Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 3217. page

>>17813034
It's perfectly fine

>>17813034
>do you think i'm a cuck?
Stop browsing /pol/ you idiot.

>>17813034

Dude, you do you. As long as sex is between two consenting adults, have fun.

>>17812989

Neither. It is still better to do everything in person. Faggot.

>>17813032
Yeah but how do you ask her out in the first place? Over the phone or over text?

>>17813033

I think you're misunderstanding something here.

Neither.

Get back

>>17812988
Never.

>>17812998
Well what did you expect from your life?
You probably had a dream back then aside from moving away

Alternatively, would wandering off and getting "lost" or faking an accident be easier on them? How could I do this with the least amount of discomfort before death, if so?

>>17812961
Why not die of old age instead?

>>17812967
This desu

Spanish.

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>>17812907
But I dont like Mexicans.

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polski, kurwa mać

>>17812847
Do something nice for somebody. Either irl or on facebook. Just a comment on something backing them up or something. Or if you see somebody stressing out message them and see what's up.
If they ask you to leave them alone, do so. It sounds obsurd to most guys but that's how I've befriended a bunch of girls with 0 intention of relationship/ hookups

>>17812847

Fuck OP. I've always just tried being friendly and acting the same towards everyone, but every time I do i end up with girls falling for me and often turning everything into a complicated, sensitive clusterfuck. Theres no particular reason why you would only want to befriend girls, and even if you make your intentions clear it doesnt mean their feelings wont change.

Trust me i went through the same feelings as you before, and went out to achieve my desire, but it totally fucked me up bigtime.

>>17812866

That's good advice, I'm currently on break from study so my main avenue for befriending people will be facebook for a few months, but the problem with that is most of facebook now is just tagging people in memes or posting pictures of their nights out, not much discussion or people looking for friends.

>>17812902

I understand that could be an issue but I'll do my best not to lead anyone on, and if it happens then thats something to deal with when the time comes but I think I can diffuse situations like that pretty calmly, worst case scenario I lose that friend because of their feelings for me.

Same shit here anon, my motivation is going down day after day and i feel myself being distant with new people

>>17812846
What is your plan?

>>17812815
>will have to leave newly made friends
What? Why?

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4 months and you haven't fucked yet? My dude...

What is your question?

>>17812797
how's the burek and how the fuck does a krajina hick like me start using the public transit system

OP here. I guess I made that sorta biased towards my favors so I'll give other examples.
1) I actually get really mad when she takes my hoodie or even mentions taking it.
2) She and I were planning on smoking together one day but I had to postpone because I needed to go help my brother do some stuff, so when she smoked with her friends instead I became really mad and jealous. Eventually I called her impatient and inconsiderate in a way.

>>17812802
You're actually an up tight prick. Female here. I'm surprised you still have a girlfriend. Lighten up or youre gonna lose her

>>17812792
I mean using "I'm not talking to for the rest of the night" is childish as fuck and I would just dump you. Unless she had crazy ass messages like "WHY DONT YOU LOVE ME ANYMORE WHY ARENT YOU RESPONDINFG" there is no reason to be such a prick about it. Just put your phone on silent and text her when you can.
Getting mad at her mentioning he'll take your hoodie? Wow, nice, must be nice for her, walking on fucking egg shells in a relationship.

Yeah maybe she should've waited for you but this is lack of comunication and that happens often with you guys. Just fucking say how you're feeling about it before it even happens. How was she supposed to know it means soo much to you?

There's 3 ways I'd suggest doing this.

Start treating him gradually! with more and more disrespect until it finally pushes him to the point of action, then beat the fucking shit out of him and put him on the street. Could be minutes or months it's hard to say.
Sounds like your mother is brainwashed and probably afraid of him, she will be of no help and will not be able to resolve this. I've seen it a lot in people with anxiety, low self esteem, that sort of thing. Really sad actually.

Option 2 is to move out. She will probably figure it out, especially if she can't tell herself she's putting up with it for your sake anymore. Just be aware that this might not work.

Option 3 is to arrange for him to die in an unfortunate accident, which is probably the most straightforward method.

>>17812844
Well those are all things I've thought before, but I'll put into consideration. Thanks for the response

>>17812789
So he doesn't have a job or anything? Does he leave the house or just stay locked in his room blowing down?

>>17812762
>have lazy shit older sister
Pot calling he kettle black isn't it?

If you are that incompetent then you'll probably going to completely waste your mom's assets if she passes them to you anyway.

>>17812762
100k revenue or profit? Is the business profitable at all? Might end up doing more harm than good for you depending on how useless you are

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blurry as heck but if anyone can tell what he is or anything from this image please help me out!

>>17812759
>if anyone can tell what he is
A useless neet?

dont pick the wrong one, he will dislike it guaranteed. WoWfags usually take horde vs. alliance pretty seriously.

his class doesnt help us, do you know what race he is playing?

Don't worry. If you failed irl, you'll probably fail too online. So you're safe.

>>17812757
That's an excellent point.

fuck this site. fuck intrnet. fuckitall

I was like this for a very long time. When I stopped taking stimulants I was 6'3 and 102 lbs living in a more or less constant state of psychosis. For me, it progressed to a point where I was not able to get anything done at all anymore. I am not saying any of this will happen to you but after three years of relying on stimulants, I went on to spend 8 years as a heroin addict & alcoholic. I'm totally sober now. Adderall made me function at a level higher than I ever though I possibly could have, and I didn't know how I could get by without it. I thought I had ascended to a new, higher level of humanity (among other incredibly delusional things).

What I find now that I'm finally substance-free is that the drugs (because I did all of them) unlocked something in my mind. It changed the way I approach things. With Adderall, it taught me how to be meticulous and how to apply myself. It's a lot harder to get started without it, but once I get the ball rolling I might as well have 160mg XR in my blood. Try to cut it out, you'd be surprised what you can accomplish. I don't know that it'll happen for you, but it certainly did for me.

Make sure you drink plenty of water tonight. It's hard, but force yourself to eat something - anything helps, but the more the better. Lots of water in between bites makes it go down easier. Take a couple advil, it'll help with some of the physiological stuff. A couple benadryl might take the edge off. Play some relaxing music. You haven't been taking it long enough to have any real kind of withdrawal, probably just some rebound lethargy for a week or so so don't worry if you can't perform right away. You've put your body through a lot, give it time. Take it easy, rest for a while, focus on righting the sleep debt you've created. When you're feeling baseline again try to approach your tasks the same as always. I'm willing to bet your thought processes are different.

>>17812747
dude if you sleep as little as you claim, bad things will happen to you, like really bad things, psychosis and death, are very real consequences of your drug intake, sleep is important. maybe try to reduce the dosage? you need to at least sleep 4 hours per day.

also considering this incredible shit that you've accomplished, are you really sure it's high in quality, and not just high in quantity? with as little sleep as you get you might already be in a psychotic state of mind and just be delusional about the quality of what you've accomplished.

you should find other psychological approaches to deal with your tendency to procrastinate and be lazy, and not try to solve it with drugs.

tl;dr: take adderall now and then for a quick allnighter study session, if you must, but taking them everyday like you do is a really bad idea.

>>17812791
He's not sleeping little enough to actually kill him, he'd have to push it a lot further. He is definitely at risk of psychosis and hallucinations as well as a litany of other cognitive and physical problems, though. Some people can't sleep at all regardless of the dose (I'm in this camp), cutting it out entirely is the only way to really improve your sleep in a worthwhile way. The quality of your sleep is also important, and you're not getting quality sleep with lys/dexamp in your blood.

In general you're right. Adderall can be a really helpful tool if used properly, but the OP has shown a proclivity for addictive behaviors, and thus is most likely unable to use Adderall in a healthy/productive manner. It's clearly doing more harm than good.

With drugs like Adderall though, it's very hard to see. Like I said above, I thought I was a new, almost god-like being. I didn't see how it could be bad. Your mind has a way of convincing you that you're doing the right thing. It's best to fight that idea as much as possible.

Also, while I think a lot of people can get a lot out of taking Adderall for the occasional all-nighter, OP seems to be the type that that's probably too risky for. In fact, I'd wager that's how this all started.

>>17812713
Depends what you want when you're 25,30,35,60

This is too general of a question

Learn how credit cards work I guess

>>17812729
What should I want? Just give me some examples or something >.> I would like to own penthouse and a lot of alcohol, but that's not a good goal.

According to trash society, you have a career or you're a dog, so get a job. Then if you have a good job, all of the rape money you got (that's why it's a good job) will naturally work as an aphrodisiac and you will want a family to be the target of your newly found potency.