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Maybe they're just nice and friendly. People tend to do that, until you give them reason not to be. Your desperation is translating basic human decency to something more.

>>17790102
Because they don't know what they want, or it's a shit test to see if you'll take charge and try to woo them in spite of what they say. Humans are biological robots, everyone's the same.

Getting attention makes them feel good. When some weak beta keeps fawning over her she feels attractive.

You need to get them sucked aggressively on a regular basis

My ex had monster tits and always complained they were not sensitive until I came along and started sucking the shit out of them every day

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>>17790239
Where does one find such a woman? All of the women with beautiful large jugs I have met are married parents that are usually a bit old for me.

>>17790249

Met her randomly in a bar. She was my beautiful, slightly damaged Unicorn. Until she left me that is

Never again will I suck on a pair of natural J cups without paying for it. Never. Might as well be dead tbph desu

Sounds like she wants to shag her brother.

>>17790050
I'm not sure about that but I think she definitely doesn't want us to be intimate. She doesn't let me stay the night in their house (despite the fact he is the one who own's the condo) and when he stays over at my house she texts and calls him so much It's not even like we are spending time together. I feel she intentionally does this.

Also It's not like he's super young and I'm older or something. He's 26 and I'm 23.

>>17790081
Still sounds like she wants to shag her brother.

>>17790022
Don't ask her out. I did it with my crush and now I want to die.

>>17790036
That's why I haven't done it desu

>>17790039
Good. Find another girl.

It's a trap, don't fall for it.

Tell her to fuck off

>she says you will be together
>continues to act flirty
>mad when you talk about other girls or try to date them
>wil get angry when you stop showing attention

Something like this

Just go for someone else

Abort abort abort. Your gf will think you're cheating!! Abort abort abort!

People tend to add everybody they know on facebook, despite having no intention of even talking to them, so yeah, it's pretty normal.

>>17789917
I'm friends with tons of women on facebook. Is it different for coworkers?

This can't be real.

Your issue is that you're trying too hard. You're not being dominant, you're trying to act dominant and failing and you're being needy. You act that way not for yourself, but for them. To impress them, to win their approval. You feel like you NEED them to accept you. That's exactly the kind of behavior that turns women off.

And yeah, they can usually tell. If you're not a good actor your actions will come off as robotic, unnatural and insincere. And that's turning women (and people in general) off more than any submissive or dominant trait you might otherwise expose.

>>17789894
>I always read about how women crave a strong dominant man,


That's like believing that all women prefer vanilla ice cream to chocolate.

There are as many different sexual tastes or preferences in men as there are women, and so the odds are that if you try to treat all women the way you 'always read' all women want to be treated, you are going to offend more than you attract.

Rather than trying to turn yourself into someone 'all women' will automatically choose, why not devote your energies to getting to know each woman and discovering what she individually likes in a man?

>>17789943
>why not devote your energies to getting to know each woman and discovering what she individually likes in a man?

Because Chad can waltz in, grab them by the pussy, in 2 seconds and I want to keep the self-cucking to a minimum

>>17789886
>a friend
>them
>themselves
fucking transfags, go back to >>>/lgbt/

Anorexia is first of all a mental disorder that just happens to have severe physical implications. If your friend doesn't want to get better, there's really nothing you can do. Professional help is the only thing that could help, encourage your friend to seek it.

Anorexia is just a "scientific" catchphrase that jealous fat people use to keep skinnier, more attractive people under control.

>>17789870
He said it because he was tired and didn't want to have sex. Sex can be pretty physical. Exhaustion feels pretty much the same to most people.

>>17789877
I think i refined my brain from being on 4 chan an camming, so many horny guys who are like "id nevr b 2 tired 4u bby" but probably would be. Thanx porn. But actually though his sex drive is a bit lower than mine which is why I do that in the first place. I try to masturbate without porn but it's just faster to do it with it...

You probably don't do enough during sex. This seems entirely likely simply because you have the preconceived notion that all men should unconditionally want sex so most guys you've been with did all the work.

>>17789848
Well this could be a good start
Stay alert but don't focus on it, it's maybe only platonic

>>17789848
At lest she wants something from you. what you cannot know, unless you accept the date.

>>17789867
I guess I should mention that going out for dinner is a regular thing for us (note I never pay for her so it's not like she's using me for a free meal), she's just never suggested to go back to her house afterwards.

>>17789832
Then you turn older than 25 and these girls only scream immaturity. Girl in pic related will end up selling being a "hair stylist" and boy oh boy I sure would want her to be the father of my children.

>>17789841
Who cares what people outside the target audience (who brings you profit) think?
What are you even trying to say with that last sentence?

>>17789832
Not sure anon. I'm a cute girl, I draw lewds and make music and my online presence is still -1
I'll be monitoring this thread, it's obvious you need more that just being "somewhat attractive"

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But my doubt mainly came from this girl. We were very close, she told me we were friends and things got really personal and she understood I was going through shit early on but also seemed to enjoy me and I really liked her. Yet she cut me off without word and when I talked to her later she was all angry saying I made her uncomfortable. Tried telling her I undertood and still wanted to be friends but she's like "I can't do that" then later saying good bye.

I realized how bullshit it was much later but couldn't figure out what to do. Noticed with people I try my best to just talk things through before trying anything else and yet I'm always being bullshitted greatly. Constantly looking back at myself and others wondering what happened I'm trying my best to move on but not doing good either.

I'm usually calm but a lot of my bursts of anger or urges to break things have recently come from her because she was a more positive outlook, and with others I at least was in some conflict. She sort of just did what she did unexpectedly. I feel life isn't good anymore, it wasn't all her fault but it's one of the things that was unneeded and dragged me down.

I told myself I wouldn't go back with anyone yet she keeps running through my head or her face pops up on instagram which I can't bring myself to take her off of; I just want to message her and call her out for the shit she pulled on me, I've been wanting to, but I also want to see if we could make things work out again. Recently had to force make up with a friend because I see him around school now and he kept bothering me but it was never as bad as it was with the others and he kept being friendly it makes me wonder if I should give anyone else a try at all (because most people don't deserve another chance and I only bothered because he keeps popping up)

Is there anything I should do at all?

>>17789807
You don't handle it, you drag it with you like a sack of rocks until it goes away

>>17790052
Well that's one way of thinking about it

Better to apply for a job at Home Depot / ups / Amazon or get one through a temp agency?

>>17789804
blatant self-bump

>>17789804
Hi from /r9k/!

What is your wife like? Are you happy with her? Have you ever cheated?

>>17789794
You realize that women are just people like everyone else you have ever interacted with.

Protip: If you don't treat it like a date, things will fall even more in your favor.

>>17789802

How to treat it then? She's hot and seems to have her shit together.

>>17789865
you're going out to have fun and to get to know a girl, not to prove something to her or to yourself. What's there to be anxious about?

>>17789789
>I'm not quite sure how to fix it without completely changing the meaning.

You don't need to change it. Tell him its unclear and tell HIM to change it to something else.

just highlight it.

>>17789796
I get what he's trying to say, that everything after the dash are examples of the wonderful simplicities and complexities of plants, but it looks clunky as hell.

Should I just tell him that?

>>17789789
He's talking about at least two separate things that do not logically go together, and jamming them into a sentence fragment that is ungrammatical.

I don't know what he really wants to say, but it MIGHT be something like this:

That plants contain both simplicities and complexities is a wonder. So, too, is the way the physiology that sustains them contributes to their ability to sustain us.

But that will only work if it follows or precedes specific examples of plant simplicities and complexities, and specific examples of how those elements are what make plants into nourishing food.