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>intimacy
>with a prostitute
You're kidding, right? A hooker is not going to make you feel loved and wanted.

>>17924669

thats where you'd be wrong.

one of my clients is an escort. she referred a 'john' of hers. oddly enough the man is extremely attractive. hes a bit on the thick side but in such a way that he scores skinny hot girls.

despite this he still sees our escort client regularly and according to her shes liek most of the johns: they just want to feel wanted for a little while.

as opposed to feeling like they have to put on an act and work hard at seducing women.

>>17924663

Yes, you can engage an escort for non-sexual purposes. Believe it or not, there's a reason they're called "escorts."

It won't be real, but pay enough and you'll get a serviceable facsimile for an hour.

You sound like my wife.

You think you've got problems? Try being me right now.
I've had to go sit on the shitter twice in the past hour or so and the leaky, fiery mass of sub solid crap that I'm currently excreting has set my asshole on fire.
Think of that.

>>17924673
You think I haven't experienced digestive problems? Can't you offer better advice than "think of problems worse than yours"? This is definitely not a worse problem. I'd rather have more frequent digestive issues than lose someone so important to me.

>>17924656

>how do i stop being literally dpeendent on my boyfriend for happiness

even if you stay with him develop a life that exists outside of him. Friends hobbies and other such things that bring you joy.

You know it's okay to just work until you figure out what you want to do, right?

>>17924613
You could just be worthless, and never grow up.

>>17924633
I have no clue what field of work I would be interested in. I don't want to spend my time working a pointless job that I don't care about. I want to do something that'll keep me interested.

>>17924583

normal? not exactly. but it does happen.

>boys are only interested in hookups
>is this jsut the culture of my time

you're playing dumb if you honestly think that the majority of people out there aren't actively dating or looking to actively date. im the only long term single man i know of. had one bud who was also long term single but he was just waiting for hte 'right' kind of girl.

and even then hook ups are more rare, we just do shorter term flings of 3 month relationships generally.

>>17924592
I see people holding hands all the time but someone told me that it's because my mind is fixated on couples so I end up seeing them everywhere, when really there aren't that many

I just don't know anymore.

>>17924583
Yes.

Two things. You either fucked so many guys and couldn't hold on to them for than two weeks or you have such severe mental issues not even a neckbeard would want to deal with you.

Unfortunately, you blew it and most well adjusted guys will treat this as a red flag.

>>17924574

im a nurse. go to the ER. or hell just go to a free clinic. anything but what you're doing. its a deep wound OP.

>>17924574

also im leaving this thread and asking no one else respond, eve nif you ahve medical experience. the more we post the more OP will try to squeeze a little more information out of us.

just go to the hospital.

>>17924577
I can't. I'm not a US national and don't have travel/health insurance.

>>17924517

yeah if you've got a college degree they are probably thinking - why the hell is he applying ? he will quit as soon as he gets a real job so why bother training ?

so focus on getting a job in your major

>>17924800
I completely understand that,aspect. I was going to apply without putting down that I have a degree. I just dont want them to find out by a simple background check, which they probably will, and see I have a degree. I was just going to say that I have another job but its part time and I needed another job.

>>17924517
A lot of stores have an image they want their staff to project - a head shop wouldn't want a salesman in a suit and tie, for example - and make their snap decision largely on their first impression of you. You can't change your image from store to store, but it might be worthwhile to pre-scout a mall or main street, picking out the conservative stores, the casual ones, the hip ones, etc. Then dress appropriately and hit all the stores of one type in one morning, and then change and hot all the stores of another type in the afternoon, etc.

>>17924460
Huh?

>>17924464
There's no rules just choose a card. and give me your alias

>>17924495
8 of diamonds. Just call me daddy

>>17924454

barring some crazy circumstances in the break up, yes. it'd be pretty silly to let something like an ex stop you from seeing the other 100 or so people in your class.

>>17924470
Yeah I'm gonna go. May be awkeard at times but YOLO

>>17924571

almost literally everyone there will be running into at least one ex. it was highschool after all.

it'll only be awkward if you make it awkward. avoid saying things like 'yolo' and it may not even be awkward.

good luck

>>17924451
>Tinder

There's your problem, friend. Am femanon but anyone could tell you the same about Tinderfags. It's just for short-lived hookups mainly, not relarionships. If you want a relationship then consider joining an actual dating site.

>>17924501

I enjoy the hookups tho.
It's just that with this chick, I really want to see her again, even without sex.

>>17924533
Try to contact her again, give her a couple more days, and if no response still then that's the last of her. Be ready to move on just in case.

>>17924346
Just take it out at work. Or entirely. It doesn't look as good as you think it does, I promise I wouldn't lie to you.

Very few places are going to allow facial piercings, especially something like like a lip ring.

>>17924346
How qualified are you ? Are you a girl or a boy? There are lots of barmen/waiters with visible piercings/tatoos for instance

>>17924338
bump 'cause i'd like to know too

>>17924338
Don't care about it. Someone out there has probably done worse than you, and someone worse than them, and so on and so on. Chances are whatever you did isn't even present in the thoughts of whoever else witnessed that. Or even if they do remember, it's probably do minimal that they brush it off or bring it up as a lighthearted joke. You are your worst critic, so obviously you'd dramatize something as being worse off than it actually was. Life is full of mistakes friend, picking yourself up and continuing to move forward from them is what makes you stronger.

>>17924338
I usually divert it by thinking about the memory metaphysically. So don't think about the details or the act literally, but instead use it to think about the bigger picture. Usually that's easier to handle in the moment than the awkwardness of the act itself.

dude lol wat

>>17924320
Don't admit it. She trusts you right now and all you're trying to do is get your relationship back to a sustainable state. That's not something you ever have to tell her except maybe when she swears off the drink for good. You're a good person, anon, even if your ways are a bit meticulous.

>>17924326

Problem is I think I went too far. She doesn't trust herself to be alone anymore and even wants to ride with me while I am working ( Delivery driver ).

No. In my classes there were 30, 40, 50 year olds. Remind yourself that you're there to get an education and not make friends to talk bout game of thrones in class.

there where 27 year olds on my college class. No one gave a shit. 27 is still young enough that no one will bat an eye you're just being overly self conscious.

>>17924329
>>17924322
Cool thanks for quick response guys. Yeah I'm trying to be realistic about pursuing a higher education. I just want to do two years at community college and two years at a state college. It's a lot easier said than done though.

>>17924073
Rap and weed.

Don't go to California. Rent is absurd and you'll pay 1000/month in the middle of the ghetto.

>>17924113
But how are the girls and the attitude of people?

>>17923956

Text me*

She told me that she is willing to be exclusive with me aswell.

I always told myself that I would never fall inlove with someone promiscuous but fuck, she's so perfect.

>>17923968

Fuck it man go for it. Might only last a month might last longer.

Accept her past, leave it be. Be with her in the present and support her future.

If shes willing to take the same approach you're golden

>>17923956

8 guys in 8 months isn't even that bad and seems normal to me for a sexually active single person - male, or female.

Nothing wrong with dating her and seeing how it turns out.