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I'm a 20 year old college student. Recently while trying to help my dad figure something out on his phone, I discovered something that has been screwing with my mind ever since. My dad doesn't quite know how to operate everything on his phone. While looking at it, I realized that he had 60 tabs open in Chrome. I was going to close some of them for him, but then I noticed that a good deal of them were gay-porn. My dad was walking back, so I quickly closed out Chrome without altering any of his tabs. I don't think he knows that I saw anything. My dad has been married to my mom for 21 years. All three of us are Christians and view the practice of homosexuality as a sin (i.e. you can't control being gay, but you can choose not to act on it).
Previously, whenever my mom would complain about my dad spending a ton of time with other guys or joke about his sexuality, I would laugh because she was clearly joking. Now I'm concerned about both my dad's sexuality and the stability of my parents' marriage. It'd be one thing if I had just found regular porn, but all of the tabs were gay stuff. At first I thought that maybe the porn was just the result of my little sister looking up stuff on his phone, but that doesn't make sense because she has her own phone and knows how to browse incognito and close tabs/delete history.
What should I do?
Should I ask my dad about why I found gay porn on his phone? This may screw up our relationship and the entire dynamic of our family.
Should I say nothing and act like it never happened? This will fuck with me mentally.
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Ignorance is bliss.
Probably wouldn't go there, might just destabilise things.
Unless your gay. If you are, he/you might be able to confide in each other
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Unless he's trying to diddle with your Weiner, who gives a shit about what he looks at in his spare time.
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>All three of us are Christians and view the practice of homosexuality as a sin (i.e. you can't control being gay, but you can choose not to act on it).
>Should I ask my dad about why I found gay porn on his phone? This may screw up our relationship and the entire dynamic of our family.
Why is it your business what your dad does?
>Should I say nothing and act like it never happened? This will fuck with me mentally.
Oh no, poor you. Ever thought about how your dad feels, with you vindictive candleswallowers hating his guts?
Jump off a bridge.
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So do you personally think less of him? Maybe that's just what he masturbates to. You could tell him you found out in a 1 on 1 setting and and let him know how you feel about it but that's it.
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>>17600746
"Dad, when I was fixing your phone I discovered that you had left a lot of Chrome tabs open. This can slow down the phone, so I deleted them without looking at them. Let me show you how to close Chrome so it doesn't happen again. And if I deleted something you were saving, let me help you get it back."
This tells him to be more careful, without telling him you saw the sites.
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>>17601042
It's my business what he does because if he gets caught, it could ruin his marriage, effectively destroying our family dynamic.
If I say nothing, he might get caught from his own inability to hide what he's doing.
If I say something, he'll know that I know, and it will put a serious dent in our relationship.
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>>17601055
I don't feel less of him for masturbating to whatever gets him off, but if he's gay, I'm disappointed in the lie that is my parents marriage.
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>>17601565
>our family dynamic.
What's a "family dynamic?"
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>>17601593
we shower together.
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Also you all should consider becoming Muslim.
>>17601291
Do this and nothing else
>>17601594
Very good jokr
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>>17601571
>I'm disappointed in the lie that is my parents marriage.
maybe your mother knows by now and is ok with being a beard.
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>>17601565
If the marriage gets destroyed he'd probably be happier. Unless he's bi or just fucked in head by Christianity ideology.
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