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as a fembot, im crying now

OP probably gets zero pussy.

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>>17810631
Really hurt my fee fees, weakling

>>17810614
Just imagine for a second that they are people and treat them accordingly.

>>17810629
No I get it, but your suppose to treat girls differently. In a nicer sense then a guy I thought

>>17810663
Not really. Obviously you need to slightly alter your approach to every person but that goes to boy and girls the same.

Your 30 year old married friend probably doesn't want to hear about your jerking off to your waifu, whether it's a he or she, while your 20 year old one friend, might find it interesting. At the same time, talking about politics with an 18 year old will be a pain, again, whether it's a girl or a boy.

Why the fuck would you treat the girls nicer?

>>17810605
Why?

>>17810624
Maybe he wants the mom and the daughter haha

>>17810624

Cause single moms get it. They've been there you know.

>>17810601

You missed your chance and are retarded.

Yeah, what the fuck is going on?

>>17810611
What is going on is that you know you missed your chance and are retarded.

Psychology is a loose science. Most people probably get "fixed" simply because they believe that they have that problem and go through the steps that supposedly fixes it.

>according to psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud

Freud is important from a historical perspective and his work still have an impact to this day. But that being said; psychoanalysis is a psudoscience that is not taken seriously by the broader field of psychology.

No one will ever diagnose you with regression (not even a psychoanalyst, he'll just pocket your money and let you ramble on about your parents).

>>17810668
>>17810684
Then what is wrong with me?

>>17810435

If she broke up with you because she didn't love you anymore then I highly doubt she will come running back just because you have someone new. If you're dating someone new JUST to get back at her or in hopes of her finding out so she might reach out then you're really fucking up.

It's a wait and see game, at least if she does message you for whatever reason you get the benefit of shutting her down, never go back to someone like that.

>>17810450
I'm not wanting her to come back at all. I'm not gonna trust somebody who can fall out of love that easily overnight.

>>17810461

Well then I would say you have nothing to worry about, if she did try to come back you will know its out of jealousy or the feeling of replacement not because she actually wants you. But it would take a pretty shitty person to do that, I trust you didn't date someone with the capacity to do that.

Write 'bout how you'd love getting to know her better.

>>17810439
but I don't, looks like I'm just going to have to lie

>>17810439
That can have the unintended consequence of the girl taking him up on his word.

When you can't compliment someone, tell them they dress well/have style. Safest option as long as they don't dress worse than the average.

-You compliment something completely subjective
-Not strictly associated with love, romance or physical attraction (unlike figure, eyes, hair, etc.)
-Not "serious" enough to flatter them but makes them feel good
-Doesn't come off as flirty unless it's intended
-Doesn't sound like you just said something to "get it over with" (unlike generic shit like "You're so kind", "You're always ready to help")

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>>17810405
If everyone thinks you're gay, it implies you're flamboyant or you don't make any moves.
What you need to start doing is going to the gym, forcing yourself to have conversations with people, learn to be a sociable person.
After you've done all of that, getting into a relationship should be a breeze. Just be nice and be able to have long drawn out conversations.

Self esteem starts with your mind set, start telling yourself that you can, and magically you will.

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don't value yourself on appearance, even though it's necessary for sex.

>>17810413
>Self esteem starts with your mindset
Oh, fuck off. Self esteem starts with how decent of a job your Father did. Then you grow up and you realize you have to deal with all the shit on your own and it ends with your mind set.

>>17810386
Assuming you're serious about long time shit with your girlfriend, she comes over friendships. Also the reaction over a silly fb argument is way over the top.

You could attempt rolling both way, go there, fulfill your groomsman role and fuck off doing something with your girlfriend afterwards. Suggest it to both of them.

If you've been dating this chick for 3 years and you're a groomsman wouldnt simple apology would do

It's not like she called him a nigger faggot or anything

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>>17810386
>Bros before hoes
Friends are higher on the hierarchy than temporary girlfriends. Go to the wedding, if anything, this provides more gossip for you to validate your girlfriend with.
>"The chairs were so tacky"
>"Literally, all the napkins were shit color brown"

>>17810376
Have you considered couple counselling?
It sounds like the kind of issue that can be solved through that.

>>17810378
Yeah I suggestes it at some point, but she didn't like the idea. I'll keep suggesting it, thanks.

>>17810376
It isn't about the ass slap, that's just an excuse. Honestly? Probably cheated on you and feels guilty, so she's looking for an out.

Why do you still have her on Facebook you twat

That's how you avoid it
It's a natural response you're having and choosing to happen by keeping her on there

Other way is to get married but that's dumb

>>17810369

Why haven't you deleted her and everyone associated with that part of your life? Seems like if this one post got to you then every other post would have been just as bad, like her uploading pictures of her boyfriend, becoming official online etc.

You're not abnormal for feeling this way, it's just that most people don't subject themselves to this kind of torture by keeping someone who dumped them on social media, just remove her and you won't have these feelings.

I've come to terms with the fact I will never stop loving my ex's even if the break ups were mutual, they will always hold a special place in your heart and were a valuable part of your life's journey. In saying that you want to make it easier for yourself to move on afterwards, so completely remove their trace from and and all platforms and just keep the memories in your head.

>>17810464
>>17810442

we have a lot of mutual friends. so regardless, i'll still see her posts and comments even if not her status.

would it be bad if i block her, then i end up seeing her outside. like wouldn't it just make me feel bad then?

i really don't know what to do. i thought by having her on my facebook, i'll slowly get over her. i haven't been on facebook for the last year. just using the messenger app

/soc/

>>17810327
ugh, that place is worse than b and r9k put together...

>>>/pol/

>>17810319
wrong board post in /sci/ fggt

GL though.

>>17810319
I see you already have so fuck.. bamboozled ay.

>>17810319
symbloab.com
wolframalpha.com

finance? No career you mean accounting. It sucks I'm in it last year school and hate it.

Healthcare? Nurse? Good but prep for not so pleasant tasks I guess

Engineering? If you can handle upper maths and physics then yeah

Military? Just do this option desu

>>17810322
I dunno I like working up central london, so I'm sort of leaning away from the military now.

Finance I didn't specifically mean accounting I just meant anything in that sector. broker, accountant, etc

Healthcare, I mean just anything. Seems like an interesting job and they earn a good wage higher up.

Engineering, not really sure what it entails I'm just interested in a lot of engineering type jobs (Isambard Brunel type shit, to being an aircraft engineer)

>>17810373
near impossible to break into any finance nonaccounting role. Everyone needs accountant, finance is a fancy way of saying sales, you either cut It or don't.

Healthcare, just go become nurse or if not work in a hospital for awhile. You can go the medschool route but its a lot of money and dedication

engineering, take some math/physics in local college first. If you like it then go for it otherwise don't do it.

Because we like Pegasus too much for that

Does /adv/ need IDs?

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>>17810352
Pegasus loves you back onee-chan