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>make a craigslist ad
>girl responds
>she stops responding when I give her my snapchat
>google her name
>find her fetlife and facebook
What should I do? Just wait?
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Yes, just wait. And Google empathy ya creep xD
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>>17789167
How am I supposed to know what she's feeling if she's gone =/
I just wanted to get to know her...after all she's the one that contacted me!
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She didn't contact you cause your dashingly good looks champ. She answered your ad. Why would what she's feeling matter in this lol. I suspect foul play but regardless that's doing too much bro let her go
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How does a fat guy find fat girls to fuck? Up til now they all said no. I've been told tinder won't work if you're not atleast average looking. What do?
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>>17788951
have you tried feabie?
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>>17788954
Don't even know what that is
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>>17788951
>How does a fat guy find fat girls to fuck?
you don't
fat girls are utter trash, completely mentally unstable
you're supposed to get /fit/ then brutally reject fat girls until they either get skinny of kill themselves
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I'm less "lost" than most people, but my life is dull and I can't go back 2016-11-23 05:45:06 Post No.17788949
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I'm less "lost" than most people, but my life is dull and I can't go back
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I love philosophy
I'm probably one of the most literal people you may ever meet if you meet me in person.
I have Asperger's Syndrome.
I've dedicated almost all my life to understanding things. Everything I can.
I usually don't go to other people for advice, because the advice I can give myself is more than, or just as much of what anyone else could tell me.
I don't care if I piss off anyone religious or spiritual.
There's no god, there's no heaven, there's no hell, there's no ghosts, there's no "aura'. We make those up to help us contemplate things while at the same time comforting ourselves. Basically forging explanations for things we can't explain in such a way that we feel comfortable with them.
I don't see people as happy, smart, or even dumb "people" anymore. I see them all as animals. Including myself. That's what we are. People aren't "above" other animals.
I see people as tools, or doorways to other people.
I'm emotionless. Well I try to be.
In reality, I have emotion. Lots of it. I just suppress it because what I know now scares me when I feel and I can't go back to believing in a god because it's just irrational.
Seeing everything for what it really is, I want to go back. I want to be stupid and believe in a god and a heaven and be emotional and have relationships. But I can't. I can't explain it right now, I just believe what I believe and I know it's true. I can't just believe something I know isn't true, I've tried.
There's no special place for us after death and now that I know that, I just want to enjoy life. But I'm beginning to feel like I'm too old to relive my dull childhood and make it amazing and memorable like everyone else's.
When the emotions come back, all this makes me so depressed. I'm already past the point of fearing death. Because once we're dead, we just aren't. We are no more. Absence. We can't regret or feel or be sad that we're not alive. And I'm kind of craving that "release" for lack of a better word.
What do I do?
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>>17788949
What's you opinion on the beliefs of Camus and Nietzsche?
They seem to solve these issues pretty well
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Heal. As above so below nigga. Try to entertain thoughts and ideas without needing to accept them immediately. Jesus said not to take his letter as literal but to understand the meaning. The 12 tribes are the 12 cranial nerves and the temple is not the church but is the head. We're all after joy, understanding and liberation amongst other things so let others do that and do it for yourself. We live after our body's die btw bub.
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>>17788949
>I don't see people as happy, smart, or even dumb "people" anymore. I see them all as animals.
Animals can be happy, unhappy and given a definition, it's easy to tell when they are dumb or smart too.
>People aren't "above" other animals.
We're clearly more able to shape our environment for our benefit. Got much better means at sharing and storing information too.
>I see people as tools, or doorways to other people.
Pretty edgy but disconnected from reality.
>what I know now scares me when I feel
Sounds like the typical emotionally weak person. Probably underdeveloped.
> I want to be stupid
You're there already. Or at least very young.
> But I'm beginning to feel like I'm too old to relive my dull childhood and make it amazing and memorable like everyone else's.
So focus on the future. You could start by actually studying philosophy.
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I just realized that I avoid relationships and sexual encounters because I'm insecure about the size of my dick and it makes me want to kill myself.
What should I do, besides kill myself?
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>>17788897
that depends. how big exactly?
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just fyi your hand>random sex
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>>17788933
This.
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op has some problems that need solving 2016-11-23 04:38:37 Post No.17788803
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op has some problems that need solving
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not sure what to write. these never turn out right.
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Just say some stuff so we can rip you a new asshole.
Or help
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>>17788803
That's a cute haircut and yet you still do look a look like a dude. Also a phone case is pretty lame.
So what's the problem anyway?
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>>17788824
okay :)
i want to live a wholesome life and do the right things. be a good friend, make the world a better place. but i feel uncomfortable and discontented with where i am in life. and when i make strides in improving things they're very temporary and eventually i get overwhelmed and it's hard to stay at the baseline.
no idea if this makes sense. it's a feeling that won't go away and gnaws at me. also i get lonely, which i guess is okay.
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So I'm a Communications major and I'm writing a research paper on Women in action films and how they have been portrayed in the last 30 years. I make references to movies such as Aliens, Edge of Tomorrow, Hunger Games, etc, that feature a strong female lead who isn't a damsel in distress. I noticed within my research that when a strong female lead is in an action film, it has a higher box office results (EX: Mad Max Fury Road). So I was wondering if anyone knew any good Mass Media theory that I could use to help support my research paper on stronger female leads bring in more money? I have the typical theories from my text books such as Gender theory and Feminist theory, but I don't think it connects well to my paper. Please help? Pic unrelated, just figured it would get your attention.
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>>17788729
Not much of a theory but if I remember right, most movie goers and readers are women, so a movie with a female protagonist speaks too them more directly.
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>>17788729
Nice thumbnail you dumb faggot
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Your research paper is YOURS.
Write your own paper and come up with your own theories.
How to build a social group on the internet? I am a socially anxious loser so going outside and talking to people is not a good idea. I just want someone to talk to, I guess.
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Join Facebook groups about stuff you're into and start interacting there, posting, making comments. Then you're gonna make some friends.
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I'll be ur pal
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join the /waifu/ thread on /b/
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Hey /adv/. I need some advice here.
i'm in college, currently in my first programming class, because I want to make games in the future.
Throughout the semester so far, I feel like I haven't learned a bit though. not because of the professor (it's an online class anyways) but because I'm so lazy. On pretty much all the homeworks, I just found the code online and used that. And I'm ashamed at myself. Im going through this whole course, and at the end IF I do pass the class, im gonna know nothing because my dumbass didnt want to practice and study at all.
I KNOW I have to study and practice, but I'm just so lazy. I always end up playing vidya or something. It kills me and I hate it. It's not just coding; this is affecting me in my other classes too, such as math and 3d animation.
What the hell do I do to step up my fucking game? This is my 3rd semester of community college, and I'm slacking hard.
I WANT to learn programming, I know I do. but my body doesn't. Or maybe im just looking for an easy way out, which i know i shouldn't be.
Damn im so silly
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You're going to eventually run into classes that haven't been copy/pasted from the internet and you're going to be fucked. Might as well stop throwing away your money and enroll in a trade school, since you lack the willpower or concentration to enter the regular workforce.
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>>17788706
But I don't want to do that.
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>>17788754
not him, but
>but i don't want to do that
and i don't want to work 45 hours a week for this job that almost gives me anxiety attacks every day.
i don't want to be paid less than half the minimum wage for what my actual job description is.
i don't want to be in this situation where if i lose this job, i'm homeless.
you don't always get what you want.
holy shit the amount of entitlement in your response is astounding.
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What type of job will let me work 30-40 hours with 0 overtime and faggotry from managers? I just want to go to work, not want to kill myself, come home and spend the rest of my day being cozy.
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you let me know if you find out
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Literally any government job. Look at city, county, state, and federal jobs.
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>>17788678
This, Government jobs are best jobs, generally, you don't get fucked with, and even if so, it's not by 100 different managers. And it's almost impossible to get fired, unless you grab them by the pussy.
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Hey. U.S. Navy noob here starting Basic Training in 6 months.
Can you guys scare me? Recruiters only talk about the nice parts of the Navy. I'm fully aware all branches have their own varying degrees of dangerous situations. It's the U.S. military after all. A country constantly in conflict with someone else.
If anyone is wonder why, well, I was a college student, but I never dedicated myself to my studies. Also, my parents tried to chain me up to not join because they believe "I'm being brainwashed into being stationed in Iraq while no scoping ISIS and throwing my life away to rich politicians that have never been to battle."
Pic-unrelated.
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you also have a pretty good chance of getting raped by another navyman
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>>17788659
I was already molested between ages 5-7 by my brother because I didn't think incest was an issue. How about something more serious?
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>>17788643
Navy basic is a joke, don't even worry about it
> t. Infantryman
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>Be me
>Be 23
>Work at Computer Repair shop for a few months
>Cute girl walks in
>"Hey, I just wanted to see if you guys were hiring"
>Boss says no, Anon just started working here
>She sighs and says ok
>She leaves a resume though
>Fast forward a few weeks
>Customers' repairs start backing up
>Realize we might need another person
>Remember cute girl
>Mention it to boss
>"Nah, Anon, we can do this"
>Fast Forward 5 Month
>Finally decide to go to college
>Going to live off GI Bill so won't need a job
>Let boss know
>"Well, I guess I can call up CuteGirl and give her an interview"
>She comes in for the interview
>Dressed in what is essentially a cocktail dress
>ME:thats a little high class for a repair shop don't you think?
>CuteGirl: I always try to do more than i am expected
>Me: Did you think of that response on the way in?
>CuteGirl: Yeah haha
>Me: Just dress casually for your follow up interview ok?
>CuteGirl: Ok I will. Thanks for the advice.
>She gets the job
>Fast forward a few days
>I train her up since she is essentially my replacement
>CuteGirl: So, Anon, what do you do in your spare time?
>Me: Oh, I'm just a raging alcoholic lol. Usually just play vidya and hang out with friends. I'm kind of a shut in.
>CuteGirl: Oh nice. I don't drink but I'm a shut in too. I just play Final Fantasy online on the weekends. My friends have to practically drag me out of the house.
>Me: Fucking nerd
>CuteGirl: *giggle*
>Fast Forward to last day
>Really want to ask her out for coffee
>Don't do it because I'm a massive pussy
>Visit the shop sometimes
>Always with an excuse to talk to boss about something random or to get some movies/shows he pirated
>Always go with intent to ask her out to coffee
>Never do it
I noticed she would kind of stare at me when I'm talking to boss and when I would look at her, she would look away and act busy. Should I just stop being a massive pussy and ask her out? Also, how would one do that without it being fucking weird?
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>Should I just stop being a massive pussy and ask her out? Also, how would one do that without it being fucking weird?
fucking yes. just ask, it seems you have had some normal discussions already, so how hard could asking to meet up for coffee be? go for it
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>Me: Just dress casually for your follow up interview ok?
why are you telling a stranger what to wear, what's your goddamn problem
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>>17788655
Ill give it a try
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i have a really wonderful boyfriend.
unfortunately, he's set back by his useless degree, school debt, medical condition, and having no car/driver's license.
his experience with work is mostly mcdonalds and factory kind of positions. he's 29 and his medical condition is worsening because of the physical labor his current job requires him to do. going back to school is not an option due to his current school debt.
he's obviously very depressed about his situation and has been for a while. but lately he's been much more motivated and seems to be open for suggestions.
i'm wracking my brain around his limitations. what sort of jobs are out there that he can qualify for?
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better factories
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>>17788581
>not an option due to his current school debt.
Does he only have personal loans?
Last time i checked subsidized loans and some federally given loans are put on hold when entering higher education. Obviously interest accrues but you dont have to make payments.
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>>17788601
not entirely sure about his debt situation, only that it prevents him from getting another loan to afford school. we live in canada.
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I do not trust Jews anymore. Am I racist now or is my behavior logical 2016-11-23 02:42:55 Post No.17788559
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I do not trust Jews anymore. Am I racist now or is my behavior logical
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Some of the shit I will say here will not make sense to you, depending on the level of brainwashing you have gone through, but it's an honest truth.
I grew up in a middle eastern country and growing up my life was shit but we always had a very positive view of Americans and American values. Ever since I moved to New York I have improved leaps and bounds as a person. I was born in US but I grew up outside.
Anyways, at various steps in my life I was oppressed. I was oppressed when my TA in chem lab decided not to help me at all but help everyone else. I was oppressed when he suspected me of being a cheater (i never cheat in my life), so he stood behind me while the rest of the class cheated. I was oppressed when various professors would purposely mark me down meanwhile total dumbasses with terrible papers had As.
I was oppressed when my room mate called me a dirty Paki. List goes on. Me? I was never racist, never any shit feelings towards others. I used to buy alcohol for the whole suite.
But I never had one good encounter with a Jewish person. It was always them giving me terrible stares, accusing me of being "dumb" being "inferior" and being "scary".
I once had a jewish room mate from the south who i treated like a friend but in turn he would ask me to do his house hold chores like I am a maid. I work for two bosses right now and I can see how fuckin racist they both are (jewish females). Both these bosses do nothing all day, are underqualified for their job and got their job through their jewish connections. The whole fuckin building I am in is the same way, bunch of moochers.
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Anyways, when i changed my name, all my grades went up by a shit ton ( I was atheist since i was 13), but I still get alot of animosity. Most of the good jobs and opportunities are locked behind Jews in NY.
And since i look like an arabian, I get a crap ton of racism from them man. Italians, Indians, Africans, Hispanics, they are so fucking nice to me, they treat me like a human.
I went to a university in upstate NY and my first experience was with this asshole. That place had a crap ton of Jews and I spent 4 yrs being treated like a rodent, it was only when I moved back to being around Italians, Indians, Hispanics, Arabs, Northern Europeans, Christians etc was I finally validated to be a human. So? am I delusional? stupid? wrong to think this way?. I still like them alot, i'd have no problem marrying a Jewish woman. But how can I trust someone who does not value me as a human and thinks I am cattle? especially when I am more capable and intelligent than most of these people, they just refuse to let me grow even on my own accord.
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I want to add that growing up and even until last year I barely cared about Jewish religion or anything like that. I just started seeing a very strong correlation / pattern.
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>>17788559
meh some people are racist, just feel good you are not as dumb as them to categorize them all in a certain way like they did to you. I know it isn't much solace but there isn't much you can do in your situation. If you want to get out of there I think NY probably has more Jews so try somewhere else in the US and see how that works out for you.
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/bizfag here. Never tried /adv so here we go.
Im completely miserable and pretty lost at this point so Im not even sure what to ask
>First girlfriend lasted 4 years
>She was violent and abusive but I didnt know any better
>Raped at 12, 0 sex drive
>Made me feel shit for wanting sex
>Left me with $20,000 in debt
>Second girlfriend
>Raped and stabbed, 0 sex drive
>Made me feel like shit for wanting sex
>Left on good terms at least
>Current gf, over a year in
>Molested as a kid. Yep. 0 sex drive
>Makes me feel like shit for wanting sex
>Doesnt do jackshit around the house or pay bills (other than personal stuff)
>I fucked up by dating a single mom
>Raised the little bugger for over a year now, a little attatched
>Family LOVES him and treats him like hes mine
>Tired of always feeling like shit for wanting sex
>GF agrees to a one way open relationship because her kid loves me
>Tried for months, cant get laid
>GF takes up too much time and resources
>Finally get to today
>Give in and contact a hooker
>Hooker scams me, takes the money and doesnt put out
>Fuck
>My
>Life
What to do? I dont want to kick her and the little guy onto the street. But I dont think I should have to be miserable for someone that does literally nothing for me.
I work a decent job thats respected locally, and Im not /fit fit but average fit at least.
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dump her, move away and find a way to pick dates that prevents you from finding and choosing traumatized rape victims all the goddamned time
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>>17788531
eh, find a girl without issues, why are you even going for a woman with some kids... are normal ladies that hard to find?
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>>17788531
Ayo, hold up.
let me get this straight: you've got a chick living with you who doesn't do anything (not even lets you fuck her) and on top of that you're even raising her kid?
That's some pretty top-tier cuckolding you pulled off there. Why the fuck are you even with her? Do you get a kick out of being miserable?
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New girlfriend doesn't suck dick
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I recently got a new girlfriend and we've been exploring things sexually and she told me that she doesn't give blowjobs, period. No penis in mouth ever. This is very important to me, I want this in my life. I accessed the situation and I broke up with her. I told her straight out that I was sorry but I can't be with a girl who isn't willing to satisfy me in the ways I like.
She doesn't want it to end though and she said we should work it out and maybe come to a compromise but she still doesn't wanna give me a blowjob.
What do I do, do you think there's a way to convince her to do it? She doesn't seem to be down at all for whatever reason.
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she'll never be pleasant to have sex with, who cares, walk away. unless your into a crying blowjob, which would be a special thing but not worth pursuing a horrible relationship to get
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>>17788540
>unless your into a crying blowjob
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Why do you NEED a bj? If she doesnt care if you ever go down on her i dont see how this is a big deal to you. Tbh thats a very stupid reason to break up with someone. Just because she doesnt give a bj doesnt mean that she wont do everything else to try to please you. There are TONS of sexual ways to please a person. Shes better off without you if you feel this way op.