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>>17810304
you do realize Tinder is a fuck app?

Being obsessive doesn't mean anything other than she develops obsessions quickly and will as quickly drop it and move to another and likely one of the guys she caught in her Tinder net.

>>17810304
you really shouldn't date some one from tinder...

>>17810314
>someone from tinder
Meaning anyone whose single nowadays, riiight.

>>17810277
>betraying my trust
how did she betray your trust? she accused you.

Anyway stop doing drugs together

Take mdma, she'll fall in love with you again

>>17810282
She promised that she was feeling okay and wouldn't act out while high, even though she knew she might she kept it to herself

And yeah we aren't going to do psychdelics again together any time soon, we did shrooms together once and she was a bit weird then too for a bit (although not nearly as bad) which is why I wanted to be sure she would be ok this time

>>17810271
might just be twinges of jealousy you're feeling, take her own a date and gauge her reaction, if excited then everything's normal, if not then you have some grounds to confront her. Something along the lines of "usually you're excited for dates whats up I noticed you've been off lately and been kinda flirty with other people?" be warned it might spark an argument. Just be gentle, communication in a relationship is pretty damn important.

Thanks ^^^ I will definitely take your advice. Turns out we are scheduled for a date.

>>17810271
>rather intimate
You mean how do you make her stop. Impossible unless she does it on her own without your intrusion. I say intrusion because that is how she will see any comment from you. You are intruding on her rather intimate chats with other men. She knows she is in a relationship yet still wants to do this. Wake up OP.

>>17810252

Did you read the information leaflet in the package? They usually have this type of information in them.

>>17810252
Yes
But like all docs will tell you... In moderation. No medication is licensed if you're getting shit faced with it

I'd be more concerned about drinking with zolpidem. They both make you sleepy. The both work on the same receptor (in different ways). You ideally shouldn't be on it for long too

>doctor

>>17810262
Oh yeah, benzo's also act on the same receptor

There is little need to blast your GABA system from three different angles

>>17810245
Don't drink coffee.

>>17810245
Cigs, monster, adderall

Why tho?

>>17810258
I know, it makes me crash. I need to figure out how to time the coffee intake for 3 days.

>>17810260
>Why tho?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIHEuYfDypg
I need to achieve a long sought dream, I am an American who came here as a baby with my mother who had been apparently raped by a Chinese man. I am half Asian. All I have to do is stay awake 3 days and I'll have achieved a dream of mine. Sorry if it sounds cryptic or bizarre.

Ehhh this sounds really shady. Are you sure that this guy is going to pay you, as opposed to you degrading yourself to rule out "competition" and him laughing at you before leaving?

Even if it is 100% legit, have some self respect. If you crawl for him he knows you'll go far for him and you don't want that, it's too big a power imbalance on top of the age and financial situation. If you were a real high class escort you would tell a possible client that it goes both ways, you can find other business as well so he can make up his mind by himself.

Also, you're going to be a sugar baby, he's not going to pay you for being smart. You will get paid to suck his dick like you need to feed your children from it, be cute and young and hang at his every word, make him feel like the big man, be pretty and charismatic and well-groomed. That's about it.

ugh- well I am a 25 year old multi billionaire.

He won't figure that one out. He will just stop fucking talking to you.

I am personally an -under 30fag- multimillionare, I settle with dicking prostitutes, and temptining arrangement marriages with Thai slutbag immigrants because I am done with life at an early ass age.

have fun caring about things the way poor people do. it is better when you care you can get along easier with human beings.

>>17810217
>Are you sure that this guy is going to pay you, as opposed to you degrading yourself to rule out "competition" and him laughing at you before leaving?
His money and age are confirmed/proven. Hes not in the same location as me, so hes only asking how far Im willing to go to prove myself as worth flying out.
>Also, you're going to be a sugar baby, he's not going to pay you for being smart.
It seems like everyone has to seem educated or at least be good at faking it. hence "charismatic"
>If you were a real high class escort you would tell a possible client that it goes both ways, you can find other business as well so he can make up his mind by himself.
I couldn't say that because well..10k is not the norm. I dont get inquiries like that every day and most girls never will unless its bullshit

Just think it's neither your fault NOR THEIRS.

Please

Don't let other people touch you, duh.

Tell her????????

>>17810174
He asked her to marry him, and she said yes. Not even before the wedding, and she dropped the commitment. Now you're commited to this girl. How do you see a future with this girl?

>>17810174
I don't understand. She is still with him just called off the wedding. How is it you believe she is with you?

>>17810170
Not sure, though it's possible she doesn't want you to see something.

>>17810170

Seems a bit weird for sure. But then again, I have group chats too that sometimes get a shit ton of bullshit messages, so maybe she didn't want those types of things to intrude on your time together. I'd say don't worry about it too much yet, but keep an eye out if her behaviour changes otherwise.

>>17810173
I forgot to mention, but one of the first things I noticed is the block screen. You know when you put your "password" in and the white lines appear on the blocks and such? After a while she removed the lines so it was harder to see what her password is.

From what I recall this is the first thing that irked me.

I can't provide advice, but you're not alone.

>>17810149
To be clear, the girl isn't the root of literally all my problems. I've done my share of self sabotage, but I've come to realize ever since she forced herself into my life things have slowly gone to shit. I didn't realize for a very long time that I was effectively in an angry, sexless, one-way relationship that took a major toll on me.

Also is tinder just a meme, or can you actually have success with it?
>not Chad but decently attractive

I came here looking for answers because but found none

I am also in a rut

It seems like we both need to stop abusing substances

1. Buddhist is a pretty vague term, that's like saying you want to be Christian, but there are so many denominations.

Mahayana, Hinayana, Theravada, Zen, Pure Land and Nichiren to name a few. Do some research, shop around.

2. In general, following the 5 precepts is a good place to start as that's common across pretty much every Buddhist tradition. Practices vary from sect to sect. Meditation is the most widely associated with Buddhism, but there is also studying sutras/koans, reciting mantras, walking meditation and some other things I can't bring to mind right now.

3. Find a Buddhist community near you. Despite how it may seem, Buddhism in general is not an isolatory religion. One of the Three Jewels is the Sangra, or the Buddhist community. Finding a teacher and other practitioners of the way is nothing but helpful.

I can try to answer more questions if you have any, but I'll preface that with a disclaimer that I am a lay person and in no way an authority on Buddhism.

>>17810159
Out of all the different types which one is best suited for the modern day person, the person that wants to be enlightened but still maintain a lifestyle apart from the religion like not shaving your head for the sake of argument (I am aware that only monks do this) and other similar major lifestyle changes, I am open to change of diet and smaller practices.

>>17810211
There is no sect best suited to the modern day person. There is the sect and the way best suited to you personally. I can't give you the answers.

If you can't be bothered to put forth the effort to study Buddhism on your own, what makes you think you'll put forth the effort to reach enlightenment? Please make no mistake, Buddhism is a hard path to follow and not one you should jump into willy-nilly because enlightenment sounds nice.

No one saves us but ourselves.
No one can and no one may.
We ourselves must walk the path.

>>17810134
lmao my man you dun goof'd

not much you can do, I assume you're young, so just keep your shit together and don't spill any more spaghetti.
Don't do anything drastic, or anything more at all, just keep your cool. People like to mock "desperate" guys, so just chill.

The girl's not important anymore and is obviously uninterested, so just make sure you look after yourself and your own image. You don't want to be remembered as that guy.

>>17810134
It's not going to happen. Get over it and move on. Sorry pal.

Are you in high school? If so take this as a lesson. No girl will ever go for you if you lay yourself on a platter like that. Girls like the thrill of the chase. You have to make them somewhat interested first, then make them think they can't have you. Then you can think about being honest about your feelings.

>>17810134

She's not into you, doesn't want any part in your drama and just wants you to leave her alone. These are not unreasonable requests. It is also better for you if you keep your distance. Give yourself time to get over her. Understandably you feel like shit right now, but no one deserves to be treated the way she treats you. With time you'll realise this, too. She's not the only girl in the world, and believe me or not, most of then aren't such massive bitches. You can do better. Now just ignore her right back and pretend it didn't hurt at all. Don't let her know she's getting to you.

>>17810115
It means you should ask yourself a bunch of questions that will reveal your core characteristics. Questions that go beyond what your job, clothes, age and nationality are.
Ask yourself stuff along the following lines and see if you can answer it.
What are you passionate about?
What do you never wanna change about yourself?
What do you want to change about yourself?
What do you live for?
Etc.

>>17810115
It means it's a shitty therapist

>>17810129
Allright. Thx bro.

>>17810105
how old are you exactly, and don't lie pls, mods won't ban you

>>17810204
We both just turned 18 this year

>>17810105
>because my gf told my sister that I should kill myself
>expects you to side with her when your sister fought her in your defense
What kind of batshit insane girlfriend is this? Your sister had your back and will always be there for you. Drop dat hoe.

thats the hottest age range, maybe it isn''t maturity like you said-of the females, but the way the attention feels from a "slightly" older person of the opposite sex?

regardless of the reason yes it is normal, enjoy it, chase it, live in it because you will get older and change- and sooner or later that particular spark will too.

>>17810101
Same age as you bruh
Nothing abnormal about liking an experienced girl
Sometimes you want a break from annoying teenage girls

>>17810101
I usually went out with girls younger than me me they were all shit plastic people , then age 25 went out with a 32 year old , now i'm 30 shes 36 and its been the best relationship ever .And I once had a one night stand with a 44 year old when I was 24 and it was HOT HOT HOT , get in there friendo as long as they care about you , (look how they treat their family and friends)