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I dated a girl two times recently that I reconnected with after losing contact five years ago.

First date went well, every fact about her matched mine, outlook on life, being smart, understanding. And I think she's beautiful so I kissed her when I left and she kissed back.

Second date, I thought damn this is a very nice girl so I cooked some food and we watched a movie. Though, our conversations were kind of boring, nervous and not flirty. Then she put her hand on my lap during the movie and we made out for a bit. She then stopped me and said that we were moving too fast, there was no chemistry, she did not want a boyfriend and she didn't want to lead me on.

And she was right, our dates were alright but there was no "love" really.

I don't think it's going to work out but I wouldn't mind being friends, or friends with benefits really.

When she told me that we were going too fast I interpreted it as a nice way of saying that she never wanted to see me again. And now I think that her opinion of me is being desperate and girlfriend or nothing, which is not the case.

And I'm not an idiot that wants to stay friends with someone in hopes of a girlfriend.

What do?

(I have given it almost two weeks to relax any feelings and I'm thinking of just asking her if she meant what I think she meant.)

TL;DR:
Should I keep contact with someone I might have had as a girlfriend but it didn't really work.
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Why not? She's a porential friends with benefits, she just didn't want to have sex with you and make you think it was something more than that

Keep it like that and she might change her mind later, just don't hold your breath on it
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>>17834528
All contact I have with her is through a chatting app. Would this text be appropriate?

>Hey, I think I missunderstood you and that you never wanted to see me again. That's stupid, we didn't have any chemistry but I wouldn't mind knowing each other anyway. What do you think?
(Also, I wouldn't write it in english, not my native language.)

I'm just worried she will think I want to try to be friends just to get in her pants/marry her.
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Bump, more opinions please.

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Anyone here have experience buying from alphabay? Specifically DMT?
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it's less about the drug you're buying and more vendor when it comes to darknet
do your research; often times its better to pay a little extra from an established dealer over a cheaper new seller who may not use proper stealth
if deliveryman tries to make you sign for the package, refuse ownership, it's a cop and they're trying to bust you
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>>17834736
Well im buying domestic from a well known and respected seller. But currently hes on vacation. Now the next option is another well known and respected seller but hes in the UK. Should i bother waiting for the main guy to come back from vacation or should i cop from the UK guy? Im only across the pond from the uk but im worried customs gonna be sniffing around
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>>17834952
depends on his reputation
do people ordering from abroad say his stealth is good?
if not, just wait until your local guys back

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I (male,21) have major depression and don't know what to wish for christmas, because everything seems boring.
Can you give me some ideas/what do you wish for?
<picrelated
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>>17834491
Wish for more Zwang.
Also, stop wishing, and go make something happen. Make plans, not wishes.
And plan ways to get more Zwang.
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>>17834499
kek, sadly this question fits my personality perfectly well
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PS4 with FFXV

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I wanna stop procrastinating

Make me move please

Give me the magic receipe
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>>17834479
Most people procrastinate to some degree or another. I work hard and get a lot done, but only because I have to - if it wasn't for the fact that the bank would reposess my house and the wife and kids need feeding I wouldn't bother with work at all. In fact, if I had no responsibilities, I'd only ever get out of bed to go fishing or to the pub.

So long as someone else is keeping a roof over your head and putting food on your plate you probably won't find the motivation to change what you're doing.
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>>17834479
I'll tell you tomorrow.silo
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>>17834515
I know a lot of people who manage to work towards a goal because they want to, not because they have to

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hey guys. I want to know how to conquer any girl
vids, books,...
how to act
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just be yourself :^)
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Quite frankly, the fact of the matter is there is no way to conquer any girl.

There will be girls that aren't interested in you, just like there are girls you aren't interested in. It's not a video game where you get it right and everything works 100% of the time. There are plenty of things you can do to improve yourself and your chances but girls are people too my mans.
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>>17834483
This.
I got rejected by average-looking girls and would fuck much cuter ones next week.
There's no rule to it.

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The girl I like best friend keeps watching me (she has a boyfriend). what could this mean? Is the girl I like possibly interested in me?
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>>17834465
she probably thinks you're weird and is expecting you to do something strange
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>>17834465
this guy keeps watching me. every time I look he's looking. My best friend told me he likes her so why does he stare at me?
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>>17834488
that's fair
>>17834496
I see her looking at me before I look at her.
Over analyzing RIP ME

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My gf is driving me fucking nuts. She is incredibly selfish.

First of all, she takes fucking FOREVER to do anything on the phone. Two days ago we were trying to figure out what time we were gonna see each other yesterday and it took THREE HOURS for us to have the simple fucking conversation of when she was gonna get off work, because she'd fucking disappear, and this was at night, making me late to sleep to go to work the next day. Then, yesterday, she was supposed to come over so we could have sex but she says she's "feeling too lazy" to WALK OVER TO MY FUCKING HOUSE and that if I wanted to spend time together I should go to her house, and we could talk about life, because we can't have sex there because of her family, and tells me to leave it for the next day, except I fucking can't leave it for the next day because I got shit to do and yesterday I didn't. She acts as if I'm just sitting around waiting for her.

So I get down there and we talk about fucking meaningless shit and obviously I'm somewhat irritated and she asks me sincerely if there's anything she does that bothers me, and I mention the thing about disappearing on the phone, and she says she has to stop that because all her friends complain about it too and it pushes people away, they stop talking to her. So then I get home and IMMEDIATELLY the disappears from the phone again. Holy fucking shit.

I feel like she's pushing me away hardcore by just barely being there. What the fuck do I do?
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stop being a cuck

very simple
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this is why i test girls before i invest into them. Got NO time for flakes.
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Considering that you are annoyed that much by jer, what really keeps you two together? I found when I got annoyed with my partners it kind of woke me up, making me look into myself to see why we were still a thing.

Could be a wake up call from your brain, just saying.

How do i keep calm? I have anxiety and due to that i get nervous or irritable frequently, i just want to handle stress better and feel peaceful and well with myself, should i go to therapy or what?

ps:i don't have anger issue and i'm not a violent person.
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Are there some things that you really enjoy that make you feel at peace? Listening to music for example.
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What are the situations that make you feel anxious typically?
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Sorry for the late reply, got busy with stuff.

>>17834420
Yes, music help, i enjoy silence too, but the point is that i want to be in control of myself to avoid getting mad with frequency.
>>17834423
Crowded places, loud envioriment, hot envioriment, and people who talk non stop.

those are the situation who trigger my anxiety with more frequency.

Hi,

I don't want to write a roman, so, long story short, I'm belgian, and my gf is french.

Her dad and grandfather don't stop punch her, abuse her, and whatever you want.


At first she had been sent to several homes, and later returned to her family, and the situation was improved.

But today she told me that once again her dad and grandfather beat her again and I do not know what to do.

I can not join her for the moment, she will be able to come to Belgium soon but risk losing her current work if the situation get worse, and therefore, not have enough savings to come here in Belgium to be in peace.

I can not speak directly to his family because if they receive threats or if I warn the authorities, they will attack her.

What do I have to do /adv/ ?
I can't take it anymore, I can't do anything and that hurt.
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Are you Flemish?
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>>17834387
No, he's Belgian.
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>>17834412
Flemish is a language in Belgium

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Are women retarded or just pretending?

If so, how have they kept the act up for so long???
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Little bit of column A, little bit of column B

People let them get away with it. Obfuscating stupidity is the easiest way to get away with most instances of shitty behavior.
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>>17834344
women are fucking retards and the reason they get away with it is that most males are fucking apes and would do anything to fuck these whores
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>>17834397
Good point

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How do I regulate my sleep cycle so that I can go to bed at 11:30 every night? I have been going to bed at random times from 3AM-5AM usually, and I've been taking melatonin for years, which I just learned actually fucks up your body's natural production of it.

Anyone had success with fixing your dysfunctional NEET sleep pattern, or lack thereof?
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Put your phone down.
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>>17834303
Why do you want to change it? Because I'm in the exact same ship except for the melatonin part and I had moments where I wanted to change it too.

Are you REALLY motivated? If so, just put your alarm clock on 8:30AM and just go to sleep when you normally asleep. If you REALLY are motivated to change it up you will get up in the morning. If you're like me you will probably hit snooze or ignore and keep sleeping.


Just get a job that starts in the morning, that or go to school or something. Then the first day you will be tired as fuck but the next one you will be able to sleep earlier because of how tired you are. Did this a lot in high school where in the vacations I had this sleeping schedule and the first schoolday I would always be tired as fuck, next one I was able to sleep at like 11:00.
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>>17834428
Not OP, but got the same problem. I can't sleep between 9 pm and 4 am no matter what. I've tried to change my schedule by force several times, without success.

If I force myself to get up early and stay awake all day I usually fall asleep in front of the TV somewhere between 7 and 10pm. Even if it's just 10 minutes, it's enough to let me stay awake till 3am at the very least, worst so far was 9am before I finally found back to sleep.

Another phenomenon I discovered is that when I just pushed through the tiredness, no matter how horrible the day has been, it goes away at around 11pm and I can't sleep for a couple hours after that, even if I've been awake for 36 hours straight.

What's the absolute weirdest though is what happens if I'm tired all day and go to bed at normal hours. I'll wake up at 2 to 3 am, feeling like absolute shit, unable to go back to sleep. The next day then is the worst of the worst, or I can finally sleep again around 7 to 9am.

I do most my sleeping during lunch break or after uni or work, which keeps me alive but doesn't really work to make me feel normal.

Last night I couldn't fall asleep till 6 am, it's now 3pm when I woke up after sleeping through 4 alarms.

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I have fucked up everything in my home country. I have no friends, people hate me, I have all kind of mental symptoms because of that, I can't be relaxed with people, because I don't know do they secretly hate me, I can't go to school, I can't go to work, I just can't do anything.
The weirdest part is that I really haven't done anything so incredibly bad, that it would turn whole country against me. Idk, maybe some online gossip, what has gone out of hands.

Now I'm balancing between two options, either stay in my flat without seeing anyone till my parents die (maybe 20 years), and after that kms.

or

Will start at clean table in some other country.

Should I try life in some other country? Do anyone here have experience about that kind of stuff? I have pretty good papers from high school, so I easily could get in almost any university, except the most elite ones.

What to do?
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What did you do lol?
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>>17834290

I have tried to find answer for that so long.
I have behaved like a jerk, I don't deny that. But all people do sometimes.
I really haven't done anything, what should concern ppl I don't know, like raped a child oslt.
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>>17834285
Where are you from anon?

A good gf/bf/wife/husband/partner shall "_______"
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>>17834275
post mems online for the amusement of neets
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>>17834275
Watch days of thunder with me
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Be a good communicator.

My dream wife would semi-regularly wake me up with head.

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Pros and cons of getting married?

What are your perspectives/input on looking for a spouse from a different culture? Of what I've heard and observed both american men and women make awful mates, but how about other parts of the world?
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>>17834271
There are pros???
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>>17834383

The only pros are for women.

It is pointless for a man to get married in this day and age.
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I suppose the tax benefits

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What is it that convinces a guy to agree to an "open relationship" whereby she has sex with other men and he remains exclusive to her (because he can't get with anyone of else, not by choice)?

Low self esteem?
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>>17834242

Maybe he just wants to bang other chicks too and considers an open relationship more fair than cheating.
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>>17834252

He isn't having sex with any other girls
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>>17834242
you just answered it yourself retard. "because he can't get with anyone of else"

agghh people this stupid shouldnt be allowed to ask questions

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