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Last night I had a first date with a girl I met on Tuesday. She's absolutely stunning and I was a little nervous at first but the moment I saw her all nerves were gone and it was just completely fun for 2 hours. Then I walked her to her car and kissed her there (she was perfectly sober because she had to drive). She's the kinda girl I see myself falling for.

How do I proceed from here? Not send her a message for a few days?
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>Not send her a message for a few days?
What the fuck is this supposed to accomplish?
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>>17695883
I'm not sure. That's why I'm asking what should I do now? I want to see her again and kiss her again.
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>>17695881
no you dumbass text her the next day and said you had a great time

proceed to setup new time to hangout again

GUIDELINES:
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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Should I keep my ex on social media even though I'm nc'ing her?
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>add qt girl in class on Facebook
>we talked once, she hasn't been coming to class for like 3 weeks
>she accepts me on Facebook soon enough
>gets overly excited and emotional, sends me hearts and tells me crazy shit
>says I'm the only guy she knows in that class
>thinks she needs to see a psychiatrist
so she told me she'll attend next class for sure

but an hour before that class, she messaged me saying her cold got worse. Promised to attend the next class accompanied with "love" and a bunch of hearts.

So I replied to it with something like get well, but she didn't even read it.

Now I didn't go to the class that day so I can't tell if she came or not. I didn't tell her I wasn't going to class that day. I'm reluctant to contact her again on Facebook, since she didn't even read my last message. What do I do here?
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Females, what is it like when guys want to have sex with you? How can you tell? How does it make you feel?

Men, how do you act or feel when you spend time with someone you really want to fuck? What do you do?

I'm a very autistic female and it's hard for me to understand what it's like to be sexually desired. Please explain it to me.

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Having ADD is some kind of torture.

Anyone else here have it? How do you cope? Medication makes me antsy, and keeps me too wired all damn day.
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>>17695457
Adderall
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>>17695457
>boohoo I have ADD
>have a hard time focusing on one subject
Try schizophrenia.
>FOCUS ON EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME ALL AT ONCE FUCK IT MAKE SHIT UP TOO
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>>17695458
>Medication makes me antsy, and keeps me too wired all damn day.

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Is this computer HP 8000 Elite compatible with this speaker system
Logitech Z213 Speaker System
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what do you mean compatible? There's no reason why it wouldn't work?
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are you serious? I can see the aux output in the picture
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>>17695124
Wondering if this company has a out speaker connection can't find anything online about it since it's a cheaper comp I'm not sure if it will have the proper connection

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Is it so far fetched to think that maybe you're not the problem? Like I'm only starting to think about this. Ive changed my looks, attitude, everything. Gone for girls across the spectrum and have had very low success (never a real gf just ldr shit). Recently got turned down and I thought I did everything right flirting with her, but to no avail.

I'm thinking maybe it's not my fault. I see threads all the time giving advice on how to impress girls and shit, but it seems like I rarely see a "some girls aren't interested, its not your fault dude, you tried". It's always you did this wrong or didn't do this etc.

Are bitches, quite possibly, nothing but hoes and tricks?
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>>17695063
No, I'd say it's a little bit of both scenarios. Perhaps your taste in women causes you to go after women you have no chance with? Perhaps you've simply been unlucky and the women you've gone after had incompatible personalities with yours? This is an impossible to answer question. Women are just dumb meat sacks like men are. I'm not saying men and women are the same because they aren't nor should they be. You can't generalize an entire gender though, anon. It's foolish and only for very bitter or close minded people.
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>>17695089
I don't have unreal standards, and I'd say I'm a good flirt, I can work charm. I mean like regardless of how i look, which i don't think im some kind of uggo, if I can flirt and charm well shouldn't that warrant enough to meet at least on girl who wants to fug?
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>>17695063
>Are bitches, quite possibly, nothing but hoes and tricks?
More or less this. The exceptions you don't need to chase- they come to you when you're doing life right.

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how do you prevent guys from your class from asking you out
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No make-up
drab, baggy clothes
short haircut
Walk around with a "male tears" water bottle
don't talk to them, or make any sudden movements
&tc.
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Pick your nose a lot or something
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>>17695050
believe or not i actually do all of that

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Okay, I'm going to try to keep it short. My ex girlfriend broke up with me a while back for reasons I don't even understand. I think she just got tired of me. I said "you know what, fuck it". 2 months of not talking to her and I finally feel over it. Of course, as soon as this happens, she basically came running back to me, saying that her life sucks now and that she made a big mistake. She says she was just pushing me away, I said "well we can try to work up to a relationship again but only if shit changes".

So we tried it out again but she's all distant and weird and just has a shitty attitude so I'm over it. But for some reason I can't get her out of my mind. It's not even her so much as it is the feeling that someone could not only betray me like that, but lie to me and act like they want to make shit work but as soon as we try it's too hard or beneath her. Basically the feeling of being duped twice is in my head.

I've even been fucking other chicks on the regular ever since we broke up, and even to this day because I'm not going to get into a rut over this, but I still can't stop being pissed off. Help me, /adv/. I know part of the problem was me being too willing to give someone that doesn't deserve it a second chance, but I still just want to put this in the past (again).
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Send a dildo to her workplace addressed to her, my dude. Just fuck with her in a childish way to release your anger and move on.
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>>17694735
Part of me wants to do something like this, the other part of me wants to take the high road because I know deep down she's not worth my time and negative attention only feeds her fucked up victim mindset.
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>>17694718
i think she was distant because she felt that you didnt like her or she was feeling hopeless. i dont think she got tired of you at all.

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Hey /adv/ I finally lost my virginity the other day. But I had issues finishing. Maybe because we had sex after the come down from weed. But she got pretty dry 15 minutes in.

Is this pretty normal?
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>>17696688
You're either impotent and/or a faggot. Or she's ugly.

How do young men actually have problems cumming? Christ.
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>>17696690
My roommate last year had a problem cumming. He said it take him an hour before he finishes
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I fuck my gf and never cum,must be nerves because when I go faster to finish she always tells me to slow down,so I just fuck her but I want her to fuck me,but I can cum all over her tits no problem

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I can't decide whether to study Physics, Math, or Engineering in College.
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and you expect strangers on the internet to decide for you? Doesn't seem like a very smart choice to me.
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You rude fuck, this is /adv and the guy is asking for ADVICE, so he can decide for himself based on the advice given to him. Do you think you're a cool if you put someone down like that? You should be ashamed, fat pencil-necked neckbeard
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>>17696696
Right. And my advice was that he should make the decision himself, not let strangers who know nothing about him do it instead. Why are you so upset, buddy?

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How kill 6 o'clock shadow
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shave nigga
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>>17696621
This particular picture is bad, but even after I shave it always is noticeable
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Bump for similar interests

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It is worth breaking up with my girlfriend that i loved and cared for 3 years (who has a daughter), to engaged in relationship with a another girl living in another city (who says its gonna live here in 2018) graduating in lawschool, also, its worth to get her pregnant when she comes to live here?
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>being a cuck and raising another mans child
>raising your own child and securing your genetic legacy

easy choice, no?
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>>17696545
im not into this new "cuck meme" dude, im not the father of the kid, i dont have responsability to it while dating her mother, the advantage of dating single mother is that you have lots of freedom, while she has always to stat home taking care of HER child, i can leave alone and do whatever the fuck i want, the thing is, im getting on 30 and i think i need a girl who can support me financially, im a cop, and this other girl with her lawdegree has a future, so in my retarded mind i realized if i get her pregnant she can giv our kid better opportunity, you know
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>>17696499
Holy shit. What the fuck is wrong with you, OP...

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I haven't shaved my legs for at least two months.
My mom constantly brings it up when I wear shorts around the house,
or even if I'm wearing a dress out in public.
She honestly thinks it's revolting.
The hair on my thighs is blond, but my calves are a light brown.
The hair isn't curly or anything.
But I don't like shaving my legs.
>razor burn
>takes forever
>gets cuts on legs
>not even seeing anyone
I shave my arms,
>my arm hair is smooth
my armpits,
>it feels wetter and smells smellier when they're unshaven
and my labia minora
>easier to wipe away pee and blood (if I'm on my period)
about once a week, but I don't see any reason why I should shave my legs.

Why should I shave my legs, /adv/?
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1) Some people might take you for sjw or feminist
2) It's not much of an issue if you are in intimate relationship already
3) Hair on pussy is healthy and good for your genitals hygiene
4) Hair on legs are not important for leg health

All I can tell as a guy.
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>>17696486
>Some people might take you for sjw or feminist
I'm an egalitarian, but this is how my mom feels.
She thinks I'm just trying to rebel or something,
but when I ask why she says I need to because I'm a woman.
That's not really a reason to me. More like just saying "because".

>It's not much of an issue if you are in intimate relationship already
Nope, no boyfriend.
>inb4 its cuz ur legs r hairy OP

>Hair on pussy is healthy and good for your genitals hygiene
I just prefer to shave that. I can go a month without shaving my labia minora also.

>Hair on legs are not important for leg health
I know this, but why should I shave it?
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>>17696479
Well one idea of having to get around the use of razors is that you could use a product called Veet. Makes hair not grow back fast, and don't have to worry much about having to use a blade trying to get every inch on your legs waisting time.

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How do I get a long term gf if no pets is non-negotiable for me because of allergies?
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>>17696386
gf is a pet tbhfam
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>this is a real actual issue that can turn another person off
>pets are THIS important to people
man i fucking hate animals
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>>17696473
You're a douchebag. I trust my doggos over most people. I have had to break relationship up because one wanted me to get rid of them. I'd rather have animals over people mostly

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Exposure to girls?

Hey /adv/, I have a bit of a problem and was wondering if anyone could give some advice.

So basically I don't meet many new girls, and I'd like to because that's how you start relationships. Not to say I don't have friends who are girls, and can't talk to them, rather the places I do go have very little, if any, girls there. I'd rather not go to clubs or something because the girls there are probably not gf material for me.

So my question is: were can I go that will have girls for me to meet that arent picked up from a club/bar/etc?
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Bump for interest
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College (maybe masters). I'm not even joking. If you're serious about it this is the best place to meet women. Pick a field you have some kind of interest in, preferably something easy that girls tend to study, enroll and go to some classes. Or go to classes without enrolling at all if it's too expensive, you can do that in some colleges. Learning new stuff can be beneficial and healthy for your mind too.

I've known a couple of guys who did it, one of them being like 40. They had a lot of success, guys with a stable income and life and with well-developed social skills are quite a rarity in college.
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>>17696378
This.

I'm not even ashamed to say a big reason I went back to college was to meet girls. Some campuses are legit 70% female. 70% women at the time in their life when they're the horniest and most attractive. It's a no-brainer.

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Are girls scary pussy monsters, or just humans with vaginas? Why are they so intimidating?
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They're not, you're just anxious.
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>>17696329

They seem intimidating to you because lack experience interacting with them.
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>>17696329
>Why are they so intimidating?
The only thing any PUA ever said that wasn't total bullshit is that "no" is nothing to be afraid of.

You are intimidated by women because you treat being told no as though it would be the end of the universe. It is not. Yes, it stings a little, and that particular pursuit is over. But life goes on. Understanding this is the key to cinquering the fear.

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