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> Be me
> Movie night at school
> You put the sleeping bag next to a pretty girl
> Let's call her "K"
> 8.5/10 in my personal rate
> We have good talk, we cuddle, etc.
> You feel you finally met your future gf
> After a while, there comes a guy you know from old swimming pool
> Let's call him "fagot"
> fagot starts hitting on her
> He applies a more aggresive pick-up - he kisses her on the forehead, hugging etc.
> She looks pleased
> Feels bad man
> After a while fagot goes to the restroom
> When he leaves, K tells you she doesn't feel well in his company and asking for help
> But without agression
> You move closer to her so that fagot has less space
> In spite of everything, he lays next to us
> Then he start talking with her about fetishes and asses
> She allows him to touch her butt
> WTF GIRL?!
> What the fuck just happend?
> You don't know is she wants his company or not
> You're so pissed off that you gtfo from there
> Actually, you going just for the coffee
> When you came back you see how they hugging each other
> Her head laying on his chest, they're together under one blanket
> Fucking motherfucking bullshit for fuck sake!
> You change the place because you don't want to look at them
> You know K one day, but it still hurts...
> After a marathon K comes to you and complains that you leave her with fagot
> WTF GIRL x2?!
> "Why did you leave us anon? He grope me and stuff!"
> "For me, it looked different..."
> "Why don't you punch him?" - said our friend
> "I couldn't because stuff and you know..." - said K
> WTF GIRL x3
> You want to kill fagot
> Unfortunately he left the building

(Part 1/2)
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>>17836247
(Part 2/2)

> On the next day talk to her on facebook
> The conversation goes pretty well
> Again, you fill warm at heart
> "Hey, anon, what fagot like to do?"
> WTF GIRL x4
> "Dunno... Why do you ask?"
> "No reason... I want to know some more about him before... you know..."
> What the fuck "you know" means?!
> "Before you more fall in love?"
> "Are you stupid?"
> "Sorry girl, but it looks like this to me... Especially after what I saw that night"
> Seen...
> Next day
> She started conversation
> She asked about some bullshit that is very easy to find on google
> Again, conversation goes great, you try to invite her somewhere but she refuse
> After a while she says that fagot wrote to her with an apology but she didn't believe him
> Tell her if she really don't want to know him deeper, then let just ignore him. And if shit goes serious, give me a call
> By the way, ask her is she see him or something
> K: "Good night"
> You feel pissed off
> For your care she simply sells you "good night"
> Like "Fuck you", but polite
> "A little fucked up is sending "good night" during a conversation. It's like saying "End of the topic, I'm out of here". I don't know is that was your intention, but good night."
> Seen
> For some time no response
> Try to start a conversation after some time
> The conversation isn't long and good...
> Again, no response for some time
> Today she wrote simple "hey"

What do you think?
It's difficult to give up on her. I feel awful, I want to be closer to her, but I really don't know who this fagot is for her...
She's younger than me by 4 years (I'm 22) and (if that's truth) she never been in relationship...
What to do?
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>>17836272
What the fuck stop talking to her this is stupid. There are easily better out there
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>>17836247
So like let me make this clear

He made moves on this girl and you didn't and then you're mad at her

A lot of Girls (especially younger ones) like guys that take what they want
Don't hate the player or the girl
Just learn and move on

My 420 gf is threatening to break up with me if I don't let her do harder drugs

I was fine with weed but now she wants to level up

Wat do
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>>17836220
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Just do the drugs with her whats the problem?
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>>17836231
I'm just scared we'll abuse it and wont stop

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>23 year old lady
>Work full time, school full time
>Live alone, independent
>Fucked up home life as a kid

Basically 2016 has been some serious garbage. In July my mom died on her 63rd birthday. My dad died when I was 11, so she raised me. She wasn't always.. a good mom, but she's what I had. So I was kind of struggling with alcohol for a bit, but I was trying to grieve healthily. The only other family I had was 2 older brothers. About a month ago, my eldest brother died in a car accident.

The cost of their funerals has put me in a tight spot financially, and the stress of arranging everything (on top of work and school) has me on edge often..

I keep having dreams about my mom, talking to her. I feel like a part of me has died. I'm equal parts apathetic about death, and terrified that my other brother can die any time. And I think he thinks I can die at any time too, we always tell each other to text when we get to wherever we're driving.

I'm continuing with my studies and trying to keep myself together as much as I can, but I can't really afford therapy. I feel so confused emotionally, does anyone have any advice on what to do when you can't sort your emotions?
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Losing close family is hard for anyone but this is why you should have life insurance. So you don't put your remaining family into poverty bc of funeral expenses
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>>17836181
>Can't afford therapy
You don't need therapy.
The problem is your mindset.
Why don't you ever look at life positively, the things you can do well, what you're proud of, Etcetera.

Truly I do understand the pain of losing a loved one(s), don't misunderstand me, but you have to tough it out like a man, and I mean that literally.

As a woman it's in your nature to linger on things like this, such as grief and traumatic stress.

On the contrary men tend to persevere when confronted with adverse situations, letting go of their misfortunes and fueling it towards their future

This is not to suck my own cock, surely you should know, but to empathize is to learn to become stronger.

Honestly mang, don't fear death, such a way of thinking is anti-productive, be content with your life.
Be glad you have what you do.
For fucks sake man, I wish I had sooner
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>>17836221
Apparently my eldest brother did have life insurance, but we won't be expecting anything from it for another month or two. That'll help my financial stress at least when it comes, but it also kind of makes me feel guilty getting money out of his death =\

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I've been used for sex twice. I've also only been interested, and dated, two guys-- both were incredibly sweet and kind to me, but as soon as things got physical, they vanished.

It feels awful. I don't even want much from a guy, just a hello and someone to go on walks with. What is wrong with me, that makes me only worth discarding? It really hurts.
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>>17836180
Have you considered that you're not good at sex and they just didn't think the amount of effort you made them put in was worth a round 2? If not please give more details about these relationships how long did they last? How far into relationship was it when you started fucking? How old r u how old are guys your fucking?
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>>17836180

Sounds like they hit it and quit it. I wouldn't really call that "dating someone".

Where are you finding these guys?
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>>17836198
Well, the first guy, I was a virgin and he knew that. I dated him for a month. The second guy knew I was inexperienced, and he told me I was good, but I guess he could have been lying. I dated him for two months. Both were 21, I'm 20.

>>17836213
The first one was in one of my classes, the second one was Tinder. Tinder guy knew I wasn't interested in just hooking up, and he was so sweet and present in my life before this happened.

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Hello /adv/, I'm currently irritable, stressed, and lonely.

I'd like to remind you that a significant percentage of people that piss you off on a daily basis are in this state. Since I can't apologize to the people I'm a dick to directly, I'd like to apologize on behalf of my counterparts in your own life.

In particular, there's a class I'm taking which is extremely boring to me, so I doodle the whole time. I was in a particularly foul mood the other day and interweaved phrases like "This is fucking retarded" "I fucking hate this" SO GODAMN BORED" into my drawings. The professor saw it and got offended. I know he'll get over it, but I feel bad. I didn't want to offend the poor guy, he's just doing his job.

Then there's driving. I follow my own algorithm for speeding up and slowing down. I know it pisses you off when your own algorithm conflicts with it because I'm passing someone too slowly. I should be more considerate and hurry up, I'm sorry.

And every girl that I've slept with and then immediately insulted. I just wanted to have sex, I didn't mean to lead you on. I'm sorry for that too.
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well, i'm sorry if i'm acting distant. i'm just exhausted.
and i also appologize for my weird sense of humor. please don't take my mean jokes seriously. i got used to that as a kid and i sometimes don't take into consideration that others might not be as thick skinned...
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Patheticism: The Post
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>>17836207
Hey, go fuck yourself you smegma gargling virgin cucklord. I hope you and all your loved ones get flayed alive and doused in vinegar.

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I was just rejected from one of the more decent schools in my state. I never wanted to go to college, the only reason I even considered going to college is because I thought going to a decent one might make up for its soul-crushing nature with higher pay. Now I have no idea what to do with my life, my mother is crying and my dad is giving me the same lackluster advice he always tries to give. I've wanted the first 18 years of my life in public education and I can't bear the thought of going to even more school. I'm just generally lost in life with no friends, no family I can relate to, and now not even prospects. What are my options?
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>>17836088
Get a part time job in a field that interests you while learning a skill on the side that will in the future be sellable

Ex. Tom is Interested in movie and television production. Tom gets a job as an assistant at a production studio. In his spare time he learns web development, something he's always thought about learning. College is over saturated and over valued
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What uni did you get rejected from?
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>>17836088
Higher pay is the absolute worst reason to go to college. If you are looking for money, go to trade school/community college. Go to college to actually learn things and advance yourself mentally, not financially.

If you don't want to go to more school, don't. You can (should) work. I would advise you to work in as many fields as possible, see as many places as possible. When I was 18 I went to a resort town after graduation and walked up and down the streets until someone gave me a job.

Don't sit. Go and do something, literally anything - your path will clear up, but you have to start moving forward.

Check out WWOOFing if you have enough money/support. You'll be ok.

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My mind is in shambles right now, i don't know what to do. Help pls

>Start of the semester
>Finally get some classes in common with the girl that i've wanted to fuck
>Go talk to her after classes
>Everything goes ok. She's pretty cool
>A couple days later ask her on a date
>"Sry anon, i'm gonna be busy tonight"
>okwhatever
>Our first conversations were kinda awk, but they really got much better as time went by
>We start developing this habit of going to a café that's inside the campus to go eat breakfast.
>Not sure why she didn't eat home, her house is like 5 mins away from college.
>It's not like she didn't have time
>Hell, i live like 2 hours away and i still have time to eat breakfast
>Anyway
>I start enjoying her company more and more
>While all this happens, still ask her stuff like "Hey i'm gonna be at X tonight, wanna go?" or "Wanna do something for the night?"
>She always finds a way to say no without saying it directly
>I start getting frustrated
>Decide that it's time to just tell her that i like her
>Almost chickened my way out of that decision
>Right when we she was about to go (one of the typical days where we go to the café) i ask her "Hey, i wanted to ask you something"
>Her:"?"
>Me:"Do you realize that i like you?"
>She smiles, blushes and tells me "I figured, anon"
>Fast forward 2 weeks i ask her "Hey what do u think about what i told you?"
>Her:".... I don't know what to tell you anon"
>Her:"I have you kinda friend zoned right, which sucks"
>Her:"I didn't straight up say no, because i've been in that place b4 and i know how it feels"

It was whatever at the time since i just wanted to get in her pants

>Her:"Now i'm gonna feel sad because i know you're gonna feel bad"
>Me:"Nah, it's ok"
>Her:"It's always the same, they just slowly go away after all this happens. You're gonna distance yourself from me, right?
>Me:"Probably, idk

I would like to point out that not a single tear was shed that day, we're both kinda cold in that sense.Anyway (1/?)
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Fast forward a couple weeks
>Start feeling really anxious about wanting to talk to her
>After all, being with her made feel kinda happy
>We just got along really well, we laughed together about stupid shit.
>Fuckit i'll just go talk to her
>Everything is just like the good ol days, we go to the cafe
>All good in the hood

This is where things start going south for me
>Start imagining stuff while i'm with her
>Stuff like me, holding her hand while we're listening music
>So happy together
>Realize that probably will never happen
>Get really depressed after realizing that
>FUCK
>If i stay away from her (Hard as fuck considering i see her almost every day on classes) i get anxiety about wanting to go talk to her
>If i don't my imagination starts playing tricks on me and i end up fucked either way

Since i'm getting mindfucked, i decided to go talk to a psychologist and he tells me
that there's definitely still a chance. "She definitely trusts you, and if she didn't want to be near you she would have probably gently told you to fuck off after the first 3 times u asked her on a date"
so that helps me relieve some stress.
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but the past like, 2-3 days i saw something that i had been ignoring this whole time

>We barely talk over fb, she's always so cold and stoic on fb
>Talking to her IRL is a completely different story tho
>Get a new phone, i asked what her number was
>Try to make an effort to start a decent conversation with her on whatsapp
>It was meh at best
>But she told me in a joke-ish kind of tone this (the context doesn't matter here)
>"I kinda like bullying desu"
>So i think to myself, eh this probably doesn't mean anything
>but it actually does
>All this time she has been subtly saying mean stuff to me
>Not really care/give a witty answer to bully her back
>The other day we are talking about places that we like to visit
>Me:"I really like, going to X place but it's more fun if u go with someone else"
>Me:"you know, i probably know what you're gonna tell me but i'll probably invite u there at some point"
>She gives me this d'aww type of smile
>When i saw that, i instantly translated it into a shit eating grin
>She's enjoying all the attention i'm giving her
>tfw she's playing with her food.

People have always tagged me as an asshole or a douchebag, but women are definitely my weak point. Well... kinda, sorta
since i still subtly fight my way back when she tries to pull off her games on me. But i still feel like i'm nog being mean
enough. She'definitely enjoying having me there, craving her. I still have like one month b4 our "date" takes place and
i wanna get as much ground as possible before it happens, but at the same time i don't wanna go full "me" with her
because i fear that she will see what i'm trying to do with the sudden change of semi-nice guy to complete asshole.

This is driving me crazy guys, i need help. Anything, if you think i'm a delusional faggot, or if i still have a chance,
what's my best bet etc.
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I really hate the way you write. It's a bunch of filler crap and you try way too hard to be le ironically funny. No wonder you're friend zoned.

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I've become a mysogynist.
What do?

The worst part is that I feel proud being one, is almost as if I hate women now.

The best part is that I have better and more arguments than you about why I feel this way.
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>>17836006
link to the thread man?
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>>17836036
404 bro.
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Good. Men and women are different and there's nothing wrong with knowing and understanding that.

You can't hate all women though, sure some are shit but there are a couple of good ones, just find one and hope you don't get shit on by her.

The experience of love and sex are worth the risk.

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are tattoos just depressing? Are there any tattoos where you didn't feel depressed?
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>>17835976

I don't understand the question. Are you trying to ask if my tattoos make me depressed? No, they don't.
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>>17835976
I've never seen a tattoo that made me depressed are you sure this problem has anything to do with tattoos?
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>>17835976
Tattoos aren't cool anymore that they've been legal for a while. Everyone and their hipster cousin has a tattoo. Private tattoos are still alright. Anything you can see publicly is fucking queer.

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I just spend some time reading about PUA books, and I read a lot of them.

So far, I'm glad I've read them, many things now seem clear.

But I feel spiritually in despair, like if your childish worldview was shatter to pieces and the ugly truth you can finally see, something like the Matrix Redpill.

I know I feel like shit now, but I'll recover.

Any anon here who has passed through the same?

>inb4 betas, whiteknights and females tell PUA is BS
I will appreciate the input of any male who has fucked more than 10 girls more than a female input now.
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You get comfortable with it after a while

And you'll find a balance between full pua tactics and being yourself
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>>17835980
how do you feel about this?
I'm just 27, but I'm glad I can still have time.
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>>17835986
Looking toward to banging 20 year olds in my 30s

My teacher showed me this one
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The girls hated it

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girls I rape are usually dry down there, but cry a lot, can their tears be used as lubricant?
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>>17835955
Nah it's to hard to transfer
But they usually get wet while being raped anyways
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>>17835964
really? Maybe I just suck with preliminars or something because most of them never get aroused and I have to go dry
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>>17835955
it will be as efficient as using water as a lubricant

the only real way is using gas as lubricant and then when you are done light a match and drop it there

I was masterbating... but instead of cumming... i just pissed my self 3 times.... and had a godly experience... it was so amazing the best thing ive ever experienced... this cold energy just releaseds it self and i felt it crawl all over my body

i beleive i released dmt is my brain and i was so thankful for my life. everything was so bright... im so lucky... i felt like i really met god...

the experienced lasted about 20 minuits-1 hour

what the actual fuck
my soul is free now
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i felt like i actually turned into woman for a while... so amazing I have assended into angel my hair ios so smooth and i feel infinitly blessed
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>>17835954
>>17835968
What drugs are you taking OP? Sounds like one hell of a trip.
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>>17835954
So you were masturbating and then you felt that you saw God.

God doesn't approve of masturbation friend. You just met the Devil.

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If I really, really just hate men for being the way they naturally are, does anything actively prevent me from having a sex change?

Hating OTHER men seems much more lucrative than just being a woman who hates men.

Can anyone really stop me?
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>>17835942
Depends on your country and it's sex change laws
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>>17835942
Get over yourself
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>>17835942
youll probably not be able to get a job and no one will want to be seen with you in public

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So about a week ago, I was smoking a blunt as I usually do when my dad leaves the house (I'm 19 and I still live with my dad, that's pretty pathetic, I know but I'm currently working so I can get my own place eventually). He came back to get something and he caught me. Of course he flipped shit and gave me a long rant. After that I felt really guilty and I'm surprised he hasn't kicked me out, so I genuinely apologized to him the next morning. He's still mad and I'd be fine with that, but here's where the problem comes in. I'm just now figuring out that he's probably been telling the family and even his friends. I guess that makes me mad because I tried to handle this in a civil manner between us two. It's not really anyone else's business. I want to say something to him about this but I don't want to sound dumb. Any suggestions as to what I can say? Should I even say anything about it? Do I have any right to be mad about it?
Also, I already know that smoking inside and shit was a dumb idea, I honestly don't need the ridicule please.
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>>17835929

>Should I even say anything about it? Do I have any right to be mad about it?

Keep your mouth shut unless you want to risk him kicking you out. Having a place to stay is more important than your principals at this point.

Once you're self-sufficient feel free to clash with him as much as you want.
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>>17835937
This people who don't own property shouldn't have free speech
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>>17835937
Alright, I understand this.m but do I have a right to be mad?

Any NYC anons around?

I'm being pursued for a major, once in a lifetime job in NYC.

I've visited once, and loved the city, but I'm unsure if I'm going to enjoy living there with all of the costs and shit. I have always lived in the desert basically (Vegas & Phoenix), and the cold is a big deterrent too.

Can anyone advise me whether or not this is a good idea to move?
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Any more specifics on the job?

Salary and location especially
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>>17835921
>Can anyone advise me whether or not this is a good idea to move?
do you like the smell of trash, jewish influence, and pooling your money into everythingyou dont want to pool it into? Jew York may be for you
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>>17835921
If you like urban living then you'll love nyc if you don't you'll hate it.

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