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>>17810084
>But on the other hand why the fuck do you have to show your ass to a few hundred random strangers?

For attention. It's up to you if you want this kind of girlfriend.

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>>17810084

>Am I just being a possessive asshole or is this crossing the line?

She's into raves. People at raves dress skimpy and ridiculously. Its apart of the culture, for whatever reason. If your girlfriend is dressing like this just for fun, you trust her and she isn't off hitting on other guys then I don't get why it would upset you. I mean, it wouldn't upset me. Thats just me, personally.

Other people seeing your girlfriend's buttcheeks doesn't make her any less your girlfriend. There'a million girls at these festivals dressed in fairy costumes and push up bras. Its the thing. Like I said, I don't get it, but it is what it is.

Its a kid thing and she'll eventually grow out of it but for now she's hot, she likes to dance and have fun with a bunch of drugged up faggots.

Either accept her for what she is or move on to someone with more reserved, well clothed hobbies.

>>17810088
She's a bad ass. Has helped more than anything. And I intend to marry the fuck out of her. She claims it's because it gets so fucking hot there. Which I guess I understand. But holy fuck. A thong and a bra?

>>17810046
End of the world without one*

This isnt something you just spring on someone. Stuff like a safety word is important for a reason.

>>17810059
She told me she's into this stuff though. Of course you have to gauge the mood beforehand, but how exactly do you rape-play while not forcing it?

>>17810044
Checked.

How old are you both?

>>17810052
We're both 26 and we've both been in long term relationships before. Her last bf apparently cheated on her which might explain her actions. I haven't really asked too many details.

>>17810058
26? See if she was younger I would say that she's discovering who she is. But she might just be a lazy person deep down. There's plenty of people who don't have any creative hobbies my man. It's up to you if you want that in your woman. The unfulfilling job and the lack of a desire to change it though is a huge red flag for me.

Google borderline

>>17810028
then stop hating youself.

>>17810028
Do you expect us to believe that?

>>17810013
What 3rd world shithole are you in that it takes that long to get an ultrasound? Why not get a mammogram?

>>17810017
UK

>>17810024
LONDON
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>>17810010
Interpretive dance

>>17810010
Smoke signals

>>17810012
>>17810018
I wish I knew how to do that. normalfag here

>>17809979
Women who didn't want to go through with a pregnancy would have the option of you fishing it out.

>>17809979
Has nobody on 4chan ever heard of Google?

I just googled "abortions el salvador" and found dozens of reports on the legal ban and on people fighting it.

Did trying that REALLY never occur to you?

>>17809979
>locking carabiner
>somehow ending up in a stupid circumstance like this
What did they mean by this?

>>17809967
Did you lose a bet or something?

To an answer like that. Not particular.

If you ever felt held hostage forever. What would you do to them to let you be free? In reality you can't. So I thought of myself to say. I'll even suck they're penis to be free....

It's the reality I need to let go since it is comming to me .

I'd be a fool..but....

I know that this sounds funny XD

but it's serious....

I've been having issues since 4 years.

Is having homosexual urges to break free normal??

>>17809966
Just don't do their jobs

Work at your own pace. If things don't get done on time they're not firing the person who does their job?

Join a gym and start lifting.

Stop being a bitch, they were never your friends. Move on only deal with them professionally. Document it if they harass you about doing their work.

Don't say no or don't be rude just brush things off like 'yeah I'll get around to it' or 'Just a second man'

Then keep doing what you were doing.

>>17809966
what if you refuse to do the extra work thats clearly too much for you to handle?

>>17809966
>>17809986
Just pretty much what they're doing

Even if they're right in front of you don't give them your full attention. You're your own head honcho.

fuck no. just dont spend the money, download it for free. sure get a high dollar onahole. the question is

ARE you a bad enough motherfucker to do all that AND fuck bitches???

>>17810026
Cmon, you know internet doujinshi isn't the same.

(That's oddly poignant otherwise tho)

>>17810273
you are right

[thanks]

>>17809927

What's wrong OP?

well. give us more info. How long have you been dating , how old are you all, why do you think its ending.

>>17809934
>>17809935
To be honest I think it just might be me being self conscious about losing her. I love this girl to death and I'd do anything for her. We've been going out for a year and two months. Both been faithful to each other but recently things haven't really been too good. I understand a relationship isn't supposed to be argument free and all but recently we've been getting in to a lot of bad arguments where we both just end up verbally abusing each other and on her part she would basically be playing with my feelings by saying she's going to go cheat on me or that she doesn't love me etc. she pretty much has me at the Palm of her hand and uses that power against me atleast half the time we get in a bad argument

>>17809868
learn to use punctuation. I'm prone to stream of consciousness type writing when on the internet too, but holy shit dude. that's an entire paragraph with zero punctuation.

>>17809876
sorry i never use punctuation on the inernet

>>17809892
You should fuck off until you start. Nobody is going to read a vomited mess of text.

won't let me delete my thread. Oh well

Itll be ok man. What kind of job is it?

>>17809862
tough it out ,you will get there in the end , focus on work and your responsibilities , theres bound to be something you have in common with the people around you , start by asking people about their weekends and stuff , people like to talk so give them a chance to . if you looked at me you would probably think i'm a normie til you got to know me

transfer student too btw

>>17809853
>2.75

How?

>>17809859
got master tier in league lmao so worth?

>>17809827
Help with what? In a few weeks you probably wont be able to remember exactly what they looked like

>>17809827
I've had dreams of having an intense connection with an individual that doesn't exist. It felt amazing and so intense. I kept thinking about her after I woke up, even hoped to see her again and continue this in a lucid dream if I could get one.

While I didn't forget about her, the feeling just went away. I don't really care about the dream anymore but it was a cool experience. It was only one dream because I didn't succeed in seeing her again.

It makes me sad to know that people out there feel the way you do. I don't have much advice but don't feel bad and don't feel lonely. The atmosphere/feelings from the dream were with me for a day or few, but they eventually disappeared so same will probably happen for you.

>>17809855
Love is about more than looks, anon

>>17809866
>cool experience
>don't feel bad and don't feel lonely
ye, ur right anon. I am amazed that firstly it's possible but secondly that it's not a unique phenomena then again nothing is

Rationally, of course, I can recognize that it's ridiculous and already details of the dream are fading, though part of me wishes I could have preserved it

Allow me to put it another way: it's as if my mind created and introduced me to the "perfect" person for me to fall in love with, and it's the knowledge that I will never meet such a person as they literally do not exist which is devastating.

Maybe a decade or so I had a similar dream with an incredibly rare (vinyl) record, which again, when I woke up didn't exist.

Objects of desire and the loss thereof