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Why not seek for a real one? What's the problem?

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>>17811087

Wher in .nl?

>wasting time on retards

>>17811056

you dont. she is on tumblr asking the same question.

i agree with you for the most part, but seeing as we were not there, theres always the chance that it was a lot more obviously going to be bad then we know.

why did i punch my uber driver? because he chased me up to my gate.

How do you know the person was innocent and not an actual threat?

You're not being reasonable either.

>>17811049
Exactly how burned are we talking here? Post pics

>>17811049

Not gonna lie, it's going to be rough. You'll have to learn to cope with that. And remember that those that have a problem with it are the ones with the problem, not you.

all of this obviously depends on how severe the damage is. if its not on your face, you can live almost a normal life. but we dont know. you'd have to show us. but barring extensive surgery, all ican say is the following:

>How can a burned victim get a gf /adv/?

by settling. ugly people have to naturally settle. it sucks that you might have been beautiful or at least better than now, but if your face is bad, you will have to settle likely. you can compensate by being rich or whatever but the truth is that if you settle you can find someone who actually likes you for who you are. its tough cuz we all think we deserve a qt. were all shallow. but if you give in, you'll find more happiness being with someone who is just nice and lets you stick ur dick in her.

>How can a burned victim cope with the fact that everyone thinks he's a weird looking guy?

the best you can do is embrace it. if its limited to the body, its no big deal. most people will find it interesting or almost cool, god knows i do. but on your face it kinda depends. the best you can do is own it. if you can, play it off like it is badass. and idf not, just play it off like you arent sad. the world will notice the scars, but its kind of like when a child falls. when people make a big deal, the child cries cuz he gets attention. if the parents laugh and clap, the child will laugh and clap as well, becuase its positive attention (unless hesl egitimately hurt of course).

>>17811046
bump

>>17811046
You need to find a cause bigger than yourself, you hit adulthood, tasted the freedoms of that life, stop hanging out with these fuckups and people looking for quick internet billions.

Try making a activist website for a cause. Or offer to teach girls how to program. Do something yourself, that can bring you motivation to be a better person.

As far as fatness here is what to do

1) Drink nothing else but water. Especially not beer. NOT BEER. WATER.

2) Get yourself audiobooks and listen to them while going on 30minutes to 1hour walks.

3) Only eat vegetable smoothies with no sugar. I mean if you NEED to have sugar get a Jamba Juice but just saying for MAX weight loss. Or add fruit to your smoothie.

You will lose weight like crazy!

4) I swear I am not being lels nu-male but try reading Donald Trump books. If you want to learn how to be a sociopath yourself and out erratic asshole people, read The Art of the Comeback and Deal.

>>17811115
I do actually teach girls in Saudi Arabia how to code. I go out there for like 3 months every year then do little online shit with them.

I've thought about doing my own school. but.. yeah dealing with customers.

I do need to quit hanging out with fuckups. It's really dragging me down.

What do I do to lessen the blow of the inevitable disappointment I will soon become to my parents?

They worked so hard in raising me but I was not born with the talent to succeed and I'm going to make them look terrible as well. I'm thinking that the only way out would be a tragic death. Right now I show a lot of potential so if I die in some accident now then I will be seen as what I could've become rather than what is inevitable. It'll leave a better impression and even if they find out it will show a sign of respect that instead of becoming an infinite failure, id rather die.

Just need a non-offensive, accidental way to die.

>>17811084

first and foremost, why are you about to fail? what are you attempting thats about to go wrong? Tell us the story?

i do have a pretty cool accidental suicide method btw

>>17811015
How much do you have?

>>17810989

no. if you expressly state that you like 11-14 year old looking girls, it becomes creepy.

when an older man dates a much younger woman they just say 'oh he likes younger girls'. its not until she calls him 'daddy' that people think somethings fucked up about it.

Don't do it

>>17810989
Yeah, I think you should.

I think it will show you who your real friends really are.

Just suck his dick and swallow

Thats it

Women have it so easy

>>17810958
That's just boring after a while though, we like a long fuck session too.

>>17810960
Okay what positions?

That's hot

>>17810857
Tell her to go fuck herself

>>17810857
Sharpie in pooper.

If it's a kink that actually affects her life outside of the bedroom, it's perfectly reasonable for her not to want to do that.

>>17810784
I agree, it is just a shit situation.

But I do feel bitter about it because she's into a ton of bdsm and I'm not but I do it for her.

Also, let me add that we've been together years and gotten through much worse together.

What a freak you are! But seriously, if you want her to gain, knock her up. That'll put dome pounds on her.

>>17810518
>But I'm perfectly fine with people in "forced" interactions (serving a customer at work, being introduced to someone thorugh a friend, etc)
Can empathize. Most of my friends and people who barely know me think I am super confident and social because of it.

On the positive side, it shows that you're not a complete sperg but simply need to tweak your mindstate a bit. How big of a part is being with friends/playing a role with a clear goal at a job for you?

>I've never really felt passion, drive or ambition in my life.
Now that's a lot more critical. Your current motivation is pretty shit, so gotta get out of this crap and start feeling motivated by positive results and the likes. Again something I can empathize with ... actually failing hard did the trick, making me realize that it's not that scary in the end.

>>17810518
You and me bro.
Try reading "the willpower instinct", it helped me somewhat.

>>17810518

probably because you rate your self worth based on interactions that no one else bothers to think about beyond the moment.

>i am bright
>everyone i know knows i coudl do wonderful things

this is something untalented / not smart people are told. generally its because they played on computers as a kid, and back then we thought that people on computers were smart. but everyones on computers these days. they all do the same shit we were doing. maybe slightly less, but thats not an intelligence so much as an interest issue.

athletic people and smart people have clear results. people like you don't, so people just say you COULD do so much. this gives people like you an inflated ego, a theoretical ego if you will. you trash talk yourself only because you can say 'BUT IM CAPABLE OF SO MUCH'.

at best you are capable only of what everyone else does. you are not the 'better man' just wasting potential. you are just the average guy doing nothing.

>>17810362
Deep ocean
Space
Random islands are found time to time
Dna
The brain
Virtual reality
Artificial intelligence

Ya

Antarctica

>>17810362
Don Rosa is an incredible artist

Also, ye, plenty of frontiers. We barely understand anything.

>>17810213

Makes you seem kind of a nutjob to be this invested in your sisters sexlife. Maybe seek therapy.

Youz got issues m8
Get help

>>17810213
Depending on age you cant do anything about it. You gotta let your siblings experience the world, if hes a douche she'll learn, if not be happy she found someone that is willing to tolerate you, shits rare in this world.

>>17809679
You don't. You simply put up with it

You can actually fuck and love and talk to one and not just jerk off thinking about it, get therapy dumbass.

>>17809722
>fuck
Get a load of this animal.

>>17809417
push your boundaries.

Playing it safe attracts boring women.

This is what online dating is for everyone, just about. And for some reason, places like /adv/ won't admit it.
>Are you a 7? Too fucking bad. It's the 8s, 9s and 10s that get everything.
>Don't complain! Youuuu NECKBEARD.

I didn't have any girlfriends in high school, so for awhile I assumed I was just seeing online stuff through the same lenses I saw my normal life. But it's not your imagination. It really is shit.

Women had all the power before to just turns us down, and pick and choose, guided by their most shallow instincts imaginable. But then they got even more power, and then more. Tinder is simply the most recent unmitigated disaster.

I assure you, this guy is an idiot: >>17809484

I don't follow MGTOW, but it would take a fool to believe that "crying fedora manbabies" is the sole idea behind such a necessary boycott of the status quo.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymNdfdQvdVc

>>17809670
lmao

>>17809234
>I was always good to her

No you fuckin' weren't Op . You kept acting like a little bitch threatening to break up frequently, and when you did break up you quickly changed your mind. You are a fuckin' bitch. Grow a spine and fuckin' deal with your own consequences.

>>17809244
You have no idea what i did for this girl man.
i treated her like fucking gold, and she still said that i was so good to her for the first week after she broke up.

You sound insecure as fuck man.