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How the fuck do you get your gf back when you fucked up and said strong things to her and ended it, we were in an LDR and I told her I didn't feel it was healthy for me. I regret it instantly. She said she still loved me but she couldn't forgive me and said everything happens for a reason. When I tried apologizing soon after. She said no and ive done almost 3 weeks of no contact. I just want her back lads.
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>>17791252
I dont want to lie to you, but that was gg. Lel pleb. It was a strong move, so it's understandable there'd be regret. Are you sure you won't regret if she takes you back but a fine ass bitch is giving you the hots 2 days later? Are you in college?
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>>17791272
Nigga I go straight home from work. Not much is going on with my life and she was a perfect, good girl. I truly fucked up.
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>>17791276
If you've been together for more than 6 months, it might still be salvageable with low chances. Fuck my man, its all the more difficult in a Ldr. You cant visit her casually if shes out of state, eh
Any other anon had similar situations?
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Gf just said she won't have sex anymore unless I start wearing condoms. This feels pretty stupid because we're each other's only sexual partner, and my sensitivity is so low I can fuck her until she becomes exhausted and then still have to jerk it for like two minutes nonstop before cumming. Also, because it's so low, condoms kill my feeling entirely and also my boner.
Should I just end my life at this very moment?
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>another circumcision thread
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So wear the fucking condoms or don't have sex. The fuck do you want from us?
I hate when guys try to pull this bullshit. If we don't want to fuck without a condom, then wear the thing or gtfo. Sex is about more than just you. If I'm not comfortable doing it without a condom then that's that.
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>>17791224
>says "sex is about more than just you"
>then proceeds to say immediately afterwards "If I'm not comfortable then that's that."
Yeah, definitely a woman.
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Any dating sites that are good? 2016-11-24 01:11:20 Post No.17791198
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Any dating sites that are good?
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Okcupid is filled with fat asses
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>filled with fat asses
you just described every dating site. If you're attractive go on Tinder. If you're not attractive then go outside and meet people the normal way.
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If you're resorting to online dating, you're not in a position to be picky. That obviously goes for everyone else too, but we're discussing your standards, not theirs.
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>>17791202
I'm in that weird middle area where I'm described as attractive by people in person but not the "holy shit" level needed for tinder
I'm sure as shit not fat and I'm sure as shit not ugly and I'm not gonna go with some landwhale
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Suffering from depression, anxiety and insomnia. 2016-11-24 01:10:04 Post No.17791197
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Suffering from depression, anxiety and insomnia.
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I don't know what advice I can be given at this point now. I am very tired and feel incredibly desperate right now. Makes me want to act out irrationally somewhat.
I can't seem to focus on small or bigger tasks and my anxiety gets insanely bad when my insomnia plays up. It's like I sleep but never hit that deep sleep, I've only recently been given medication and only the stronger sleeping tablets had the effect of letting me sleep for any period of time. And my memory fades making recollection even harder, it improves when I have periods of time to relax enough, though I've been on edge for over a month now and I can't quite think straight.
I need help but my tendency in the lower mood is to lash out and become very paranoid.
I have had a screwed up, messed up childhood and a poor adulthood. I carry around so much anger that I can feel it burn in my arms and muscles when I'm on edge.
I've been to group therapy and am taking medication but with the onset of insomnia, I'm getting worse not better.
While I was a kid I was bullied by my primary school teacher, and I became completely illiterate at a very young age. My memories of back then are very loose and I can only remember 3 or 4 things from my entire time at my first primary school.
I was abandoned by my father as a child as well, and later when I had the chance and reached out to him, he abandoned me again. That cold sensation numbs the spirit quite coldly.
I've also made bad decisions growing up and haven't had any financial help in anything I've endeavoured in. I feel trapped and honestly like a 'victim' not ironically. I do need help, but I don't know if I'm doing the right thing anymore.
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>>17791197
I feel ashamed doing this but I set up a gofundme trying to help myself out. Obviously, this is completely fruitless and nigh on impossible levels of wishful thinking.
I need money, but everyone needs money, I need time and I have roughly 2 years in the social machine of the government until I can start seeking alternate aid in its convoluted system. Honestly, I wish I could just win the lottery or have one of those bizarre lucky breaks in something.
Sorry if this depresses anyone, I'm just rambling borderline in tears at how pathetic I am as a human, especially now as I consider e-begging. I don't know if being self-aware is helpful and I'm doubting my own intentions. Sorry I just need to talk to someone, I think.
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I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel like I can't get it together, and I get angry at myself or my friends or family. I'm restless, and I can barely sleep at night. Just keep on moving, That's really the only thing we can do. I know this sounds like a fucking joke, but I got your back, OP.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLjelIPg3ys
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Don't need many words. Pretty much explains itself.
Rule 1:
Don't explain yourself. It only opens you up to attack.
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Rule 2: Always respect thyself. No one trusts someone who doesn't trust themselves.
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Rule 3: Accept the truths. This does not mean acknowledge all lies.
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4. Deny oneself. To become is to to succumb, is to annihilation.
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need girl advice, please. 2016-11-24 01:02:17 Post No.17791179
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need girl advice, please.
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I've probably posted on /adv/ 3 or 4 times in the last week about the same girl. I can't fucking wrap my head around how to think about her and it's really annoying at this point.
Anyway, she's my manager (she's 26, I'm 23) and gives off weird signals. I can't tell if she's actually interested in me, or if I'm just really full of myself and am reading things wrong.
Ok, well first, this is part of the reason I'm not sure about anything is that she's really friendly in general and is nice to just about everyone there, but to me she's said a few things that go a bit further than what she says to anyone else.
Once, she threatened me with a knife, asking how scared I'd be if she put it to my neck. Then a few days later, two of my coworkers who are dating were arguing and she was talking to me about how funny they are, and then asked "don't you think it'd be fun to work with someone you're dating?"
The other day I was in an off mood (hungover and I smoked weed before going in) and she said "hey anon :)" to me when I got to work. I didn't really respond and a bit later she said "hey anon :) hows your day going?"
Lately she's been talking to me about just random shit when before I had to start our conversations, but I'm pretty bad at carrying a conversation, but now she'll try to carry them even though I usually give brief responses
Also, she seems angry at me all the time. Yesterday she got mad at me for flipping the lights on and off saying "stop you're gonna give everyone a seizure" then pushed my hand. Then, after that, I was going kinda slow at work and she said "youd better hurry or I'm gonna beat you up"
I don't even have her phone number despite us working together for a while, so she might not be into me. I want to stop thinking about her, but at the same time if I ask her out and she says no then id need to see her every day
Please respond :(
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Just ask her out for a drink after work, if she says no then she said no, just live with it.
Do you want to live forever in maybeland?
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OP, that's a reasonable thing to worry about, thankfully I am here to help.
You are thinking about jumping face first into cold water, you need to get your feet wet first.
Before asking her out, scope out the situation...flirt with her a little, find out if she has a boyfriend, anything that will give you ammunition so you can properly go for the kill.
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>>17791185
kind of, I've been here all my life.
I read this thing that hunter thompson wrote, saying "those who wait will fall victim of circumstance" and I feel like that's whats gonna happen.
Every time I get close to actually asking her out, or an actual chance pops up, I just freeze. On most days, when I'm not thinking about any of that, I'm really comfortable around her.
But on days where I'm thinking "should I ask her out? should I do this?" I fall into a rabbit hole of "what ifs?" and just don't do anything.
I feel like all of this would be much easier if I just turned off my brain for a bit.
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I'm planning on going to a bar in a nearby city for the first time. I hear it's a good place to "meet new people" or whatever. I guess I have a better chance of meeting someone of the opposite gender there than in my room...
What should I do there? How should I act? What do people even do in bars?
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Drink, get drunk, talk to random girls, get rejected, get over it, talk to more girls
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>>17791212
wait, I can do that? Just spontaneously talk to girls I'm not previously acquainted with, and NOT get arrested for it on the spot??
Why don't more people go to these places??
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>>17791238
Well if you're not an obese ugly cuck, you can. Just be polite and know when to back off. And don't get shit faced drunk, just a slight buzz to get the tongue rolling is fine.
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Is 26 too old to start approaching girls?
I just started...is there any chance I still have time to meet the right girl?
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No.
Yes. 26 is still very young, keep your age in perspective.
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>>17791113
Sorry mate, if you didn't lose your virginity by age 13, and have at least 10 girls under your belt by the time you graduate high school, no girl on the planet will ever hold your hand after 18.
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>>17791121
can confirm. the 3 girls i've been with, all of which were after i turned 18, didn't exist
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How long do you have to be romantically involved someone to be in love with them and not just infatuated? I've been dating this girl for about three weeks now and I already have strong feelings for her. I'm ticking all the boxes to be beyond infatuation, but I feel like I'm taking my feelings too seriously.
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Idk what the standard time is, but I assume it's different for everyone. I still think 3 weeks is not enough to be sure of that yet.
Personally it took me 2 months to realize I loved her. But every now and then I'd question it to see if I'm right and I'd pass the test for 7 months from that point.
Then, 3 months ago, she just decided she doesn't love me anymore and that brings us to today.
How's your life going, anon?
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>>17791130
Sorry to hear that my nigga. Have you moved on yet?
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>>17791154
moving on is a meme. nobody moves on
that part of their soul just dies. and as it happens again and again, you're left with an empty husk of a human.
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Got new tires and an oil change and this happened. Never had anything like this happen before. Is this normal or is this guy like a stalker or something? He was pretty cute I guess
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Guys wtf. It's a simple question. Do you ever get texts like this from businesses? It looks like the guy's personal cell number
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>>17791034
Sounds like he's trying to talk to you. Most businesses would email before they text.
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Well I texted back and he said nothing so I guess it is just something they do. Lame.
When am I getting my own personal stalker? :(
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>1300 words in 2000 word essay
>literally out of ideas on what to write about
Fuck do I do now
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Bullshit
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Look for more sources to boost your argument maybe? What type of essay are you writing?
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>>17791014
Academic style essay on how chaucer and shakespeare challenged the ideologies of their era (renaissance/ medieval)
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>gf has yeast infection
>it's very weak but never goes away, even with treatment
>won't let me go down on her because she's afraid I'll get an oral thrush
>I'm her second bf and she is my first gf
>I never sucked a girl in my life
>her ex used to suck her regularly
>feel like shit about it
What do I do?
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>>17790995
She needs to see a gynecologist.
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>>17790996
She did. They made her use two different vaginal creams, an oral antifungal pill, and I tried making her boric acid capsules but none of that worked
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>>17790999
Tell her to stop fucking douching. It just makes everything worse.
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My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a very long time and about 2 weeks ago she blocked me and all my friends on Instagram and she claimed she got hacked and isn't making a new one since she never used it. We still talk about getting back together and thats our plane But when i go to see her account i can see that she added more pictures to her Insta i just cant see what. What does this mea? How do I know her posts aren't' with some other guys she doesn't want to know about.
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>>17790977
If I had to jump to conclusions, the most likely answer is that she's posting slutty photos and she thinks she can keep it "separate" from her actual social life. But I wouldn't recommend jumping to conclusions. Make a fake account, pretend to be a stranger, follow her, and see what she's posting
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I tried to make a fake account but she wont accept it.
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I have good Insta and Nice photos i could try to follow her and Post pics here? Want to give out her account name?
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Does anyone know of someone who would be into doing a anonymous email interview?
Re: my subject line, anyone with an interest in
Furries/Bondage etc.
Contact: [email protected]
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Well I'm a big furfag but I just fap to the porn, I don't actually go to conventions or anything.
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>>17790959
Would you know anyone who is interested
in the conventions & dresses up?
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>>17790964
make a thread on /trash/, tons of furfags there
though I have a feeling the vast majority of them there are like me, just interested in the porn and bizarre fetishes, not really interested in the community.
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>be me
>be 21
>be kissless virgin
>fall for the gf meme
>after some effort meet a girl who shares my interests on the internet
>talk with her a lot
>I find out she's diabetic since 8, but I keep dating her out of compassion
Fast forward 1 year:
>Her parents have no money
>She has to drop out
>Both parents over 60 yo and with poor health
>she has no friends, only me and her family
>have to start sending her money so they can pay their bills and food
>magnitude of her emotional problems is now evident
3 months later:
>situation still the same
>she came to "my" house and is living off my money
>she tries to find a job here so she doesn't depends on me
>no results to this day, she has no studies or skills
>she's also very clumsy, can't get most basic things right, can be frustrating as sometimes feels like I'm talking to a child
>she weights around 100kg, diabetes doesn't allows her to stay fit, she can faint while doing exercise
>I don't find her physically attractive anymore
>tell her lies when asked to keep her happy
>she is really needy, both phisically and emotionally, and sometimes gets irritable
>lie some more, and die inside a bit each time I do so
I'm now at the hospital, she fainted and hit herself on the head while she was coming back from a job interview, I've spent 9 hours on waiting rooms and I'm going to spend all night by her side.
I feel like the only reason I'm with her is to make her happy, but it has started to take a toll on my health and studies, I skipped classes to stay with her today. Even if she finds a job her health is terrible and visits to the hospital will be frequent and will increase over time, probably ending in a premature death.
I'm a cold bastard for thinking about leaving her? I'm not sure for how long I'll be able to take this, the only reason I haven't left her yet is I would emotionally destroy her.
What can I do?
Being a kv wasn't great, but it sure was much, much better compared to this.
Pic unrelated, a pizza we made
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>>17790945
Clearly you fell for the first piece of tang that rolled around.
Unfortunately you can't leave in a situation such as yours and not look like a selfish dick head. At this point in time your only option would be to 360 and keep walking.
>pic related OP in waiting room
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>>17791019
360? Do you mean 180?
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You're not cold at all. You're only fucking 21 and hold more responsibility than her and her parents combined, that's bullshit. I'll be 21 next April and you know what my life is fucking life? I make over $20 an hour, smoke weed all day, party with my friends at least twice a week, have endless supply of alcohol for whenever I want, eat whatever the fuck I want, make music in my free time, work out whenever I want, etc. You can keep this shit up for what, five years at best? You know you can't do this your whole life. Do you really want to marry this woman or make her a mother?