she fucked up, but at the same time I know her attitude should be enough to throw me off this boat, but I am not being able to move on.
I've been waking up late, dreaming of her nearly every night and waking up feeling like shit, going back to sleep because it's more comforting then just being awake and feeling numb.
I was never much of a depressed type of person but since it all happened I can't feel happiness anymore, I feel cold and broken, I end up treating other people like shit and feeling like I'll never be able to find anyone new and even if I do the same thing will happen, I have lost all faith in love...
I needed to vent, I am feeling hopeless and lost and quite lonely tonight.. (cont.)
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>>17599884
Listen stop it. Move on and don't bother with the bullshit
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Do NOT go back to her
Just block her facebook and move on
Take up a hobby or something to take your mind off of it
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>>17599884
(...)
I guess I am searching for guidance, someone to offer some advice that will allow me to see things clearer again.
I've been going out with friends as much as I can whenever I am not studying, but getting drunk makes me even more nostalgic about everything.
I know I should move on. I know I shouldn't be holding onto the idea of her coming back because she decided to replace me by someone else. I wish I could control all these feelings. I wish I had the courage to delete her from facebook so that I don't have to see what she's posting every day. But then again, I wish that she hadn't fucked it up, for once in my life I thought everything was perfect, we had something good and she threw it away for nothing. Fuck.