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>>17923950
Looks like an ingrown hair. Does it get easily irritated when you touch it?

>>17923950

Lance that shit and drain it, then apply some alcohol and patch it up.

>>17923950
How big is it (in cm)? Does it hurt when you move around? Has it been growing?
Has there been any changes to it since youve noticed it?
You should go to a doctor after visiting this thread.

see you are asking /adv/
you should be asking /pol/ or /his/

it's normal to try and pathologize people who disagree with you anon, if you want to learn how to do it ask tumblr

>>17923942
>And why are racists primarily caucasian?
lad you know this isn't true

seems like a bait thread

>>17923942
Different reasons really.
The most common is upbringing. If you're surrounded by people telling you from a young age that other people who don't look like you are bad, you're pretty likely to believe it. Doesn't matter if you're a black kid in the hood with a family that hates whites or a white kid in the boonies with parents in klan. Your upbringing determines your core beliefs.

2nd most common would be repeated negative experiences with one ethnic group. Be it white kids calling a black kid a nigger most of his life or black kids beating on a white guy for being white, that shit breeds resentment.

3rd would be cultural/dialect differences. I can't stand Indians. I think it's the accent, but it could be the attitudes. Whatever it is, just talking to an Indian sets my teeth on edge. Honestly, don't know why, but it's a prejudice and I recognize it as such.

Help you any?

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>>17923927

0/10

This is terrible bait but the curse of 4chan dictates that the manlets storm this thread and turn it into another 300 post circle jerk.

>>17923936
I'm serious.

>goes on 4chan
>expects leftism

Wew lad

Last spring/summer, I told them about my plans, and they told me that I could for sure get them to co-sign a student loan. They sat there and watched me apply to school after school, spending hundreds of dollars, only to tell me when I started getting acceptance letters than they weren't going to co-sign a student loan for me and that I didn't deserve anything like that. It was like they were playing some cruel joke on me. Maybe they were.

I can't even really describe the feelings I felt from them from the moment they said that. It was like I hated everything about them because they strung me along. They knew how much I wanted it, how hard I was working in classes, how many calls I was making to different schools.

Fast forward to this year, I'm about to be done with community college, and my parents fed me the same thing at the start of this school year too. The only thing is, I recently found out that's a lie too. Now my parents are telling me to just go to the local online/night school college, but to make matters worse, they're letting my little brother go away to school, to one of the schools I wanted to go to. It feels like they're playing a huge joke on me. I haven't spoken more than maybe 5 words at a time to a family member in close to the last 6 months, and usually less than that.

I only see hate when I see them. More than I have ever hated anything in the world. I can't figure out how to feel. I can't tell if I'm being a petulant child or not. I can't tell if it's fair or not for them to treat my brother and sister better than me AND give my brother literally the last thing I would ever ask my parents to do, not even for them to pay for my college, for them to help me go so I can pay for my OWN college.

And I can't tell what I should do, Just move away and cut my family off and just try to go to school like that? Keep my head down and just go to the online school? I hate living here so much it makes my head hurt and I think I need to consider a therapist too. I don't care if this sounds like the worst blog post ever, if I didn't post this right now I was going to lose my mind.

>>17923876
if ur that mad at them i would get out of there asap and away from them who cares what you do just do what you want. some time down the line if they hit you up about seeing each other or catching up or anything just straight tell them in ur opinion they were shit parents and u want nothing to do with them and to fuck off and them hang up on them etc

>I feel like now I have a whole in my life
You're probably like 18 and you live the "perfect" life. The fuck you're talking about having a hole in your life. If your issue is connecting with people then find out how you can do that and then do it.

>>17923772
maybe you need a new hobby, also you worked for those grades and that money, you deserve them. Lately I've randomly felt alone while talking to the closest of friends.

>>17923772
I used to be like this either, i know something was bothering me, but one day i tought about confronting it and seeing the hole i had, i tried really hard with relationships and love in general to just keep failing, honestly i think i feel a lot more worse now that i know i have that hole and cant fill it at all.

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Cut off your leg.

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>>17923676


>I got extremly depressed because I see no instant results

Welcome to 2017, home of the millennials.

>>17923676
>How do I fix this? I really want to loose the weight.

how tall are you and how much do you weigh currently?


I dont want to make leaping conclusions, but it sounds like weight loss or methods to do so isnt the key issue.

>>17923540
>should i be worried?

You should see a fucking doctor. Having sex with anyone not knowing what potential sexual diseases you could have is fucked up. Seriously, if you have this much sex and have never gotten and std test that is incredibly concerning. See a doctor and go from there.

Well, you literally say you get cold sores.

That is herpes.

If you go down on a girl, they are given herpes. Even if you are not breaking out.

>>17924206

That's not how it works, lol.

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here's me with longer hair and <beard> making a shitface

>>17923455
>>17923463
You don't have anything to worry about for now, it's just your shitty self esteem getting in the way.
>there are some hair left
you have more hair than a fuckload of males your age. your confidence in this area is more of a hinderance than a receding hairline.
>t. guy that is actually going bald at 20

>>17923455
Just experiment bro. Ask your GF what her opinion is. Your hair is thinning, but that doesn't mean what you have won't grow back when you cut it. Buzz it, shave it, whatever. Figure out what works for you.

Bump
>>17923400
W-what?

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>>17923386
Wear jeans you stupid faggot.

>>17923302
>>17923302
cocaine was going to be my next step if I wanted to go deeper.

acid and shrooms of course, but those don't seem like a reliable bang for the buck that you can get away with like coke or weed

>>17923302

Alcohol.

Seriously.

>>17923319

Cocaine is fun, but it's expensive and hard to find stuff that hasn't been cut to fucking hell and back. Also, the high doesn't last that long and coming down sucks.

Important question to ask yourself...

How might my circumstances be the results of my choices/actions, and not just "everyone else on earth is an asshole"?

>>17923270
I don't think everyone is an asshole. I just don't really like people anymore.

The female thing was definitely just the group. We'd been friends since highschool, and they'd been mean before (I never partook in it, but I was too scared to lose the only friends I had by making a stand. Pathetic, I know, but I was young and insecure). It was just my turn, but instead of putting up with it I told them it was mean so they just dropped me.

With men it's a bit more complicated. I had a really long term (for highschool) relationship with a boy, started going out at 14, stayed together for the rest of highschool, lost my virginity to him etc. etc. But, he died. Car crashed into him.

I think my issues with men stem from wanting him back, but I also think a lot of men in their early 20s do just want casual relationships, whereas I want a real one.

So I guess the answer is yes?

>>17923240

Confidence. If you're not confident with yourself and your ability to communicate or be around certain people then it will always show.

>>17923250
Ok, well how do I become confident then?

>>17923240
Poke your eyes out.

My boyfriend

I've only ever been really in love with one person who was my exact ideal. Everyone else that I try to allow myself to start something with just never matches up, even though they are great in their own ways.

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>>17922850

>>17922421
What's stopping you from buying one tailored suit and renting a sportscar before you hit the clubs?

Are you so dense that you actually think women have blue eyelids, inch long eyelashes, or bright red lips?

>>17923527
thats literally so much more expensive and trouble than slathering on make up
>>17923532
not all makeup is that obvious. the point of it is to seem like there isn't any

damn you fucks are dense
>>17922421
because men usually only care that the girl is sexy and don't think that deeply about it until the makeup is off. Also, women think they need it to look attractive. also, because its easily accessible

Page 8 and nothing? Harsh.

Haven't gotten the call yet

How old is he? You need to pursue the matter. That's a lot of money. If he was using as a cover for drug money you should let his parents know. that's addiction.

Keep doing what you need to do to get him to pay the amount. Let his parents know about his drug use, so he can at least have people know about it and he won't have his habit put up with, since it sounds like he's been relying on them for money.

Once they realize where the money's been going, they more than likely won't enable him anymore; either that or they're going to control his money.

He sounds like my brother, the more you brought up his drug use the more defensive he got. He's going to need a rude awakening in order to get his shit together.

So yeah, do what you can to get proof that it was his part that wasn't paid, threaten to take him to small claims court if he doesn't pay up. Do not let him off the lease in the mean time if you can afford to work something out momentarily with your renter and with his parents (I would honestly call them and explain the situation). Call about the account (which account are you talking about? electricity?) and explain the situation, let them know what's happening and ask if there's any way you could have the payment prolonged if it's to keep the lights on.

In the future no matter who has control of the bills you need to demand to see everything; if all of you are putting money down, it's all your jobs to know exactly how much is going where. So not only is he at fault, but so are you.

Even if you don't get another drug addict roommate, make sure you stay on top of bills no matter what; refuse to put a payment down until you know what ALL the bills are, even if you have to designate a day all of you can sit down together and pay them TOGETHER.