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>what should I say

You already sent a text. Wait for a response, no matter how long it takes. Even if she never texts you again, texting her further won't help.

>>17924285
It's been 3 days and we were having a serious conversation, I gave her some time before talking about it again but she didn't read the last post which she doesn't always notice.

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>>17924275
I know this feel all too well. Tbh it looks like you're forcing some issue and that NEVER works. Just ignore her for like 2 weeks and she may come back to you, if she doesn't she's not worth it. I've been here way too many times.

>>17924272
top kek

i never laugh here but this is unstoppable

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Optimum frequency at age 18-30 is one ejaculation per every four days, so basically only once a week.

And yes, it is having an effect on your performance.

>>17924276
I know it's hilarious but I've been doing it all say every day since sophomore year
>>17924281
I've been occasionally losing my erection when I'm about to have sex. Plus the erection sometimes painfully bends. I may be 18, but I'll admit 4 days sounds hard

self bump

>>17924150
Eat food or get help.

We can't make you eat.

>>17924232
k as I already stated, can't afford help. Not looking for anyone to make me eat, looking for advice.

Get out. It's a poltergeist.

Probably carbon monoxide poisoning or some shit.

sounds like pupil dilation, if you've ever taken a high dosage of stimulants occasionally really flat objects take on this breathing sort of pulsating quality. Another instances I've observed it is riding a bicycle and suddenly stopping and looking at the ground.

Pot does this a lot because it's mildly psychoactive, on LSD it's very pronounced to the point of where everything is tessellating patterns.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atomoxetine

you should really read up on drug side effects before jumping to supernatural conclusions, they list abnormal dreams as a common side effect.

I think you're confusing multiple things, you sound like you might be experiencing derealization/depersonalization, which may or my not have anything to do with your medication. A lot of people experience this to some degree when they're under a lot of stress, sometimes it's tied to other problems ( like a psychotic/manic episode), or it can be innocuous.

if this were /x/ I would just say it's nargles, and they demand a blood sacrifice.

don't do it, you'll be messing up a family

>>17924096
>>17924103
Fuck her once BECAUSE you'll be messing up a family. High five.

>dating a girl that's cheating on her bf with you

Are you fucking retarded, OP? Not only will the guilt of being a homewrecker kill her desire for you, she'll do the same thing to you. She cheated on her boyfriend with you, why wouldn't she do it TO you?

I always thought any courses, and even worse a degree, in game development are worthless and pointless. Either you have it in you to be creative enough to develop good games, or you don't. No course or degree program is going to teach you what people like in video games, or how to go about making them. A degree in something like CS would be great, because it would allow you to be able to know how to make the game software-wise, and the most IMPORTANT thing about it, is that it allows you to go outside of game development if need-be. Game development is a very niche type of career, as it doesn't translate well to other career paths, so if you choose to put money into classes for it and later decide to not go for it, boom, money and time wasted.

>>17924090

There is absolutely no harm in taking a course on game development. Go for it.

Trying to pursue it as a possible career path, however, is a whole different matter. The gaming industry is notoriously difficult to break into, the jobs are not stable at all, and you are expected to work long hours and lots of overtime. You're hobby becomes your job, and in all likelihood, you will lose interest in your hobby as many in the game's industry do.

>>17924136
Hmm I understand what you are saying however job wise it's the only thing I want to try and go for. If I can't do it then a CS would be worthless to me and would just venture into other jobs.

>>17924161
I don't treat it as a hobby, I treat it as a job like everything else however I love to be able to produce games even after that whole year of the massive stress of self learning and whatever I still wanted to do it even now, it is the learning side that I need help with that I feel will benefit me in the long run, if it doesn't then I'll go back to a normal job.

Honestly these days jobs aren't as stable as they used to be as a lot of people are going to realise this sooner or later.

>>17924000
Why don't you ask that thread talking about being an older woman wanting to fuck a younger guy?

>>17924008
Had no idea it existed. I must have over looked it. Its technically two different scenarios so maybe both could cross reference one another. Thanks for bringing that up to me though

>>17924000

I'm 29 and dating a 41 year old.

My circumstance is a little different though, because we work together and she pursued me.

A good place to start would be trying to have actual conversations with her rather than simply greeting one another. From there, you can feel it out and see if she's even worth going for (she may not be into younger guys).

If you do well with the above then you can try getting her number, so you can text eachother and have more meaningful conversation and really find out a lot more about one another.

You wanna ease into it all though. It's likely gonna be a slow process. If all you 2 have been doing is simply greeting one another and you barely know eachother, telling her outright that you're into her may not be a great idea. (There's a chance that could work, however, but I think it's best to try a safer approach.)

>>17923995

Hello. Young guy dating older here.

It sounds to me like you're hitting on guys who aren't into older women, or perhaps they're too intimidated by you to pursue.

It's definitely possible. There are a ton of 20 somethings who would love to get with a 40+ woman - I'm living proof.

As for advice, well, that's tough. The way my woman did it was she would simply have casual conversations with me whenever we saw eachother. Over the course of a few weeks I got more and more comfortable with her. She then gave me her number out of the blue one day, and that night, I started texting her and things really got going. Her intentions were very clear after a few hours of texting back and forth, but I had no idea she was into me that way when we were casually chatting - because why would a 40+ year old married woman want a young guy in their 20's?

That's probably what a lot of young guys think I imagine.

I'd say it depends on the quality of guy you're going after. Most guys would talk and dream about being with an older woman. It actually be stunned if one started coming onto us. Due to a life of restraint, we'd most likely pass it off and see it as some sort of "pervert test" instead of actually see it as flirting if anything. Women are weird and will do shit like bait an erotic response and then get mad and weirded out with the person if they react how they expected.
In this sort of case, you'd have to be a bit more direct in your spoken language about what you want because the whole situation is more fantasy level than anything.

>>17924095
this

I'm in my 20s and while I think women my age are okay, I really prefer older women. a lot of them aren't good at flirting though. try laying it on thick but in a decent way?

>>17923979
Loving yourself isn't synonymous with thinking that you're perfect in every way. Loving yourself means understanding that you deserve better because you have value, and deserve respect. And that starts with looking at yourself in the mirror, and saying with complete sincerity "I want to see the best for that person, and for that person to be their best"

>>17924033
I do value what I think I have most of the time. But sometimes I call myself ugly and stuff like that, even tho my friends say I'm an eight and I have good things in me. But sometimes I just assume they're lying.

so you don't trust yourself with anything you do, but you trust your own judgement? that's what a lunatic would do.

Don't trust your judgement! Unless you find that people run away on sight, you are not that ugly after all. And there may be other reasons why you have no success at dating, that you miss, because you jumped to conclusions because you stupidly trusted your own judgement.

But the others? you think they are in some secret society that is determined to lie to you to give you false self esteem? how narcistic are you? you are not important enough to beeing lied to. Nobody of your friends depends on your good will. What interest would they have in lying to you?

Everything in life needs modesty and modesty is King. You just baked with too much of the bad stuff and too little of the good stuff, no wonder your cake tastes horrible.

Look for points that make you doubt the negative stuff, instead of points that make you doubt the positive.

>>17923963
>>17923963

I seriously don't understand how two awkward people get into a relationship

also I'm pretty sure this is b8 so I'm out

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Just do it

>>17923963
I know this is bait but fuck this shit, it's way too relatable.
It's not funny being an sheltered girl from an ultra-conservative home suddenly trown into the real world because you had to move for college. Fuck you all.

>2017
>having sexual urges
Meme life desu senpai

>>17923959

Hello femanon.

I've been down that road before and I wouldn't recommend. We tried to have a casual thing but old habits and feelings surfaced and it just couldn't work that way anymore. To be fair though, we were in a really long relationship together.

There's nothing inherently wrong with trying to pursue a casual fwb situation with an ex, but I'd say if you guys do go for it, you should have VERY clear boundaries established before having that kind of relationship.

>>17924097
he's not really my ex, we just dated for a few weeks. i liked him and was disappointed when he broke it off, but i don't have any residual feelings. i just don't want him to think i do, if that makes sense. i was pretty clear about not being casual before, but now i've changed my mind

backpage, only the ones with ter ID's

call, don't text

don't pay any less than 120 for a hh

always wear a condom, with bj's too

if you need a rec give me your area and I'll hook you up

>>17923914
not OP but anything in the DC/MD area

>>17923914
I don't know what a Ter ID is. Area is Phoenix, Arizona.

What should I say during a call?

>>17923766
You're an idiot. Why would you be with a girl who won't have sex till marriage, and you already know you don't want to marry her, AND you want to get laid at least within the next 2 years?

>>17923766
Opus Dei huh? you're up for some secretely self tormenting weirdos if anything people say about them is true.

But then again imho believers are madmen no matter what fairy tale they follow.

As for advice:
>>17923780
this.

>>17923766
You've got problems you selfish faggot. Move on to some whore who's happy to take your worthless virginity and leave the other chick alone.

Stringing someone along so you can possibly manipulate them into giving up something they hold dear just so you can get 2 min of pleasure is low.

retire eventually

Travel dude. There's so much cool shit too see and do out there.

Invest in some ETFs. Then retire.

>>17923698
>I've been walked over so many times, I want to look tougher and colder ya know.

Do you want to "look" tougher or "be" tougher?

bait

>>17923702
oops, be, but if there's a way to look tougher than that too.