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1st time fwd/hook up.. How to deal? 2016-09-24 04:19:55 Post No.
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>be me
>1st yr of college in a ldr, befriended boy on floor
>finds him cute, gets asked to come over often, never did cause Im loyal af
>occasionally in touch w/ boy from floor
>late 2nd yr college, work w/ boy and my friends on outside of class ongoing project
>start 3rd yr of college, broke up w/ 1st BF(1st guy I ever kissed/touched/sex) of 5 years (long distance the whole time), been on and off for a year before final break up
>ask boy from floor to hang out the weekend of my break up (friends were the one to ask me to invite him), nothing happened 1st night
>boy knows about the deal with my on/off break up w/ 1st BF
>nxt night, boy was drunk I was DDing but we ended up driving places, held hands, made out, went back to his place, sex, cuddle, sleep
>I left in morning rushing to work
>some few exchanges later that day, next day told him he wasnt a rebound, invited him to hang out that night, got asked to come over after but declined (weekday.. school sucks)
>no exchanges until almost a week later, mainly just bothering him cause friends bother me to invite him
>very sparse exchanges over the next few days
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>sees him wednesday at school related thing, absolutely seems like nothing ever happened, txted each other over nxt few hrs, friend asked him to come over, I leave, he leaves, had some exchanges, ended up with me coming over, both are sober, things happened, cuddled, slept in
>woke up next day, dropped him off on campus, we went on our regular days, 0 communication
>nxt day (1 am) i get a missed called, asked him about the call, says he was drinking & didnt remember calling me
>nxt day, some exchanges, i drank a& sobered up early, 3 am got drunk txt asking why im not at his place
>nothing happened
>nxt day, asked him to help me with cooking, said he couldnt that day, i said ok
>0 communication since….
-I never dealt with this before nor know anyone who has, Im the type of girl who wouldve straight up asked him what he wants already but I need to tread carefully since we work together on an ongoing project and would like to keep it not awkward in our professional fields.
-I cant say I know him well enough on a personal level to know the type of guy he is..
how the fuck do i perceive this situation/him and how to deal with it?
tnx
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>>17600574
>>17600572
>nxt night, boy was drunk I was DDing
>but we ended up... went back to his place, sex
>absolutely seems like nothing ever happened
How drunk was he? Were you sober?
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>>17600733
I had a shot or two but was sober. He was drunk but not intoxicated.. but then it happened again after again in the middle of the week while we're both sober...
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borrow his phone and find out if he talks to different people.
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>>17600771
1) not that type
2) i have no rights (im not his gf or anything.. we talk like once a week)
3) i'd straight up ask him face to face before i do such a thing
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what's with all the drinking, damn.
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If you're getting what you want out of the situation and so is he, then no need to change anything up. Obviously he's into you if he wants to sleep with you.
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