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My girlfriend likes anal.
Both taking and giving.
She wants to fuck me in my anus.
I am not comfortable with this.
Its a huge turn off for me.
Also when she demands I fuck her in the bum, she calls it 'poosex' which I find disgusting and offputting.

Should I break up with her?
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>>17812046

>poosex

Is this a fucking ylyl thread

Lost
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>>17812052
I am seriously she says poosex, and for me to 'fuck her bum bum;'

I hate it so much
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>>17812046
Yeah, me and her can take turns fucking each other in the ass.
>>17812059
>fuck her bum bum
nevermind

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easy way to make money
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>>17812044
need experience to get job
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>>17812070
already 23 years old
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Sell your body.

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So I was at a club for the first time in fucking ages and the tldr is that I ended up making out with a guy when I have a bf.

I was super drunk at the time, and I know this isn't an excuse, but it was only a kiss and it didn't go further. Now my BF found out because one of my friends told him and he's super mad/talking about breaking up.

Is it ok for him to break up with me over this? What can I do to make things right?
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>>17812032
>Is it ok for him to break up with me over this?
Yes, not only did you cheat on him, he found out through someone else, he is justified to leave you if he wishes.
>What can I do to make things right?
Nothing really, the damage is done, just hope he forgives you somehow.
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>>17812032
how would you feel if he was the one that kissed another girl?
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>>17812032
>Is it ok for him to break up with me over this?
Its absolutely okay for him to be reacting the way he is. I don't know about him as a person but a zillion thoughts could be going through his mind considering "super drunk" and "at club".

You can make things right by working toward rebuilding his trust with you or if you rather not put the effort in then you might as well break up saying he deserves better then that way you can go to the club and get drunk without feeling like your being controlled by not going to places you want to.

Win-win

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Yesterday evening I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Now I'll be quite honest, I had a long day at work and wasn't all that into it, but I was still trying to take care of him and try not to let that sort of thing get into the way.

A few minutes into it he tells me "That's really Fucking sloppy", and I wasn't sure if that was supposed to be a compliment or a criticism, so I tried to concentrate and refocus. But then a minute later he tells me "this isn't working for me", and he pulled himself out of my mouth very audibly. I felt really embarrassed, so I was looking down at the floor. He then lifted my chin up to look in his eyes, and I thought he was going to say something like it was ok, but no instead its like I see no patience at all in his eyes, and he tells me "I'm taking the cock away from you".

I was so stunned that I just stayed there on my knees for a couple of more minutes before I realized I was still there. When I got up I heard him watching porn and masturbating.

I ended up going home because I didn't know what to say. I was so upset and humiliated about what happened that I couldn't even really sleep last night I'm not sure why it is affecting me so badly, but I'm still incredibly upset. I want to give him a piece of my mind, but I don't know what to say and I don't want to sound stupid and emotional. I've have never had anything remotely like this happen to me before.
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>>17812016
Lmao

I feel like he was trying to make you work harder to suck his dick, as if you were a star in a porno or something. But then again, if he didn't even talk to you about it after and just started jacking it to porn when you were leaving that's a pretty big asshole move.

You sound like you have self-esteem problems. Is your boyfriend emotionally abusive towards you?
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>>17812016
Holy shit he sounds like a cunt.
That's not at all ok. Honestly I would advise you to drop him, or at least ask him what the fuck is wrong with him.
Has he ever been like that before?
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>>17812016
Your boyfriend sounds like a dick.
I've had problems finishing when girls give me a blowjob, and I feel embarrassed. And that's with hookups.
If your boyfriend is treating you that way, he's a dick.

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How do I stop my attraction towards somebody who's blatantly not interested in me
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>>17811967
Realise they're a cunt
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Think of their lack of interest in you as a turn off and move on. :)
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>>17811967
You don't.
You just learn to live with it.

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I need help /adv/

>about to turn 27
>spent countless hours on vidya and tabletop games
>reflect on both
>enjoy them still but feel great shame
>try to stop but realize outside of books and some interests, i have no real hobbies
>begin to feel greater shame
>return to both
>continue to fail to build substance and experiences

I am getting older and keep thinking about the time I wasted. Yes I enjoyed and still enjoy both, more so vidya.

The people I have met off tabletop have been mostly nice but odd and maladjusted as well as (when I really got into it at 16) much older. I left the hobby for a good few years to focus more on vidya. I never dreamed id go back to tabletop but now I just purchased a new game and feel great sadness.

Video games ive ended up going to weeklies and events around one game, a fighting one. Being in my late twenties most are early 20s or late teens and nerdy and while quirky are fairly fun and sociable as well as good company. In contrast to tabletop, they are nerdy but sound.

Truth is I was bullied badly as a teen and this allowed me to relive those years much nicer. Its pathetic but ive met pretty nice people through it.

Thing is I feel I should have moved on. I am working an entry level job in hr. I like it but its a contract and still need to establish a proper career.

A part of me wants to continue on in the hobbies but I realize by tabletop id be around a bunch of oddballs and the vidya im pretty much with kids.

The imagined me was succesful, stable and a wide variety of skills
Not an expert remotely just a well balanced life.

The reality is ive sunk so much time into gaming, in the real world outside of academics ive nothing to show for it.

A part of me wants to give them up and my heart knows is be better off. But without I have little to myself and i do enjoy them so much.

What should I do?
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>>17811957
Continued...

I remember at 17 i decided is get rid of my games and miniatures and focus on study and new hobbies.

Then i began to feel anxious, then shame then like a failure. I saw succesful people around me who were fulfilling their goals.

I always day dreamed and fantasized doing things but when realizing how much time I wasted, I fell into a sunk cost mindsst and fled right back to it.

I dont agree with the

>if its fun its not a waste

Read it, heard it many times. I disagree, it doesnt produce anything tangible. Despite doing it, it makes me a hypocrite, but i find that logic terrible.

My post is in bits but I want to be different but fear its too late.

I am not proud who I am, or my achievements.

I have been blessed with a stable and very loving family and I feel i have let them down and I need to make a jump in maturity and soon.

But i dont know how.
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Your problem is not the hobby but your feelings of inadequacy and poor self esteem

Vin Diesel is a successful actor and plays D&D. Stop making uses games as scapegoat for your real issues
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>>17811957
I think you should take a long time to think on why you feel shame, are you comparing your life to some standard of what you think life should be?

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>Never gotten any female attention
>Get low confidence
>Girls don't like low confidence
>Don't have any confidence because I've never gotten any female attention
>Cycle repeats

How to deal with this and break it? Almost 25 years now and still a KLV. I started taking depression pills when I was around 20 and it made me not giving a shit about girls or relationship, stopped caring but now they are not helping and I start to feel like a human failure. I need to stop this somehow.
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>>17811876

Trying to build confidence based on other people's reactions to you is pointless. First do something that makes you feel confident and good about yourself, such as personal achievements and success, then try again. Now your self-esteem depends on other people who are changeable and fickle and even if you do get a girl, something could still go wrong and you'd just be in the same slump again. External things are the worst place to seek confidence.
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Cope with it or die
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try not being such a sack of shit all the time

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>gf has actually asked me to give her a facial

What are the logistics of this? How do I maximize the amount that gets on her face without missing? Should she stay upright, tilt her face back a little, or ??? I shoot pretty strong.
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your probably a manlet so get a chair to stand on.
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Shoot it in her eye
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>>17811875
i didnt know this was such a rare occasion kek

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I'm casting models/extras for a short film. I've tried Craigslist, Actors Access and Stage 32. Most of the roles are paying. I'd prefer not to spend money on the ads because I'm already losing cash on the project.

What else should I be doing?
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>>17811859

lacasting if you're in la. thats what i use. free, the actors pay. though its REALLY hard to get extras.
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Facebook, try to get actors to share it amongst each other. Most of the time they have friends who also act who forward it to their friends etc.

Alternatively, try posting it to your local college facebook groups, specifically their Arts department.
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>>17811859
Breakdown Express. That's what the industry actually uses.

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How do I stop sniffing constantly? I'm 25 and about a year or two ago, I started feeling the need to sniff like at least once a minute. Sometimes less than that. sometimes more. I had an allergy test and I didn't find anything I'm allergic to. My nose isn't stuffed up; if I blow it, nothing comes out.

Any advice? Could just be advice on conditioning yourself to quit an annoying habit/tick similar to this.
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Personally i had this problem so i shaved my nose hairs and everything was better
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>>17811853
Interesting. I'll give it a shot. Did you just use those small scissors or something else?
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Sometimes if I have an abundance of nose hair in my nose that I haven't trimmed it can feel like there's stuff in my nose. See how bad your nose hair situation is. There's a very popular Panasonic ER-GN30 on Amazon that works really well to clear to nose hair it's cheap, I've used it a lot. Use good lighting and a mirror to help. You could also use scissors for a closer job, but at the cost of spending a bit more time.

That's really strange usually the person who can't stop sniffing doesn't know they are doing it.

My gf set a drawing from an male online friend of her as her profile picture on Facebook. Also, they talk 24/7 lately.

I asked her to change her profile picture but she refused and got mad, saying that I'm being controlling, manipulative and a narcissist.

She knows that I have an enormous fear of abandonment due to some pretty nasty bullying from childhood and I just wanted her to change the picture. I wasn't asking to go no contact with this guy.

Really, what do you think? Am I overreacting? Am I a narcissist? I am very confused.
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It's not that the picture is bothering you, it seems like you're afraid she's really into this guy. Talking 24/7 is not good, that's what my best friend of twelve years and I, did before she cheated on her bf.
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You came off as jealous for sure. Were you controlling, manipulate, and a narcissist? Eh depends on what words were exchanged, more precisely how you asked her but most likely she's just blowing it out of proportion. You probably were all those things but to a small degree. Mostly you were just jealous.

You played the situation completely wrong. By the sound of it you also don't really stand a chance in a relationship right now with all the baggage you seem to currently have. I wouldn't put all your chips into this relationship because it already seems like it's fading. You need to to work on your personal issues and hang ups. It would be great if your girl was understanding and could stick it out with you... but the fact that she talk to some random guy 24/7, according to you, seems like she's got her interests somewhere else. Then again, you may just be a jealous prick and are over exaggerating that. Anyway, jealousy doesn't work in a relationship.

tl;dr you fucked up and sounded like a jealous bf, pretty simple
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She will cheat on you, probably already is. The proof is that she thinks low of you, those words of hers aren't describing what happened, but her feelings of you. Get out while you're ahead.

Gf is a buzzfeed subscriber kind of normie, she watches series and loves HP, you get the fucking idea. BUT SHE'S FUCKING GREAT ON EVERY OTHER DOMAIN.

So I can't really turn back on her despite all that but how do I un-normie the shit out of her ? I don't want her to lurk /b/ just to realise the cringe that every stupid fb is and stop living by fictional series and shit. (Not that I don't do that, I'm just not as excessive as her)
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HOW DARE SHE HAVE HOBBIES AND INTERESTS YOU DONT LIKE

Grow up faggot. She probably loves how manly you are, but expects you to give up fast food, video games and watching sports. Would you do it?
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>>17811811
Sadly I don't do the three examples you're mentioning. And I'm not manly at all.

Next time you're posting on /adv/, try making an advice or at least hide the fact that your post is only based on a stupid judgement rather than actual opinion.
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She's not gonna like you repressing her interests and hobbies. She might tolerate it to please you, but she'll dislike you for it. Don't try to change her.

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tengo 22 años y la chica con quien he estado durante 6 años termino la relacion, segun ella por "aburrimiento"
es posible que tenga a otra persona?
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>>17811790
Mexico sisi hay que lindo queso lindo nachos guapas senoritas sisi mariachi fiesta tequila muy lindo si
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>>17811790
You turned him into a donkey. That's not you're alternate persona, that's fucking dark magic!!! Witches get off my board REEEEEEEEEE
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Hiroshimoot needs to build a wall around 4chan as well

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So apparently over the holidays my SO took some /adv/ and now I'm hoping for some /adv/ of my own. Since y'all seem to have all the answers, I'm coming over from /pol/ to discuss.

Apparently SO paid for sex with a camwhore (in person/at a hotel) ((a.k.a. behind a Walmart I found out later)) and after what sounds like a pretty long thread decided to come clean. Yay for birthday presents... :/

I'm numb and in shock. Can some people devil's advocate why to stay/leave w/ such this person?
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>>17811748
I can't really suggest that you stay with this person.

What's to stop him from doing it again?
Why did he even do it in the first place?

Sounds shitty, OP but not as shitty as trying to make a relationship with him work.
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>>17811748
There is no reason to stay unless you hate yourself. Jesus christ have some pride and tell him to fuck off.
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>>17811794
>There is no reason to stay
It's not that simple.

I'm just trying to be careful. I know the inclination of most girls to rationalize/demonize their partner. I don't like to be considered rash so I'm just trying to weigh my options.

I'm already feeling cringey and disloyal for this thread so I'm just appreciative for some logical reasoning on the issue.

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My gf was a kissless virgin before we got together, she's 25 years old. Now I'm kind of her Senpai when it comes to sex, she doesn't know what to do at all and while she is into it, it's a real slow grind to get her to do stuff.

For example, she started touching my dick only after about the 5th time we had sex, and I've been pretty clear about it the times before (take her hand, put it there).

Now I've had sex with about 15 girls, was in a few relationships, and have lots of non vanilla stuff and want to continue to do that.

I'm not sure I can wait long enough for her to get accustomed to everything if it keeps going at this rate. Can I get her to open up quicker without being a dick about it?
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>>17811719
Sounds like a pretty deep relationship there, OP.

Lucky girl.
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>>17811719
Any advice? Should I sit her down and explain to her all the stuff I want her to do? Should I be even more suggestive during sex? (I want her to do stuff, not let me do stuff, not interested in a doll)
Should I make her watch some porn with me? I can sometimes be really dumb about these issues so opinions pls!
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>hurry up and act like a whore already!

Lol oh man, I don't think there's hope for you. But you should do some self reflecting.

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