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>>17927444

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>>17927444
Jesus Christ that's disgusting. At least give us a warning, and then upload the picture in the next post you cunt. Reported.

Yes it is, go to the doctor and get a pill. Clears up in 3 days.

be superior in other ways

surround yourself with good friends

How tall exactly?

Only idiots focus on height THAT much. Be confident and no one will give a fuck how tall you are.

..sounds like someone that wont lead to much...just another ons for her, a big deal for you... personally i wouldn't. that I'd be tempted? yes.. that I'd do it? i dunno... the incompatibility gap in that departnent is too huge. me, also only 1 actual sex partner, 3 girls gave me head, of wich one i actually had sex with, n planned to marry, all years apart.

i can only speak for myself..temptation is a bitch... this may do you more harm than good. i say this as an imperfect man.

>>17927381
>She doesn't really care about me being inexperienced or that my dick isn't ultrahuge.
So chill. Anxiety is the cause for shitty performance, not your dick size or experience (assuming you aren't retarded).

>>17927520
>the incompatibility gap in that departnent is too huge
I fear that may be the case.

>>17927532
I'm trying to chill, but having problems to actually succeed in this endeavor.

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You were taught better than that, anon. I am disappointed.

>>17927371
You have to fall to get back up.

>>17927371
Sorry anon. We've all been there.

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pls halp

sounds like TMJ; plenty of exercises you can try for that on youtube.

In all likelihood, you're probably grinding your teeth at night; I'd recommend buying some over the counter mouthguards at your local drugstore (the ones you boil and mold to your teeth);

I'm assuming you don't wanna make some medical bills for this, so do a combination of exercises and mouthguards at night for a week and see if there's any improvement.

>>17927526

following up on that; more or less the same thing that happened to me; came completely out of nowhere one morning and I couldn't even open my mouth slightly without sharp pains; restrictions in range of motion would then vary week to week, in addition to lock'n'popping, and grinding, etc; learned to live with it as an annoyance for a few months before finding doing something about it.

you're probably looking at 4-6 weeks of this before jaw muscles are balanced out / kick the habit of grinding at night;

and there's always the usual fluff of avoiding stress, alcohol before sleep, etc etc.

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>>17927298
My reasoning is that it's tinder... It's not serious. Just be a flirt and have fun. But I've not actually met anyone on this thing

>>17927298
Its a hook up site, people think oh its for realationships and whatever and they are right but maybe for like less then 5% of people on there. Most girls and guys wanna fuck.

dang OP... you little slut.

or maybe women just sense your insecurity and it dries out their pussies.

Get off of 4chan, it's destroying you. You're not strong or confident enough to visit this website and not have it negatively impact your psyche.

>>17927261
>Personality, accomplishments, smarts and character seem to mean absolutely nothing to them

If 100% of women reject you, then I'm pretty sure you can't offer any of the above.

>>17927261
women care more about personality than looks. looks just get there initial attention. you can be average but get a lot of pussy if you are a fun person that can charm and seduce women.

it will get better once you get in your 30s. women are in there prime in there 20s, and yes, at that age they do have retarded standards but one women get to about 30 they lose the playing field. we run the playing field from 30 until death. so fuck em.

>>17927243
I used to study psychology, and it's a dead end, at least in my experience. Interesting, but interesting don't pay the bills.

>>17927243
What advice can I possibly give you? Deal with it faggot, or don't.

>>17927243
I guess all you can do is look for another job while you stay at this one. What happens if you approach a manager about this directly?

>>17927214
let him use you as a reference but change your last name or use your middle name.

Take him to a club to dance and get him drunk?

>>17927251
I would let him use me as a reference easy, it's more me just being at the end of my ability to run his life.

I hate seeing him down and out like this because he had such a great stretch of life, but he really crashed it himself, and even as I told him he was going to ruin a good thing WHILE he was ruining it.

He has
>therapy
>GI doctor (for psychosomatic IBS)
>daily anxiety medicine
>AS NEEDED anxiety medicine
But still fails.

I was an airborne ranger for 6 years and I'm finishing up a degree in radiography, and I can't get my brother to suck it up when his tummy hurts to just finish an 8 hour cashier job.

I KNOW the smart thing is to leave it and let him make his own mistakes, but it's family and I couldn't stand myself doing that. I'm just at the end of my ability to really "help," because he's had all the help I (and family) can possibly give.

What can I possibly do to help someone like this?

go to a bar, & at around the four shit mark, grab his collar, push him outside, & shove him until you both beat the shit out each other

take him camping, make him chop the firewood, if he doesn't, no fire

lead him to experiences which put the normal, minor stress of a day job in perspective

>>17927193

I've chosen family and friends over other options when faced with this option, but I'm also 30, not 19.

I recently got a job offer at Madison Square Garden. Really big deal. But it meant leaving, and it meant dedicating most of my life to work. I'm just not that kind of person.

I guess that's the question to ask - what defines you? Working and having people admire your role and your works? Or your interpersonal relationships?

Keep in mind, neither answer is wrong.

>>17927193
I would take it. That opportunity of them training you won't come along again. Worst case is if you hate it you can move back with your family and experience.

>>17927240
Essentially this. There is no wrong answer. Your family won't grudge you forging a life for yourself, but they'd also be pleased if you were around, too.

I'd personally do it. I was 27 before I ever left my hometown. Would've been nice to live more places before I got tied down with things. When I settled in my new city it was only 5 years before my family moved here too.

Stop placing so much investment in others for happiness. If you aren't able to walk away and say "thanks for the memories, take care" after a breakup and honestly mean well, you have the wrong mindset. You are placing your fragile happiness in the hands of others and that is bad.

It's fine to trust people, it's not okay for their actions to have a large impact on you or your happiness. Even if a girl cheats on you, you should be able to walk away and move on with your life without scar.

You're allowed to grieve for 30 minutes after something bad happens, then move on. Don't stare at the past, look forward.

>>17927168
That's the thing, she was the only person I invested my happiness in.

>>17927168
This hits close to home, depending on others for validation is not the wave brah

>>17927151
You just took it too far.

Suck it up and be more careful next time

>>17927151
>Help me understand why i have to do this shit even though i posted this in a private group that has nothing to do with the uni.

well you have to do this because school shootings are happening at an alarming rate, and the school feels pressured to intervene in anything that could be considered there responsibility.

they probably know that it was just a joke but they want to make sure because if you do anything they will be blamed for not stopping it.

yeah, its kinda retarded and the person that reported you is a dick but it is what it is, not much you can do but suck it up, and deal with it.

this is why i use a fake facebook account

Find the asshole who reported you and shoot him. Or at least beat the shit out of him.

>>17927144

You don't, really, unless you get famous as shit yourself, or have a bunch of major financial clout/an important job. Or you happen to know someone that is her friend.

I got to know a celebrity once, through my close friend's girlfriend. It didn't really go anywhere. It's not hard for them to determine you're not really their friend, just trying to get in their pants. Plus, you've built her up so much in your mind, that you'll likely just panic upon meeting her anyways.

>>17927144
>chance
>live/work where they live/work
>be someone relevant
>find out where she lives and visit her

Probably through parties and such. Or become associated in a film or a sponsor of hers.

We have this thread everyday now?

bump

can i get an actual response

Wait, you have a gf but you lost your virginity to a hooker?

>>17927082
stop lieing to yourself and find the joy in chasing your dreams.

How often do you jack off? If it's more than once a week, stop. Limit jacking off to once every 4-5 days and your motivation and ambition will skyrocket.

Practice turning the urge to fap into being creative with your hobbies, succeeding at your career, seducing real women, etc. Sexual energy = all energy.

>>17927192
>Sexual energy = all energy

i dont know anon, to me it sounds like youre obsessed with sex and assume this is also true for everyone else. i could give you some Freud quotes but i wont because i think hes a massive faggot.