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>>17835514

>why did he react this way instead of congratulating me?
>btw here is a list of reasons why he reacted this way isntead of congratulating me

people like their lives the way they are. some want kids. some dont. some want them later. some want them now. some want them never.

people think they are happy, and therefore their path is the only path to happiness, hwo can something different make someone else happy? some people get particularly offended by other peoples changes becuase they are worried about how it will effect their own.

he may not be jealous per se, rather afraid of ebign left behind. being a parent doesn't make you better or worse than someone who has no kids. it doesn't make you more mature, it doesn't make you more responsible. it doesn't make you 'ahead' in life. its not a step into adulthood, its a step into parenthood, and parenthood is not the end all.

but he is afraid of being the last one where he is. he is afraid of having no one else to hang out with becuase everyone else is too busy being an adult. its understandable but he does need to 'grow up' in the sense that he can't get butt flustered about it. its okay to be sad, but he sounds antagonistic about it, if he really is doing it in an 'asshole' way.

>>17835552
Thank you for your advice. I agree its not a step into adulthood but the reason why I brought that up is because one time he got our group of friends together and cried to us saying he feels left behind as he sees us all growing up and not needing him for rides anymore, since we all drive now.

He was the only form of transportation within our group for a while, now we all have a car and dont depend on him anymore.

I have also seen him post about him having a weird phobia called "Athazagoraphobia" which is the fear of being forgotten.

Why would you stay friends with a guy like that?

>>17835387
This is a school in Korea?
Where are you from?

>>17835387
It's the bizniz mate.
I haven't done it though

can't you study for a semester in a normal country

do you have to be a weeaboo and go to corea?

I'm a man and I highly advise you keep resenting us.

>>17835348
For what? Women have much easier and comfortable lives.

How do I stop resenting women?

>>17835307
You've done one enough for a lifetime I'm pretty sure, try another

>should I be a loser who lives with his mother, or a loser who's a third wheel?

>>17835307
What you should really do it go live by yourself. It will be good for you, you will see.

>>17835272
Try being less weak.
I'm actually serious.
Get and stay in good physical shape, read good books, meditate, don't whine or complain, keep your commitments, cultivate a good social life, have well-considered views on the world, be firm in keeping your word. Be masculine. Don't be fake or prissy or flaky. Be confident.
Then women will like you. So will your colleagues and friends and family. Usually. And if some don't then those ones are shit anyway. Can't please everyone.

>>17835272
a womans affection is a fickle thing at best, and it is usually a ploy to extract some form of resource from you

>>17835292
This, well said. You need to be "strong" - and mental is much more important than physical. Also it does not mean being asshole.

Overall you can assume you have shit personality. Don't you notice something? Most often and noticeable is whining.

Girls

So there was a girl I hanged around with a lot when we were really young, she was kinda perverted, when we were 11-12 or something she asked me to show my cock and asked to touch it and shit. I didnt mind so I showed her and let her play with it. We kinda lost contact after those encounters (she asked me like 3 times)

We're now 19 and I found out we're going to the same university, I randomly met her on campus and when I approached her she seemed like really nervous, I saw her some more times and it feels like she is trying to ignore me every time.

Is she really feeling so awkward over some stupid shit we did when we were kids?

Anyone

How far would you go to show you love them? How far is too far?

>>17835253
Maybe

Indirect. I have a couple friends that used to work in one and I think once knew a guy a while back that had been admitted at one time.

Anything in particular you want to know?

>>17835202
What are the conditions like? Do they make you take any medicine? Do you have to piss in a cup each day?

>>17835236
Conditions are, well, not ideal. It's not a comfortable place to be, to say the least. But it's not like they're allowed to throw you in a pit or beat you or anything. It's not like in the movies. The inconveniences are usually more annoying than painful. I think the conditions probably really depend which country you're in though. I'm speaking as somebody from the US.

You do have to take your meds if you are prescribed them, but you can talk to your doctor about them if they're really not agreeing with you and see about altering them to suit your needs. You're only forced meds if you really act up, like getting violent.

I haven't heard of anybody being required to provide urine samples every single day. I'd expect you may be called on to provide a sample if there's reason to suspect you may be taking some drug you're not supposed to have, or possible as part of admittance. Seems like it'd be a real waste of time and resources to test every patient's piss every day, so I think they'd probably just make sure you're not getting anything snuck in to you, which they're pretty strict and thorough about.

You already hit it

Leave before you get in the shit

>>17835189
what he said

>>17835185
Unless you've been on an eternal dry spell; nah mate.
Not worth the troubles

Well it depends how serious the relapses are. If he's trying and has good prospects I don't see why not. It's hard but possible.

>>17835088
How long has he been sober

>>17835093
Apparently he's one of the few who might just make it in the end. He has awareness of his problems and a sense of responsibility. Genuinely wants out of it. He still relapses, though.

>>17835095
Since summer. It's happened about once a year since I got to know him.

>>17835087
Sounds like friendzone to me.

>>17835128
Who the fuck holds hands with the opposite sex as friends

That's some Seinfeld episode shit

>>17835087
Sounds a bit similar to my situation except mine told me she likes me.

I'd just keep it up but don't get your hopes up about a relationship

>>17835008

There's supposedly a desensitizing spray, but im sure all the others will say just fap once before

look up edging,and jelquing. Should solve all your problems but it takes time.

I don't get this, why not just wai 5 minutes and fuck her? Second time around you'll last much longer.

Should I be embarrassed by phimosis?

>>17834961
Seems like a good idea.

>>17834990
Is a girl going to look at it anytime soon? Can you even have sex?

>>17835062
No, yes.

>>17834899

Mortician talk to lots of people. Everyone comes to you at some point about a dead loved one, and they're often emotional.

My friends a mortician. He's really outgoing and his family that's run the funeral home for generations is a prominent fixture of the local community.

>>17834982
can't i just embalm? where did he study?

Did you look up classes at your local community college? I'm sure there's certification for it like any other job.

BMP, please.

>>17834863
Find someone that's sexually compatible with you

You really wanna live the rest of your life only getting dick every 2 weeks?

I know you scared your eggs drying up but damn woman u ain't gotta put up with that

Sex is important in a healthy relationship and seducing him is just not gonna work in the long run

Wanting sex less will lead to you wanting to cheat and then feel guilty about it

Rejection is based off who he is, if he had a super model it might be once a week but still he just doesn't seem to want sex as much as most guys and that's OK for some girl out there I'm sure but I wouldn't settle if I were you

1. You're sexually incompatible. If you're as in shape as you say you are most men would have no problem having sex with you as often as you're suggesting
2. Impossible
3. Not gonna happen because he is rejecting you personally.

Bump. I need this guys.

Move the fuck on. This girl is insane.

>>17834884
Thanks man. I panicked when she did this and i texted her and said "I still want to be your boyfriend. If you ever change your mind, Ill be one text message away"

When she comes to get her ipod, Im gonna make sure I tell her im taking that back, and that Im not going to be an option.

I hope that the next guy who leaves her, or cheats on her, she thinks of me and comes back, and Ill make her beg for it.