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I want to move to a city on the US west coast and potentially go to university. What's are some cities that are affordable and have cool things to do? Thanks!
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>>17812709
Seattle is affordable I hear
University go to ucsb and fuck skanks in isla vista
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i've heard good things about Seattle and Portland.
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>>17813862
>Seattle
>Portland
>Both cities having an affordable housing crisis
Gotta admit that I love it up here, though.
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How do you know when it's time to end your life? 2016-12-01 08:30:28 Post No.17812697
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How do you know when it's time to end your life?
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I mean that exactly how it's worded
I really want to raise a question on suicide
Not "if I should" or "if I shouldn't"
but "when" would it be appropriate to do it
under what circumstance would it be okay to do it?
surely one exists
is it when you have nothing?
is it when you've failed at everything you've ever tried to do in your entire life?
do you have to be a cripple?
a loser?
have all your kids die or something tragic of that sort to set you off?
a war?
when you have given it your all and you came up short and things really show no sign of improving and you know your best years are behind you, and both objective and subjectively life doesn't seem worth living, is it okay to do it?
what would you deem acceptable criteria for committing suicide if there really was any?
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When you do it
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>>17812700
what do you mean?
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>>17812697
In my opinion there are two conditions:
1. That nobody would be made sad by you dieing. And no, "I have a family but surely they won't miss me" is not an excuse, that's just being a whiny bitch
2. That it's something you've thought trough and came to as a rational conclusion, and not something brought on by a terrible mood you're currently having.
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>landlords' daughter is a qt
>she's a year older and just graduated uni
>I'm 1st year uni still
>we hang out occassionally (mostly weekends)
>get high together
Do I have a chance?
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>>17812693
no, give up.
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>>17812695
This
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>>17812695
want to elaborate?
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Where do I get advice when I have no friends? And my threads on /adv/ rarely get more than two replies.
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My advice is suck my dick
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>>17812644
Learn to ask advice better
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JUST DO STUFF
BE PLACES
JOIN THINGS
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>visiting GF in Osaka over Christmas break
>also want to visit another friend (girl) in Toyko whom I haven't seen in two years yet have still kept in touch with
>gf and I will be in Tokyo for a weekend, but due to schedules I would have to stay an extra day to see friend and otherwise go through a huge hassle, e.g. take an 8-hour bus alone to get back to Osaka
>gf is very bothered by this
>my reasoning: she's just a friend, but we've managed to keep in touch and I just want to see her to sustain the friendship, don't know when I could be in Japan again
>gf not having it
Any advice? Should I just suck it up and lose a friend because it makes my girlfriend uncomfortable?
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Nope.
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>>17812629
She feels like it's her or the other woman. Would you like to be in her position and feel like the other man?
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Anyway to meet her for lunch or something with your gf?
Your gf would probably be a bit more chill if there was another dude or like a group there. Any other friends?
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In a bit of a pickle /adv/.
I'm the type of guy who likes to go to parties, get buzzed and hook up. I can easily hook up with almost any girl I want given some booze, a party, and a few minutes with her.
Here's the thing. I haven't had a girlfriend in almost 2 years. I haven't dated in almost 2 years. A few weeks ago this girl I had met 2 years ago hit me up on SC. She doesn't drink and definitely doesn't have sex, but she's beautiful and I want her as a GF.
I have no idea where to start. She just went through a breakup.
I'm 18 in HS, she's a couple years younger than me. I don't have much rapport with her, just stuff on SC. How should I date her? Doubledate with some friends? Where do we go? How do I make it not awkward and build attraction without a loose party environment?
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>>17812565
How does it feel to be a rapist?
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>>17812565
>Hey do you wanna go to X place to hang out?
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>>17812567
Fuck off, in my state it is legal. Plus I'm not looking for sex.
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My brother had a rough divorce. His ex left him for some rich douchebag that inherited a lot of money, and she moved across the country to basically live in his mansion like a freeloader. Being single, he had to work a lot of hours to take care of his kid, and since he wasnt home, he had the mother-in-law take the kid in. Was working fine for awhile but the Mom came back and kidnapped the kid and took them all the way to her home. The mother had legal custody and was allowed to do this. She enrolled the kid in school and the courts ruled in her favor since the kid was being taken care of and was fucking rich as shit now!
Hes tried writing letters to his kid, but it sounds like the mother hides them and then lies saying he no longer cares. From the few letters we recieved, it sounds like the mother is lying a lot to paint him as a badguy. Its causing them issues in school now and is acting out.
I'm trying to think of a way he can communicate with his kid now. I had an idea where he would look up her school and have her called into the office just so he can phone the kid and try to set up a private email conversation with the kid without the mothers knowledge. I think it sounds kinda weird and creepy, but I figure the Ex isnt going to play fair and let him actually talk. Im not sure how good of an idea this is or what other ideas we could use.
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some women can be bitches, heres how, however, its possible backfire here
social media, facebook, twitter, instagram, have his pics be of him with them so they know, he can talk to them and explain what happens
moms are retarded and don't know about social media
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My ex left me for a rich inheritance douche bag too her family loves him too idk what your brother can do to connect with his kid but I'm pretty suicidal at this point I'll get rid of them If you want
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Try kik or tumblr. Just remember to use a different name so that the mom won't notice.
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Does sex really feel *that* good?
I cant imagine it feeling as good as to where so many are obsessed with it. Whats the big deal?
Ive masterbaited before and have climaxed but maybe im doing it wrong but it really feels just kinda meh.
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To me it's nice to feel that someone wants you in that way. It's hard to describe, but yea it's great. Especially if its someone who you have a special connection with.
Unless they are fat. Then I just feel shame after I kick them out.
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>>17812551
I think a lot of it is the connection with the other person, at least for me. It also feels good but not mind blowing or anything, like receiving a back rub or something. And the climax is good but pretty short.
It's the entire experience really, the attraction to their body, the kissing and touching and being close to each other.
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>>17812551
This is like saying you have experience in being a soldier cause you play Call Of Duty everyday.
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Hello /adv/ i would like some help, preferably from someone with psychiatric/psychological experience, or anyone really.
Growing up i played a lot of video games, around 8 - 12 hours a day. I didn't socialise much and i was a shut in. I am now 18 years old (turned 18 this year).
I'm going to university next year and i'm planning on quitting playing video games to study all day. I'm planning on studying from when i wake up, going to my lectures if i had them, and down to when i go to sleep.
What would be the effect to a long time gamer like me. Video games have always been my stress reliever/refuge, I'm worried without it i would perform worse.
Im thinking if i'm passionate in what i'm studying i would never become tired of studying all day, and i'll be able to keep it up for the whole year.
I guess i'm asking for help in how to keep balance between work and play.
any feedback is greatly appreciated.
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No one's able to study literally all day or else they'd burn out.
It's ok to play videogames. Just prioritize your schoolwork and studies over them. NEVER fall behind in college. NEVER.
I'm a 20 year old sophomore in community college. I'm transferring fall 2017. I don't know how much harder classes are going to be but I'm already preparing my study habits.
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>>17812475
Allow yourself 2 hours of video games a day at the same time every day
You'll die studying all day everyday
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1) You won't have enough material to study for that long. I promise you.
2) Don't do that, you'll burn yourself out and drop out within a year.
3) Go out and socialize instead. Uni is a chance for a clean slate start, nobody has any preconceived notions about you.
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Quickest way to get a job
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Guys what are the quickest ways of getting jobs? I've had it with this shit I just wanna get the first shitty job I can find. I just wanna make shitty money so I can live in my honda crv and go camping sometimes, maybe smoke dmt and go on a voyage of spiritual discovery. I gotta get the ball rolling, I'm losing my mind and going nowhere fast anything is better than this, I'll join the fucking circus if I have to just take these chains off! Please just take them off! All this comfort and microwave pizza and easily available pornography has made me soft and I'm hooked. I'm a joke. Free me from the pain...
Please...
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Craigslist Jobs section. Shit loads of places to apply.
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>>17812466
>honda crv
Just ask your parents for money. I know the CRV isn't a new car but I doubt you can get a used one for under 5-6k unless it has really high miles.
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>>17812466
Listen dude here's some advice from someone who went down that road you were on.
Making shit money sucks. Yea I partied, fucked, did drugs, and admittedly had a lot of fun. However, when you start to see your friends making advancements in their career, not living with shit roommates, and getting to do the things that money unlocks it takes a toll on you. And let me state I'm not a big spender, but for someone who loves travel like me, not having the money to go where I want kills me.
I'm 27 now, back in college with a two semesters left of a stem degree. It sucks, but school isn't too hard in all honesty. Go have fun for a bit but realize being broke all the time isn't really living.
Money doesn't necessarily buy happiness but it unlocks more doors that can lead to it.
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>live with parents
>realize theres no point in getting a gf because you wont have privacy to have sex because parents are annoying
Wow why didnt anyone tell me this
How am i supposed to smash qts with my parents breathing down my neck?
>just move out bro lol
Im a poor college student working part time in LA where rent is $1500 a month for a 1 bedroom.
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You're assuming the girl you get with doesn't have her own place, or a way to have some alone time. That's pretty unrealistic. There's a very good chance the girl you hook up with shares an apartment with some other chicks. And you can bang all you want in her room, because it's her place and her roommates can suck a dick if they don't like it. But in reality, they don't give a fuck, because they're doing that shit too.
Anyway, you're counting chickens before they hatch. Knock it off. Don't let yourself get shown up by some lame 15 year olds who regularly manage to be creative enough to find ways to fuck undetected.
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>le poorfag college student thread
Just Rent a hotel room, bang a few times, then watch tv or go to the pool. I absolutely despise the poorfag excuse for getting anything done
>Bu-but Im poor! Muh munies
So are the people in Sudan and yet it hasnt stopped them from fucking
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>>17812468
Okay OP here let me clarify
I actually do have a gf who also lives with her parents and we do have sex like once a week or every two weeks when we have time and none f our parents are home. First of all its not enough for either of us. Secondly sometimes we just want to sleep together?? Like were ganna be falling asleep anyways why not together?
I asked my dad if my gf could sleepover but he said "no i want my provacy" even though i live in a large house and we barely ever leave my room. I cant spend money on grimy motels every week thats ridiculous. People in sudan can literally have sex whenever they want
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What to do when you want to hurt people/kill people? 2016-12-01 05:49:56 Post No.17812414
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What to do when you want to hurt people/kill people?
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Title. I don't want to kill or hurt innocent people, I want somebody to give me a "reason" to hurt or kill them, such as hurting me or somebody close to me, or having to stop somebody killing or hurting others. I've though about this since I was a kid and it's just increased the older I have gotten. I'm 22 now and I feel like I am going to try to murder the next person to wrong me even if they do not really deserve to be hurt or killed, which scares me because I do not want to be in prison or to kill people who don't deserve it. I want to hurt and kill, but I also don't want to because of moral, practical, and legal reasons. I am frightened at my innate desire for violence and murder and do not know what to do. I feel like I can't tell my counselors because they are allowed to break HIPAA regulations and tell the police if I want to hurt others. I tried once when I was younger and she tried to have me medicated and locked up so I am frightened to confide again.
I don't know what to do. I have this inborn desire for violence and pain but I don't know how to have a safe, healthy outlet for it or how to seek help for it without getting locked up in a looney bin. My mom has the same predisposition towards violence but she was able to get away with her outbursts because she never managed to really hurt anyone (she's a slight, small woman) and was pretty enough to escape consequences after the fact. I am not small or a pretty girl so if I lose my shit I'll get locked up or killed. i feel like I am out of options here.
Any advice is welcome. I feel like I am out of options here. I'm scared I am going to seriously hurt someone over some small transgression and ruin their life and mine as well.
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Bump. Please help. I have no idea what to do.
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>>17812414
Sounds like you got molested as a child
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1) Go on long walks, anywhere, your mind will be calmer
2) Think about something to occupy your time, jobs, hobbies
3) Do what you were thinking of to occupy your time
Now repeat long walks in your free time. Look up meditation, slow and steady breathing techniques.
How do I be more confident in speaking to other humans? I feel like I stutter a lot and my tone goes so low in volume and it resembles a child's voice.
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OP here
I am a 20 year old male.
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Go to a speech therapy
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Well for a start you need to keep practising as you will get better over time.
Learn from people whose speech you like, mimic certain aspects that you like.
Think about your posture and how you project your voice too. Standing upright and projecting your voice from your lungs is a good way to make it sound 'fuller' but not really louder. I think you have to do this to sing- making your voice louder without shouting.
Learn how to sing.
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Just got out of a year long relationship and I'm feeling kinda down
It's like I'm not comfortable in my own skin. I used to have ambitions and goals and all that but while in the relationship, I was under the impression that it was it. That I had found my girl for the rest of my life and I would have nothing to worry about anymore.
Come to find out she was void of emotions, never made time for anyone else other than her kid, school, work, and family, and she blamed me for everything
I guess I just need to know where I should go from here. I'm working out every other day and watching what I eat more vigorously. I'm trying to write more to fill that void and I'm getting a new job in a month making double what I make now ($70k)
I just need to know what else I can do.
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>>17812401
It gets better with time. I'm guessing it's pretty recent, based on how you're describing it. It won't be long before it stops hurting as badly and you get the proper perspective. I think you're on a good track. Keep building your life, and try to do things that fulfill you.
I've been through seven serious breakups now I think and looking back now I see them all as bullets dodged or friends who redefined their relationships. Even though it felt like it at the time, nobody could truly tear my heart out.
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>her kid
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Thanks man (or woman?)
and yeah. I guess the kid should have been a big red flag for me...
I should be grateful that this ended but after putting that much time and effort into something, it sucks that I couldn't keep it afloat
I guess I kinda blame myself.
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Does anyone have advice for any of these problems?
>gf left me for an older man who vapes
>I eat too much
>my job sucks, and I know my mom is disappointed in me
>I have zero motivation to work on art, or get back into the art scene. In fact, I feel like I wasted my entire life with it
>need a library card; scared to approach library man
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>gf left me
Oh well. Most people will be dumped a few times in their life. It sucks. You move on with time.
>eat too much
Then eat more protein and drink a fuckload of water all day, so you don't feel hungry as often. If that doesn't work, you may have a psychological reason for your eating habits, in which case, see a shrink.
>job sucks
Then start looking for a new one. Don't quit before you have a new one lined up. But always be looking for the next opportunity.
>mom is disappointed
That's her problem. You probably fucked up a lot to make her disappointed, but ultimately, it's her responsibility for her feelings. The only thing you can do is improve your life for yourself, and hopefully she becomes proud of your work.
>motivation problems
Passions and hobbies aren't a waste of life. They're what you have in life to fill the holes between having to work/support yourself. Do art when the mood strikes. If it doesn't, then oh well. Find a new passion.
>library card
Nothing anyone here can tell you about how to fix that. You just have to ask, "I need to get a library card," and you're done. If you're terrified of talking to strangers, the only way to become unterrified is to do it so much that it becomes normal.
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>>17812399
Ok this might sound kinda strange, and it's not a 'fix all' but if you try these steps, they're guaranteed to make your life a little bit more... ROBUST. Remember to do them all without question.
1. Stop jerking off
2. Get into a fist fight
3. Fist fight your dad
4. Fist fight your dad
5. Oxycontin 80s in your room for a month
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>>17812417
Art was supposed to be my career, and I completely failed. I'm 27 and can't hold down an art career to save my life. I feel like such a failure.
I wish I'd never done to design school. Ruined my life.