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Why does weed convince me I've found the secret to the universe? And it's always some completely nonsensical thing or something negative and depressing
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Give examples
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>>17602090
"This is all a figment of my imagination"
"That crosswalk down the road that keeps beeping to let people walk is actually my beating heart on my death bed"
"You will never be happy"
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>>17602114
Well keep writing everything down and eventually publish a book of stoner thoughts
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I'm jealous of my friend
So my friend has been seeing this girl, and i'm jealous. Not because i want her. In fact, i haven't met her yet. I'm just finding it really irritating how everyone else seems to get what they want. I sound bitter and entitled right?
But here's the catch. He's known her all year, and has been seeing her over a month now. Over a month of taking her out on dates and he admitted he was too much of a pussy to kiss her when he had the chance. AND SHE STILL DIGS HIM! he's nothing special in the looks department, and has a really mousy and quiet personality. He always leaves the decision-making up to me when we hang out, he never takes charge of anything.
To see a girl be so into him despite his awkwardness and be patient enough to put up with all his pussyfooting around is really what gets to me. I mean, i have been doing nothing but stepping out of my comfort zone and i've been rejected 10 times this year.
Girls don't think i'm even worth texting back ever again after one date, but this dude's a khv and still acting like one with her, and she leaves drawings of superheroes with cute little messages on his desk every morning.
I'm happy for him, and this goes to show that not all women require you to be 'redpilled', but what do i get after putting myself out there so much? Absolutely nothing.
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>>17602082
Life is unfair, don't you know that already? Not all of us get lucky and get what we want, like your friend there. There's a chance you probably never will get a girl that loves you that much, but there's also a chance that you will. In life, you'll get rejected a lot, but just keep trying because maybe you'll find someone that likes you. We've all been there, one way or another, it sucks.
How old are you?
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That's what you call love anon, she's in love and one day a girl will be in love with you too, you're still young
And that girl don't seem to be 18, and she probably have the same age your friend has, and it goes with you too, so please leave this website before being more damaged than you already are
But keep faith and stop being a bitter asshole, you'll end up happy too !
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>>17602092
I'm 25, so it really feels like time's running out for me
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feminist friend asked me to leave feedback on new Uni sexual harassment prevention policy. The things she wants me to say goes against my personal values and beliefs. now I am blocked. I feel like my opinions have been harshly rejected and can't get over it.
things she wants to to say as feedback: "more protection for victims" (I think why not just protect everyone more?) "harsher punishment for the perpetrators" (prevention is more cost effective and longer lasting than perpetual punishment) "force the perpetrator to change courses instead of having victim change their course" (wat!?)
how do I regain the confidence or confirm myself that my opinions are ok. right now I feel shameful for having any opinions.
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You shouldn't feel bad for having differents opinions, if your feminist friend is really your friend then she'll accept what you're saying, and if she go in a rant she's neither a friend nor a feminist.
I'm also feminist but I'm more extreme in my beliefs (death sentence for the rapist if proven scientifically) and I think you're over reading what she's saying, "more protection for victims" is obviously meant to exclude perpetrators, so it include everyone who deserve protection, and I don't understand what she mean by "force the perpetrator to change courses instead of having victim change their course" but that's maybe because of my level in english
Have confidence in yourself, you're okay and your opinion are too
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>"force the perpetrator to change courses instead of having victim change their course"
Are we talking just accused here or actually convicted of sexual assault? Because if the latter, the guy would be in jail anyways.
>>17602087
>(death sentence for the rapist if proven scientifically)
How the fuck would you prove it scientifically? Semen in vagoo just means they had sex, it doesn't mean it was necessarily rape.
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>>17602070
Male anon here. Truthfully she makes one good point, but she's stupid and a credit to her stereotype for blocking you and I assume ending the friendship for having an opinion.
I had a similar experience with a vegan acquaintance. She changed drastically one day and started blocking and cursing anyone on her friend list for eating meat and not believing in the same ideals as her.
Ultimately it just looks bad on them. Don't feel bad for having an opinion. Stay strong by it.
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In late august, I bought new laptop (Dell Inspiron 17 7000) model). Up until about a week ago, the fan was extremely quiet. Recently the fan is somewhat loud and the laptop feels very hot, is there anything I can do about this?
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Run your finger over a few surfaces around it.
Does your finger pick up any visible amount of dust?
If so then get a can of compressed air specific for cleaning electronics, put up to the vent where air comes out, and spray that fucker clean.
Also clean anywhere else on the laptop that may have dust.
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>>17602105
Just checked, picked up barely anything. I think I have a can of compressed air for electronics
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>>17602139
But the dust you picked up was visible to the eye yes?
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I am stuck playing video games or watching tv shows 8 hours a day or more.
I've tried to get around it. I've tiold myself tomorrow i'll do what im supposed to and it will all be different. But it never comes.
When I try today, its like an itch in my mind that makes me feel like anything im trying to do is not that fun or useful. Cant do dishes, have taken up and tossed 10 long term and more healthy hobbies, can't get homework done, nothing.
I was told by a therapist that the reason I drop hobbies is because I like the discovery and learning portion, but don't like the effort portion, but I can't tell if they were saying its okay to be like that or if they were saying I need to work on the second part.
I'm pissed that I wasted so much time and money buying and learning hobby stuff never to use it. I'm pissed that I can't just stop and everything feels fine. I tried to go to the mountains with friends for a few days to dry out, but it didnt help when I got home its the same routine.
At some points I actually was able to work at these hobbies, about 2-3 years ago. I bought the stuff, started making things out of it, and then half-completed each part of the hobby before starting a new project for that same hobby.
I feel out of control.
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Well then..
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>>17602007
Either your just an addicted fag, that needs harder methods like rewards or you have to evaluate, that you may find those hobbies interesting, but not as much as your video games and tv shows.
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>>17602007
You might want to consider selling your TV.
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>watched a movie with a cute girl this past Thursday
>ended up staying up until 4 in the morning talking
>held hands, put my arm around her, put my head in her lap, had her lay on me, hugged her, etc
>she sort of drew the line at kissing
>says that she's not in a good place for a relationship (emotionally, school-wise, work-wise, etc)
>she said that it feels like we speak the same language
>told her that I like her warmth/presence
>told her that I feel bad because she doesn't want a relationship and that our touching each other wasn't going to make it easier for her; she said something like, "finally a person with empathy!"
>she mentioned just being friends and how the first time we hung out (before the movie) was sort of trial run for that
I genuinely enjoy her company. I'd like to kiss her, but I don't need to. There isn't an urge for me to escalate the physical aspect of the relationship either, which is a new feeling for me. Usually there's an urgency for that sort of stuff. The thing that I'm worried about though, is that I don't want things to fizzle out or for us to be so comfortable with being friends that we don't want to compromise our friendship.
I really, really like her. And I'd be happy just being friends as long as it eventually turned into something more. It would definitely bother me if we couldn't hold hands or if I couldn't put my arm around her. I don't know. I feel an insanely strong connection with her.
What do you guys think?
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>>17602004
It wont turn into something more. This is the friendzone. She considers you a "safe guy". Someone she can be friends with without having to worry about it being a relationship. It never becomes more than that.
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>>17602004
>>she sort of drew the line at kissing
kek game over
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>>17602004
>says that she's not in a good place for a relationship (emotionally, school-wise, work-wise, etc)
lame excuse.
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Should I get wasted tonight?
Recently finished my study and got a prominent job with lots of growing opportunities but I feel stressed and overworked. The company is growing so I keep getting more and more on my plate and I feel so worn out.
The worst thing is the job makes me feel miserable and I have no energy left to do anything anymore even on the weekends I just keep procrastinating.
My mental health was always a two way street of falling and getting up but I feel it now only faster deteriorating. So what should I do /adv/ Get wasted knowing it will probably have disastrous results?
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>>17601975
Welcome to the real world buddy!
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>The worst thing is the job makes me feel miserable and I have no energy left to do anything anymore even on the weekends I just keep procrastinating.
Find yourself a different source of income and quit this job. I don't care how prominent your job is and how many opportunities it offers, it's not worth it if it makes you feel miserable.
Getting wasted may or may not help you feel better for a few hours, but it won't accomplish anything in the long run.
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>>17601999
>I don't care how prominent your job is and how many opportunities it offers, it's not worth it if it makes you feel miserable.
I'm not him, but I can say from experience that it's not that simple. I'm 20 and already making more than my mother. I have never felt more miserable in my life, but quitting this job would mean giving up on a large contribution to my family's monthly income. The environment and general vibes at home are extremely unpleasant due to me getting wasted at university for days in a row with friends instead of going back home.
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Sup /adv/ need some advice regarding "bullies".
I attend second year uni in europe, My problem is:
Among the people i hang out with (we're talking like a total of 8-10 people ) I'm considered the clown i guess, and it's all a fun gag. But this one really popular dude who's from marocco or some shit is constantly harrassing me and talking shiet. And because he's popular as fuck and i'm kind of considered a clown nobody bats an eye. It's getting to the point where i just wanna fucking smash his face in a desk sometimes. On top of that he's muy thai fighter and is buff af.
Now i cant break free from the group. Two of my best friends are in the group and it's the only thing that makes me endure studying.
So how do i go about doing this? im a weak semi popular guy, dunno how i'll solve this problem.
Advice highly wanted
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>>17601947
Tell him straight up how you feel, if he's a man worth respecting he'll understand
Otherwise bash his fucking face in
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>>17601947
Stop being a little bitch? Ignore him ?
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>>17601960
If you've ever had friends you know it's not that easy.
>>17601954
I've been thinking about it. But he's stupid cunt so he prob wont understand
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Is this a good pic for 1st pic on Tinder?
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Current one is this
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>>17601878
Second one is a million times better,don't even use the first one imo.
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The only bad thing is that you look like a rapefugee.
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Should I start going to church just to meet women? I'm into more traditional/conservative girls, so I'm guessing this is the best place to meet them. I'm 23 btw.
I don't really believe in god or anything, but I went to church all the time growing up and know how to go through the motions. Has anybody else gone to church just to meet women? Kind of feels sleazy to me but it seems like a good place to meet nice girls.
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>>17601877
Why don't you go volunteering?
Most of the friends I met through it are pretty conservative/traditional girls.
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>>17601892
That's a good idea too. What are some decent volunteering activities?
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Don't you dare go to a church just to meet a woman, this is a sacred place you piece of shit you have no right to go in just to fulfil your needs
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How do you take a good photo of yourself when you're not a photogenic person? But without it clearly looking like some kind of professional photoshoot because then it just looks like you're trying too hard to make yourself look better.
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Yeah, effort is lame
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>>17601854
Difference is portrait look gayish
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>>17601861
I just don't want it to look like I obviously paid for somebody to do a professional portrait of me. Because it will probably just come off as insecure and unattractive. But on the other hand, I think I look pretty ugly in most photos because I'm just not at all photogenic. And I know I can look better, because I was once with a friend who's a skilled photographer and he took some candid shots of me just hanging out where I look about 100x better than any other photo taken of me.
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I started university about two weeks ago and, perhaps against my better judgement, decided to go to the anime club. Despite having a usually low opinion of myself and being a manlet, I was somehow one of the more presentable members there, so I figured I'd try and get my first gf there.
My question is, should I and how would I go about getting a weeb gf?
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Every weeb gf is different, but the same as dating any girl.
Well in my experience it was pretty fun. The big difference is they're used to dealing with creeps a lot. Also the playing field is tilted in your favor if you're an actual viable candidate, i wouldn't count most of the people in my society as competition at all and I kinda just have a field day most of the time.
I'd say you should be prepared for some red flag girls too, and other weird shit.
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I dated a weabo of the internet a few months ago.
She was about 30 years old, fat, worked in healthcare.
We went to a con togheter (I barely ever go to cons), and she showed me her collection of bishojo figures.
I got introduced to her family on the second date (!). They were rednecks, and lived in the middle of nowhere.
She was still living at home, at this age. Her knowledge was mostly in the subject of anime and cars, things that she had probably learned from her older brother...
I tried to get her to come to my place, but she refused. We never had sex.
She later went back to her ex-bf because i told her i didn't find her attractive.
She was tall and fat, i knew from the start that i wouldn't like her, but because im lonely and desperate i thought "ok, lets have some fun, i'll give her a chance, maybe this is the best girl i will ever meet.. maybe she has plans on losing weight". Nope, she didn't.
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Depends
If it's a high-ranked university with smart people, there is a chance.
If it isn't, then GOD NO.
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Ok,guys. I'm single and celibate and have been for a long time. Despite that I have had several male friends come to me for relationship advice or to just bitch about their girlfriends.
One of those friends has gotten a girlfriend and has been acting really weird since then. He still comes to me for advice but now tries to sleep with me or tries to get a hug or kiss from me. Once I remind him that I'm celibate and he's in a relationship he backs off for awhile and acts like it never happened. He's done weird things like trying to get me hooked up with one of his friends and then gotten mad at me for deciding to remain single. Lately, he's been calling me up telling me he misses me and wants to see me. It's very weird because he was never like this before.
What should I make of this? First I thought he liked me but him trying to get me hooked up with his friend threw me off. Why would he do this? What should I do?
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Anybody?
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>>17601806
I think he can't accept your celibate. Make him absolutely clear that you will never have sex with him or another man, but you probably did that already. Trying to hook you up with another man seems pretty desperate. I don't think he's someone who can just be friends with you.
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Why are you celibate?
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I want my gf to beat me off while pretending she's my mother
How do I communicate this to her without nuking my relationship with her
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Unless she's as fucked up as you are: Not at all.
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>>17601770
See now I feel better about wanting to fatten up, impregnate, and milk my girlfriend.
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>>17601770
You'd want to try role playing as various things first.
Depending on how open (fucked up) she is, she might get as far as referring to herself as mommy or something, but chances are you won't find a woman who will pretend to be YOUR mother unless they are a whore.
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Should i go to live in Japan Tokyo? Would it be a good idea?
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>>17601762
No. Go one a few long holidays there first. Japan's a lovely place but you'll be totally culture shocked if you move there without preparation. You need a good plan and all that. Go to Rachel and Jun on YT, they'll sort you out.
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>>17601776
All right thank you
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>>17601762
Yes, become new yakuza leader