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Do you still talk to her? If so, stop. Block her now. All you're doing is hurting yourself. There's plenty more out there, and so what if she ends up in the same city? Cities are big places. The chances of you running into her are slim. Also, the whole "being friends" thing doesn't work in my experience. You still have feelings for her, it's best to just remove her from your life and move on.

>>17809472
You need to seek the Lord and read His word.

1) Delete her from all social media
2) Actively stop yourself from stalking her
3) Hang out with other people, specifically other women
4) Drain excess energy by doing cardio, taking up a hobby, or lifting weights

This was my formula and it worked, nobody is irreplaceable except your mother and father.

Aquarela the shit out of it

>>17809469
what's Aquarela?

>>17809466
I like it anon.

>>17809459
Are all your teeth that yellow? Probably just some plaque build up.

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>>17809480
No, definitely not plaque, way to hard to be that.

Also sorry about the yellow tint, didnt have the best lighting. I also ment to say five teeth pulled, not four.

what? I thought only mature teeth had roots on them like that.

>bad at math
>pretty good at programming

you can't be good at programming without being good at math

you might be able to create basic algorithms and understand online examples, but you would not be able to figure out how to optimise your own unique problems in elegant and efficient ways

knowing -how- to program is not the same as being good at it

>>17809449
sozzles forgot to say go for IT.

>>17809451
How can I become better at math

Yea you got it pretty much
Just lay low and work on moving out

They don't seem to understand what's going on and that's ok
In time you'll get it and they'll see
They're just concerned about you and reacting the way they were taught to react, don't hold it against them

>>17809421
>couldn't get to work cos my money is going to them
why are you lying to us? you literally just said you're doing drugs. you're spending money on a recreation that is illegal, and usually pretty expensive.

>reminded a lot of how i idealise and rationalise everything and refrain from doing anything with my life
yes, hence the rationalising doing drugs.

you shouldn't be on drugs while your life is a mess. it doesn't help. it only makes it worse.

stop doing drugs, get back on your feet. then you can do whatever drugs you want. if your life gets fucked up again - guess what? it's the drugs.

>>17809454
>I don't really want to stop using drugs, but I'm not an addict
you what now bro? you wanna run that by yourself again? I've been a weed smoker but at least I was honest with myself about where $400 a month was going. I fucking hated life and where I was and I was too much of a bitch at the time to do anything about it so I took a job that paid enough to be a decent opportunity and fucking blew it because I just wanted to escape instead of actually do something about my problems. I could have had the business I have today 5 fucking years ago, but then I got high. pot is fucking garbage and the states that have legalized it have no idea the damage they've done that is going to start becoming apparent in about 5 years. I've been back to a state I lived in after legalization and it was completely transformed and not in a good way. it was like what I imagine reno was before the casinos completely fucked it up, while they were still fun and contributing somewhat to the economy.

don't fool yourself kid. pot is fucking garbage and being a stoner is no way to go through life. it's not that your parents are stupid, it's that they know. people like me get shit all the time because we're perceived as haters and assholes that want to ruin the party. well I've been to that party and then sobered up and realized it's a bit like getting hammered and waking up next to a shitty person except that shitty person is your whole life.

>partking in unprotected sex with an unattached person then getting them pregnant

God damn, this must be why the world is full of retards.

Anyway, I'd say give it a shot with the MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD.
You don't even know that chick, and getting along with somebody is important in a relationship which you've clearly got.

Or you can be a deadbeat dad and pay child support and all that gay shit and have a first child who's fucked up due to the fact that his dad is a total no-show in his life.

i do not understand why a woman would be chill about raising an accidental child 100% on her own

there are literally no advantages to it. you spend a lot of your own money on this child for at least 18 years. for what? happiness?

>>17809441
She probably thinks she's gonna get him to stay

>>17809414
What're the requirements/What're you writing about?

Ask the professor

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>>17809416
we picked topics

My topic was:

>Filial Piety by confucius, in modern China as well as the western world

my points I discussed:

>what is filial piety?

>how was it viewed by confucius, what did he stress in filial piety, what did it mean back then in his time

>how is filial piety considered today in China

>how is filial piety considered today in the western world


Here is a short list of things I think I can expand on:

>Buddhism and filial piety (we are required to talk about something we learned AFTER our previous essay, im going to somehow make buddhism relevant to my essay because we also talked about Daoism and holy FUCK that was confusing and made no sense to me)

>specifically talk about different western nations filial piety this time instead of just america vs china

and thats it

mic is fine, that's mains interference

desktop or laptop?

>>17809411
Desktop. What's interference, how do I fix it?

>>17809412
electricity from the grid that powers your home gets picked up and interferes with the audio signal

fix it by grounding. keep a hand or foot pressed against the casing on the tower while you're recording. make sure it's bare metal like a screwhead or something. bare skin too.

cell phones can fuck with the signal too sometimes. try putting your phone into airplane mode if it's near by.

Bump because this is almost word by word my situation. I think maybe using pills for a few times will help me getting over the anxiety. Will really appreciate the advice of someone who went through the same.

>>17809371
Have you talked about it with her?
>>17810051
And no dont take fkin pills lmao

>>17810051
Dude, pills can help. I strongly recommend you to not do so. You're apparently all right and healthy, no reason to take pills. Just talk to her and try to relax when you are making out before sex...

>>17809365
The stigma of being a male nurse has long since passed.

Friends a male nurse.
I remember him telling me that a few female nurses shit on him for it, but that was more because they were feminist who thought nursing was a woman's job.
You're a medical professional regardless though so you'll get respect. If they don't respect you just take pride in knowing you probably make double what most people do and you will eventually reach a six digit income if you keep going to school and pushing yourself.

>>17809365

>id be most interested in

no anon, only you know what you'd be itnerested in.

that being said you will get soem shit for it but most people wont care. you wont date female doctors, but female nurses are fine. there are a lot more male nurses than you think.

Additional info: we have a mutual friend and she has come up in my friend suggestions

Doesn't matter if it's creepy

You won't even have a chance if you dont

>>17809596
Yea dude.. Just be straight up and manly about it.

That way its not creepy I.E.

>friend request accepted "anon" is now your friend
>"hey anon its me from your class!"

>"Oh hey anon, I think i remember you.. Did we ever talk?"

>"No actually, we just eyed each other all semester long x) I wanted to introduce myself because I think you're very attractive but I was in a relationship (could use some work here, might look like your looking for a rebound fuck)

Honesty mixed with confidence is fucking gold bro, just tell her whats up, if she shoots you down she wasnt worth your time anyways, at least you'll know.

You will be a good man in every way one day op, I genuinely believe in you. Read Dostoievski, it's the key.

>>17809297
>Read Dostoievski
will that heal the fact that my divorced mom and my aunt pushed for me to "help" raise my siblings since I was like 16, they always complained when I did stuff like go on the computer or play video games and manipulated me when I didn't do as they wanted? I was bullied so much in my house that I felt like shit.

Now that I work as a software tester and automation they are suddenly fine with my love for computers only because it's my job even though they hated me for it and told me to stop using computer and to grow up just weeks before.

Will it make me not think that all women are going to verbally and emotionally abuse me? Will it make me stop being ashamed for the things I like?

I'm just some loser that has no skills besides doing software engineering and watching some anime in the weekend.

>>17809280

realize they are like human men, only weaker.

U have to make a full stop behind the line on red, then you can make a right turn. If it was a camera the video will show if ur guilty or not. If an actual officer pulled up over, ur fucked

you must stop completely, 100% stopped. No rolling stop, no half-in between, none of that.

You got ticketed because you "slid" past the red light. If you are to turn right on red, then you must stop completely, look, and THEN go.

overall you should drive like a goody two shoes. Hell, I'm sure there are cops out there sliding past stop lights, because they know no one is getting hurt.

It was camera.

What is she even doing?

>>17809266
>>17809266
grab her by the pussy and show her your dominance

>>17809266

Baise la ça ira mieux entre vous

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>>17809185
KEKED

>>17809190
Is that all you have to say?

>>17809185
You know the drill
Poison in coffee cup then cover it up