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I'm falling in love with a guy with a girlfriend of 10+ years.
I've been trying so hard not to. But we talk everyday to arrange meet ups for practice with a group of people that play our sport.
To make things worse, he's the only person I know that works in the field I'm studying. So all of my questions are aimed at him.
I've had two dreams about him in the last week and I'm getting very concerned. I try not to think about him.
My behaviour is changing around him and I really don't want that to happen. I'll never do anything inappropriate.
MAKE IT STHAAP
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You only want him because he has a girlfriend. If they break up your feelings for him will probably go away.
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I hate it but I think you're right.
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I recently turned 24 and also just quit my pizza delivery job a few days ago. It wasn't the worst job in the world and I enjoyed it at times but I mostly hated it like every other job I've had. I had a few reasons for quitting but mainly just hate working for someone else, not having the freedom to create my own schedule, and having a boss. I still live with my mom (and my girlfriend), and feel pretty helpless/hopeless about my future. I've quit a lot of jobs over the years and dropped out of community college a while ago too. I wanted to get into IT and realized after quitting my last job I still want to, but I'm not very skilled. I don't know how to code or even have the patience for it and wouldn't want to help people fix their computers over the phone or some boring shit like that. Am I doomed to be a wageslave the rest of my life or is there a way to become self-employed or get into a career I enjoy before it's too late?
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We're all wageslaves so just get over it. Unless you inherit daddy's wealth or hit the lottery, you're going to have to work and just about every job has shitty parts to it.
The sooner you get on a career track, the better off you will be.
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>>17811052
I understand that, but no matter how much I try nothing seems to work out. Staying in a job that makes me want to kill myself 24/7 seems counterproductive, I would rather make money my way then "just get over it"
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1) figure out what field you actually enjoy
2) if you want to start your own business, instead of inventing a whole new idea, pick a pretty common one and improve it, your fail rate will decrease dramatically
3) keep a business only journal to track your progress, log ideas, reflect on obstacles, and read back for motivation and a reminder of what you are looking for
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A beer a day, bad thing? 2016-11-30 19:38:45 Post No.17811012
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Get back from my studies, sit down and take a beer along with my dinner each day.
Read some comments saying: "It's a bad sign"
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>>17811012
It can be a bad sign. If the slight stress relief of a beer becomes your primary stress relief on a really shitty day/month/year you could go full alcoholic.
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>>17811012
Nordlands Pils, av alle ting....
Not a bad sign. I often have a beer after work just to unwind. Been doing it for years with no ill effects.
Just make sure it's not something you end up depending on.
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>>17811024
Nordlands pils is good though.
Doesn't have that bitter aftertaste.
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I'm the kind of person that gets really anxious and worried right before something big is happening, even if things are going perfectly. And right now, I'm really fucking worried.
I'm spending a month in Japan and leave Australia on Friday. It's currently Thursday morning which means I've got less than 24 hours left.
Now my problem is that I have no idea what the apartment number is or where to even find the key for the apartment that I'm staying at first. The two other hosts have been very helpful and responsive, so that's sorted out. But I messaged the first host yesterday and haven't heard anything from them. I messaged them once more through AirBnB, and then again through email. Nothing still. I've contacted AirBnB support and they said they'd get the host in touch with me.
What do I do if the host doesn't reply in time? The cancellation policy is set to strict by the host which means if I cancel now I don't get any of my money back. And if I have to find a hotel room to replace the apartment then that's going to fuck up my budget completely.
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where's your first host, Japan? what city? what dates? do you have any contacts?
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>>17810993
The first host is in Shibuya, Tokyo, Japan.
I don't have any contact with anyone in Japan.
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>>17810993
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Oh, and the dates are December 2nd, to December 12th.
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>rear-ended a Scion FRS
>quick summary of events: roads were wet
>following her at a car-and-half length distance or more
>she made a somewhat abrupt stop, I braked but the tires locked up and I basically slid into her at ~ 5 MPH
>would not have hit her if not for wet roads, but I still could've avoided situation by being a better driver
>no dents, at worst a scratch mark on her bumper
>get a call from her insurance, I'm further retarded and gave them a recorded statement
>find out they're claiming injury (which they definitely had not been)
>based on my statement, the agent said they would deny her injury claim
>still haven't heard from my insurance
Is there any chance this will all go away?
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Bump.
Don't know about car insurance and crashes, but hopefully someone will see this thread that does.
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> distance based on length
> not following the 2 second rule
You deserve getting fucked
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>>17810912
if you have insurance that actually protects you instead of just getting the state minimums you should be fine
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Stop having feelings for someone unavailable 2016-11-30 18:26:21 Post No.17810875
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Stop having feelings for someone unavailable
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i was so certain that this girl at my uni was totally as into me as i was into her. I really never felt this connected so someone since my ex whom I dated for 3 years. we talked alot and had dinner together, then when i told her how i felt she was nice about it but said she had a bf (idk if hes here or back in her country).
The thing is, I still wanna be friends with her. She's really cool and fun to be with, one of the reasons I wasn't gonna do it initially was I didn't want to lose her as a friend if it ended badly (like how it ended with my last ex). But I don't want to keep having feelings for her In a romantic way.
Is it possible for me to just make this go away and stop looking at her like this way? Is this a good idea? I don't want to just lose her as a friend or look petty, but I'm just lost because I've never been in a situation before like this.
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>>17810875
Please. I don't have much time left
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>>17811050
How can we tell you about your feelings?
You know she is not available. So try to make that click in your head. Sorry, but that's all we can offer. You know howcyou think better than us.
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>i told her how i felt
what exactly did you say?
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After all, we all will eventually die. 2016-11-30 18:21:26 Post No.17810863
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After all, we all will eventually die.
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Is suicide really a bad option?
If not, I'd love to hear your viewpoints about this topic.
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>>17810863
It's an option, it's up to you to decide if it's bad or not. For me it's good, but I still have some better ones to try.
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>>17810863
To be really honest with you, I think it's objectively fine to do, it's just that most people keep it as taboo because they don't want you to ruin their deluded happiness
in the end, I suggest you do as you will
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>>17810863
I couldn't do it, moreso because I feel I could never leave my family and friends like that. I'm mostly just alive so others could be happy
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What did you get your mom for christmas?
Post here so I can steal one of your ideas.
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>>17810855
Got me mum the Apple Watch
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>>17810855
A 2008 battle of Italian red wine
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>>17810855
I gave her a me-not-commiting-suicide-yet.
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Going to parenting classes in hopes of seeing my 7 mo son again. Educator always says next time we make a plan. apperantely I'm too fucked up to see him because I 'open up' to this stranger about pseudo depressing rants and cant say what I want to. Next Tuesday I go again I'm going to prove I'm ready with a good old fashioned speech.
What do I say to get the point across; I need to see my son?
What do I say to get the point across; I am a positive influence for him?
No I can't speak my mind because I hate this bitch that is all I will express, must be prepared beforehand.
I can't talk to his mother because they live in a fucking bubble, and I pop it by being a father not a whore.
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>>17810853
wew lad im sorry you have to go through this
just pretend to be a normie i guess
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>>17810853
First, why do you have to go to these classes?
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>>17811042
if i got it right his wife is "standing up against men" by raising his son with the money he's forced to give her, but they won't let him see his son as he's depressed, so he has to go to shitty classes to give explanations to some feminist
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What are affordable foods that contain nutrients, vitamins and minerals? So far the only things I've got are chicken breast and brown rice. Planning to eat right because I'm a fat fuck
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Frozen veggies and canned beans homie. Good luck. Browse/fit/
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Browse /fit/ and read the fucking sticky
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that OP cat always cracks me up lol
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How do I stop falling in love with every woman I have a decent conversation with?
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Try talk to more girls and realize we're not all that special
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Stop visualizing a future with them. Realize they were just being nice and they don't love you back.
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>>17810737
I think I have the same problem as you except that I wouldn't call it "falling in love", it's more like I feel I should flirt with any good looking girl I have a decent conversation with.
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I'd like to do xanax for the first time this weekend, just to have a great moment with some friends without overthinking too much
But I don't know anything about the dose, what about a 0.5g ? It's my first time with benzos
Will I feel really relax with that ?
I don't want to be completely out of it, and I think 0.25g isn't enough but simple hypothesis, as I said I don't know anything
Also, what about the day after ? Will I be able to do some work ?
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what a faggot, kys
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k thx
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.5 mg will make you feel real good if its your first time. Dont go over 1mg or youre more than likely gonna blackout. Blacking out on Xanax is bad news.
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Help me grow on youtube. 2016-11-30 17:18:52 Post No.17810721
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What are some good ways to get better on youtube? I started not so long ago but i would love some good ideas and tips so i can grow.
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suck dicks breh
I have a big youtube channel with over 50k subs
I suck dicks, and get about 500k views per video, you gotta try this
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>WHAAAAATS up youtube today im gonna be speedrunning sex with my girlfriend. swag. really been working on my strats and im hoping to see at least a six second reduction from last time *1:14 flashes onto the screen in bright red meme letters while airhorns play for a little bit* okay here we go! *youtube intro starts*
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>>17810721
It usually helps if you have a unique nitch. My roommates got lucky with their channel getting 50k subs in a year, but they were doing something that isn't really done a whole lot (review of paranormal videos). If you're doing gaming, you're going to be one of the millions of people doing it. Get funny or get good.
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>it's a "people unironically can't believe you don't have a gf" episode
>it's a "people are unironically surprised you have zero luck with women" episode
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If you don't have a girlfriend and people are surprised about it, it's because you seem like the kind of person who could get a girlfriend. No one is surprised when an unattractive person is single.
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>that's the point.jpg
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Okay.. so what do you want advice on?
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Help me understand loneliness.
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>>17810669
When I did my semester abroad in Tokyo I was pretty lonely the first weeks until I managed to find some qt girls there. I often went to Odaiba around evening and walk along the rainbow bridge (the picture you posted) to see the sunset in Tokyo. Your post reminded me of that. To anyone going to Japan I highly recommend doing that. Takes about one hour but everytime I was alone there, no other tourists or whatever. You can smell the ocean and hear the Tokyo noise from distance.
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>>17810708
No offense but I don't give a shit about your stay in Tokyo.
I'm lonely as shit and need a way to cope.
The image is just something I chose to go along with the post. Didn't even realise it was Japan.
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I will keep bumping this fucking thread until I find a way to deal with it or until my willpower dries out, whichever comes first.