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Background, shes 24 and I'm 27, we are both in grad school.

>Met her at the end of last semester
>We lived on the opposite parts of the country during summer
>She would text me every single day during the summer
>She would snap me every single dress and swimsuit she wore during the summer
>She would tell me she wanted me to come over and "chill" once school got back in session
>She asked to be my +1 during my sisters wedding next summer

>School starts and before I get back she gets drunk and hooks up with this guy she had a thing with last year. She texted me about it and told me she felt miserable.

>Stops texting me as much and doesn't really snap me anymore
>But in class would say she wants to come over and watch my favorite movie. Tell her to come over when she is free but never does
>Invites me out still every once in awhile, but when I try talking to her she says like one word and walks away

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I'm at a fork in the road, a place where I've been too many times.

I'm 21 years old and I've moved around about 5 times in the past 3 or so years and I've now ended up in Portland. I've lived here for a year and managed to get pretty built up from having nothing but a bag on my back. Now I'm wanting to go back to college, but finding the balance in life, work, and school feels damn near impossible.

My living environment is negative, I feel as if I get no respect and I have no positive encouragement. Along with that, the situation always seems volatile with roommates when we're always at each others throats. I've gotten along well relying on myself but it takes its toll on me. My parents are trying to encourage me to live with them in Florida, which has many benefits in itself but cons including sacrificing my independence to live with them at 21 years old.

I could go to college and live with them for practically nothing, I would be surrounded by family and other positive energy. However, I would give up everything I have established for myself here in Oregon to move across the country.

What do you think, /adv/? Should I give it up and live with my parents during college or should I tough it out here in an attempt to maintain my independence?

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is it weird for a 20year old woman to go out with a 25 year man

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Hello all, I am in a slightly embarrassing situation. Ever since I was a teenager, I knew my friend Ronnie had a huge cock. Lately he has been down on his luck, so I have offered him a place to stay in exchange for pleasuring my wife. However, Ronnie has been over here for five full days and has done nothing but raid my fridge and make a mess out of my bed/bathroom. My wife comes out in lingerie every night and Ronnie shows absolutely no interest in her. I have confronted him twice about this, but both times he claimed that he would take her that night, before passing out early both times. I cannot simply kick Ronnie out of my house due to our childhood friendship and his financial situation. Ronnie has been laid off from his financial analyst position with well over 90k still in debt. Seeing how I cannot kick him out anytime soon, how can I at least get this man to fuck my wife? Any input would be appreciated. Thank you all.

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What is natural beauty? Please post pics of what you think it is! No/minimal make up only and no plastic surgery!

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Lots of people irritate me to no end. It's the way they talk and act that gets on my nerves. Especially certain kind of loud, in-your-face types.

Kids are on a whole another level of obnoxious. Their vacant stares, screaming, faces lathered in snot and drool, them trying to touch you with their cold drool soaked hands. Makes me shudder with disgust. It's like looking at maggots level of disgust. There's also lots of other things that make me feel similar disgust, but I'm not going start listing everything.

People's voices irritate me. I can often hear my neighbor talking and I FUCKING HATE that woman's voice. Idk if she keeps a window open or if she's on her balcony, but the noise carries over here. She sounds trashy and drunk no matter what time of the day it is. Either she's drunk all the time or she just sounds like that normally. Horrifying.

And that's not all. I hate certain faces for no apparent reason. Some people's faces make me dislike them automatically, unless they otherwise turn out to be great people.


Is this normal or some kind of a psychological disorder?

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So this might be a little long but it needs to be said to understand the story.
>Girl is really like but was never able to get since I am not good looking
>She dates my friend for 2 years and they break up
>I start talking to her more and find out she has ALOT in common with me, like almost everything I like she does also.
>We start to talk more and more
>I asked her if she wanted to hangout one day, me, her and my other friend who's not her ex
>She says no because our friend (her ex) wasnt there and then she explained to me something about positive energy from him and how me and the other guy are neutral so it drains or whatever.
>I accept it because I have to and move on.
>Time goes on and on and I thought what the hell let me ask her if she wants to come hangout with me.
>So I asked her if she was free after work one night that she wants to come and hangout.
>She tells me it sounds like a trap, and I asked her what she meant. She said that it sounds like im making her thing she has friends. So eventually the conversastion gets to the point of me telling her I understand she means that she thinks I might make a move or ask her out.
>She says Okay, yeah dont do that.
>She comes over and we hangout for 9 hours
>Week goes by I ask her if she wants to hangout again, same thing she comes over and we chill
>Hungout again last night

What I am asking is it possible for her to of changed her mind about me over time? Like a few months ago she didnt want to hangout without her ex even in a group, but now she is fine with coming over and just hanging out with me. I can't make a move on her because I dont want to fuck it up and misread this but is it possible for girls to change their mind on a guy over time? I have changed alot since I was talking to her. Better clothes, working out, catching myself when I am acting cringey or awkward.

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>First come first served house viewing
>Application Fees Apply $150

What do those mean?
How should I go about this and be able to rent this place first?
Is it possible that my application might not be successful and pay those fees for nothing?

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Diagnosed aspie here (diagnosed with mild autism when I was 4). I had some unpleasant experiences when socializing in the past, mostly due to my autism.

I plan on talking to people more now; what kind of people should I keep away from to avoid being taken advantage of and/or bullied?

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So my gf just broke up with me. She's willing to revisit the question in a few months. She split because she is stressed at school and i wasn't helping. Should i wait and retry? I really love this girl and am willing to. We're friends still. What do /adv/?

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Okay, I just recently learned that I'm going to a #BlackLivesMatter/SJW music festival in Atlanta with my family because my sister's boyfriend is organizing and hosting the event. Although the guy is 100% against the idea of social justice and is even more alt-right than I am, he's hosting this event in order to get his name out.

What should I do at the event, /adv/?

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My father just had a massive stroke yesterday, I can't even go to the hospital because I keep crying like a little bitch.

Can someone console me or something?

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>been talking to Iranian-American QT for a few weeks
>been on three "dates"
>Each time she seems into me, I make her laugh, we even held hands most recently in the movies

How do I kiss her? WHEN do I kiss her? How long is long enough, and how do i know when the moment is right. I tried to kiss her already but she kinda shut me down, and that was on the first date.

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Are these worth anything?

Appraise me or direct me to a more suitable board

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My roommate has a crush on me. We're both guys and while I would call myself bisexual, I really don't see myself ending up with a dude. I find gay sex to be rather revolting.

I could really only find myself doing anything with a guy if I was doing something that was related to one of the fetishes I have, which are bizarre to say the least.

The problem here is I don't know how to handle it. He's my best friend at my current college and I feel like I'm walking on egg shells here. I want to remain best friends with the dude, but that's it.

/adv/, what should I do?