My boyfriend didn't want to have sex last night because his lips hurt and he was tired...
How do i get over the idea that men should always want to have sex?
Why did he say this?
>>17789870
He said it because he was tired and didn't want to have sex. Sex can be pretty physical. Exhaustion feels pretty much the same to most people.
>>17789877
I think i refined my brain from being on 4 chan an camming, so many horny guys who are like "id nevr b 2 tired 4u bby" but probably would be. Thanx porn. But actually though his sex drive is a bit lower than mine which is why I do that in the first place. I try to masturbate without porn but it's just faster to do it with it...
You probably don't do enough during sex. This seems entirely likely simply because you have the preconceived notion that all men should unconditionally want sex so most guys you've been with did all the work.
>>17789870
>Why did he say this?
I suspect it may be because his lips hurt and he was tired.
U sound like my gf....
Wonders why i get tired after 20 minutes hard work
Get annoyed when i ask her to get in top
Then says she not satisfied with only a few orgasums per session
Try giving head once in a while n he wont say no after 5 minutes of that lol
>>17789870
>just lies there like a corpse
>how could you be 2 tired?!
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>>17789923
>>17789938
>>17790370
Yeah, maybe she's crap in bed.
Or maybe she's perfectly fine and HER BOYFRIEND WAS ACTUALLY TIRED. That's been known to happen on occasion, you know.
Jeezus, people.
>>17789870
0/10
>>17790387
>too tired to have an erection
kys retard
>>17790397
What, have you never been tired enough that you didn't really feel like having sex right then? Either you're a liar or you haven't had very much sex.
I'm not saying he would have been physically incapable of getting an erection and thrusting inside her until his dick went "spooey", I'm saying that MAYBE HE WAS TIRED AND DIDN'T WANT TO.
>>17790397
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>>17790422
^This. Even if you have a SKY FUCKING HIGH libido, when you're exhausted, you're exhausted.
>>17790422
Who said anything about thrusting?
What the fuck are you even tired off? I bet none of you even lift or work a physical job fucking beta faggots
>>17789938
> 20 minutes hard work
> 20 minutes
20 whole minutes? Did you take a break in there somewhere? You must be exhausted.
Goddamn. Next thing some Amerifat will complain about having the strain of having to get off the couch to take a shit.
>>17789870
Because sex is not like in porn and in fact, vaginal sex feels less than your hand does.
The only thing that really measures up is deepthoat.
You should come back here when he doesn't want you to blow him anymore, while he gets to pull your hair and cum in your throat.
>>17790461
It's so obvious that you've never been in any relationship that involved regular sex. Everybody has moments when they're just not in the mood, maybe because of tiredness maybe because of something else. But yeah, I can see someone who gets sex once a few months or not at all to be desperate enough that he can't even imagine other people not being in the mood at one point or another.
>beta faggots
that's an ironic insult if I've ever seen one
>>17789870
Personally, I'm never too tired for sex, but other turn offs will kill it.
Like if we're at my place and roommates are home it's not as fun since I like when we're loud af.
He could just be tired though. Talk to him but don't make him feel under attack. Just make sure he's comfortable.
>Why did he say this?
Because fucking all the time is god damn exhausting.
Women think "Men want a horny girl until they have one!" because you're doing fuck all 99% of the time.
Try being on top every single time you fuck and see how much you want to constantly fuck.
Plus, sometimes a guy just wants to snuggle or sleep.
>>17790473
If you've ever had sex, you'll understanding that 20 minutes of sex can actually be pretty exhausting.
>>17790771
If you're out of shape or past your prime.
Intermittent cardio and I pumped this roastie for 3 hours, just fine. I even got runners high, I mean shit- I had more energy after than before.
>>17789883
Yeah that's tough when your sex drive is higher than your partners it's a little bit difficult to feel excepted but as long as you guys are getting along it should be all right. be spontaneous, surprise him with something sexy . Good luck
>>17790495
This anonymous gentleman knows what he's talking about.
>>17790771
this is my first reply in this thread but.. what. it's really not that hard. i don't even work out. when my gf wanted to fuck every couple of days, it would always be at least 30 minutes.
y'all just have no drive
>>17790790
i'm not even in shape and it really isn't that big of a deal
>>17790790
>past your prime
SOME of us are actually older than 18, just so you know
>>17789870
Quit beating a horny cunt and let your boo rest. Guys don't bounce back into sex as quickly as us women do. And even then it seems like you weren't participating in the sex much. I know when my bf and I have sex I'm pretty weak from it and sometimes even sore for a few days. If you are the kind of girls tat lays there like a dead fish don't go asking your man to last a fucking hour. Get of your back and ride his cock while he relaxes for a bit.
>>17790387
Well gosh I wonder why her man is tired. e he's the one doing all the work.
>>17789938
You are a saint anon. Bless you and your penis for lasting so long. Also your gf is cunt for making your work so hard.