>start talking with crush >don't know if they like

>>17790022
Don't ask her out. I did it with my crush and now I want to die.

>>17790036
That's why I haven't done it desu

>>17790039
Good. Find another girl.

>>17790022
If you can't bring yourself to ask her on a date, ask her on a non-date. When you're chatting, just say "I'm thirsty. Wanna continue this over a coffee?" It's natural, noncommittal and you've eased into a something-like-a-date situation.

>>17790053
And do the same with her?

>>17790064
Not by one. Find multiple girls.

I've never understood this. The worst that can happen is that they say they aren't interested. Big fucking deal.

No but she once jokingly said she should come over. A few times she said something slightly lewd. I dodged it all like a champ. Maybe she thinks I'm the one just being friendly. I still have no clue.

I'm probably meant to die alone.

>>17790088
It's too darn scary

>>17790088
It is. I did it and now I'm thinking about dying.

>>17790216
Rejection hurts
But it's not the end of the world
Continually try and you'll improve for sure
Just stop being afraid of rejection

>>17790022
Well eventually, if she is genuinely, she won't be interested in you any more. Her interest will die and she'll move on.

Why not invite her for coffee somewhere. If it purposely goes into the awkward zone then obviously something's up. If not or she declines (and not trying to play with you) then she doesn't like you.

I personally thing with crap like this is that there are clear signs. But the longer you leave it, the more confusing it becomes.

Either way. Rejection sucks, but atleadt you can stop spending time on her and focus it elsewhere.

>>17790103
Yo man, I just asked my onitis/ crush out last week. This won't help at all but she said no. It sucks, but there is a weight lifted off my shoulders now that I know. I still feel like she was into me 5 months ago but I waited way too long and she moved on. Best to swoop in while the feelings are fresh. Protip- ask her out on an actual date and make sure she knows it, otherwise she will just think you are hanging out and you will be too pussy to make a move.