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Is it possible to consciously shift from invisible and inconspicuous symptoms of psychiatric issues into visible and obvious ones? I have a fucking impossible time trying to convince mental professionals that there would be anything actually fucking WRONG, no matter how many brief emergency stints I do in an intensive care unit.

Is it possible to somehow consciously MAKE your mental issues big, loud and undeniable in some singlehanded act, if you appear functional otherwise?

Violence, of course, would be the thing, but I don't want to kill someone or hurt an animal, amd hurting myself doesn't seem to do the trick.
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in australia i've seen people get results by pretty much leaving it untreated, and one day they just seem to snap and have an episode and get sent to the psych ward. where they get treated - thoroughly.

i think you can go to a hospital and tell them you are afraid you're going to kill yourself?
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>>17837449
Oh, I've been sent to a ward on an ambulance twice so far. First for a suicide attempt. They kept me for two weeks - not treated, just given some pill - and let me walk out.

Then for having a breakdown at work. They kept me for a week - not treated, just given some different pill - and let me walk out.

I'm pretty sure I'd need to kill somebody.
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>>17837411
Mental health only care about teenage girl problems. They don't understand male psychiatric problems. Welcome to the matriarchy.

Steroid general won't help me, they usually provide me with good advice but they are ignoring my shit now reee

I did an autism today guys.

These two twins, really cute, were walking down the hallway.

Smiled at them, one of them smiled back at me, told her twin 'I'm actually gonna go ride the bike (kek, I don't think she was talking about ladyvar' for 10 mins, and looked at me.

I kept walking to the locker room.

Clearly she wanted me to go talk to her, r-right?

I have no real game, I just approach girls in the parking lot and talk about the weather 'Sure is cold huh? What's your number!'

That's what works for me

What should I say to her? Also how do I know which of the twins it was that wants the D.

I don't ever hit on girls in the gym I just do that in the parkng lot and online dating.

Clearly my SLICK weather game won't work indoors.

What say? What do?

Also,

>Why do you care so much why not just hit on some other girl

Has to be that girl, there was a look in her eyes that really got to me, I want her bad.
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>>17837328

bump
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>>17837398

No ideas?

>Inb4 talk to her

yeah fucking obviously what do I say

I clearly have autism throw me a bone fucking normies
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>>17837437

bump

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I am likely to be seeing somewhere between $40-50k in a settlement. I recognize that this isn't a LOT of money, but it's certainly enough money to do right by myself. After paying off some modest debt, the rest of it is in the air.

Do I,
>Sit tight, put a large amount in a CD, pad my savings and checking accounts a bit, and continue working full-time and paying rent

>Invest the money into the family house. My dad is a carpenter and there's an old barn that, with some insulation and plumbing, would make a nice, private studio apartment for me. This means cheap rent, free utilities, and all the privacy of my own place.

>Travel to some country where $40k is a lot more money and I won't be thrown in a ditch for being white. Maybe somewhere with a strong spiritual culture.

Other suggestions are welcome
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>>17837316

Split between renovating the barn and saving. Investing your money into the barn saves you money, right?
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Go with the 2nd option.
After you get nice and settled start investing your money into a 401k and put it away in Savings. Cheap rent and no utility bills will help you with saving more money.
3rd option is stupid, youd probably make it 1 year then have to go back to square one.

Buy your parents a hot tub too.
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I'm embarrassed to ask, but what is a CD in this context?

My girlfriend is significantly better than me at smash bros and dragon Ball xenoverse. My 13 year old brother will probably roast me when he finds out.
How do you gain confidence? This was one of the most humiliating things I've had happen and I never had enough confidence to feel good about myself after the situation
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Stop being a bitch and man up.
>worrying about your 13 year old brother roasting you
Kick his ass at Smash or give him a wedgie you underaged fuck
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>>17837311
If I beat him up I'll send him to the hospital. It almost happened before. Honestly um more worried about the general fact that a girl beat me. /v/ will never let me live this down.
Also I'm 19
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>>17837335
Worrying never solves anything. If you feel embarassed by losing smash bros, either train until you're the best or give up.

Hi, well, I need advice on how to make my ass look better, the skin near to my butt crack is a little darker than the rest of my ass, and I noticed lately that the skin around my asshole is a little irritated, I'd like to have a smoother and homogeneous ass in terms of skin.
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Wash more for the irritation.
They have procedures for bleaching assholes or if you want to do it yourself pour some hydrogen peroxide on a rag and wipe on the dark skin. Should bleach it.
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>>17837307
Ty :)
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>>17837332
Youre welcome fag

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What's a good way to deal with anxiety for someone without access to insurance/real medicine?

I used to smoke a bowl of weed before bed and that would usually help my anxiety a lot, but I'm living with my parents again while I go back to school and I don't want to risk smoking in the house.

I'm having trouble sleeping because of my anxiety, but I'm not in a position I can seek professional help. Any tips?
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Go for a walk and smoke a bowl you dummy.
When your parents ask why youre not very talkative just say the walk wore you out.
Doesnt even have to be a long walk, go walk around the block or walk to the park.
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you smoke outside of the house dumbfuck. how hard is that to process? make a joint and smoke outside. even if you can't roll one, get a machine to roll cigarettes and make a joint with one of those.
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>>17837290
I live in a gated community with security dudes that drives around, I don't know if there's anywhere I could go I wouldn't be paranoid of being caught. (smoking in public also makes me incredibly anxious)

Can't smoke in my car--mom would recognize the smell in an instant.

Don't wanna go into the woods, two weeks ago a dude's dog was attacked by an alligator. No parks near me. I'm kind of in an awkward position here.

Not to mention I'm new to the area, so absolutely no friends. Once I'm out of weed, I wouldn't know how to begin to find more. I usually just got it through my ex girlfriend.

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What kind of mind is the kind of mind that gets "shattered" by the use of psychedelics?
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the type of mind that hasn't met itself
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My sister has diagnosed bipolar and a deep family history schizophrenia, and really the two are on strongly related and usually considered in the same family of problems.

She took LSD for the first time in her life after moving to Tennessee and started to have vivid hallucinations of rotting bodies of her relatives and of the devil living in her house and doing horrible things, two weeks after the dose.

A mind already partially broken.
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>>17837708
Not OP but holy shit that's a powerful statement. I'm struggling with mental health problems after smoking weed and I've been looking for answers

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So I decided to start drinking a gallon of water a day because it apparently clears up your face pretty well acne wise. All I have at my disposal are Dasani bottles so I just wung it. I ended up having 12-15 bottles per day because that amount looked right. I would just refill them in my sink constantly. I noticed my acne disappeared completely 2.5 days after starting, and now my face is starting to look more elastic/young again, so obviously I thought I was doing it right. I find out a week after starting, today, that only 7 bottles equal a gallon. Just wondering if their are any health concerns for drinking 2 gallons of water like this in a day.
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I'm impressed. How old are you and what kind of acne did you have?
As for the water, if you feel fine I wouldn't worry about it... maybe eat more salt to balance out
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Yes, that's too much water.

"Too much water" is a very rare thing to happen, but it certainly can happen. You'll be fine, as long as you cut down.

I'd say a little less than one gallon of water a day is the normal, ideal amount one should drink daily.
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Yes, it can be dangerous.

Overhydration can cause serious damage to your kidneys and liver.

A lot of how your kidneys can process water also determines how much water your body is using. If you're not active/not working out, it can be pretty easy to drink too much. Honestly a full gallon already sounds a little excessive. hyponatremia isn't something you want to fuck with, you can seriously hurt yourself.

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Why do so many non-white women like white dudes? I'm a non-white woman and I find most white men gross, unappealing, awkward, and totally unmasculine. I honestly don't get the appeal save aside a few.
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>>17837176
money changes everything

LOL
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personality
money
looks
theres a multitude of things that people can see in their partner
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>>17837176
that's fucking racist

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Not sure I'm gonna get called for an interview, but what do I do if they call me during my work day? Just call them back? That seems like the non speak option but I am a total sperg. Maybe tell management that I'm waiting on a call about a family member who has been injured to find out if they need a ride or anything? Idk. I really want that fucking job. A qt who works there told me to call her but I lost her number immediately (I was working the register at my work) and I was talking about applying so I am unable to use her as a reference. So maybe talk me out of psyching myself out?
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>>17837129
what ?

if you gave them your job number just tell them you are working right now & when is a good time for you to call back

otherwise don't sweat it you might get the job !
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>>17837195
I realize the OP sounds insane, I am freaking out because of running out of Xanax and so when I was typing it sounded clear in my head but looking back now that I've calmed down a bit it doesn't make much sense at all.
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Getting a job at a movie theatre is the easiest thing in the fucking world. They called me about two weeks after sending in my application, I didn't answer the phone when they called so I called them back and asked for management, and my interview lasted maybe 10 minutes before I was hired.


Have any questions? I'll answer what I can.

I am 23 and little bro is 14. Over the years, he has grown increasingly arrogant and has a very short temper. He still has amazing results at school (except lately) but has a lot of problem with authority, either at school or my parents (father is incredibly pushy). He often forget to do his homework, incredibly lazy, lack of ambition and very childish for his age (I didn't help, I kinda introduced him to gaming and keep playing with legos with him and sometimes acting like a child with him).

My question is, how can I reverse this? I often go to movies or go out with him and do interesting things but it never lasts long and the cycle of his shitty attitude continues. We did remove his computer to reduce his video game time but it also never lasts long because my parents kinda lack spine and brother becomes an absolute asshole (saying a lot of non sense like the computer is worth more than me and he'd rather die etc...).

I maintain overall good relations with him but when he hurts my parents with his attitude, I feel like giving the whopping of 3 lifetimes.

Advice?
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is it because of girls?
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Remember he's 14 and probably going through puberty, hormones, girls, etc.
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>>17837117
>17837117
I used to be where your brother was towards computers and games and ect. See if you can get your brother away from the games/comp.

Those things used to be my life when i would get home from school. I did have fun with friends whenever i got invited (usually only invited, too introverted to initiate a hang-out session).

See if you can find ways to get your brother to interact with people and have outting with friends more often. The computer is great, but living on there and gaming to pass time can get unhealthy if done religiously.

In the end, he's gotta make the transition on his own. Find him an out for his angst and ideas. I used to go pretty hard on my parents when i couldn't have games. Feel bad, but it's like someone taking away your favorite toy.

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Yesterday i went on a date with a girl, i met her online and on the phone it was awesome, i'm kinda childish and when i came out with stupid questions she said "aww i would eat you", also i'm shy and not very talkative so, the phone was perfect
When i finally met her she was very small and i told her i thought you were taller, she got "mad" because of that because she wrote and said that to me before, i got nervous because i fucked up on the first words, that destroyed all of my confidence, i couldn't think on something to talk about even when we chatted A LOT on the phone, she didn't talk too much, but she said me first i wasn't a very talkative person, we talked somethings though
Anyway, she got into a bad mood and i wasn't cute when i came out with stupid questions, i was an idiot, she didn't even want to talk in a moment, i was talking and all she said it was "as you say"
I acted very innocent and like a child, it was very disappointing deep down, because we chatted about kisses, wet dicks, bites, and a lot of other things, but she didn't start nothing of that and i hadn't the confidence to do it either, so she saw the worst of me, i'm a pussy with girls, i think this is the primary fault of all the date
She invented an excuse to end all, she told me she had time until 9pm but all ended at 7:30pm, we met us at 5:30pm, when i came back to home, we chatted a little and i told her "you said you were a straight talker" and that was the last message she read, after that i told her "i want to know if you would like to see me again", she hasn't opened that message and the two others i sent. I would send her a voice note saying all the things i want to say, and asking her to block me, she probably won't read though

>tl;dr i want help not to be a pussy when it comes to physical contact, kisses, hugs and all that
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>>17837045
english is not your first language, right?

It's ok, you just need practice. Don't send more than two messages without a reply unless you are trying to inform her of something (actually) important. It can be scary to try to make contact at first - when you're sitting somewhere just put your arm around her; that was easiest for me.
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>>17837068
no it is not, and i tought i was decent

Anyway the arm thing is a good idea, but i want another answer besides practice and experience, i have another date on monday and if i doesnt came out as i want it would destroy me very bad

Also, i feel like the things with this girl are over, i just want her to hear me what i want to say, i feel like nothing i could say or do would change anything, she lost all their interest on me
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>>17837045
>i told her i thought you were taller
why the fuck would you say that
imagine if a girl said that to you

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how do i obtain enough knowledge about myself to be able to fill charts like this
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>>17837044
You approach it from the wrong direction, first you need the knowledge about the shit, then analyzing how it applies to you. For the second step, putting yourself in different situations and reflection over your choices there can do the trick. If you want to cheat, just ask friends.

Generally, this charts are full of shit because people suck at self reflection, and by realizing that you're one step further than most.
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>>17837044
>>17837054
Interesting. I always have a really hard time filling these out as well. I get really frustrated. Same with that shit that asks you to describe your ideal partner.
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>>17837044
why do you want to fill this out?

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This might sound stupid.

But does anyone else here ,who considers their personality/disposition to be more naturally masculine, feel as though society is telling them masculinity is wrong?

I mean, maybe theres a bunch of mentally ill sjw where I live.

But I've been yelled at a bunch for minding my own business.

As in I'm talking to a friend and someone interjects to make a comment about me or what were talking about.

This one girl was offended that I wore a sleevless shirt to class, and that I was forcing my masculinity on her.

What the fuck is going on?
Am I going insane?
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>>17836992
You big dummy, she obviously wants you to ravage her with your big throbbing masculinity.
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>>17836997
That's a whole other separate issue.

I already know that it's easy to hook up with sjw girls if you're not a pushover.
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OP, what exactly do you think "naturally masculine" is?

what does masculine mean to you

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Where do I take a girl out for a date? I don't even know if it's a date or a friends hanging out thing. We will be watching Moana but where to go or what to do after that, I have no idea.
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>>17836987
Is it just you two or other people?
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If you're hungry, go out to eat after. I recommend barbecue or chinese.
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>>17836996
just us two but isn't it normal for friends to hang out by themselves? we have known each other for a long time although we barely talk

>>17837023
I'll be cooking lunch for her, then we will be watching the movie after that

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