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>Me and gf were together for a few months, but broke up because she was being weird about the relationship
>We got back together during the Summer and became pretty much inseparable, we're pretty much perfect for each other
>We both come from shitty family experiences and have gone through some serious shit
>Spent Christmas and New Years together, since neither of us wanted to be with our family
>Spend pretty much everyday together, talked about moving in together
>She starts acting weird recently, I point it out
>Says nothing is wrong, but later calls me to tell me she wants a break because she doesn't know what to do with our relationship (I didn't know what she meant either)
>Tell her that if she wants a break, then it's over
>She tearfully agrees
>Hangup
>She calls back saying how she's not used to being in a good relationship (her parents were in a shitty one), doesn't like to see herself happy and punishes herself (she was a cutter), doesn't put herself in long relationships because she'll feel vulnerable once she starts liking the person too much, and doesn't know how to show affection
>But also that she wants to be with me and work on these things together
I've fucking had it with women and don't want to get hurt again (a similar reason is why we broke up in the first place) but I've got a special place in my heart for her.
I don't want to be taken advantage of, but what we have is too special to just throw away. What do?
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>>17926481
You know what to do OP
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>>17926481
Oh, and I forgot to mention that the second time around, SHE was the one who was basically trying to make us official again.
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>>17926481
oh boy, you are being taken advantage of.
All that time your feelings were fucked up? i bet she did that on purpose to get more attention or to have you pitty her.
Reserve that special place in your heart for someone else anon, it's relatively easy atm since you already had this weird non-breakup.
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Trying to settle down with Boyfriend.
Me and him have been dating for 3 years now and the talk of marriage came. We came clean on all our past experiences and everything was fine until I told him I had a threesome in college with these 2 African-American guys. After I told him I noticed he became particularly uncomfortable and seemed kind of distant and annoyed by me... I told him I was young, dumb and experimental but that was no longer me and that I only cared for him.
Is he racist? How do I go about getting him to chill out and understand?
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>>17926472
>tfw he'll have to live forever now knowing his wife got split roasted and ran double chimney on all that coal.
Racist, sure.
I still think it's an appropriate reaction, and I'd end up breaking up with you over your past in this scenario.
I dated a girl who had been split roasted by white guys, and I was still turned off and could never look at her the same.
This is from a sexually experienced 24 year old who has slept with over 20 different womens of all sorts of ethnicities.
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>>17926472
no ones really wrong here, no ones really right.
dont feel ashamed and say it was dumb and experimental, you know it was fun. I've done shamelessly slutty things in my life. hell, i did shamelessly slutty things just yesterday.
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>bait thread
But go ahead and reply anyway you retarded faggots
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hey /adv/ i come to you guys which i assume as a major problem seeking advice. The events have been from my past and are still affecting me day to day and would like help please. Here is my story. When i was five years old I had a childhood friend she's a female me male. After the hazy blur of preschool was over skip over 13 years we happen to go to the same exact high school me a senior and her a junior.
We connected as soon as we noticed each other, we were having so much fun together sharing stories of our past and how we managed to run into each other it was all so amazing, We also talked about saving ourselves for each other when the time came. As the year went on we started getting closer and closer hanging out and stuff as natural friends do. Then everything went bad. She had told me that one of her guy friends had sexually assaulted her after school while i was at tennis practice. I asked her what did she mean but she didn't want to talk about it anymore. I became so fucking pissed I wanted to beat the living shit out of that little pussy I never saw him around the school and i hate the shit that he got away with. Ever since our friendship has been heading south turning into a huge pile of shit. She completely rejected me whenever we were supposed to chill and even rejected my offer to senior prom. After senior year of graduation she walked into my job and said that she was leaving back to her hometown and then just left. I haven't seen her since.
Cont.
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Two years after i graduate i try to connect with her over Facebook and have a short convo. Eventually i become severely depressed I hadn't had a gf ever since. After a while I couldn't take my life anymore and decide to try and commit suicide. After i realized that i survived I was accepting with what i did and ended up doing time inn a psych ward. But now I have terrible anger issues and autistic rages for no reason for what happened to me. My whole family has think that i have gone insane because i scream out fuck her and wish death upon her. I know it's terribly bad and it sucks because it's starting to become worse and worse because I'm blaming my friend for what happened to her. While in a psych ward and they said i was diagnosed with schizophrenia and gave me meds. Now that my meds are all gone I'm still throwing nonsensical temper tantrums for no reasons and it's fucking ruining my life, i'm suffering from major migraines and now I'm not to sure on how to handle my life anymore. Please help me /adv/
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>now that my meds are gone
FFS, you have a debilitating mental illness, get more fucking meds
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>>17926450
besides medication is there any other way to cope with what i'm going through? I don't want to feel drugged up because of this. I was a perfectly healthy person and want to become my normal self again
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looking for some interesting sex moves to expand my bag of tricks. i do the normal stuff like biting, pinching, choking, etc. but it all feels a bit tired these days. looking more for little 'techniques' rather than positions but anything welcome. im a dude with an average (6in) donger if that matters, also thin body type
also i need this info WITHIN 60 MINUTES as i have griller coming
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>Tease and denial to her. Make her ask for everything and deny her.
>Dick all in, continuously hump forward without moving back, smashing her clit
>Have her lay belly up on you, fuck her from behind, masturbate her and grab tits
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if you have rope ask if she's into getting tied up
idk, sex is awesome with someone you care about no matter what you do?
incorporate toys? eat her out for an hour and then fuck the shit out of her
my man ties me up and leaves me in the room with a blindfold for x amount of mins and i just drip in anticipation
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>>17926388
Make her into roleplaying:
>daddy
>princess
>pet
>prostitute
>slave
>fridge
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day time teeth grinding?
Anyone else go through this? I'm always clenching my jaw, grinding my teeth, squinting my eyes, tightening my face, for no apparent reason.
I've been trying to stop it consciously when I notice myself doing it, but it's just so damn often.
I'm sure it's even worse when I'm sleeping, I've been told I have sleep apnea alongside it, and I've been dooing it since I was a child.
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>>17926336
Bite your underlip instead. That way you won't fuck up your teeth.
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>>17926349
I've tried that, and tried biting my tongue instead, that's one of the conscious fixes I attempt, but it hasn't helped.
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>>17926336
I do it too, therapist says stress and panic are the reason. I grind my teeth while sleeping and when I'm awake, it never stops, sometimes I get a cramp.
It's a symptom of a mental problem, solve that problem and the grinding will stop.
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I need cheap ideas for a date with a girl that I have already been hanging out with a lot.
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>>17926321
Cook her eggs.
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>>17926321
figure out her favorite movie. download it.
go out and buy popcorn and her favorite candy. then buy those little popcorn containers like they have at the movies, and get some GOOD soda, like a cream soda.
invite her over for an at home movie date.
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>>17926321
Unless he can approve of your pic related for dating idea, dump her.
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I will try to make this as short as possible.
So i'm currently 19 years old and want to become successful in life.
Success for me is earning lots of money and living a happy life with my future wife that will love me, and i will love her.
My main question is, how do i get to this point?
Also another question, are playing games for entertainment fucking retarded? Right now i want to begin playing Starcraft II and i will obviously not get pro in that game. Should i start playing it because it might be fun or should i just don't bother wasting 100's or 1000's of hours. Right now all i do in my spare time is sitting home browsing 4chan, reddit, watching latest Youtube videos of my subs, skyping and playing Rainbow Six Siege with my friend. I feel like i should do something else with my time, like living my life or something? Remember i'm 19 years, aren't the 20's the time where everyone is "Living their lives"?
I also want to learn Korean, how hard will it be to learn this on my own?
If you are wondering the reason to learn the language this is the following: Kpop, Kdramas, interesting culture, Korean E-sports are great. Might want to move to Korea in the future? I guess i should start learning the language instead of doing what the paragraph above is about.
Last question: On the part about earning lots of money, i currently saved up 20K USD. What are some smart things i can do with this money to make more? I have no idea how investing works.
Please help me, any answer is appreciated.
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>>Last question: On the part about earning lots of money, i currently saved up 20K USD. What are some smart things i can do with this money to make more? I have no idea how investing works.
buy low sell high
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>>17926308
>My main question is, how do i get to this point?
Hard work, smart decisions, fail a lot.
>Also another question, are playing games for entertainment fucking retarded?
Despite what everyone may say, do whatever you want and that makes you happy. If you wanna be happy do the things that make you happy. Nothing is retarded bar harming others.
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>>17926314
Wow, that awesome advice. Definitely not heard that before.
>>17926325
>Despite what everyone may say, do whatever you want and that makes you happy. If you wanna be happy do the things that make you happy. Nothing is retarded bar harming others.
I don't really need to be happy right now, isn't it best to do the shirt work now and be happy after?
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Hey, so I'm a 31 year old male, I've been married 6 years(been in the relationship for 13 years.), My wife and I were virgins when we met and took each others virginity I have a 5 year old and a 1 year old. I'm currently "separated" My wife and I have had our ups and downs, While we were dating (2007) she decided we needed a break, while on that break i begged and pleaded to reconcile, but she wasn't having it. after 3 or 4 months of break she invited me over to her moms. We were in her room, she went into another room. I decided to be nose and looked in her nightstand and found a used condom and lube. I freaked the fuck out. about a month later I found another used condom in her middle console of her car. She denied both of these condoms saying they were her friends.I guess I forgave her even though I knew she was O.J. Simpson'ing all of this. The dude was an ex of hers she was head over heels for I checked her myspace and she had said she really wanted to date him.He however didn't wnat to date her. (cont'd)
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After he was in a relationship, she came crawling back, but being the desperate loner I was then I took her back. I cheated on her a few months later, she never found out... I wasn't in it for love, only for the sex. fast forward a few years, she finds out shes pregnant with our first child. a month later trying to be the good person I proposed, she said yes, we married 2 months later. I wasn't over the moon about getting married, but I was content. we have our first child, she gets an IUD contraceptive. we have a rough patch because she totally quits work, I cheat a few more times because constantly arguing about money, and we're sleeping in different beds for about 1 year. We get closer I don't cheat again,from now on, get a better job getting more money etc. 2 years after our first she decides without telling me she wants another baby. gets IUD out without telling me. we get pregnant a few months later, I was shocked. I never wanted kids in the first place. a month later a miscarriage. we managed, but I was like wtf I thought you had an IUD. She then revealed that she had gotten it removed. It angered me, but I let it go. a year and a half later we found out we were pregnant again. I was a little more accepting of this one. 12 weeks later dead baby. We got pregnant 2 months later with our (now 1 year old) child. I was super supportive She didnt have to work at all and hasn't since our first child was born. I worked 60 hour weeks to support the family. I had been looking for a job where I could spend more time at home. In her 7th month of pregnancy I found that job. I got paid the same hourly, but, had much better work hours, it waas the bees knees as far as ideal jobs for me. I was over the top, she wasn't citing that we would have financial problems. I didn't care my kids were what I wanted to see more of versus my job. My new job was great, except it was high stress at the time. I began to drink... a lot.
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I started that job in August of 2015, fast forward to June 16th, 2016 I had been depressed and drunk everyday for a few months,that day I was a bit over the top: paranoid depressed, and feeling alone in life. She was spending all weekend out and about living a carefree life spending the money I earned on useless stuff,. I was tired of working just to break even with bills. I was drunk she was in another room. I loaded a rifle got in bed and yelled for her to come to the room I was in. I calmly said tell me the truth about you and guy from 2007. She denied it all like she always had. I pulled the rifle out from under the blanket, cocked it and stuck it under my chin, and said are you sure about that? She still denied and began pleading for me not to do this to her. I tensed up and decided it was my time, pulled the trigger, but it jammed.
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hm.
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>Ask girl if she wants to hangout with friends tonight?
>Says she's busy
>Ask girl also about tomorrow night because I won't be able to be home since there is a party my mom is having
>She says shes busy
>I then asked when is she free again then since I missed hanging out with her
>Said to stop acting so desperate
Whelp I offically fucked up any chance with her. I really did miss her and I guess I let it show a little too much and now im that desperate idiot who annoys her I bet.
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>>17926229
What kind of advice do you want?
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>>17926229
update she said she was joking but honestly I feel like she's just saying that to be nice about it now
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>>17926233
Yeah sorry I should of typed more, just a little flustered
Two things first how can I calm down when I talk with her and not sound like an idiot who lets her know I miss hanging out and wanna do it again
Second how can I feel better after this, I feel so low and shitty right now.
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Do dick pics even work?
How else do you approach a ONS on tinder? Some guys can get dates that night but it takes me months!
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>>17926202
Do those guys use dick pics? Of course not. Dick pics never work.
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>>17926202
Dick pics work if you want to have some gay sex.
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>>17926222
Good thing I'm not on Grindr
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Should I pay $58.00 of my student loan money to buy the full movie from Vimeo?
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Yes, then post it for us for free. Everyone wins except the tax payers.
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>>17926151
Ok give me your email I'll send it to you
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is it sad to scroll through Facebook with your s/o and show her/laugh at cringeworthy poetry that mutual friends have posted?
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On one level it's sad but on another level it's entertaining and you're both in a situation to bond together
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>>17926106
I'm not sure if it's sad. It's cruel and cowardly, though, that's for sure. You are making fun of people to their backs.
But as Anon said above, you two are bonding and having fun together. I don't see the "sad" in that.
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>>17926131
op here... do most couples do this, or is it abnormal?
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My gf has been steadily gaining weight ever since we started dating 11 months ago. A little while ago she started wearing a shirt during sex. She claimed it was because she was cold (she often wears socks for this reason) so I let it slide. The other day my room was boiling hot but she still wanted to keep a shirt on. She said she didn't want me to see her stomach. I refused to have sex with clothing so we just didn't end up doing anything. We had sex maybe twice in the last month. And it's been terrible sex each time on my end. She complains about riding me because she gets exhausted after a few seconds. And the last time she sucked my dick was some time in November.
She's gotten incredibly lazy and complainy. She's starting to get high alone a lot and she'll just eat Nutella straight out of the jar while watching Netflix. The moments where she is sweet are becoming more rare. Whenever I even remotely bring up her weight gain she gets super upset. I hit the gym constantly and I track everything I eat yet she puts no effort into the way she looks. Should I just break up with her?
Pic related. It's the closest I could find to her body type. You can't really tell she has a belly when she's wearing clothes and her face doesn't look super fat.
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>>17926093
do internet search -
what to do about my fat gf
how to deal with fat gf
etc
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>>17926093
Let her know how much of a serious issue it is for you, if she won't discuss it or freaks out try a few more times if no progress end it.
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>>17926093
i was in a similar situation op, the best you can do is dump her and find someone who fits your lifestyle. at some point she'll get paranoid that you are cheating because you look good and she dont if you compromise too much you'[ll get fat yourself and regret it every day while trying to keep the fat pig happy, this was me 2 years ago
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Best way to steal someones girl who has been in a relationship for 2 years. 2017-01-05 04:44:55 Post No.17926084
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Just looking for advice, and just to clarify i'm very confident and not a sperg. Me and this girl at work both like each other. She's really shy and awkard but we have great chemistry, she's sometimes nervous and clumsy around me, sometimes she touches me, she blushes, lights up when she sees me and she's always laughing around me as well as mimicking me and we stand really close to each other when talking. There's obvious attraction between us and we have a lot in common, despite her awkwardness.
She however has been in a relationship for 2 years. He was her first boyfriend and he's 7 years older then her and he doesn't have a job. She talks about him alot but there's no real details or appraisal about him, just stuff she did with him. I'm more charismatic and attractive then him and shes told me i'm really smart is and i sense its something where she got into a relationship out of comfort.
I haven't made a move on her or admitted interest back yet but i really like her and i know she's into me. What's the best way to go about this?
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Don't.
This is an immature mindset. Do unto others. If a woman is in a relationship, leave her alone. There's too many fish in the sea to purposely attempt to destroy two peoples lives.
Just wait till it happens to you.
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>>17926084
>how to steal someones girl
>not a sperg
choose one
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In my experience, once she stops talking about him around you, she's trying to separate you two in her mind, and that's when you have a chance.
Then you let it drop accidentally that you have feelings for her. She'll reject you at first. But you just keep doing the same shit you've been doing, and her relationship with either fall apart on its own, or she'll break up with him.
I'm not proud that I've done this two or three times. Remember that if he's aware you exist and she's flirting with you, there's a real risk of her "accidentally" becoming pregnant. Yeah, people are shitty. No one is innocent.
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I haven't been on tinder for a long ass time. Wanting to try a more honest approach that doesn't involve cringy jokes. Yay or nay on this bio? It seems kinda boring but I'm a boring dude.
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>Yay
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>>17926042
don't include your height
especially if you're not even over 6 feet tall
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My advice is to give up on Tinder
Its just a bad and inefficient meme for hook ups