Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 3134. page

you've got to find something important

give yourself time to dick around too but seek stuff out
being depressed is hard, try talking to someone if youre open to that.

I too struggle with this and am in the exact same boat.
I failed out of college with access to having a tutor any time I needed it.
I lost my medication 2 months of into school and loss my free aid.
Also been told I have a learning disability. I'm convinced I can't get a good job because can't school.
People think having ADD or ADHD is just not being able to focus well its more than that.

i feel u guys.

>>17840305
I understand what you mean OP

I feel attracted to women who have that crazy look about them, like they'd try to stab me if I fucked up. I don't know why...

>>17840305

Any experience with one?

I have this I guess you could call fetish too, I know they're not good for me but I just want to fuck them and make them submissive. I think it stems from my ex being a party girl, bad girl type. Obviously crazy but hot chicks turn me on now, even though I see no future with them.

>>17841124
I guess it can be considered a fetish. I even have a folder dedicated to women posing for their mugshots

Canada
6' 4"

Canada
5'9"

>>17840284
US
5'5"

>>17840247
Would bang this tumblr slut, if not too diseased

>>17841151

ok

>>17841151
>if not too diseased
Outa luck pal

Id get on Disability and start smoking a shit ton of weed.
Id start improving my cooking skills and invite friends over for food and weed.
If i die then ill have those last fond memories of being happy by making my friends happy.

buy a set of kneepads and invite people from Craigslist over.

i was born poor i'm not dying poor

>>17840240
Would it allow me to skip work/university and get benefits? That'd be pretty awesome. I wouldn't change much about life since I am already totally focused on my hobbies, ideally it'd motivate me to be more productive ... but probably not.

>Would you forgive people or would you burn bridges with them?
Why not both? Grudges are idiotic but if there is no further benefit of investing time in a person, why bother?

Sounds like you have shitty friends. Have you asked them to stop reminding you of your past. They don't have anything new to talk about or mention? Is there anything you can bring up that they would hate? If they don't respect your wishes, then turn it around on them. Being up their shit right after they bring up yours. Or just ghost them. Find new friends.
Your self confidence is constantly being pushed down by them and you won't ever grow with their push back. Find other people to create new memories. Try to join a fitness club/class and try to befriend them. Find people from hobbie groups or an evening class if you can afford it.
Good luck!

Just. Leave. Them. That's it

Get fit, even if youre ugly, a great body and a good personality goes much further.

>>17840292
Thank you so much for the advice, I feel like I haven't strongly retaliated back because I just don't want to break my rare friendships apart. Should I work on my social skills?

>>17840311
Is there anyway I can leave them without them exposing my past? I had a violent confrontment with a teacher back in our school and they always bring it up to rub it against me

1. Stop calling him her
2. Stop being Gay

Just so you know shes already told her friends.
Have a face to face with her and try to have a civil talk and again apologize to her.
Its going to be awkward but thats all you can really do.

And dont say you have feelings for her, thatll make it worse.

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That's what you get for being a degenerate. But he's even worse and since you were shitfaced it doesn't count so tell him that just because he has a pussy doesn't mean he has to be one. Also stop being gay.

cheddar makes everything beddar

Go to the deli section of your supermarket and check out their fancy cheeses.
Brie goes good on french bread, get some salami (not the presliced shit), find a good garlic infused cheese, maybe one or two hot pepper infused cheeses.
A sharp cheddar is always nice on a saltine.

Thick cucumber slices are always good, same with thick cold slices of tomato.

>>17840074
Get a crisp juicy pear. Thickly slice. Serve with a slice of blue vein or a really sharp cheddar. YOU can thank me later.

you knew what you were getting into when you started fucking her. jc, it's the woman that's supposed to gain attachment, not the man.

man the fuck up, anon.

what, do you have feelings for her?
> I could find the guy and tell him she was sucking my dick like 5 days ago.
that's the way to burn bridges permanently

Why torture yourself?
Dont play any bullshit games and lay it out.
You either get serious with her or cut it all off.

Being friends with her is going to be weird no matter what you guys do if she starts dating.

Also dont be some sleazy pos by talking to the guy behind her back, thats a good way of burning a bridge and youll hate yourself even more then than you do now.

>>17840043
I don't think I like living in communism very much
>Lol but you renounced your rights so you don't get a say in the matter

She might be seeking a reaction out of you. Stop reading the posts and you'll just end up forgetting about it.

Yes, there are scripts you can add to her page to get statistcs. If she has StatCounter active, for example, she can see everything you click, how long you stay on each page, where you came from before that and where you go after.

why would someone want to be useful?

>>17839824
become attractive. You can come up with arguments against that but it all comes down to be lazy and not caring about your life

Useful in what sense?

>>17839735
>long response about your feelings
>responds with short abrupt cold sentence
>more long feelings
>guilt trips

Maybe you should stop talking to a manipulating bitch? Like just fucking step away and pretend you just saw those texts posted by another anon. Come on.

>>17839735
you're being an emotionally manipulative pussy
drop the hoe and fucking fix your ball sack

>>17839743
This, cringy af, just drop it dumbass OP

>>17839728
>i helped them with their confidence
>by fucking them and then dumping them

How fucking retarded can you be?

>women

>>17839733
2 of them dumped me, 1 went to college in a different state. I still talk to all of them, and they are doing well.

>>17839665
Its only bad to miss out on if you're wanting a relationship. Dating should lead to marriage and if you believe its a trap then I suppose you answered your own question.

There is a point but that boils down to my own personal reasoning and don't want to push that onto you as if its fact.

No. As one 24 year old to another (and I'm currently trying to get out of this relationship) absolutely under no circumstances be in one unless you truly want it.

>>17839676
>Dating should lead to marriage
No.

>>17839590
It's a choker. It's literally the universal sign that the girl sucks mean dick.

>>17839590
Why are you posting this on every board?

>>17839599
because i know now that posting this on /pol/ wasn't the best way to get legitimate answers
>>17839596
i very much doubt this, she and her friends are around 8 years old