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>>17926034
Don't stick your dick into crazy.

>>17926074
Agreed

>>17926074
So not worth it at all? Thanks, I'm really confused, she said that she likes me but at the same time told me about her plans to hump with a dude. So I have no idea of what's happening, will stay away, thanks.

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>>17925930
I smoked yesterday night and had huge stunning hallucinations, is that ok ?
And today I feel like half asleep all the day, is that normal ?

weed doesn't cause vivid hallucinations

yes it's normal to feel a little tired after taking hallucinogens, especially when popping your bubble

Nobody gives two shits, this isnt your blog

>>17925923
>cont.d
>we start having sex
>passionate sex
I've always been pretty good
>she loves it no complaints
>we're kissing and everything I wish I could've done with her for 8 years, I'm doing it now.
>I spend the night there
>things are weird in the morning
>I leave quickly so she can get ready for work
>hug and goodbye
>text her slightly during the day, "hey that movie about hiking the pct was really good! I can't wait to finish it."
>"why don't you come over? I'm getting off work soon and we can watch the rest."
>I go over
>yadda yadda it eventually leads to sex
>halfway through, I begin talking to her about us and whatnot
>"I've been hooking up with Mac (her asshole ex), recently, anon. Also Bryant (her most recent ex)."
>I say, "oh!"
>"yeah i seem to be on a self-destructive path"
>"I guess I'm a part of that self-destruction huh?"
>"it's just sex, anon. You know that, right?"
>me: "yeah I know. I don't want a relationship with you, Meg (lie), and I know you don't want one with me. I just want you to know that I'm always here for you and that, when you're done with this, and if you want it, I'm all yours."
>she's staring into my eyes and just nods
>we start having sex again

>>17925943
I'm setting up the question, you twat
>>17925949
>we're passionately making love
>she won't stop staring at me and saying my name as I enter her
>we cuddle all night
>the morning is weird again
>hardly anything said
>hug goodbye
Now I'm back home making this thread.
So what do I do, /adv/? I love this girl more than anyone else. She doesn't want to date right now. She doesn't want to go camping with just me because it seems too "couple-y". She thinks that all I'm after is sex and nothing more. Every guy apparently always calls her special, like her two exes have and do.
She's the type who's not falling for any kind of bullshit.

>>17925884
I see one every week, it is helping me

Would you spare some oats, brother?

>>17925884
As an honest response, a psychiatrist will NOT help you like that. A psychiatrist is simply there to prescribe medicine and that's it. In my experience (United States), they get REALLY bitchy when you try to discuss your problems at all. They tell me they don't want to hear it. They just want to hear symptoms because they have maybe 10 minutes at most allotted to you

You would rather see a psychologist or counselor for what you're looking for. They tend to be cheaper, especially if you go for a Master Clinician, which is someone who only has their Master's degree. Depends on whether you use insurance benefits too, but usually the cheapest option.

I would seriously recommend you consider your position after a few sessions: if you're not making progress after about seven sessions, it's probably time to consult psychiatry.

Imagine fitting someone into the stereotype that you despise and associate that anything that resembles it as repulsive.

Sometimes i hate people on the street for absolutely no reason. I just local l at their face and go "damn I wanna punch him"

It's always insecurity, which causes jealousy or envy.

I think you may have severe autism

please remove yourself from the gene pool

You're like Joey from friends where he used a thesaurus on every word. Kek

I have a pretty broad vocabulary, and you are definitely joking or trying too hard.

>>17925828
You are cool.
Take germans tutorials with female teacher and marry her.

>>17925828
I'm Austrian, does that count?
Joke aside though, a lot of people find accents hot/cute, just think of all the girls swooning for Beneficial Cucumber and his British and whatnot.

do people think american accents are attractive is that a thing? i don't blame them if they hate southern accents.

>>17925820
I'm always either one of the two extremes; I can be super clingy & insecure at times or super emotionally unavailable. It's really tormenting & I cannot control it

>>17925820
>"do this but be quiet about it so the normal people can tolerate you"?

well i can be clingy and dependent when i am dating a girl so i pretty much have to suppress my neediness so the girl will think i am normal. i normally suppress it by telling myself that i will fuck it up if i express my desperation. i distract myself with mindless consuming. it rarely works out for me though, i normally end up saying something clingy when i am with the girl. Often the girl will go along and then suddenly say "we're moving too fast, lets be friends".

>>17925820
What you need is a therapist. Seriously don't get embarrassed by the idea, you really need it If it's eating you up from the inside.

I don't really get your point but I think I get your idea.

I too once wrestled that life is ultimately pointless. But then I thought, if everything amounts to nothing in the end might as well improve myself, even if it means I die fighting. I wrote a thesis on Norse mythology in college and was amazed on how their gods continue to fight even if Ragnarok is certain, and U adapted that policy a bit.

The promise that I could be a better person than I was yesterday keeps me going. I want to explore the world for all its worth.

Some say that this is what existentialism boils down to...idk. At the end of the day, I want to feel contented by the things I know that I have achieved for myself.

>>17925780

This is funny af because I was just going to make a similar topic, in addition to the fact that I'm 22 and in Uni as well.

Sitting on the shitter right now, and it has occured to me that much like SJWs it's because don't have any 'real' problems so we go about looking for something to stir up a fire in our lives.

Passion is something, despite my efforts, I have not been able to find. As a matter of fact, I'm finding what once blew my mind so to speak, has actually become a bit of a nuisance and I no longer enjoy said activity.

I think something for those like us will cook up eventually, I just think it's important for those like us not too burn the house down; because not everyone is so lucky to have a house.

Sometimes I think of killing myself but I know ill get there one day. Not sure what to dream of either.
I hate work most of all, but I wouldnt be doing anything anyway with out it.

>>17925758
>all my friends seem to have just been handed jobs

Do you say that because they were recommended by people they know or because they sent a few CVs and got quick replies?

>I can't get a job
>all my friends got handed jobs through connections
>how do you get a job
connections.

>>17925764
both, most of them were either handed an internship that turned into a paid gig at the end of it, and a few were literally just given jobs by their mothers or fathers. but some of them just magically got something on the first try of emailing CVs around, even while still in school

>>17925785
all my connections haven't given me a job yet

Girl I went to high school with charges an average CAN $300/hr, but she said she fluctuates her price depending on the client and what she has to do

she looks nice op

>>17925695
How much would you say domming would go for over normal sex? Haven't tried it yet but want to.


>>17925700
Unfortunately shes not the escort.

A new girl?

Give it time.

>>17925687
Do you lose attraction to someone over time?

How do I unattract myself to her?

>>17925677
I'm on 4chan, that should be an indicator that I don't find girls often.

She's really insecure about her looks, most of the time she's in a bad mood. Everytime I ask her how she's doing she says that she's doing bad. I'm getting tired of her negativity. She's into brand clothing. All she thinks and talk about now is how she looks and what she wants to buy. I've been spending a lot on the things that she wants. This whole past year I was spending all my money on her. Taking her out to eat, buying expensive clothes and gifts. Just giving pocket money. But her insecurities never go away.

She's very jelaous, especially about my dead first girlfriend. I used to visit her grave every year to bring some flowers, because I made a promise to her to do that and it bothered my current girlfriend very much. I can understand that, I would bother me too, so I agreed to stop doing that. But even so, she always gets mad at me for the things I told her long time ago when she asked me about my previous girlfriend. Even though I told her that I love her and I've let it go, she can't believe me and gets angry even more. I can't tell her anything about that theme or she will hit me and will start crying and freaking out.

I think she might be mentally unstable, she tried jumping of the balcony once when we had a fight and I had to break out the glass door not to let her. Cut myself pretty bad. She used to cut herself too. Sometimes when med is throwing things.

I spend all my time, money and effort on her and honestly, I just got tired of these things. Of her insecurities, of how bad she behaves sometimes, of that I always feel obliged to buy her expensive things, because she wants them and is used to that. Because she doesn't care about my well being sometimes. I'm tired that she's always unhappy, sad or angry. I really do so much for her. On her birthday I booked a lux hotel room, took her to the best restaurant, booked spa session, brought great custom cake, wine, balloons, took her to aqua park, bought her favorite sweets and a new iphone 7 and got her a personalized autograph of her favorite author - Murakami. I help her with her assignments, art classes, bring food to her place sometimes, buy cosmetics and much more. Sometimes I just feel that I should be treated better, that I'm not appreciated. That she doesn't think and care about me as much as I do about her.

On the other hand I'm sure that she loves me very, very much. She wants to spend all her time with me, comes to my place whenever, used to meet me after work, come to me from another city even, when she lived there. The sex is amazing too, broke my bed twice. Almost never says no, also gives head a lot. And sometimes acts so sweet and loving that I just can't bring myself to let her go. I tried breaking up once, but she cried so much and almost tried to kill herself, so we got back together.

Right now she's agnry at me again, because yesterday when we were lying in bed she asked me again about my exgirlfriend and I refused to tell her anything, because she only freaks out and goes mad when I do. I just said that she's dead and I love her and only think of her, don't want to talk and remember anything. She got angry and cried and kept me up till 3 AM even though I had to wake up at 5 next morning for work. At moments like these I feel that she doesn't care that I had work and wouldn't let me sleep. It's okay if that would happen once, it's important to talk sometimes, but this happens regularly. Every other night. I don't know what to feel anymore, I'm just really tired. I'm sorry for such a long post. I think I do love her and would want her to change on the other hand I really just want her out of my life so I can start doing things for myself. Maybe it's my problem that I'm not doing things for me and I should just start doing that? I would really appreciate some advice.

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>>17925615
>I haven't been able to show my breasts to my boyfriend of 3 years during sex
>boyfriend of 3 years during sex
>3 years

Just do it. Tell him about your emotions and if he's mature he won't be distressed by your crying and will understand.

>>17925629
I can't seem to do it. I'm absolutely terrified of someone seeing them, especially someone who I want to be attracted to me.

>>17925581
Not cheating, definitely slutty tho.

Avoid this kind of behaviour.

>>17925581
That is not cheating, and you can do that if you want and if it makes you feel good.

>>17925581
Tell your bf you do this if you plan to stay with him for a long time.