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As a bit of background, i work in a call centre, so my voice is how i make a living.
Over the past couple of days (at home and working) my throat has been incredibly dry and painful. I planned to see how i went this morning, taking the day off if my throat didn't get any better. After a morning of rest, I feel much better. But I'm not sure if that's just because I haven't spoke with anyone yet today.
I've attempted to see a doctor, but most around here have a 2 week waiting list for an appointment.
In short i'm not sure if i should continue to rest my throat and miss a day of work, or to go in and possibly make my throat worse possibly missing multiple days over the weekend.
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Take a day off, get some lozanges and drink plenty of fluid.
Sounds like youre straining your vocal cords.
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>>17838327
Probably a minor throat infection that is worsened by talking all day.
Over the counter medicine + rest. If no improvement after a week, make an appointment. Not much you can do.
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Cheers anons.
I'll get some rest and hopefully it'll be fixed by tomorrow.
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I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing. I'm dropping out uni, been here for 2 years but haven't declared a major. Here's why. I don't feel like it's for me, and I believe I can obtain a decent job without it. I always thought about going for something in the IT field, but felt like classes in uni weren't really teaching me anything. I learned way more on my own and getting experience first hand. So here's my plan, I have enough money saved up to get my own apt, I already have a car. I get a gig to pay the bills, and on the side work on projects like building websites and making apps. Along with this, study for get certificates that would help getting my foot in the door or landing a decent position. My goal is to really make a minimum of 50k a year, I don't think that's unrealistic, but I could be wrong.
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>>17838303
It's a legitimate plan. It may not work, but it's worth trying. Be aware that dropping out carries a negative judgment with it, and people (and your family) will leap to the conclusion you're a loser, so you're going to have to work hard to establish your professional worth.
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What about paid IT interships? Some even accept college/uni drop outs, as long as you have a knack for technical stuff. In my country (the Netherlands), there is a business called Calco which does just that, guaranteed job and everything.
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unrelated, but that pic is adorable (just get a job & stop paying indoctrinating uni)
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Anyone know how to remove this shit?
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Ur fuckes kiddo, better luck next time.
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>>17838256
sorry man :(
what did you download to get this virsus btw, might help
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>>17838256
You're fucked mate. The only way you're getting your data back is with the crypto key. If you can wait a few hundred thousand years you might be able to brute force it, otherwise you're going to have to pay.
>be broke ass me
>start selling some bud to get some cash
>after ~1 year selling i got busted because the guy i was meeting to sell some was smoking a huge joint before we've met
>got busted with 10g i wanted to sell and about 1700 euro in cash (i owed 800 to my guy[lets call him P] for 100g weed, 900 was my birthday cash i wanted to save on my account)
>currently under police investigation
>said the cash was my private money i got from relatives (the following day was my b-day ;_;), and the weed was from some random guy on the street (was just the last 10g i sold)
>didn't wanted to rat P out as i know him for about 3 years now, and started dealing his weed a year ago. + i know he has 2 little kids
>cash got confiscated
>have met P after a while to explain what happened
>said it's a shitty situation but he is going to take care of it (with the guy he was getting his weed from), said i should stop selling (which i obviously did, don't wanna get more charges) and take care of figuring out my life and not getting into jail
2 months later, currently:
>police investigation is still ongoing
>-200 on account, even broker than before because i've spent a lot of cash on lawyers and lost my job because i was so depressed i haven't felt like working
>currently working for 2 weeks at a new company and living with my parents because im too broke to afford my own place
>parents have no idea what's going on, think i lost my job because of budget cuts and that's why i moved back in for a while
>have no idea about the whole drug selling thing
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if only someone told you dealing drugs was a bad idea ;_;
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>P writes me out of nothing, saying he hasn't told his guy that i got busted
>tells me that he took it on himself and still owes the 800 euro to his guy, who apparently now wants 2k and is threatening him
>so apparently P is threatening me now
>sent me a google picture of where i live(my parents place) and where i work, apparently he also contacted some of my co-workers telling them i should contact him
what is the rational way out of this? i didn't wanted to rat him out because of his 2 kids, and he also said it's all taken care of.
now he is apparently threatening me and my parents and im not sure anymore. the investigation is still going on, i had to make a testimony again at the police station last week because of new evidence.
which points all at me, the charges are for selling huge ammounts - which P did.
what is my way out of this?
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>>17838248
Tell P to cut that shit out or you rat on him and you are broke as fuck.
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Alright guys, I need help real fuckin bad.
It's that time of year again. I studied for this shit, you see, and its exam day, but I need an A. I want to get into a difficult program and I want to defer my exam today to a later date.
What's a legit medical condition I can easily fake to miss my exam today? It also has to be TODAY, so if I have to wait in the hospital for a few hours, I don't give a shit, I just need an excuse. Thanks.
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>>17838181
Just take the fucking exam, if you aren't ready now you never will be.
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>>17838186
I'm ready to take it and probably get 70-80% and with my goals in life that will simply not suffice
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>>17838187
Will another few days /week really help bridge that last 20-30%?
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i have a hard time reaching orgasm. recently i finally found a position that actually gets me to the edge of orgasm (pic related). but no matter how horny i am and how perfect the stimulation, i can't get over that point of no return. i guess at this point it is a purely mental thing and not a physical problem. how do i get over this, adv? it would be freaking awesome to finally be able to cum during sex!
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Tried rubbing your clit while at it?
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>>17838177
ofc. i've tried it all. not even a vibrator pressed agains my clit works at that moment... as if a dick inside me somehow makes it impossible for me to cum.
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Try completely letting yourself go and submitting.
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Whats the best way to fuck up my life and make it more exciting?
Find a new hobby? Travel somewhere? Start clubbing again? Get into drugs? Beat the shit out of someone? Fall in love?
Everything is so nice and safe and so absolutely fucking boring.
>dont't drink and smoke
>go to the gym 4 times a week
>study computer science
>life with mommy
>stay at home all the time bc its nice and safe
and it fucking sucks...
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Look for a hobby, JiuJitsu is fun.
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start a secret club about fighting...and name it FightClub
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>>17838137
Don't start smoking, I thought it made me look cool and now I can't stop.
Don't start taking drugs, you think it makes you look edgy but really you're just the guy all your friends laughs at because you're pathetically drooling on yourself at a party.
Don't beat the shit out of someone, if you've never done it before you'll get the shit beaten out of you.
Don't start clubbing again, after you stop you can't go back and have that fun again, it's a nightmare going to those places.
Literally finding a hobby and travelling are the only good ideas there.
Move to another country, it got me out of the same funk you're in. You can teach English in half the world and get paid a decent amount for it. Asia is fun but you get paid fuck all, the middle east is all cash money, but you need a masters or experience for most places.
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posted this a while back but did'nt get a response
>went over for drinks to 55yo neighbour's house who is shooting blanks, 3 dogs to compensate for kids, >subjected myself multiple times because hes comes across so nice when he invites me over
>tried to manipulate me to not receive money I was entitled to due to someone destroying my car (because I'm noones customer)
>starts randomly going crazy and telling me to join the army,
>told me im a loser and asked how the fk I got girls?!
>kept yelling and telling me to join the army, told him its not what i want to do plus im at uni,
>gets even more aggressive and said "YOU'L BE FKN JOINING"
>goes crazy/obsessive over my gf an tries to break us up, one time when she rang me he had an angry crazy look and said "THAT YOUR GF ISNT IT?!!"
>separated me and my gf in different rooms and while he got his wife in my gf in the other room i told him that if she was talking smack about me to her it would just get back to me, hi response was "well what can you offer her"
>told me my family (who were coming down to try and claim a share of my dads house, he passed away) are going to rip me limb by limb when my mother passes
^^^^dont know where this comment came from he said it randomly
Does this guy have some sort of mental disability/health issue?
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>>17838130
You got responses, I saw them.
One anon hit the nail on the head. He suggested that the old dude was just unhappy with his own life and projected his shortcomings on to you. Probably to try and quieten the little voice in his head telling him he failed at life.
Anyway man, just ignore the crazy old fuck.
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There were a few, does he sound crazy?
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>>17838156
A little crazy..... more just like a bitter old fuck though. He probably fawns over young chicks but knows he will never get to sleep with them due to his age and is pissed that you are young and could potentially be with them.
Anyway man, just don't hang around him. No point losing sleep over it.
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A girl says she likes me but I saw her holding hands with another guy. How do I handle this situation?
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>>17838077
she's just playing with you bro
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By asking her out. And not posting again until you turn 18.
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>>17838089
This, stay away, this won't end good for you.
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I've figured out what a human does to not become depressed. It's that simple... Every human does EVERY action in his/her life because of their goals/vision. Nobody does ANYTHING if they dont see a goal behind it. Just consider this for yourself a few seconds, name me 1 thing that you dont do with a goal?
Work/hobby's/relations in the end you are not happy/content with your current status, you do everything with you mind set to the 'better' future. But once you are there, you get a new fucking goal in your mind. I'm sick of this. There is no happy NOW status. You are only happy with working/training/playing for a better future.
Please try to convince me i am wrong..
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Not Your Personal Blog.
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why would you want to be prooved wrong? that's correct and there's no problem with that. humans constantly strive for something better
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>>17838065
I know it's human. And it's the only thing that drives a human. It's what makes our lifes to damn useless. In the end we are just a useless animal that thinks its better then other animals. Am i the only one that is really sick of this way of living?
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Is it weird that I have no interest in talking to girls platonically unless they can help me get a gf? I don't hate them or anything, but once I determine she's not available or interested in being with me I just stop talking to her. I figure why waste my time on something that doesn't help me with my goal.
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Being "just friends" with a girl has its benefits. First off, many girls dont become interested in a guy until they have known him for a while - it can take time to develop attraction to someone. You never know when one of your female friends will start to feel a little different about you. That aside, attractive friends have other attractive friends. She can introduce you to new girls that you may be interested in.
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>>17838083
this anon is correct and you said it yourself OP
female friends are always a plus, because even if you find them repulsive they might have hot friends
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>>17838083
So literally the only reason is they could set you up with their friends or they could get interested later?
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I have literally zero sexual attraction or desire for my boyfriend of 4y anymore. I don't want to kiss him more than a quick kiss, I don't want to touch him, I don't want him to touch me. When I force myself to have sex with him I basically hate it. I can't remember the last time I came during sex with him.
It hasn't always been like this: at the beginning, we used to have lots of sex and try out nearly everything there is. However, we never focused on MY satisfaction, only really on his, because for me it's very difficult to come during sexual intercourse and I hated how he behaved when I didn't cum "quick" (he seemed disinterested and bored). I learned to enjoy and derive pleasure from pleasing my partner and for some years it went quite well.
Last year we broke up because of different reasons, one of them me being so extremely attracted to another guy (never had that before) that I thought that this MUST mean something. Turned out it didn't mean anything. After some months I met another man and, oh boy, did he show me things. He loved pleasing me and took his time in doing so and it was the first time in my life that I felt "important" during sex.
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However, for some reasons (probably fear of the unknown etc and because my then ex-bf actually is such a good person with a heart of gold) I returned to my boyfriend. at the beginning it was nice, but well... the experiences I had with that other guy just stick with me and I can't get rid of them. I tried explaining what I felt to my boyfriend and that I NEED to feel these things in my life. But since I was his first gf and only sexual experience so far, he only learned what I taught him, i.e: making the girl cum is not as important, the girl likes when the guy is pleased.
He just doesn't know how to change this and I understand it. But my sexual desire for him is so low because of this... I really don't know what to do. He is the sweetest, most caring and loving person ever, stable, considerate, very handsome and successful - everything. I would love to build a life with him. But the sex is just so bad. Like: I see him as the perfect father. but the thought of conceiving a child with him is revolting. The thought of creating life during an act which disgusts me and doesn't satisfy me and mostly leaves me crying is impossible.
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You've destroyed your chances at being intimate with anyone in a ltr because of your poor choices in your youth.
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please elaborate
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Just for fun, go to http://how-old.net/ and see how old the program thinks you are. Tell us how old it thinks you are and how old you actually are/were in said photo. This is a just for fun thing.
Also why does it think Lincoln is 83 in that photo? How exactly does this shit work?
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20. 22. 23. 24. actually am 28.
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>>17838013
Poor Trump, it thinks he's 76, they gave him 6 more years.
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I'm mildly offended, it says I'm 34 and 25 when I'm actually 22 and still get carded
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good morning /adv/
i come to you all today with something i didn't know could humanly happen. a month or so ago, i met the perfect girl. not in a cliche sense, not in that "this is the first stage of lovey-dovey" bullshit. i've had my share of long term bouts and i've been through multiple girls that i've liked but never quite this intensely. she plays the games i do, and she's better than me and them. she buys me shit. she's a sweetheart and loves hearing me out, and i love hearing her out and i tear up from some of the stories she tells me, as they strike a chord with me the exact same they do with her. on top of all that, she comes from a wealthy background and she is literally fucking 10/10 or very high 9/10, she is stunning and i cant even believe i met her, across a game no less. she's obsessed with me and i love her possessiveness of me, shes a cat person, fucking everything just checks out okay?
now, out of absolutely fucking nowhere, starting from yesterday, i've felt empty. fucking void. everything was going perfectly between us, she even told me one of her backstories that drew tears from me, and it's very, very difficult to get me to tear up like that.
however, i was extremely hungry, like the stage after being nauseatingly hungry, but you start to worry for your health and enter a panic attack (we have nothing to eat in the house and it wasnt for another half hour or hour that food was brought). i went to lay down to take time for myself, and she sends me half nudes of herself and other lewd shit and wishes i get better. like i dont understand how someone i met could be this perfect.
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at that very moment, for some reason, i was unable to feel feelings. i no longer thought that i could say i loved her, or that i could be there with her and it be out of pleasure, but instead out of necessity because of course i didnt feel anything at the time and i dont know why. i was in and out of a panic attack from the hunger and i felt odd for the rest of the day, up to the point where i had to force myself to sleep because i felt so abnormal.
here i am the next morning and i still have the same feeling of detachment, but again let me stress that i'm also still recovering from yesterdays panic and i do not feel complete. i do not feel in a state to make rational decisions yet i feel so detached and i dont know why.
there's no way i don't like her anymore. it has to just be a byproduct of my mental instability, right? i'm convincing myself i obviously share the same degree of feelings i had for her because i keep putting myself in scenarios where i tell her i'm leaving her or that i dont like her anymore and i can't take it. i'd probably fucking kill myself after it. i will never run into someone as perfect as her again, someone that fits my every need and is such a complete utter fucking doll, /adv/.
if you've read this far, i'm grateful for your time, i really am. i've been mashing all this away in a tearful fury because i just i need to fucking do something about this. i love her and my brain flipped a fucking switch that i can't locate to flip back on. it's fucking bullshit. there is no way this is a natural feeling that is supposed to happen, i need this woman in my life, and her fragile little heart begs for me.
obviously i'll be here to reply to you guys. thank you for reading this and even if you cant formulate a reply (which i get, again, this has composed like a piece of fuck), i appreciate you at least being aware i'm like this. thank you.
pic related is a fantastic album helping me compose this right now
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too-good-to-be-true flavored fears preemptively fucking things up so you can be in control of what you subconsciously perceive to be the inevitable maybe??
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>>17837983
that's what i'm thinking are one of the few only possibilities i can think of man. i sincerely hope it's just me reacting to the fact she's perfect and that i'll get over it soon, or maybe it just takes a day to myself to think about us. i pray to god it's not a negative inevitability. i need her in my life.
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I have a 13 y/o brother. To tell you straight up he was never very bright to begin with and he's always seen as an oddball. My parents had taken him to see child psychiatrists multiple times now, and it is very odd to me that no diagnosis has been made other than he's just a kid with cognitive problems, or so I have thought. Both of my parents are seemingly willfully ignorant about this condition and they just really putting him on cruise control to do as he pleases (he's now in 'special' focus class which is even worse because every teacher there don't give a fuck about 'special' kids, so does he), and to put it bluntly he's just a living breathing waste of space and oxygen. I am truly concerned about him and his seemingly bleak future.
Let me tell you a bit more about my brother. He's slow, like really slow. If you ask question that is other than yes/no, he'd said "I don't know" or just ignore you completely, even when the question is as simple as "How was your day?". On top of that, he repeats what people just said like a five y/o. He is socially inept , and people had been bullied him at school. He has a literally linear taste of entertainment, which is Sims 3 and GTA V on PS3, and he listens loudly to a song on repeat ten fucking straight times despite he like other songs as well. He cannot sit down in front of TV/Movie/Cartoon/any other form of visual media for 10 minutes without being fucking bored to death except fucking vlogs on youtube in which he had to watch when eating lunch/dinner. Everything he does seemingly go against every fiber of my body.
>TL;DR
Is he really retarded? Should I just go to my parents and be like "hey, your son may be retarded. Do something about it" and try the psychiatrist again? Should I just try and not care?
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what is your parents lifestyle like?
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>>17837923
Dad's pretty busy running in-and-out of the country making a living so we don't starve and hopefully pay the mortgage before he died. He can gone for a week or two before coming back home for some time. Mom is also busy working despite making negligible amount of money as kitchen hand. desu I don't even know what does she aspire out of her life.
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>>17837935
i meant more daily life. are they healthy? how does the house look like? depts?