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I'm a 20 year old college student. Recently while trying to help my dad figure something out on his phone, I discovered something that has been screwing with my mind ever since. My dad doesn't quite know how to operate everything on his phone. While looking at it, I realized that he had 60 tabs open in Chrome. I was going to close some of them for him, but then I noticed that a good deal of them were gay-porn. My dad was walking back, so I quickly closed out Chrome without altering any of his tabs. I don't think he knows that I saw anything. My dad has been married to my mom for 21 years. All three of us are Christians and view the practice of homosexuality as a sin (i.e. you can't control being gay, but you can choose not to act on it).
Previously, whenever my mom would complain about my dad spending a ton of time with other guys or joke about his sexuality, I would laugh because she was clearly joking. Now I'm concerned about both my dad's sexuality and the stability of my parents' marriage. It'd be one thing if I had just found regular porn, but all of the tabs were gay stuff. At first I thought that maybe the porn was just the result of my little sister looking up stuff on his phone, but that doesn't make sense because she has her own phone and knows how to browse incognito and close tabs/delete history.
What should I do?
Should I ask my dad about why I found gay porn on his phone? This may screw up our relationship and the entire dynamic of our family.
Should I say nothing and act like it never happened? This will fuck with me mentally.
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Ignorance is bliss.
Probably wouldn't go there, might just destabilise things.
Unless your gay. If you are, he/you might be able to confide in each other
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Unless he's trying to diddle with your Weiner, who gives a shit about what he looks at in his spare time.
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>All three of us are Christians and view the practice of homosexuality as a sin (i.e. you can't control being gay, but you can choose not to act on it).
>Should I ask my dad about why I found gay porn on his phone? This may screw up our relationship and the entire dynamic of our family.
Why is it your business what your dad does?
>Should I say nothing and act like it never happened? This will fuck with me mentally.
Oh no, poor you. Ever thought about how your dad feels, with you vindictive candleswallowers hating his guts?
Jump off a bridge.
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How can I tell my husband I love him while he is sleeping?
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>>17600736
Sleeping blowjob. Wake him by putting his dick in your mouth and start aucking. He'll feel loved with that.
I would.
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>>17600736
Draw a dick on his face when he has an important morning meeting.
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Calculate the time when he is in REM sleep, then whisper in his air "I love you", uttered in 10 second intervals. If he is dreaming at the time, his brain will be receptive to his surrounding audio and your whisper will leak into his dream in some form.
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>retarded boomer parents wont let me take anti depressants because it "ruins your life"
>if they find it they will kick me out
does it actually ruin your life /adv/? i'm not suicidal but i don't feel happy anymore. if it makes me feel better i want this.
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>>17600732
you're an adult, they can't control what medical treatments you seek
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>does it actually ruin your life
yes
lethargy, dependence, and medical supervision required to even stop taking the stuff
fucking avoid
the better solution is to change something about your situation. maybe get a job and move out? newfound happiness.
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>>17600788
I have no friends, I am so alone.
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Can anyone cheer me up? The negative is outweighing the positive for me at the moment would be nice to get some love of any kind.
>Negative stuff
It hurts to live. Just started shitting for the 3rd time today, haven't left the house for a week now full stop, haven't left for more than 2 years for anything but doctors appointments. My day is constant headaches and fatigue, I was in bed from ~2-7 yesterday and then went back to sleep at 1am I think. I'm disabled and it's fucking shit having nobody to talk to except online, and nothing to do but watch tv or anime or play games that all seems the same after a while. Oh and I don't even have a high school degree since I tested out and got a GED-equivalent.
>Positive stuff
My dad made fucking bank in cryptocurrency and an attorney agreed to take my federal disability application case. At least I'm trying to go to school again, gonna take 1 online class about world music and stuff which sounds fun. I'm still 15 credits ahead of my sister at least, she's 4 years younger than me but also a sophomore in college now. At least I'm not a handholdless virgin since somehow I became able to fake being alpha when I was still only kind of sick, and I went on a bunch of dates. I probably have skills to get back into the workforce if I ever get better, I used to coach soccer and I'm pretty experienced working with kids, as well as generally having a long as fuck resume for someone my age.
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Sorry OP, but inspiring anime picture is the best I can offer. Care to tell us what happened, was it some accident or something?
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>>17600717
If you end up getting disability, try living it up a little, don't confine yourself to your room (if you can I don't really know the exacts of your condition) go out to a park, try looking at some scenery around where you live, just hang out man, if you're living with a electricity, Internet, and have a roof over your damn head while not working then make the best of it.
Be glad you aren't a wage slave like me
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>>17600911
I agree with this. The benefits of working outweigh the benefits of not working, but getting a really pathetic version of "basic pay" is pretty sweet. It means you don't have to worry about having a room or eating, the wage slavery you referred to.
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Is there any good method to stop masturbating?? It's ruining my life please help!
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cut your dick
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I just straight up quit two weeks ago because it's stupid. Some months before that I didn't masturbate because I had a gf.
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>>17600690
cold showers. it gets easier after a week
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Boys, I've fallen out of love with gaming, and now I've started to fall back in love with gaming. My issue is however, I'm now 22 years old. I'm not just going to school anymore, and can dedicate 11 hours of my day to just strictly exploring Tamriel, and loving every blissful moment of it.
Now every time I try to play, I just can't get over "real life" factors. They always pick at my brain when I try to game. Work, the gym, school; all of which will creep into my mind when I play.
Even if I have everything done, I can't seem to immerse myself deep enough into the game before my conscious creeps back into reality. I used to love games man, so fucking much, that was my life!
What can I do boys? I want to be able to play games again without thinking, "Damn I work tomorrow, gotta get up early to lift too, then I gotta study for exams...".
Tips n' tricks for immersion?
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I usually save it for either the end of the day when I have everything done. Or I game at the beginning of the day if it's a weekend until a certain time I commit to so I can get done whatever I need to do that day. Works pretty well.
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>>17600647
It's called growing up and becoming an adult.
But if you must for some dogmatic reason, I guess a good way would be to set a designated gaming time, and make sure all of your errands and chores are done for the day so that theres less mind clutter.
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>>17600647
Na don't force you way into becoming a neet. You are a "productive" mind set go diy something. Paint a room, make a coffee table, record a bit of game play and edit the hell out of it.
I wanna be less shy.
My idea is to find something to do that forces me to interact with people. It'll be kind terrifying at first but that's the point. But I can't think of anything good.
Do you guys have any ideas?
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>>17600642
Music is what did it for me. What are you passionate about?
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>>17600642
There's a place designed for this exact purpose! It even has magical drinks that make it eaiser!
It's called the fucking bar
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>>17600679
Film, definitely. I love writing and directing. I feel really comfortable directing, probably because im so focused.
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Do you need advice asap?? Ask me now!
I'm a 22 year old girl and i'm online to answer any questions that is on your mind as well as a person to talk to!
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post pic of yourself, I need a quick fap
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Why has your attention whoring immigrated to Mongolian basket weaving forums?
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I have been followed by a new female student of mine for the past three days. Today she followed me to my apartment, we made small talk and we said goodbye. Later she came back, knocked on my door and handed me a note asking if i'd like to have sex with her. I said no, but she insisted. She stubbornly kept asking me why not and then she grabbed me tight saying she would rape me. I thought it was a joke until she started pulling me towards my apartment. She said she wouldn't leave until we had sex.
I started to freak out and asked her many times to please just go home. This went on for about 10 minutes. She pulled me into my apartment and basically we did have sex.I was hardly even erect. I didn't finish and I told her to please just go, I felt sick and just stressed.
I'm afraid I'll lose my job if she happens to blackmail me. Is there something I could/should do?
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>>17600628
>and basically we did have sex
you're a retard and deserve everything you get from this point forward
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>>17600628
Call the cops you dumbass.
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>>17600628
Sounds like you are fucked. Enjoy your paternity fraud and her getting child support from you. How did your red flag alarm not go off?
How do I get over my self-loathing about being a 25 year old with with only a high school education and no job?
I could actually get a career going but I can't go past the can't decide+self-loathing stage that's inhibiting me.
I don't even like any of the Uni subjects like Engineering, Science, or Math but not going to Uni and instead being a web developer sometimes gets to me. A part of me feels compelled to finish University so I can say "Hey, yeah, I AM worth something."
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>>17600627
You could try a trade school
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>>17600627
get a job, leverage the experience for a better job, leverage that experience for an even better job maybe even management, leverage that paycheck for starting a business and use the experience to succeed in running it, laugh at people with 50k in debt out of college working for the same amount of money that you make but with more potential for growth.
any more stupid questions? college is damn near worthless these days anyways. employers want experience and real world knowledge. I've interviewed a few people with decent college educations at this point for my business, none are more capable than my lowly, uneducated, stupid self. most are completely full of shit rather than useful knowledge or skills. #truth #drunkwithnofilter.
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>>17600627
Join the military.
It won't take away the loathing but helps you refocus your energy. 2-6 years is really not a long time in the grand scheme of things.
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REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I"M 22 and I"M LOSING ALL OF MY FUCKING HAIR THIS WORLD ISN"T FAIR WHY MUST GOD KEEP SHITTING ON ME
Anyone know how to stop this? I'll never get a gf if I'm bald. Anyone else suffering from premature baldness?
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>>17600591
This place isn't going to help you. Get off 4chan before you start feeling worse about yourself.
But it's easy, shave you hair, get jacked and wear nice clothes so you don't look like a skinhead. Jason Statham can do it, why can't you
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collect yourself, or your hair - I dunno. make it depressing
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See a dermatologist, I saw mine and got tested. I was loosing hair from stress and started using Rogaine, you lose hair at first but it helps alot.
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How to make myself outgoing?
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So I'm usually a pretty funny and charismatic guy among friends. I can talk with them and joke around, keeping them laughing and having an engaging conversation. Howevet, whenever I'm even the slightest bit nervous -- and especially when talking to a girl that I like -- I clam up completely, and when I try to force myself to be as outgoing and funny as normal, it comes off as your typical awkward guy trying way too hard.
I know this isn't some special case; clamming up when you're nervous is probably experienced by most people to some extent. I'm just wondering: does anyone have any tips to overcome this? I garner so much attention from women I'm not interested in and manage to all but scare off the ones that I like.
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>>17600590
BUMP!
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>>17600590
Calm down.
You type too much and think too much. M&M. Masturbate and meditate.
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>>17600590
I do have the exact same problem. It feels the same as you, word for word.
Also, this guy is right >>17601164
Don't overthink. It oddly need practice not to otherthink and I still can't get myself to do it. Any advice ? (Excepted to masturbate. It doesn't work like this man)
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1st time fwd/hook up.. How to deal?
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>be me
>1st yr of college in a ldr, befriended boy on floor
>finds him cute, gets asked to come over often, never did cause Im loyal af
>occasionally in touch w/ boy from floor
>late 2nd yr college, work w/ boy and my friends on outside of class ongoing project
>start 3rd yr of college, broke up w/ 1st BF(1st guy I ever kissed/touched/sex) of 5 years (long distance the whole time), been on and off for a year before final break up
>ask boy from floor to hang out the weekend of my break up (friends were the one to ask me to invite him), nothing happened 1st night
>boy knows about the deal with my on/off break up w/ 1st BF
>nxt night, boy was drunk I was DDing but we ended up driving places, held hands, made out, went back to his place, sex, cuddle, sleep
>I left in morning rushing to work
>some few exchanges later that day, next day told him he wasnt a rebound, invited him to hang out that night, got asked to come over after but declined (weekday.. school sucks)
>no exchanges until almost a week later, mainly just bothering him cause friends bother me to invite him
>very sparse exchanges over the next few days
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>sees him wednesday at school related thing, absolutely seems like nothing ever happened, txted each other over nxt few hrs, friend asked him to come over, I leave, he leaves, had some exchanges, ended up with me coming over, both are sober, things happened, cuddled, slept in
>woke up next day, dropped him off on campus, we went on our regular days, 0 communication
>nxt day (1 am) i get a missed called, asked him about the call, says he was drinking & didnt remember calling me
>nxt day, some exchanges, i drank a& sobered up early, 3 am got drunk txt asking why im not at his place
>nothing happened
>nxt day, asked him to help me with cooking, said he couldnt that day, i said ok
>0 communication since….
-I never dealt with this before nor know anyone who has, Im the type of girl who wouldve straight up asked him what he wants already but I need to tread carefully since we work together on an ongoing project and would like to keep it not awkward in our professional fields.
-I cant say I know him well enough on a personal level to know the type of guy he is..
how the fuck do i perceive this situation/him and how to deal with it?
tnx
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>>17600572
>nxt night, boy was drunk I was DDing
>but we ended up... went back to his place, sex
>absolutely seems like nothing ever happened
How drunk was he? Were you sober?
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>>17600733
I had a shot or two but was sober. He was drunk but not intoxicated.. but then it happened again after again in the middle of the week while we're both sober...
Check this lens out, anons.
It is specifically for tunnel vision.
Tunnel vision can be caused by degeneration of optic nerves as a result of brain trauma or a neurological condition.
I am not asking for a diagnosis here, I know what the cause is. But I am up for a new job, and the new job is one that I would not qualify for if I have a degenerative brain disorder or impaired neurological function.
If I admit that there might be an issue, then they will make me get tested and I probably won't get the job. If I keep my mouth shut and deny that anything is wrong, I run the risk of people figuring it out anyway (it is obvious if you really look closely and watch me work), but it could realistically just get overlooked, in which case I might actually get the job.
What do? Degree of difficulty: Lives could very possibly be at stake.
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>>17600537
Kek
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Are you saying you are objectively not fit for the job? Then of course it would be unethical for you to take the position, even if I empathize with you. That said, if you're otherwise fine and the company is just trying to avoid liability, then to hell with them. Those are the kind of rules that are made to be broken.
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>>17600537
Failure to disclose a medical condition that would disqualify you if known is just cause for firing you.
Taking on a job you are not physically fit for means the likelihood of doing it poorly, thus causing your employer losses and perhaps worse.
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I just ate a 10mg edible
How hard will this hit me? It has been about 10 minutes and I feel mildly relaxed, kind of nervous. I have zero cannabis tolerance atm. Will it hit me hard?
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>>17600525
Maybe if you're 2 or something lmao
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>>17600525
A hahahaha nothing bro try 500mg plus you'll trip it's fun it may last a bit longer than you like
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>>17600525
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