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Hey guys, I've heard of this website from a friend and wanted to check it out! From what I can see it's an image forum with boards to talk about specific themes of subjects... Is there a board about survival and beefing it out in the wild?
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>>17788215
Guck off tyrone
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>>17788234
Also, maybe consider >>>/an/ >>>/k/ >>/diy/ and perhaps >>>/x/
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I'm an 18 year old virgin and never had a girlfriend. I can't even talk to a girl without having a panic attack because of social anxiety. I also have no friends. Does life get better or should I end it?
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You're stil a child. It gets better, trust me
...after 30
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>>17788205
It will get better if you become better.
Rule number 1 in life: Women are passive lazy fatasses who are not gonna make a single move EVEN if they fancy you.
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>>17788205
Protip...its not social anxiety, its a regular response everybody has thats not a total Chad. Its fear of rejection coupled with insecurities and anxiety. You must overcome this to get the pussy. The sooner you face this barage of feelings, the sooner you will learn strategies to overcome it. Man up, go face your fears. And good luck young padawan, I wish someone had told me this when I was your age.
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How can you help someone that's depressed?
Obviously not like say something and they'll instantly and forever feel better. What can I do to alleviate their depression and put them on the right path to feeling better?
(it's related to bf breaking up and being a manipulative shitlord)
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Listen to them, don't try to give unwarranted advice or tell them "you'll feel better eventually". Just be there as a kind shoulder to cry on and accept them for how they are now.
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>>17788133
This isn't about me either, it's for someone I know
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Easy to say and even to do, harder to make them notice. If you can't tell them it will be better or give advice, how do you make them see you're actually listening and they're not ranting before a wall.
I'm not OP by the way.
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Is it bad the first thing I think of when I see a girl my age is "does she have good genetics?"
I think I care more about our potential kids than girls themselves.
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Yeah, thats kinda creepy. You don't care about people or their feelings, she's nothing more than an incubator for your spawn.
I'd suggest talking to someone about that, because you're not likely to even have any offspring if thats all you think about or is the most important thing about your relationship, and you certainly will not be a good parent.
You might grow out of it too.
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>>17788117
If kids are important to your future plans, then this is a valid concern and there's nothing wrong with it.
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>>17788117
I'm a girl and... I mean, the thought crosses my mind when I like someone... but that's just because I REALLY am into genetics, they're cool as shit.
So I mean, if this is just a passing thought, you're cool, no worries. But if this is your o n l y thought when you like someone, perhaps you're interested in women for ah... more unconventional reasons? Don't know how well that go for you in a real relationship.
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mom got me an interview at safeway. any advice
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>>17788097
Stay safe!
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>>17788100
first interview
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Don't use slang dress professional have good posture should be a cakewalk to management
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There's this guy at work who's being a dick.
He was walking by the hand washing basin and said goodbye to everybody, individually, except me. Then he went over to some new guy and bragged about excluding me, then made a sound effect like he was punching something, though I can't possibly imagine what that thing would be.
I'm the bosses son, so this puts me in a bit of a pickle. I'm not sure if I should be a dick back, or pretend it never happened. If I ignore it, I look weak, but this particular situation blows over quickly, and vice versa if I confront him.
For the record, I wasn't a dick to him at all. I'm really confused as to why he would do this, but it's not the first time hes just decided to be a faggot for no reason. He's just unstable. And although I have the power to hire and fire, we need someone running his cell right now, and this isn't the type of job where you can just pick a random person to do what he does.
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>>17788023
Maybe sit on it, act aloof, be short, and find his replacement?
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Start interviewing for his replacement when you find one fire him or just let it go. douche bags gonna douche
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>>17788023
You're in a position of responsibility. Act like it. Hardly matters how unprofessional some shitlord decides he wants to be.
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Not really sure where to start, but I want to fuck my coworker. For background he's in his 40s (Maybe? I'm not super good at guessing age, but around there) and I'm 18. He's also one of the managers but not my manager specifically.
I've been working there for a couple of months and we've started to get more friendly with each other but nothing OTT - he's still nicer to all our other coworkers than me because they've all been working together longer.
I haven't seen a wedding band on his finger but I have no idea if he has a girlfriend or kids or anything. To be honest he seems like the type of guy to just go to work and go home and sit in his loungeroom and do nothing until he has work again, sort of a no-lifer.
Of course I could be totally wrong but that's just the vibe he gives off.
So where do I go from here? Should I ask him if he has a partner? Can you just casually do that? What sort of repercussions would there be at work if he rejects me? Would I get fired?
Any advice about how to go about this would be appreciated
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You're an 18 yr old girl getting laid will never be this easy for anyone in human history.
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>>17787992
But I don't know how to go about it, I've never had to approach anyone like this before
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>>17788043
Welcome to what it's like to be a man every time you want to get laid you have to go through this every single time
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Hey anons, how do you deal with loneliness?
I'm not talking crippling depression loneliness. I have ways of countering my own anxiety there. I'm on college campus right now and as of 15 minutes ago I'm the last guy in a 9 person "apartment" who hasn't left for thanksgiving. I generally like my privacy, but I get this overall creepy, sad, out of place feeling knowing my friends and roommates aren't around. The unusual quiet of it all, you know?
Maybe I don't need advice. Maybe I just need someone to talk to. I'm not sure. How's your evening, /adv/?
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>lonely because muh friends arent around
#normie problems
Throw yourself out of a window
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>>17787897
>but I get this overall creepy, sad, out of place feeling knowing my friends and roommates aren't around. The unusual quiet of it all, you know?
I love that feeling, there's nothing better than being the last person at an event or place. You feel like everyone has moved past you and you're all alone but somehow it's quite cathartic.
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My evenings going well, OP.
I get what you're feeling, man. I'm an international student, so I never get the chance to go back home when most everyone else can.
I kinda use the time to do constructive things. I like to write comics, fix earlier works, get ahead on some final paper, watch movies or read comics I've been meaning to get to for a while, maybe go walk around campus and hit the places that are normally super busy. Generally, my experience is that the loneliness comes before the event and when the dreaded lonely time is here, I figure something or the other to do (that is if I'm not feeling clinically depressed at the time).
Any movies, TV shows, etc you've been meaning to check out?
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Hey
I don't know much about this webside but i found out about the advice sektion and now i gotta get some of you.
My current situation is the following :
I'm an 18 year old Boy and my life Situation is good as far as i know which means, school is going good i have an awesome family, a nice gf and a Lot of friends who like me for who I am but recently I just feel like life is going on without me. It doesn't matter what I do life will go on in an linear line that I can't change and I feel like im doing nothing productive and my life will become meaningless. So had anyone of you same feelings OR an advice too change this feeling?
Peace and love
A friend of kevin
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Despite this being the advice section, it might not actually be the right place for this question. I think heading over to /b/ might be a lot more educational desu.
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>>17787878
>so has anyone of you same feelings
yes, you and a billion other young white men. this is what happens when you get handed everything you want in life.
you'll probably go on a year-long vacation, backpacking around the globe to "find yourself" or something stupid like that.
here's a tip: life is already inherently meaningless.
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Friendly reminder that I'm not even white ;}
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Sup.
I know this girl and her dad. He's a pretty hard working man so he almost doesn't get any rest. He has this kind of personality where he loves to tell people what to do and asks too much of himself. Sometimes I have to yell at him so he stops blaming himself for not doing a perfect job at a specific time when it's not strictly necessary.
Then there's me, a little bit more carefree and perhaps a bit too calm / slow, I'm not too much into discussions and I had an awful past with people so I often don't understand how to react to specific situations.
Then there's his daughter which is not as strict. She's 20 and having some trouble with her studies. She keeps failing a bit but she doesn't give up. As she doesn't take the same approach and wants some time for herself, he keeps scolding her all the time. There's a party she wanted to invite me to but apparently she's doing not good enough that she can have it. Her dad stepped in to pretty much hammer the idea into her head that she has to spend every single bit of time she has to work hard and study without questions.
Now I understand a few things:
1. I can't fully grasp how the relationship between both of em is so I can't have a say.
2. Having said that, my reaction is not to even say a word when they're fighting. I even try to avoid giving my opinion on the subject.
3. Many kids are overnurtured. I get it. Sometimes you would need a father figure to remind you of your priorities in life instead of being lazy or a crybaby. In my case I'm not proud of myself, I have been somewhat nurtured as well, then left to do as I pleased which didn't get me enough experience to deal with things, then stepped into reality and wanted to learn every single thing in my fucking 20s. All that I lost in my teenage years. So it has become somewhat difficult to handle the various kinds of people I encounter.
So now I'm wondering, am I right in thinking he's still being too harsh? That it can go wrong because of his attitude?
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Due wtf even is this are trying to bang the daughter or something who cares how this man parents his child
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They're both friends. I see them fighting over and over about the same subjects, so I'm actually worried about them. Like I said I don't really have the experience so I'm not sure whether this is a thing that I have to just ignore every single time or of I can actually help.
Mainly because while I'm fairly respected I'm still looked at like I have a weird reaction to certain situations that's either unexpected or funny. Not 2 years ago I was friends with a couple which hit each other pretty regularly and I was "supposed" to act as though it was a normal thing that I shouldn't mind, but nowadays they're in a very weird position and I guess if you go with that day by day, it gets irritating even for them.
So basically this question is more about me just overreacting or actually thinking right about the subject. I wouldn't care about how someone parents their child, but if I saw something like what my parents went through (they've been separated for a while) I tend to react as if I should actually give a shit.
Excuse the fact that I posted this garbage here, I just came here from a pretty uncomfortable hour of listening to shit and trying to figure out what is exactly wrong with -me-.
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How old are you? Do you have you're own kids? Are you a kid?
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Two months ago, my mom passed away. This was a very sudden and completely unexpected event. Within a week, my dad states his intention to find a new woman. (Before the memorial service) At the service, he's with two women in the front row in which the rest of our family is not allowed to sit at. A week later, he already has a few dating site profiles.
My sister also passed away the same week my mom did. My mom wanted to make sure that she got all the family jewelry back from the guy she was staying at because, well, he's a piece of shit that killed his previous child and got away with it. (While the police had their hands tied on the case, they still fucked him very good and is known to most officers in the city and they all want him dead.) So, it was on my dad to get back the stuff and to protect her two year old from the drugs the father sells.
Except that my dad has made literally no effort on that. Said all this stuff about how he's going to get back the valuable remains so they won't be pawned and how he'll take the child and have his mom adopt him, which she eagerly wanted to do. Not only that, but he also said I was going to "inherent" my sisters car, which I desperately fucking need.
Nope, none of that has happened. My dad is now keeping the car, which not only fucks me but the cousin I was going to sell my almost broke down car to. My dad's not producing a will and keeping every cent of life insurance he can. He also says he's "scared" of my nephews father, which is a total fucking farce because the dude has ran from my dad on a number of occasions out of fear. I feel my dad just doesn't give a fuck about the child or my sister's memories or my mom's memories. After all, he did cheat on my mom earlier this year.
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A couple of weeks go by and my dad is showing me pictures of women he's trying to take out on dates. I feel that while he can do whatever he wants, and is clearly doing so, that he's pushing it on me way too fucking soon. He's already gone on four dates and I'm not even sure if a woman would ever want to date a man that just lost his wife and all the baggage that comes with it unless she's a gold digger, which brings me to my next concern. My dad is a fucking idiot when it comes to trusting people and money.
He's lost thousands and thousands of dollars in desperate times just because he thought the money was safe out in the open. He's also telling me that I need to start buying his groceries since he's got to "tighten his belt". He hasn't sold any of his ten vehicles, which with the interest on the one's he's still paying comes out to about 250k left he hast to pay. I feel he's making me subsidize his fiscal irresponsibility. I also feel that whatever woman he chooses to marry will inherent everything if he were to pass, meaning that the houses and cars and everything else goes to some other fucking family. He'd probably be proud of himself, too, since he does that when he can make my life any bit harder in any fashion. (something he's been telling me for years, "If I can make your life a living hell, that's a good thing. It's good for character.) The cherry on top is that the house we live in was paid for with money from my mom's mom that was intended to go to me and my sister. My mom is a big push over so my dad took the money to buy the house since he didn't want to deal with the HOA at the old house, though, she did say that if she were alive, that my cut of the house was guaranteed. I get no cut now, which is a big fucking wrench in my life plans, since that was a decent five figures I was to get in the next three years.
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Should I feel bad for wanting to disown my father? Should I go ahead and do that? I really don't want this person in my life, and the only reason why I stayed in this house was to help take care of my mom.
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>>17787868
Man up, talk to him about these concerns and more importantly tell him to get a fucking grip. It's quite possible that these are side-effects of his grief and he might be more upset than you think. Nevertheless, what he's doing is unacceptable and if he still refuses to see the light after you've sincerely and truthfully voiced your concerns it's time for you to make the cut and remove him from your life.
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Great dishes for when you´re dieting
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I am having the girl that I am currently seeing coming over tomorrow for lunch. She is dieting, and I wanted to make a good meal for her, nothing too heavy. Do you have any recommendations?
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You'd have to ask her what her diet is. Is she doing one of those special ones where you cut out certain foods or just calorie counting?
Why aren't you asking her?
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chicken or fish
rice pilaf or roasted potatoes
steamed vegetables
bonus
sugar free pudding for dessert
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>>17787866
>sugar free pudding for dessert
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This guy I know is a real bipolar backstabbing scumbag who cheats on his wife and copes by accusing her of being a cheater. His wife literally hates him and hes paranoid shes trying to screw him over.
I want to fuck with him by signing up for feminist literature, advise for verbally abused women and advice for women seeking divorce to be sent to their mail box.
All of the places I have seen so far just offer email. Does anyone know where to look to find a place that will send this kind of information via postal service?
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Just fuck his wife and text him the pictures.
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Leave the guy alone.
Put your efforts in to something that benefits you rather than just a laugh.
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Why do you care about this man or his wife? Is this a family thing?
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Hey /adv/, I'm having lady troubles.
So, during the summer, I've discovered I have more than platonic feelings for a girl friend of mine (let's call her Linda) that I've been hanging out with during our time in Uni. Two years ago she started dating a guy from our Uni and we've started hanging out together. I would always go by her house where they practically lived together to play vidya/chat/party and sometimes sleep there as well. Also I was in a relationship myself at the time so I never stopped to think if I was attracted to her. Before summer I broke up with my on and off girlfriend and started working at the city I was studying. Linda was working there as well and since I was basically living there for the better part of the day, she told me I should move in for the summer so we wouldn't feel lonely. Her bf didnt find a job so he went back to his parents' house for the summer, waiting for the exams season. At some point during my stay there, she had come back from work worn out, so I offered to give her a massage. Told her to lie face down and take her shirt off. She did, I started rubbing, and at some point I told her to turn over so I could massage on the front too. She did, I massaged her boobs (a lot), her feet and the upper-inner part of her thighs. After a while she told me she had to go to the bathroom and I was sure she got wet, because I didn't hear the toilet flush. I continued massaging her, her bf called and she didnt tell him anything about what we were doing. After a while I stopped and we started watching a tv series we both liked. This happened a few times after that, but I am not sure if she was just feeling comfortable enough (i.e. she had me friendzoned) to let me or she is somewhat interested as well (inb4 omega-fag). Keep in mind we've always been close, but since we moved back to our city we started going out together and stuff. Some time ago I happened to sleep at her parents' house. (cont)
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While there, we started talking about her relationship with her bf. Since he lives in another city right now they are having a long distance relationship until he or she decides to go to ther other's city. She told me that she felt like shit now that she couldn't see him so easily, but when she is with him she feels (quote) invincible and that she is in love with him. At some point, while we were watching a movie, I started pinching and biting her playfully, as I always do. She wrapped her hand around my neck and we continued watching the movie, all the while giving occasional kisses to each other (me on her hands, Linda on my head) and holding hands. At some point I leaned my head back, grabbed her head and started kissing her face wherever (but being the biggest pussy on this half of the earth) I didn't try kissing her mouth. This continued for another movie, then we decided to go to bed. She also told me that on february she will be going to her bfs city for a training seminar for a job she applied and she will be gone for a couple of months. We will be seeing each other a lot until then, since we will be doing our thesis together. What do you say about this situation /adv/? What do I do? Should I tell her how I feel about her before she goes away or I do keep my mouth shut and just find another girl?
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She said explicitly that she loves her boyfriend which means she doesn't want to take it any further.
You should still tell her if you're serious about her and just move on from there. Try to set the mood so you can just lean in for a kiss and them tell her or something
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yeah, i can understand that, but it seems to me that we are much more intimate than what a single guy and a girl on a relationship would be, even if we are friends.
I mean, are there really girls who would let their friends rub them wherever and not tell their boyfriend after that?
Either I understand women a lot less than I thought I did, or there may be something there.
A year ago I met a guy online. After speaking on line for a couple of months we started dating and a long 9 months later we met when I flew to his city. We spent a week together and he seemed off... A day after I flew back home, he broke up with me. He had apparently been speaking to his ex, realised he still loves her and that's why he was being weird. But they never got back together so I don't think it's the real reason he left me. He insisted that we stay friends... and he suggested that when I visit family who live in the same city as him that we hook-up.
Now yeah, I know this is not the best choice... But I'm kinda hung up on the guy. Every now and then I tell him that I don't want to speak to him and then a week goes by, I'll be feeling fine again... And the he'll message me. We shamelessly flirt and then he'll have a date, and it leaves me feeling like I did fresh after the break up. Why does he do this? I've told him that it hurts and that's why I don't want to talk to him, but he keeps coming back.
But now there is another issue. During our relationship, I became friends with one of his friends, this dude... This dude is lonely AF. Clingy, depressed always ass kissing. He asked if I would ever date him and I didn't wanna be like " fuck no, you are annoying " so I said " yeah, if we met under different circumstances who knows, but I'm dating your friend" so he was all " I'll be your back up boyfriend"
Being the complete idiot I am, I fully believed that I would be with my ex forever so I agreed to the back up thing.
As soon as my ex left me, this dude was calling me, texting me, being over supportive. A week later he assumes we are dating, 3 months later he's talking about seeing me and proposing. He's a nice guy, but the thought of dating him makes me want to kill myself.
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Cont.
While I lie on my bed, listening to sad music, depressed that my ex is somewhere out there probably fucking some chick. His friend texts me " Hey Hun, what are you up to? (emoji emoji). I miss you. Can't wait to see you! ( fucking smirk emoji)" I look at my phone, I see its him and mutter " fuck off ass kissing cunt" I literally avoid whatapp for days because I don't want to deal with this guy.
But at the end, he's offering me a relationship, right? He's been supportive, caring, a really nice guy. But I want to punch him in the throat. But my ex... I want that.
Why do girls like assholes? I should probably just end it all. LostAllHope ... My dear old friend.
Not sure where I was going with this post. But I do kinda feel better.
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Stop seeing this guy there are plenty of others out there that are actually near you. Try to remember that Internet relationships are 90 percent bullshit
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wimmin like asshole guys cause they're confident and know how to manipulate girls (whether purposely or not)
Anyway consider things over with your ex and that dude. Just tell him to fuck off. No better way to make a point than being direct with it.
Stick with irl relationships. Online does not work.