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>>17834221
Still OP. When I told him I am unable to do my job on medications he took me off them, but I can't do my job off the medications either. Does he not understand that the reason I went to see the doc for these problems is because I can't do my job? I would expect doctors to be more intelligent than that, but maybe not.

I'm guessing they'd rather pump you full of medications then risk letting you leave the military?.

I would think that was the case when I was in about 10 years ago and people were doing all sorts of shit to get out. Nowadays I hear that the military is cutting military population so not sure if this applies now.

>>17834230

From what I get military medics (not really doctors) aren't smart. Are you seeing those? or are you going to hospital on base with civilian workers?.

>>17834201
Tinder

Now delete this thread

>>17834201
Just put yourself out there. Even if it goes poorly you'll learn a lot each time (and it'll likely not go poorly except in your head). Sadly there isn't really a fix-all when it comes to connecting with others, it just takes time and determination.

>>17834204
but you didn't even read my question

well

that was almost english

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>relevant answers guys please

>>17834206
ok, why don't you feel you have a purpose anymore?

Are you a student or working?

>>17834165
depends how regularly you see them and when the date took place

I'm just trying to determine how quickly you can reestablish contact with someone after a date without it coming off as needy. just need a time frame to work with.

>>17834181
Like I said it depends on a lot of factors

But if I were you I suppose it woudknt hurt to wait till next day, and later in the day like 3-4 maybe, depending on what day it is

I tend to sleep in 2-3 hour segments for a total of 6 hours a night. It doesn't seem to bother me and I don't feel tired. Try and find a task and stay as active as possible. its easier to fall asleep of you aren't doing anything.

I usually sleep 4 hours (2am-6am) on the workdays and almost 12 on weekends. I'm dying every friday so I have to regenerate over weekends, totally not recommending this, youre better off sleeping longer every day, but my schedule fucks me up.

Is this a fucking troll thread?
I'm lucky if I get more than 4 hours of sleep during weekdays.
All my fault though.

>>17834141
>math disability
Holy fuck, they really do just use disabilities as an excuse for incompetence nowadays.
Up until calculus math is literally just memorizing rules/instructions and applying them. It just requires studying and work. I'm so fucking sick of people using a disability as an excuse for their laziness in math.

If you want to do a stem degree go ahead, but you absolutely positively will fail if you give that test you took any creedence.

Then again, there's also always the trades. I see no reason why being bad at stem fields would make you unsuccessful in life.

>>17834141
Don't get a degree because it'd be "empowering"
Get a degree because you are looking to get in that field or related

>24
>IQ 143
>no disabilities other than depression
>Biochemistry PhD student

Stem is still hard, especially at a top university. Don't get into a field because it looks impressive or that it's empowering, get into it because you have a legitimate interest in it. You're better off doing something you love and actually enjoy because it takes a shit ton more devotion than anyone will ever tell you it does. It becomes your life. If you love a topic, go for it.

nah its usually fine. Noise and movement is just part of urban living. I wouldn't worry unless people have specifically complained.

>>17834134
>is it rude
fuck that, it's 1am and i want a taco

it's not at all rude to live your own life, don't worry about it. unless they specifically complain, which they probably won't unless you're like sitting there honking your horn at 2am, drive and get a taco whenever the hell you want

Get out of 4chan
Get ou of your house
Go to pub, club
Try free sex
If not, paid sex

Or masturbate and it all goes away

Convert your repressed sexuality into pure rage, then go out and beat the shit out of the wilderness

Dont be ugly.
If you are ugly, forget about it

>>17834116
What's wrong with a bar or club?

>>17834121


I'm an alcoholic that can't dance

>>17834139
Dive bars friend

Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Yes, ending the relationship may feel surreal, but you need to have a real conversation with her about your insecurities. Make it clear that you don't think she's cheating, but that you feel weird about the male co-worker. If she gets defensive at all, that's a red flag. I feel like if she isn't cheating, that she at least likes this dude.

>>17834097
Yeah, I feel like if we break up then she will immediately fuck this guy. I havent really talked to her about it since i confronted her. She knows im upset.

I feel like such a faggot because I cant really communicate well about serious relationship issues. I always just give her a cold shoulder and then eventually I forget why i was even mad

>>17834092
Well, its sort of a red flag if you don't trust her around him. But I'm a guy who has a couple female friends that are completely platonic and we always hang out 1 on 1, so maybe it'd be better not to jump to conclusions.

>>17834056
Living well is the best revenge.

Ignore her, don't rise to her provocations, let her see you being successful and happy. It will drive her crazy.

>>17834136
This passed my train of thought desu. Thanks anon

>>17834056
Convince her to fall in love with you and then laugh at her before you have sex.

Or call her fat, that should work too. Unless you're really fat that is, in which case she'll probably just shit on you.

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>>17834048

I wonder if your apartment is bringing you down. Is it tidy? Clean? is there a reason to stay away from it? You also need a hobby that keeps you at home...lets here things you are interested in. Lack of sleep is very bad for you OP.

>>17834053
I'm the same girl who posted about wanting female friends before, and I just got home so I decided to ask about this too. My apartment is tidy everywhere but my room, because I do like to entertain guests from time to time, so that could be a factor. But it's not particularly home that bothers me so much as being alone. I'm interested in reading, drawing, vidya, movies, and music, among other things, but they don't keep me at home. I think, besides reading, I consider those to be hobbies best done with other people- I get really bored with my hobbies otherwise. I also know I do need to keep up with sleep, and I should go to the gym more than once a week.

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>>17834067
Hmmm...you need room mates i think. How old are you? Are you the sort of person that could handle living in a big house with lots of other people?

>>17834035
are you a boy or a girl? really going to give you some MUST! what the hell is that? I don't know, so now well they were on that section they that section of phonetics,t thats a bit weird the um has that been debunked? that seems about the odd timing seems to be suspect thats crazy

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>>17834040
>really going to give you some MUST! what the hell is that? I don't know, so now well they were on that section they that section of phonetics,t thats a bit weird the um has that been debunked? that seems about the odd timing seems to be suspect thats crazy
did you just have a stroke anon?

>>17834035
Not sure if you're a guy or a girl so I'll answer for both instances.
Guy: If you're looking for a relationship it's not ganna happen with this guy he clearly told you. However it sounds like he would be open to hook up if that's all you're going for. You just gotta show the proper signs and he'll jump on you.
Girl: He's just an edgy bro. Who the fuck would say vague shit like that to a girl that's just weird. He's either an asshole or tried to get you to chase him. And like I said above, he's down to hook-up no matter what.

how the fuck am I supposed to answer that question

no really, I want you to think about this for a moment, how the fuck did you expect me to be able to answer this without even so much as a pic of your injury?

if it was dislocated you would definitely be screaming and not typing this question on 4chan.

>>17833980
You're good, it's just like if you fall on your ass and your tailbone is sore. Same shit.

Also: >>17833992

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>3dpd
neither

Go back to /b/.

>>17833972
Neither of them are particularly cute and they both look alike.

Seriously a face only a basement dweller could love.