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>>17787336
Hookers get that all the time
Unless you can provide her hourly rate every hour for the rest of her life she's not interested and will only be annoyed

>>17787341
Thanks for the advice anon. Maybe I should stop then.

Why do you think you will get free stuff? Do you think that if you go to a pizza place once and pay for it, you'll get free pizzas from them for the rest of your life?

You both don't sound good for each other or anyone at this moment in time

Arguing over petty shit in relationships is a sign of immaturity, lack of healthy communication and an underlying issue

Maybe she's scared that you want to or have cheated on her

Opening an honest dialogue is the key to a healthy relationship


But honestly this relationship sounds ducking terrible is really rethink who I was if I were you or her

>>17787317
You both sound like idiots, but especially her. I don't think you should break up with her unless there's more than just this going on, but you do need to have a long talk about priorities and double-standards in your relationship.

The whole idea of having to provide evidence that you're "Taken" on a social media platform is stupid in the first place, because it indicates either a complete lack of trust in one another or an unhealthy level of jealousy (to the level of being bothered by other people looking at your partner in a public place). However, the fact that getting "Likes" on her photos is more important to her than not being a hypocrite isn't just selfish, it's fucking pathetic.

ITT: upper middle class high school problems
Get over yourselves.
Popularity will amount to nothing when your end up in a nursing home in 60 years.

Say hi, and ask her how school is going. Act like a normal non-paranoid person. Forget about being blocked or whatever that's not even a real problem.

>>17787326
Eh, I guess you're right. Although, I would only do it when it's natural, so it isn't awkward or forced. Probably if we end up sitting by each other on the bus.

sad bump

I wouldn't call.
Personally, I feel you would be wasting your time.

>>17787240
That sounds like a pretty selfish thing to
do.

It seems like you're lying to yourself, you want more than to just find out how's she's doing be honest

You need to give up the idea that you'll ever see her, hear her soft voice or smell her hair ever again if you wanna move on

>>17787240
What can you conclude from social media activity she had since the breakup?

Liking memes about shitty exes? Bunch of photos with various dudes? More and sexier photos of herself? Girl power and posts encouraging slutting around?
(I'm assuming you are a guy)
>stay away

>>17787233
Go on tinder
make friends there

>>17787233
I bet your pussy is the bomb

>>17787243
>OP in a couple of days

https://youtu.be/59WCKaKqjKY

>meet from online dating site
>he wants to date fast
>I need more time
>we go out few times a week
>have sex, we date
>apparently I took his virginity
>school year starts
>he is 15-20 mins away
>visit each other on the wknds
>sometimes go out
>mostly I drive to his dorm
>it's more private there

>one time I visit him after school
>go by bus, stay late
>going back the bus doesn't go all the way
>parents keep calling me
>think I'm being raped, abducted, murdered

>I walk home alone in the dark
>safest city in the state ffs
>my phone has died
>arrive home
>parents yell at me
>tell me my bf is a piece of shit
"why doesn't he drive you home anon?!" (he didn't have his car with him)
"why didn't he let you stay at his place?!" "why did he let you go alone!?" (I thought they would be mad at me for staying over)
"why are you the one going to his place all the time?!" (Because I don't even have a door on my room???).

>>17787230

That made me think however
>I always give him bjs
>could count on 1 hand how many times he gave me head
>often bring him snacks
>he barely starts conversations
>doesn't initiate physical contact much
It hadn't bothered me because I always made excuses for him in my head and he is genuinely busy.
>perfect GPA
>3rd year of college
>studying comp.sci.
>internship
>I'm first gf he had sex with
He is also
>caring when I seem sad
>texts me every morning
>willing to help if I need
>brought me to his friends' parties
>has photos of us online
>relationship status also online
>gets jealous sometimes
although
>barely asks questions
>is very forgetful

Some examples of things he forgot are when I told him about how I was bullied and catfished (NOT minor stuff like name calling and a few days of chat) and my birthday, that is on the same day as one of his relative's.

I thought it was entirely OK but after those comments a bug was planted in my head and time spent alone just became more lonely and I kept noticing other girls' boyfriends do cute, romantic crap for them and I actually envied it

>>17787234

can you really complain
>im always giving him BJS

and then say
>IM THE ONE WHO HAS TO START GIVING HIM PHYSICAL CONTACT (RE: BJS)

your biggest complaints here are
>he doesnt eat me out as much as id like
>he doesnt ask questions
>is forgetful

and somehow you're translating that to:
>bf doesn't make me a priority

what? how? sexually, maybe, but you seem to control that dynamic to some degree. if you want him to eat you out and pleasure you more, tell him. this isn't rocket science.

it is his first REAL relationship so i can see why he may not be as dedicated. he thinks of you guys as more equals, whereas the more you date the more the guy sees himself as someone who has to WORK For the girls love.

does he need to work for yours? or do you just love him?

its your call. i dont blame you for wanting what other girls have, but thats a slippery slope. its the reason guys dont like dating as they get older. women expect SO much instead of just wanting to be equal partners.

Your personality and the way you carry yourself has improved. Its not all about looks, baby girl.

>>17787141
Because when guys reach puberty having sex becomes more important

guys bang you because you make it easy, not because you're attractive

when it comes to getting laid guys will usually take the path of least resistance

you don't have to be a sociologist to figure it out

>>17787149
My personality has gotten worse I think, I was such a sweet girl back then.

Either choice is the right one

A true hero would always help despite the consequences

>>17787147
Not sure which choice my conscience could live with. I feel as if I spent my whole life running.

>>17787136

I would help a stranger because I'd hope that the stranger would be willing to help me in that situation. Maybe once I help them they'll see that it's okay to help others. Maybe they'll come to my rescue when I need it the most.

Pay it forward.

No you're fine

T. Biochemist

According to WebMD youve been dead for 3 hours rip.

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You're fine. Sodium Hydroxide is a strong base. You inhaled it, it didn't even irritate your mucous membranes as it broke down into (wait for it)... Sodium, oxygen and monoatomic hydrogen.

It's the H20 you got to be careful with. Fish shit in it.

>>17787114

nah. people act like that for it to be 'love' it has to be noble, perfect, unconditional bullshit.

despite the fact that they NEVER react that way and are just saying it to sound mature. I'm a believer that there ARENT many different kinds of love, rather just many different kinds of people.

and people are conflicted. always. about everything. even if you know what you're going to order at mc donalds theres a tiny fringe part of you that wants the chicken nuggies instead of the big mac.

its actually been proven that your two halves of your brain are actually two compeltely seperate entities. if you severed your brain right down the middle, they would still operate fine with the rest of your body.

after doign this they performed experiments where they ask you to pick up papers with different colors and say 'pick your favorite color. one hand reached for one color, the other hand reached for the other.

because each side of your brain controls a idfferent hand and likes a different color. the part of your brain that can talk will make up a lie to rationalize this so you can try to understand it. something like 'i meant to only grab this one, but got confused'.

so that being said, even in relationships you are going to be conflicted.

you are going to be happy they are happy. at least a tiny bit. but you are still going to miss that person.

and even if you arent happy for them, you're still not an asshole. as long as you arent acting like an asshoel thats okay. go ahead and miss them. just try to get out of their lives and focus on your own.

>>17787139

Not op.

But shit man, that was a good read. Thanks

>>17787189

thanks man. it always feels nice to know someone enjoyed. sometimes you post advice all day and the closest you get to a response is 'bump'.

>>17787111

yes, just use the magical cheat code button duh thats what everyone else does xD

>>17787111
Yeah it's called moderation.

>>17787130
What would be considered moderation when it comes to smoking?

>>17787108
wear black clothing

>>17787108

im not sure how to teach you this. i love going places alone. i dont really get self conscious. if you can deconstruct that you might be fine.

you gotta rememberthat even if someone IS looking at you and thinking you're funny, it doesnt matter. in half an hour they forget and your life is the same as its always been.

i love going places alone. its calm.

>>17787120
that's the shittiest answer I had ever read on /adv/

wear dark outfit

let me bump this

well shit im alone

Do something else it's not too late

Don't ask me what just something

invest the money in bitcoins. invest the bitcoins in weed and lsd

>>17787073
Take it to your CUNA affiliated wealth manager at your credit union.

>>17787073
15k isn't enough to invest. Save it for a rainy day.

>>17787065
How often do you see each other? If you see each other often and have lots of sex, then that could be indicative of an addiction.

Why is a 23 year old girl dating a damn near 40 year old man? I get girls like older guys but this is ridiculous.

Also understand that this guy is only using you for sex....you two are in two completely life paths right now.

>>17787090
Yeah we pretty much are with each other constantly. Im kind of thinking you're right.