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>>17696314
When you don't realize the possibilities of the world due to being a child you think that spending a day playing Vidya is a great thing to do. Now that you're an adult you are cognizant of what you could be doing instead so when you choose to play Vidya all day you are consciously giving up doing something more productive.

Tldr growing up sucks.

>>17696328
This.

You're not content because you realize there's more to life. Video games and TV will always be fun, but those two things aren't enough to satisfy anybody with any ambition to them, honestly. You have to go for goals, or at the very least find something new and riveting.

>>17696328
>>17696335
Yeah, that sounds reasonable. I'm creeping depressingly close to 30 without much to show for it apart from a decent job.

>>17696269
Kys

>>17696269
>18ish
Are you 18, 19 or almost 18?

If you want to break her, continue fucking with her and tell her how her life is a failure etc.

The fuck is your sister going to do with a broken Mother and a fucking beta 17 year-old that thinks he knows everything?

Sort your shit out man, I was in the same position as you but fuck I wasn't trying to break my Mother. Her shit is her shit, I'm not weak enough to let it get to me and say anything back.

Seriously man drop your pride and put your sister first.

>>17696240
Slut or prostitute. Prostitute is better since you pay them to go away after. You fuck a slut you might begin to think you like them and you should hold out for much better. So not worth that.

>>17696240
>long hair below the shoulders + facial hair
Found your problem bud

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>>17696247
I didn't grow it to attract women.
I grew it because i look good with it. (I think)
But i have heard of women who like the long hair on a guy. I think my problem is that i don't wear it down a lot so i look like some punk.
The facial hair might make me look angry or something. (When i'm not). I dunno.

>>17696229

Do you know nothing about the way monkey's paws grant wishes?

I make no wishes, and instead give it to my enemy.

>>17696229
A Turkey sandwich on Rye. BUT, the Rye bread has to be whole grain, the turkey must be just the right texture. No dryness, no overly wetness, just the right feel. The tomatoes aren't from some shitty garden, they're from Italy and they're fresh picked, with no pests and no chemicals on them. I would also like the cabbage/lettuce to be as green as the grass on the ground of any national park, which is to say, very very green and healthy looking. Mayonnaise, because I'm uncultured in mayo, is Hellmann's brand. I prefer Coney Island Mustard. Both of these condiments are unexpired and are fresh from the factory. I want the guacamole to be made from the freshest avacados. Finally, just as my preference, I would like 3 tan-colored hard-boiled egg halves inside the sandwich. These eggs are fresh, untainted by disease, and the chicken was joyful as they were laid.

Also, Immortality without disease, physically-induced death (such as if a wrecking ball were to fall on me), and as I lay severely injured, so long as a molecule of me stands, I regenerate to an even stronger, more resilient form. That, or I just regenerate to my regular self. Either way, Immortality with regeneration.

I would also like to be extremely wealthy to the point not where I own the world, but to where my hedonistic tendencies are sated.

My final wish is to have a genie that grants 3 more wishes. This genie would know full well into my mind and soul what I want condensed into 3 wishes. His power, sadly, is limited to those 3, however his power is unmatched in granting said 3 wishes.

>>17696316
SON OF A BITCH, I forgot to specify my sandwich more. Great, now the turkey is tainted.

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>>17696206
Sounds like he's got a bad case of the 'tism.

Eh, just like this myself, he probably doesn't know how to interact with other people.
Might prefer to just be by himself, as well, I tend not to overly mourn the fact I'm usually more by myself.

Probably autistic

>>17696169

Seems to me like you are hanging out with dumb asses and jack asses a lot.
Switch the people you are hanging out with some that are more empathetic to your condition as it is obvious that the current group is two faced hypocritical bunch that complains about your lack of empathy while at the same time not being empathetic to you.

>>17696179
I have two friends
that is not an issue for me

lacking empathy makes me unapproachable, and when I like people it's hard to convey that convincingly

not even my pets like me

short term relationships are easier, as are relationships with people who arn't very clever because I can just say what I feel and they believe me

but long term I leave people feeling empty and unimportant

Some people have lower levels or non-existent empathy. You may be one of them. Empathy is not really something that can be improved upon since it's innate or instinctive, although there is some new research that suggests it might be able to be improved upon with practice.

Empathy is being able understand and feel the emotions of another person. Reflecting their emotions back at them isn't empathy though. You can be empathetic and not reflect back the emotions that the other person is projecting. Displaying emotions that are opposing the ones someone is feeling though might be a defensive mechanism your mind is using to prevent yourself from experiencing the emotions from another person, especially the intense ones or the unpleasant ones.

Have you taken one of those MBTI tests before? Do you know which type you are?

It's perfectly reasonable.

>>17696168
>Live in developed country
>Contraception is free

But yeah, split it if it makes you feel better

>>17696168

If you have to ask such a question its probably best you split up.
And Im not talking about the cost of the pill.

bomp

>>17696152
Just ask him

If he says no, I don't think he's really going to budge if you go on to explain how important books are etc

>>17696184
He's not denying studying is important but he wants my mother to buy all by herself because she has a better job and he hates her

Doesn't come undone?

I haven't worn jeans for literally years so idk

I like ripping them open when I have to pee. If you do it right with the correct angle they pop open quite easily and it makes a satisfying sound. Btw, I have zippers too and I don't mind either.

>>17696123
i think its more comfy. the zip jeans i buy are often tight around the crotch area. honestly though, all of the button jeans i have bought was by accident. i buy jeans because i think they look nice. it wouldent make of a difference to me if the jeans had a zip or buttons.

>>17696057
sex the first few times is quite shit for most people, i think. im a guy and I didnt enjoy sex until about the 5th time i done it.

maybe you where not that attracted to the person you had sex with? maybe it was nerves?

>>17696057
Well.
Are you attracted to the person you're having sex with? Are they putting effort into pleasing you? Is sex sensual, loving, passionate or its just for the physical stimulation?

>>17696057

Sex is honestly an empty experience unless it's with someone you really love, it sounds super cliche but i've found that to be completely true.

Once you're comfortable with someone it's all just about pleasing one another, when you're both turned on and in the moment it's fucking amazing.

No. You probably made it an end all be all to get that very phrase out of a girl and now your ego can't justify it's already present emptiness. Don't think too much on it bro. You'll make a mess of things. Just because you both said it doesn't mean anything necessarily has to be made out of it. Don't pressure yourself about it and it will feel better.

Remember life isn't a Disney movie or a Nicholas Sparks novel. You dont have to push it in that direction.

>>17696049
I don't quite understand what you are saying.
Does this mean that I really don't love her?

Because you're wrong. I know I do. She is literal perfection. She's a total sweetheart, and she is so unbelievably kind. She's wonderful.

nice question in my case that person won't even be my friend

Only way to do it is closure. Tell her how you feel (but make it clear if she just wants to be friends your fine with that) and either have your dreams come true or take rejection like a champ and sleep well knowing that you had the balls to do what so many of us don't

>>17696015
But it will more than likely never be the same after I express my feelings. I'm a beta and I probably won't take the rejection that lightly as the person of my dreams will have denied my love.

>>17695974
Don't pick up the phone on a weekend, even if it is an unknown number.

>>17695983
nah I mean how do I handle all this shit I'm dealing with? The clients just won't understand that I'm doing a job suited for 2-4 people. They still force me to go to the site for very insignificant reasons like "we gotta change the text message" or "you HAVE to fix this LCD"
If there's a huge problem like a camera went out or maybe the driver's UI has some serious issues then I'm there in no time.

Engineers before me suffer the same problem as well, so I'm quite sure I'm not the problem here.

what about not picking more contracts than people you have. just let this fail.

your superiors must be retarded.

>>17695970
Maybe you envy the man that got to fuck those women. Would you still feel exactly the same if they were both women?

>>17695978
Good question. I thought about it and I probably would care less if they were both women

>>17695981
I'm no behavioral expert or anything, but maybe it is you envying the men that got action from them. If so, I think it's natural. It's also not obvious because (if we assume you envy the men) you misidentified what you really are bothered. It's probably some sort of instinctual reaction that didn't completely disappear, and therefore it's an unconscious process that's hard to observe and evaluate. We're still animals after all...

I assume that if you were the ones who fucked those women while they were in their teens, you wouldn't feel bitter?

I suggest good old shotgun in the mouth

wow you are so retarded lol

If you downloaded it from the steam client, can't you just re-download the games?