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>>17840887
Just do it.
Make your dreams come true.
Yesterday you said tomorrow.
You wake up and work harder and harder.
You wake up and stop giving up.

>>17840887
Stop eating fiber.

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>>17840895
>>17840899
>>17840895
no im serious about this.

>I get frustrated easily
>I get emotional when frustrated
>I take everything too seriously


I just wish I could not give a shit about stuff anymore and chill the fuck out, but I just cant.

You are gay. Sorry you had to find out this way.

Is she lower class/white trash/uneducated? That type of girl tend to have lack of ambition in life beyond popping out kids. Sounds harsh and catty, but it's true

Have you told her this?
talk ot out

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Hand her this at lunch with heart on it - anon

>>17840857
Do this.

Grow a pair and ask her out.

Even if she says no, it beats having the feeling that you never even tried.

I know how you feel all too well. Suicide is a comforting thought to entertain, never to be put into action. Every time I have to do something that could have negative consequences, I imagine myself hugging a moving train and suddenly things aren't as scary anymore. Why care about embarrassing myself if I don't have to live with the consequences.

Life is still pain though. I can't guarantee you that you'll get better anytime soon or that it won't get worse, but I can guarantee you'll look back on this time in your life some day and thank whatever you believe in that you didn't kill yourself.

You can get out of this, I'm rooting for you.

>>17840811
is it really hanging or asphyxiation?

>>17840897
Short drop hanging, so death by asphyxiation. But my full body will be off the ground. Long drop hanging is so rare nowadays that in medical lingo it's just called hanging.

I think /fa/ would be better to answer this

If you want to be comfy and fashion but generic, just buy stan smiths like everybody. they're goat

Personally I hate Nike, also try /fa/.

Nike is too sporty for work. Check Saks/Neiman Marcus/etc online shops, they have great selections to give you ideas that will fit your style and needs.

Eat shit cuck

If shes a creationist who prays 6 hours a day and often rants about things with a glassy, far-off staring expression on her face, its a good indicator shes not sane.

>>17840795
My "ex" was a gentleman and took care of me pretty well. We met by a common friend who introduced us. He wasn't annoyingly loud, he semmed nice and funny enough. He was kinda dumb at that time tho.
He started liking me and I tought "whatever I'll try" and we stayed together for two years and a half, we are still good friends.
Maybe try to meet friends who are sane and respectful in the first place. Treat women as friends first.

Real women would care if they saw you crying. Hell, anybody would.

A person who does not take your perspective into account isn't worth the trouble. At least in terms of authentic feelings.

>>17840739
Are there legitimately women like that though? I can't seem to find any who don't stop caring after I discuss my issues for more than a couple hours at a time.

Am I wrong in that? Me and her would talk for days on end about her issues, then I wanted a couple hours to talk about mine

Is that too much to ask or is she just a mean gf?

>>17840744
If she doesn't care about your side of the story, look forward to a one sided relationship. HER side.

You need someone who can both share, and listen. And if possible, also help.

I'm not going to tell you anything since you apparently save clickbait images.
saged.

>>17840713
sorry about your diabetes man

>>17840711
Honestly, that might work, it might not, they are getting really good at investigating people and sniffing out fraud. You might want to get your bills sent there and that will probably be enough.

>>17840691
>nothing more than gentle leaning on each other occurs at party
That's usually when you grow balls and put your arm around her or better yet, lean in the first inch of the way towards a kiss, if she leans in aswell you're golden, if she doesn't, well fuck.

Ik my dude but because of some of the others present it wasn't really feasible - hopefully the opportunity will arise again but I take your point.

>>17840691
Take her on a small date and cut it short by making an excuse to go to your house
Get her on the bed with Netflix and the pussy opens up wider than the mouth of Galactus

You ain't they type to pull that off though since you can't even kiss her at a party

If she's shower snap chatting you already then she sees it more than just friends, just escalate the flirting and kiss her the next time you go out

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I think that you need to continue your highschool English courses. You aren't able to convey a clear message to your audience.

Fuck bitches get money

I smell PedoBear LoL

>>17840639

To summarise:

This girl rejected me because I showed confined when she went for another guy

Today I expressed distress by hitting other girls infront of her. But I'm not sure if I'm doing that because I like her or simply because I like the other girls as well.

Wtf do I do?

>>17840576
Car problems
Now stop being a lazy nigger

>>17840576
Sick family member that needs your help taking them to the hospital.

>>17840580
I just wanna take a day off to twerk w/ friends.

>>17840470
Shit, are you me?

Don't feel too bad about it. It sounds like you have some pretty bad social anxiety, or you just plain don't handle stress well. It DOES get better with age, but for people like us it'll just go by slower maybe haha. It could also just be a common sense thing, which I lack - not gonna lie.

If you're unsure, watch how other people do things, copy them a bit. Remember if you're freaking out just stop and relax, crack a joke if you see you made a mistake "Ah, sorry, I'm not myself today! Haha!" "Man I'm so tired, I can't even do anything right now, sorry about that!" "Cocaine is a helluva drug" (that last one is a joke if you feel ballsy and just wanna walk out not giving a shit) Or just tease yourself a bit with some honesty thrown in: "Sorry I have NO IDEA why I did that. Let me help you here" and just throw in some laughter or something. If they're not assholes, they'll laugh too, even if it could be a pity laugh. If they still talk shit, fuck 'em.

I had a similar issue today.

>at boss' house
>he had a knee operation
>ive volunteered to help him out in mornings and evenings
>he asks me to grab something
>in the kitchen
>its right on the counter
>btu i cant see it
>it doesn't register in my head
>im a total fucking tard
>he can see it from his chair
>he is giving perfect directions
>and yet i cant seem to understand that this cup is the cup he is looking for.

i felt like a total tard. i burnt his dinner, i struggle to take basic commands, and seem like a total fucking retard.

BUT, I also got him out of debt, and made his business actually profitable. every single idea I've had has pushed more and more clients or cut costs in some way. i had one idea he hated. didnt want to do. spent months convincing him. finally he let me do it. got us 2000 extra dollars that week because i was right and it worked.

he laughed at my incompetence as a home care assistant, but noted that not everyones good at everything. I'm a solid business man who turned his company around and hes right. I flourish in a business setting.

point is that not everyones good at everything. common sense is not so common. despite your odd be havior you are functional, and can they really be mad at you for not knowing how something you had no experience with works? its not your job to scan grocceries. its theirs.

and if you answer this saying you dont have anything to compensate with, im sure you do, and if not you can find it.

>>17840499
Thanks a lot man

>>17840491
I think it's both of those things.

fat and pretty cancel each other out. sorry anon

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>Are dudes with 2 disgustingly ugly features pretty?
No. Not really.

>>17840397

pretty? no. in some cases it can be a saving grace. depends how fat. its really more like 'husky' or muscle-fat guys that look good with tattoos.

i love a manwith tattoo sleeves and an innocent demeanor. but its hard to save a general fatty.

Firstly, I hope your psych isn't usually so passive to very real struggles you're going through. If so, maybe look for another if you can my man. I know the prospect isn't easy, but its worth it.

How much free time do you have and are you primarily in charge of buying the food in your household?

>>17840394
Ask if there's an alternative medication you can try. Also, you really should try exercise since you're depressed, gained weight or no; even if it's just a walk around the block, it helps.

>>17840413
>>17840422
i'm actually female and i have a kid and work 80%. count in the entire household and i have virtually no way to exercise. believe me, i tried. ofc i can manage to cut away an hour a week, but it is taken from another of my obligations designated times and i can them severely feel the lack of that hour. as in, i fall behind with chores, which then piles up very fast. not falling behind wih chores is very important for me to not get to deep into depression again. or it is cut away from the very precios and little time i have with my kid, which then reflects back in his behabiour since he definitely doesn't get enough quality time with mom anymore so he has to try to get negative attention, i really tried. and i always had to say no, that ia definitely not worth it. i also am in charge on buying food, yes. and i buy only healthy stuff and cook from scratch (besides one box with sweets that belongs to my son but it's taboo for me and i meber break that rule". at work, i have to eat there and the food is very fatty and unhealthy (i have to eat what's on the table because i work with kids and have to be a rolemodel. i asked. i have to). my provblem is that the medication makes me hungry af ALL the time so portion size is my downfall. i know i could just "eat less" but then again i am not exactly a mentally healthy individual with high levels of selfdiscipline. i am working on that, but damn it is scary to know that my selfdiscipline will not kick in fast enough before i bevcome a fullblown hamplanet. i tried changing up the medication several times and it doesn't help a single bit.

Welcome to the future of Trump America lol.
You and me both brother, I'm getting the fuck out of this country as soon as I can get access elsewhere. Place is and always has been a shit hole really. Best country on earth my ass lol.

If you find any viable means out of the country let me know. Looking for job opportunities in basically any first world country.

>>17840389
In most cases you can try to record and then report them ... which obviously doesn't help you in the moment the abuse happens. I guess knowing that this people are pathetic idiots isn't much of a relief too.

Moving out of Murica isn't a bad idea, it's going to turn a lot shittier too due economic reasons too. Learn the language and move into some European country.

>>17840389
Be strong or be destroyed if you don't want to be bullied you have stand up for yourself in life you need to be able to rely on yourself bc friends and family won't always be around to help you