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So I think I need some advice with a girl since I'm overthinking the issue to no good.

Anyway I'll get straight to the point, probably green text is best for this.

>Best friend's girlfriends has an upcoming brithday party in a month or so
>She telling me about a friend of hers with some interests in common with me that's gonna be there.
>She asks her if it's cool for me to add her on Facebook.
> It is, so I add her.

>We start talking loads, quickly connect.
>Conversation moves on to some personal topics, also dirty comments etc...
>She shows me new shows, I do the same, etc...


>The other day as a joke she tells me to go visit her tonight, she lives two hours away.
>I tell her I can't today since it was too late but she can tell me another day to go.
>Then says she was joking and that she lives with her dad and it wouldnt be nice for a stranger to sneak in her room with him around.

>Next day I say something like "I know you won't but you're welcome to come visit me anytime you want."
>Surprisingly she agrees, tells me which dates are best for her.
>All cool.

Time goes on, we meet...
>She's not as receptive as she was on Facebook.
>We go for a coffee, then for a drink and then to mine to have dinner as initially intended.
>We chill in the sofa, I tried to make a move on her but she wasn't answering well.
>Only her legs on top of mine, I moved my hand to hers but she wouldn't move her fingers.
>We keep drinking, at some point she falls asleep.
>I told her she can go sleep in my room and I'll take the couch, insists that the couch is fine.
>Next day I walk her to the station and say bye.

What happened? Is she into me or not? Could it be that she's very shy and wasn't comfortable with a complete stranger? I tend to avoid getting big ideas but all of the signs were leading to a night of sex. I'm very confused.

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Hello there /adv/
I need an advice about if i am lost or if i should try.
The story:
4 months ago i found this girl sitting on a bus stop, she looks cute as hell so i decided to search for her name etc.
After two weeks i finally found her FB, so i texted her and stuff, and a week later we have gone for a coffee.
That's where the shit hit me hard. I actually got feelings(?) for her, i dunno how to call it.
Now uhm, we've seen each other last weekend and it turned out good, and then i decided to tell her that she's super attractive for me atleast and stuff, and that i like her (i added stuff like "I know we've seen eachother only two times, it's stupid, but damn)
She replied with something like "That's actually hiper nice and cool, but you are right, we've only saw eachother two times. I dont know what to say now. I dont want to end contact with you" (i am actually that dumb that i added something like "I know it's dumb as fuck, so i wouldn't be suprised if you would go like "Ohh, what an idiot" or such, infact, i am awaiting the worst.") And then after telling her that i actually expected a diffrent *bad* answer, she was like "Nooo, like i said, it's ultra nice and good, just i dont know how to get into feelings and such, besides, you owe me, so i guess i have no other choice???"(She meant comming over to my house)
So yeah guys, should i try working shit out or am i in the lost position? Like i said, i actually got feelings for her, so i feel like shit most of the time. Also keep in mind she's this "loner" type of a girl, where she barely meet up with people, hell, she meets her Best friend once a month, or two weeks.
I'm sorry if my english skills are awful, i'm completly Fucked up beyond all recognision.
Help a brother out.

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so I caught a lizard. He changes color
He is an anole
He was green, but turned brown

I am sad because he has no tail
Did something eat it?

How do I fix tail?

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Hey /adv/ as a 25 year old virgin with massive insecurity issues around women due to it should I hire an escort to get it over with? I have the money, wonder if it would help at all...?

Yeah it's pathetic but idgaf if it helps me in the long run as seeing sex as not such a big deal. I've developed a huge mental block over it. I've literally gotten panic attacks when making out before and thus have never done the deed. I'm moderately attractive and financially stable, just not confident at all, so once I get over this I think this would be easier since I'd be exuding more confidence...maybe

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Hello, it's OP again. Some of you will probably remember me from >>17764347

and by gosh, sometimes I wish I was a troll.

I've had discussions with my boyfriend about his problem, whilst he's still lied and lot and run away I've got the following conclusions out of him

- That when we argue, he runs away and uses his "waifu" as an escape, fantasizing about her and being with her and I quote, "trying to forget me for a while" his actual, real girlfriend

- That he humps and kisses his daki of her when he feels sorry for himself

- He imagines her teasing him and being soppy and saying how great they are together and other shit. She's 2d and a bitch.

- That he lied a lot about it and was in denial

- That he has yet to face his therapist about this nor his lying problem and anything else

- This leads to him exploding in my face and guilt tripping me

For those of you who won't just tell me to dump his ass and move on, any of you out there actually want to input on how to help him overcome this stupid crush now he's admitted his problems?

I think step one would be to get rid of his daki of her because it makes his delusions ten times worse but I cannot make him.

Also, we are long distance so it would not be often that I could tell if he had, he could just hide her when I came over.

Any ways to make a very stubborn and angry self-pitying male see reality, stop running away and want to treasure what he has? Even his best friend can see this shit happening and we want to help him but he won't let us,

It's really muddling me up.

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I used to masturbate a lot to pictures of this girl I know and now I feel bad about it. Should I apologize to her?

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Anons, I fucked up and now I'm in a corner. [I'm a girl, for future reference.] I met this guy at a party and we sort of gravitated towards each other, so after we watched a scary movie with our friends he and I went back to my dorm room and we were just going to hang out but he wound up spending the night... We don't know each other that well, but we talked the whole night...

So then the next night I told him he really couldn't stay, but he wound up staying over again, and we went to second base. This is the fuckup. My boyfriend goes to college 4 hours away. I cheated on him and it was so. Fucking. Easy. I can't believe I did it. I feel like trash, but also... I don't regret it?

It feels so unreal. I don't know what to do. This new guy is way better physically, but I've known him for literally 72 hours. Now he's blowing up my phone and he keeps saying super sexual shit, which I don't appreciate because I don't want to be his fuck buddy, I wanted to get to know him! I need to know if he's a decent guy so I can decide if I should break up with my boyfriend. So I told him to shove off but he just thinks I'm being tsundere... I didn't know he was going to be a huge fuckboy. His friends say they've never seen him act this way, and they expected better from him. What the hell do I do? I'm the fucking worst.

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Looking for backup HET schools, help me prune this list:

Johns Hopkins
Rutgers
BU
UC Davis
UCLA
Michigan
Maryland
Stonybrook
CU Boulder

I'm more interested in particle/QFT side of things than cosmological stuff, but that's just because I don't have a lot of astro exposure. I just want to do HET

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>22
>Have GF for 6 months, she is 23
>She just admitted to me that she used to be an "escort" between 18 and 21

Welp. I didn't even know what to say, I asked if she was forced into it, and she said no. She just needed money, and got involved with this stuff.

I'm really trying my best to not let this lower my opinion of her, but I don't really know how. What should I do? End things or what? I was really starting to let myself love her, now I'm feeling kind of reluctant.

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Gonna spend Thanksgivin with my wife's side of the family and they're not the most accepting people out there considering who they all voted for.

My wife and I are thinking of pulling our older-teen nephews aside from their parents and tell them that if they need some "time away from home" that they're welcome at our place.

Our hope is that if they have something they need to come out of the closet with, they can share it with us.

Do you think that's the right thing to do?

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Last night, yet another one of my crushes told me that they don't want to get into a relationship with me because they feel like it would ruin our friendship if we broke up. Many girls have told me this. I'm good looking, I get it from my dad. I have some charm, I'm smart (or at least people think I am), but when it comes to women, I feel like I'm too nice. Lots of women like being my friend. I'm an advice giver, I've kept many of my friends from committing suicide and/or cutting even. When it comes to girls, especially girls I like, I'm as nice as can be. But girls only ever want to be my friend. I've seen people get stuck in the friend zone, but it seems to be my place ALL THE TIME. What am I doing wrong? Why do girls like getting with the douche bags??

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So, I went through a bad phase for like 6 months of bouncing from job to job (somehow still always landing jobs better than the last), drinking myself into oblivion, and a fair amount of random sex.
>> Throughout this period, fairly spread out, I had sex with three different prostitutes.
>> I got tested months after the first two, but only a few weeks after the last one.
>> None of the other 'normal' girls ever came back saying they caught something
>> all of the tests came out alright
>> Turns out the last one, also the most attractive. lived by my work
>> her friend who was also a prostitute said they rarely ever had sex with the guys. It was mostly older guys who couldn't get it up
>> she blew me one other time (we became friends)
>> I have terrible skin problems. Got bumps on my dick (they are tiny with no puss and haven't gotten better or worsened since i noticed them), but dermatologist said it was nothing to worry about.
>> can't stop worrying
>> Chick assured me multiple times she was clean
>> am I being paranoid? Protection used every time

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How do I find a nice, sweet, down-to-Earth girl with traditional / conservative values? I'm in my mid-20's and trying to find someone to share my life with, but where do I start? Where should I be looking? They must still be out there somewhere.

Please save your edgy, nihilistic responses for /r9k/. Why not humor me for a bit?

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I have a speech for my communication class that I will present in front of the entire room. The topic is something that has impacted or gave reason in your life. I asked around and people said stuff like hiphop, their job, having a kid, etc.. safe stuff. Now I chose going to jail for mine.

I'm thinking about changing it because I used to have stage freight when I was younger around 4th 5th grade where I would get super nervous and cry in front of class.

I haven't cried or anything after my 5th year and remember getting a standing ovation one time in my senior year of high school.

I'm afraid I might get choked up and start swallowing profusely to hold back me freaking out, I noticed that sometimes when I"m nervous and answer a question my voice shakes a bit. If speech day comes and since my topic is going to be somewhat heavy then I start to get nervous, I might actually start to tear up a bit and completely blow my reputation at my campus, but I also see it as an opportunity to be more open about myself even if it's completely bad.

I was just thinking about changing it to music, since I've had a music collection for 8 years now.

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Unsolicited advice

TL;DR I took 4 pills of magnesium before sleeping, and after 4 hours I woke up feeling like a fucking super hero.

Long version:

I wasn't able to wake up in the morning

Doesn't matter if I slept 12 hours, I felt like shit

Used to do provigil in order to wake up.

Provigil/Modalfino really works, but I am concern about the long term effects of doing drugs, and it can become very expensive if you do one pill on a daily basis.

Asked /adv/, webm, google about how to have more energy

the first thing that popped on the search was "magnesium intake". I couldn't belive it so I just continue lurking more and ignore it.

The next things they recomended was to increase water intake, excersice, cut sugar, more protein, diet, don't skip 2 eggs + bacon on breakfast and so on.

That day, I took 4 pills of magnesium at night. But quality magnesium pills, not that shit they sell on GNC (those shits don't fucking work)

Felt like I was in a cloudy state of sleepiness and falled asleep quickly.

Next morning woke up, feeling normal. I haven't felt NORMAL since like 2 years or something.

That day was very productive for me and I decided to try that night another 4 magnesium pills.

I woke up at 4:00 AM, HOLY SHIT! I was feeling like fucking superman. How could it possibly be?

I continue to search more information about it, and found out that magnesium increase the body oxygen intake. That certanly makes sense on me, since I snore very hard at night, and had never felt like I am actally resting.

The more I read about magnesium having a more important role in animals and plants (http://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/soil-fertilizers/fixing-magnesium-deficiency.htm) the more I realised that what I was experience was probably some sort of sleep apnea, that restricted my oxygen intake at night.

So if you guys are taking provigil, modiodal, adderall, ritalin, focusin, snort coke, or whatsoever, I highly recomend you to discontinue those (1/?)