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Im bad at math, geometry, algebra, multiplying, dicision, everything. I feel dumb in class and i feel so embarrased to ask my teacher for help. If there is any website that could teach me from the beginning it would help a lot...
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Dude are you reading the book before class?
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>>17812376
Maybe you're just dumb. Try and get an IEP. They'll put you in the retard classes, but don't worry, you won't be with the kids that have severe, straight up visual disabilities, that's a whole other thing. The classes are easier and even if you still don't get it after trying a certain number of times, you get an automatic pass and can even graduate. Smooth sailing.
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Khan Academy has everything. Google the specific thing you're going over and it'll probably have it

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How do you chose a career?
What websites are the best to look at for salary information and amount of years in college needed?
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>>17812367
>How do you chose a career?

What do you like? Find a good balance b/w what you enjoy and Salary/employment. As far as sites go, BLS. Do random research.

If you have no interests, try online courses/resources for free, buy used texts books online and read them. Take your time. Take some introductory classes to finalize your decision and stick with it.
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>>17812409
I like creating thing that involve elections and hardware. I thought electrical engineering is a good option, but I'm researching for other career's that be interesting .
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>>17812461
>electrons (?) and hardware

Then EE. CE is also an option, but is simply a subset of EE. I'd say EE is overall better. BLS may say 0% job growth, but many EEs are old and need to be replaced, so job prospects are only going to get better. You better like math though.

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If I have no experience and trying to get a first job via applying online, should I make a resume with what skills I possess and a cover letter? It seems redundant to have a no experience resume and a cover letter. CV is the same thing right? Or should I just skip both and apply with no resume online?

Also, if job pays ten dollars, what's the max distance I should travel for the job? 10 mins, 20 mins, 30 mins?
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bump pls help
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heres what I did. I took a really shitty job and worked at it a couple months then I applied to a les shitty job worked there for a couple months then finally with the experience I had I applied to a ok job and worked there for a year.
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>>17812377
I'm applying to every job I see in the area, your advice doesn't help

Indian exams are one of the hardest in the world, although we are a shit-tier country. I spent my childhood being very academically weak. On the way I suppose I lost all self-respect. I get easily influenced by what other people say. Since I couldn't work hard enough to get into a college, I've been unironically living the NEET life for like seven months or so, now. I discovered 4chan and soon enough you guys became my only human contact. I've realized that no country receives as much hatred here as India. If you're a Pajeet, you're literally shit. If you're a Pajeet, you're not a human being. And I am a weak and unintelligent person even by Pajeet standards. So I must be really really subhuman. This idea is turning me suicidal. I dunno why I haven't killed myself yet, all I do is think about race-politics all day. And my only friends believe that I should kill myself for being a degenrate, rapey, disgusting Pajeet. What do? How do I get these thoughts out of my mind. Should I see a shrink? The shrink would probably throw me out of the room after hearing all this.
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errr...

poo in the loo?
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Are you a Pajeet in India, or a Pajeet in a western country?
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>>17812353
that's like being a kike and discovering /pol/ and then getting depressed about being jewish cause they think your vermin that should be exterminated. it's stupid.

you need to stop giving two shits on the street about what other people think about you, at least it shouldn't matter what some retards on the an image trading forum think about you. fuck society in general while you're at it.

live by your own standards that you set up for yourself, not by someone elses. If you don't want to be a disgusting degenerate rapey pajeet, then strive to not be one, and then you aren't one. work hard so you can afford a toilet so you don't have to shit in the streets. don't rape, and then you aren't rapey. wash your self daily, and then you aren't disgusting. it's not that hard.

and fuck race politics and stupid subhuman white trash that came up with it in the first place, that's just a coping mechanism for them to feel better about their own miserable lifes in their subhuman living conditions in some trailer park while getting high on meth

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So I'm 18, in my first year of college.
I don't pursue women, I just fap when I get horny and hang out with friends when I get lonely. I've completely given up on women.

Recently my friends have been bugging me about not pursuing women, so today I finally just told them the truth about how I'm not going after women and using porn as an outlet instead; this way I can focus on my studies, my career, my fitness.

My friends were disgusted with me, saying I objectify women. I don't see how that's true, since since I treat women I interact with in no sexual or romantic way. Purely as friends, as if they're one of my guy friends. As equals.

I already know I have no chance with them, so why make them feel uncomfortable? What's wrong with turning to porn and fapping to satisfy my sexual urges? I feel like I'm doing women a favor by not hitting on them.
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Someone please respond
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>>17812328
Hello
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>>17812306
>Objectifying woman
Im really guilty of this too im doing nofap but cant stop watching porn
My idea is that i wont be as intimidated by pretty woman if i started respecting them and not thinking them as sex objects with some emotions

So yeah problem should go away if we could get laid

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Hello, I was told by a therapist that I need to start setting some goals.

Isn't everything you do a goal of some sort?

How do you go about 'setting goals'?
Especially when you lack future oriented thinking.

Is there a way to 'set goals' without friends or other people? (People scare the shit out of me, and I really don't know why...)


I should of asked during that meeting, but I don't see a therapist anymore.

Pic is from my backyard
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Well that can be your first goal, get over your social anxiety.

When making goals, start thinking about the stereotypical things science suggests makes a "successful person"
Do you have a good job? No? There's a goal.
Do you have a good friend group? No? Goal.
Are you in shape/perfect health? Goal.

From there you can start thinking more to your specific situation. You can think more about who you are as a person, what you find interesting, where you think it would be cool to be. Baby steps first though.

Also you have to remember if you truly do want to better yourself then that's going to mean doing the things you don't want to, the things you find scary, the things that are hard an take a lot of effort. Once you suck it up and just do it, it gets better incredibly quickly.
Also, I'd probably suggest going back to a therapist, sounds like you could use professional guidance in all this, especially with the social anxiety. I know from personal experience, thats not one I'd suggest just trying to solve on your own. Because it's too easy to back out on without the pressure of knowing someone is waiting for you to report back with progress.
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>>17812283
Thanks a bunch for your answer, it really helped lay out what I was looking for. : )
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when it comes to weekly goals I make sure they're small so they're not overwhelming, at most. I don't set them often but I kind of want to get in the habit of doing it.

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How sensitive are hair tests for weed?

My gf has a drug test (hair) for a job this Monday. She literally has only smoked weed twice in her life, both times about 5-6 weeks ago and she literally only took one puff each time out of my bong.

She also ate an edible maybe 6 months ago. Besides this she's literally never done any drugs.

Is she fucked?
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>>17812212

thats what she gets for being a degenerate stoner whore.
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>>17812212
www.marijuana.com/community/threads/what-you-need-to-know-about-hair-testing.286845/
This should help
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I believe that hair tests for EVERYTHING in the body, since the hair was grown.

So yes, I think that would show up, considering she probably hasn't shaved her head in the last 5-6 weeks.

Unfortunately, weed stays in your system longer than pretty much every other drug that exists.

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anyone here move far away from family? my family supports my education and life choices, but when I suggest I want to move several thousand miles away they seem forlorn. they then subtly suggest at other times that I stay and work near them.

how did your family react to you moving far away?
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Nope
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>>17812206

mom wasnt happy. she tried to convince me to stay an extra few months but the household had become miserable so i was gonna gtfo of there.

dad did not care less as long as i wasnt asking for help.
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dude stay with your family. Sounds like they would miss you if you went away.

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I cant find any casual jobs (15hrs a week)! where do i even look?
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>>17812204

take whatever job you can.
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>>17812215
they all want 38-50hours a week!
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>>17812224

good.

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What's a good excuse to tell my mom and grandma that I can't have a gf right now? I used to tell them that I was busy with uni and wanted to have my own place but I have already graduated and live on my own. I tried telling them that I want to pay my student loans but they weren't buying it.
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Tell them you are a polyamorous asexual. They will be too scared to ask what that is.
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>>17812196
they are Hispanic they will just tell me to stop using gringo words and give them a grandson.
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>>17812191

well, whats the truth?

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So like the last 2 months I've been getting extreme orgasmic sensitivity and I can hands free cum and every orgasm feels fucking awesome. I'd been improving hardcore but this came out of nowhere. Sounds awesome right?

I just got a gf and I constantly have an erection around her and pre-cum myself just walking side by side holding her waste. How the fuck do I control this shit? I've been with other girls before and never had this problem, but this sensitivity is causing this now.

Any ideas? Yes I try jacking off before I see her. I can pre-cum like three times an hour being around her. Help me out.
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>>17812189
*waist

please don't think I'm retarded, idk how that slipped by
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>>17812189
>I can hands free cum
*thrusts hips upward and wiggle around to make dick spin*
WOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAWOOOOOOOOWEEEEEEEWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWEEEEEEEEEEWOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
*cums while dick spins*
YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
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>>17812222
nice quads but seriously help me out

I wanna start making out with her without my wet erection pressing against her

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I am female and I have a question about sex?

I have only had one sexual partner, my current bf of a little over a year.(inb4 underaged, I'm 24) I have vaginismus so it almost always hurts when we have sex. It has gotten a little better over the year.

I'm confused because I told me SO how sex is very stressful mentally and physically for me. My SO says that sex is supposed to be relaxing.

I don't see how sex can be relaxing. In fact despite my condition, he has still been able to make me cum despite the pain. Having an orgasm feels pretty good so it makes me not mind the pain so much, but I definitely don't enjoy the pain either and sometimes I cry because of it.

(Btw, boyfriend is super supportive and never tries to push sex when I don't want it. I'm usually the one who initiates sex)

The thing is, if I relax my whole body my level of pleasure goes down and I feel further from orgasm. Tightening my muscles including my pelvic floor(the ones in the vagina opening), tightening my abdomen and lifting my pelvis into the air all seem to help me get closer to cumming. Now, doing all this is also very physically stressful and I am very mentally engaged. My boyfriend says that this is probably why I feel pain and that I need to "let go".... All this confuses me a lot.

I guess I want other people's help figuring out how I can be having better, less stressful sex... and can other women please share how they achieve orgasm? I want to know if I'm doing it right.
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Also stressful to me is trying to focus on the sex and not the pain... but a lot of times during sex I don't know what I'm supposed to think at all and this makes having an orgasm take a lot longer.
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>>17812152
Don't be cucks comrades

Resist the female menace
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Well of course it's gonna be relaxing to him. Just fucking think about it biologically, women were not meant to enjoy sex the same way as them (if at all.)
There are very few nerve endings in the vagina, they're all mostly in the clit tucked nice and away from everything getting any action. We have to stretch a hole out to accommodate, of course that's not going to feel real great even if we are capable of doing it.
Women just got the shit end of the stick biologically when it comes to sex. We harbor all the physical responsibility and burden. Just the shit roll of the dice getting the second X so we gotta deal with it.

You know how I achieve orgasm? Clitoral stim with no penetration whatsoever. Not all women are even capable of vaginal orgasm, and hell, most say it's difficult to achieve at best. Sex for you is foreplay, sex for him is sticking his dick in you. Sad truth, but sex is not usually as cooperative for most couples as everyone wants to romanticize it to be, it's usually "you get off then I get off". It's give and take, so stop trying to force yourself into liking penetration if you don't, because you never will, and have him go to town on the bean till you cum, then suck it up and do what you gotta for him to cum.

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Sophomore in college, and I'm not very social. I know a girl who I was thinking about chatting up but we don't talk much. She is selling some t-shirts, which I am not actually interested in, but I was thinking about using that as a way to start conversation if I see her. Would it be dumb to do this, and later on say something along the lines of, "to be honest I probably won't wear the shirts, I was just trying to find a way to talk to you," and then lead the conversation else where? I don't see what's wrong with being straight forward, but I'm sure this is really autistic I just don't see it.
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Also to note, I'm pretty confident, and can hold conversations, I just never really saw the need to engage in conversation with others and now I don't know too many people.
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>>17812133
Nah happens all the time

Delivery is important here

Hoping you go full spaz tho and end up buying the shirt and walking away without a number
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>>17812133
I would say that at some point, but not as a way to open up the conversation.

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What are some enjoyable anime for a 9 year old girl?
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>>17812102
Has this 9 year old girl watched previous anime? If so what did she like?
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>>17812109
She liked the Ghibli movies and she likes Pokemon but the only other show she's watched is Sailor Moon and she liked it.
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>>17812127
She might like Cardcaptor Sakura.

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I am a senior in college, and I am having an issue with a teacher in one of my classes that will really affect my life.

We had a large group project we had to complete as one of our final grades, and a week before we started it one of our group members dropped the class. The teacher did not cut us a break, wanting us to do the same amount of work with one less person. After spending over 12 hours in the library, we were able to finish the 30 page single spaced paper and submit it.

This is where the problem comes up, as she sent me an email today to "see her before the final about my grade". I go in to see her and she tells me our group paper was "Terrible", and that she didn't think I should take the final because "It would be a waste of my time because I won't pass", I currently have a 73%. The issue with her statement is she has not posted 3 grades yet, and could not give me an answer as to what those grades would be.

Another problem I have with her is that we never seem to talk on the same level. She takes everything I say as an attack and never seems to understand what I am asking. For example, when she told me the paper was "terrible" I said that was not very constructive, and that really made her angry at me.

I just got back from a job interview in another state that went really well, I am almost sure they are going to hire me, but now I have this issue. The company paid to fly me out and had an amazing facility. This spiteful bitch is going to not only fail me, but cost me a great job as well.


How should I handle this? Should I talk to the dean? Should I email her and ask to rewrite the parts she feels are lacking? Should I assume the organization that interviewed me won't care? Can I bribe her?
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I just got back from a job interview in another state that went really well, I am almost sure they are going to hire me, but now I have this issue. The company paid to fly me out and had an amazing facility. This spiteful bitch is going to not only fail me, but cost me a great job as well.


How is a college prof. unless they go out of their way to spite you will prevent you from getting a job?
If its really that bad I would take it up with the related Dean assuming your report really wasn't shit. What is the class if I may ask?

I had terrible professors however I have never had a professor that would go out of the way to stop me from passing. Even the worst ones would at least offer insight on how to improve or focus studying on.
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>>17812185
They are going to hire me under the assumption I get a degree, if I fail this class I won't get a degree.

The class is called Business Strategy, it's just a bullshit course that everyone in the business college has to take senior year.

I just hope the dean can do something, I don't know if they even care about this kind of thing.
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>>17812378
Sounds like your professor is being absolutely ridiculous.
I think talking to the dean is a good idea. If you clearly, calmly, and politely explain the situation I think the dean will definitely see that it's messed up.

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