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>>17809088
Claimed in the name of the Inquisition of Pegasus

to all da grillz, how much of a turn off is it if a guy has an apartment that is only marginally bigger than a shoebox apartment?

and also how much of a turn off is phimosis (to the extent where the foreskin can't be pulled back past the head at all. maybe 1 to 3mm diameter)

the 3 girls that have seen my dick didn't seem to mind/care, still very down to fuck.

Girls, how would you feel if your bf had a strong fetish for female body odor. Not like rancid pussy. Just normal day or two without washing. Would you accommdate this in any way?

Tell her you've been thinking about what she said and ask her why she feels that way. Do it the next time you see her.

I wouldn't worry about offending her. This is a pretty big deal and if you guys can't talk openly about this your relationship probably isn't going anywhere anyway.

Hey anon; mind if I ask what country you're from?

I went through the exact same thing- four months later we were having sex, and six months after that when we broke up she was really bitter that we had sex then i lost my feelings for her and it made breaking up even messier.

IMHO just get out while you can, or if you wanna give her a chance tell her you're not comfortable with a platonic relationship.

>>17808481
United States. Arizona specifically.

Why did you lose your feelings for her?

>>17808469
It's close to finals week here and I don't want to bog her down with relationship shit while she's stressing over that so I was going to do it at least after the semester is over.

>>17806913
Move on and find someone else.
Gonna need details if you want better advice, like all the red flags you missed.

Would it have been OK if he used a condom?

>>17806913

I'd say get some, "Me" time. Preferably away from home. Go spend some time with family, or whatever. It is the season. It'll give you some time to let things sink in, while at the same time let you get away from it all.

I'd say don't be afraid to process your emotions. It's not wrong to be angry, it's not wrong to be upset, it's not wrong to be sad, nor is it wrong to remember past memories fondly.

It can be confusing to find that somebody you were so close to didn't feel the same, or wasn't as close to you as you'd thought. So, you just need to ask yourself why you're feeling what you are feeling, and untangle your emotions. Verbalize it, and come to terms with the reality of it all.

It's easy to blame ourselves, but we have to realize that as many mistakes as we may make, others may make just as many or more. You did what you thought was right, and your fiance wasn't satisfied but never thought to speak with you and handle things properly.

The reality of it is that you two just weren't right for each other at the time.

I'm sorry to hear about this, it really sucks. I mean, you hear about it all the time, but you think it's just the media exaggerating things. Then it happens to you, and it's crushing. The only thing we can do is keep walking. Keep hoping. Remember than we can love, and can be happy rather than think about how we can also be sad.

taking a fat shit atm wbu

>>17804657
( * ∨ * ) or ( ・ ∨ ・ )

which one looks more booby?

Starting to get worried now. Usually she doesn't take this long to reply to an opening message. Sent it 18 hrs ago. Nothing yet (Only took this long once before @ 25hrs)

Hoping nothing bad happened to her. I last spoke to her Friday, and she said she was coming back up to NY that day. Hoping that she didnt end up in the hospital or anything

>>17811592
You'll get an overwhelming amount of responses along the lines of "online relationships aren't real relationships" "it's a waste of time" "how can you love someone when you aren't dating them in person" etc etc. Yes, if you're far away from them, it can be really fucking difficult. But it can work, and it has for many people. Just remember...

-Communication. Talk as often as possible, but don't suffocate each other.
-Visit as much as you can.
-Have an end date. This is critical. If you don't have any sort of plans to close distance between you two and have a real relationship, it's not going to work.

>>17811618

>have an end date

this is the most important thing anon. otherwise all you're doing is role playing that you're in a relationship.

and even then its no guarantee. you could meet irl and find that its just not as nice as it seemed online.

one thing you have to ask is what makes this person special? are they actually special to you, or was dating someone online your literal only option?

you know its real when you turned down someone IRL because soemone online meant more. in that order though, not turning down soemone IRL because someone online was technically ur gf.

big dif.

Had one. If the girl hadn't been all sorts of crazy it wouldn't have been worthwhile. I'm talking 5-7 split personalities. Was fun.

They call those things nickels, they're worth 5 cents

A few bucks,
if the bull is missing one of its hind legs it is worth around 1,500.

>>17811563
Could I realistically remove one of the legs?

Apparently there are online communities, but I can't seem find the right ones. I think living in a big city helps.

>>17811536
Fetlife is one. Is it as simple as going to a "munch" and introducing yourself to people?

I live in a major east coast city.

>>17811528
I live in the middle of nowhere and I just messaged every girl in my area that was into kitten play

I have meetup on Sunday with her

Fetlife is the shit if you aren't retarded

Unless you're planning to go for a PhD it literally doesn't matter as long as you graduate

>>17811431
You are past the withdrawal period unless you can have it excused as a hardship withdrawal.

Yes, it's better to withdraw if you are guaranteed to fail the class. That being said, you should talk to the Professor and see if you can work something out. Explain your current situation and how it's impossible for you to pass with your current grade, and they may help you out.

>>17811418
What's the paper for?

This is a terrible idea any school with any credibility has the program where they scan the doc and it searches the internet for plagiarism the world isn't like the 90s anymore

>>17811428
Not op, in the modern era the best paper writing services actually create a unique paper for you rather than database combing for prefab ones.

>>17811406
If you only had one prior job on your CV, they'll check with that one job, i.e. call your father.

>>17811406
Why would you do that? What would you think about someone you caught lying about previous work experience if you were a HR guy?

>>17811406
Why don't you work on your father's business?

A shameless yet bold self bump

>Is the thought "girlfriend = happiness" correct?
no


>How do I delete the thought that only a romantic relationship would make me happy?

try one

>>17811399
this
>>17811395
why are you so cringey

>>17811337
Turn to hanging out and doing stuff with friends more

Take up an activity you love, like a sport or a physical activities

Find other guys

>>17811337
Trust issues aren't the end of the world, they do make things harder though. You'll want somebody with patience. Take your time to vet out guys, separate people who are kind (not "nice") from orbiters.

>>17811381
Best way you can spite somebody like him is by being the best person you can be. They will never have that person.

>>17811381
My trust issues makes it hard for me to find other guys and I'm not a one night stand kind of girl.

I do fun stuff and don't think about it then but before I sleep I just think about it and spin scenarios in my head and literary wanna ruin his life

.>>17811388
Yeah I mean he did cry and wanted me back and now I'm living better than ever and all. I just can't get over the fucking hate.

Listen man its perfectly normal to not understand this kind of stuff however if you're old enough to post here it is beyond unacceptable to not know these things

>>17811239
Get your mom to dress you

>>17811251
I thought I handle things well. Like firm handshake, please, thank you. Took notes. Copy of my resume on hand. Looked up company history. I asked about the position I would be qualified for, what a typical day was, anything i could prepare myself with should I get a call from them. I thanked the greeter on my way out. Like I though I nailed it.

Now I'm getting this news about how I'm a social retard. I'm gonna be nervous as fuck in 3 weeks.

Some people cant handle the taste. Make you up a peanut butter and shroom sandwich, wash it down wish Pepsi or Coke.
When experimenting with drugs, always do research. Read the good, bad, ugly and fun. Youll happen on scary stuff, but dont let it discourage you. Just know what youre getting into first

>>17811206
break a stem open, notice the ratio of blue coloration to non blue coloration. this is indicative of potency. the whole "caps are stronger" thing is a myth. if the mushrooms are strong, a gram should be plenty. if they are not, 1.7-2.5 should be plenty. i have consumed mushrooms that sent me to the moon off of less than one gram.

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>>17811213
>>17811218
OP here, I'm 347lbs, should I be taking more than average or does weight not matter?

>>17811106

we dont know you so we dont know if you're normal fag enough or if she wants a normal fag.

for most people, romance is quick. tmost people dont realize it becuase they are co dependent. the first few weeks are fun. the first few months are okay. then its super fucking boring.

she probably saw you as a summer fling, and is ready to move on.

>talk to me yet
>YET

she isnt going to talk to you. this wasnt a temporary break up.

>>17811112
So you saying that getting her back at this point is not going to happen?

>>17811123

definitely not. i wasnt there so i cant say for sure. if you want her, go up to her and say you miss her and see what happens.

but its pretty likely to end in heart break for you. id move on.