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>>17925110
Good for you. Be happy. Be positive. Learn as much as you can. See this as a chance to learn. See what you can do to get advancement. Good Luck OP.

>>17925110
Don't piss off your manager.

>>17925110
Why?

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>>17925052
Hmmm- tough question OP. You seem to have your shit pretty sorted out. I would really look at speed dating if i was you. You may need to look at more "long term| " versions of your spare time, like joining a golf team, or a camping club where you do overnight trips. God Speed OP.

>>17925052
What school op?
Prospective medical student here

>>17925128
That's a possibility. I'll look into those. Thanks mate.

>>17925151
Penn State Hershey

>>17925038
He'll get mad at you regularly instead of never.

Ever heard of shit tests?

Judge him on everything he ever does ever so that he knows he is never safe to drop his guard and must always make sure he's putting on the right personality for you.

Question for guys

Why is it so hard for you to move on?

Not trying to sound like a cunt, but I've just read posts about guys still having feelings about a woman despite her being gone for years. I just find it fascinating I suppose.

Why is it that the most feminist of women who are very much into the body positivity and calling Beauty a social construct are the ones that are the most shallow when it comes to fucking men?

>>17925094
In my experience, best girl with the best body i've had, is still good fap material. Thus making her unforgettable

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>>17925005
>babe I'm bi
Not that hard.

>>17925005
Is there any reason you're confessing? Do you want her to grow a feminine dick and feminine balls?

>>17925005
Tel her u have autism. She will understand

You fucked up and made it sound like a date. You should've said let's order a pizza at your place

>>17925003
sounds like you're going out, but no reason you can't fuck later.

>>17925003
You just tell her "relax, it's not a date"

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>>17925000
you just do, anon. you just do.

this is my last post on 4chan so you better fucking take my advice ok? dont let my post go to waste by letting some girl get away because you didnt have the balls to just try

you don't. you just don't. they're working, and they don't care about you.

>>17925000

How often do you go to said establishment? Is she always your waitress? Do you go there with friends, or are you always alone? How often do you actually talk, more than her taking your order and your standard pleasantries?

There's a lot of valid questions about the situation. Plenty of people will tell you that waitresses/service people HAVE to be nice to you, but in all of my time in the industry, I've never had someone pull a girl aside and say "treat him extra special or you're in trouble."

I've gotten numbers from, dated, hooked up with, and banged plenty of waitresses/bartenders in my time. Don't come in specifically during her shift, don't ask overly personal shit unless offered, have something you're doing with your life, and a reason you visit, and eventually ask her out when you have some chemistry.

If it's a girl you have one wild shot with, and immediately think she's beautiful, act like it's your only shot. It might be your second visit, but just try. It happens all the fucking time, but maybe you're the one she says yes to.

There's no science to this shit.

Dude he's going to ship it to your address? People on the dark net are fucked up it could be like a bomb or something. Realistically though the lsd will be fake and your money will be gone

>>17924990
Yes,he is going to ship it to my adress.But the quality and the bomb thing sounds very unrealistic.Just think about it for a bit.People on the dark markets has s lot of feedback and etc.My biggest concern is how I will be effected if something goes wrong.

Probably the most retarded thing I've seen in a while. Why the hell would you do anything on the deep web let alone god damn buy something. Who knows they're probably shipping a fucking suicide bomber to your friends house right now. It's all over man. Glhf.

any advice would be really appreciated

>>17924951
Why do you want to hide it? It isnt a problem in my country

>>17924956
America is a very patriotic country and showing that I am a military dropout would probably ring a red flag.

>>17924931
You can get serious trouble man. If this guy realizes you are behind this, he's gonna kick your asses out of this world. If he's a dealer, he most have dangerous bosses too, so...
It's up to you

hey it's OP. This guys a dealer but he's a loner. Idk where he gets it from but he ain't shit. He doesent know me but he knows the other people I'm doing this with. We all got masks and we aren't telling anybody else about this.

>>17924947
>>17924931
depends on country really.

Well you made the mistake of thinking you are original.

Composition is making music but definition. But what it's not is being creative. You know the rules so you better fucking break them. Make something that doesn't follow a rule. Because who really cares, all that matters is that it sounds good. It's called theory not fact.

I compose on the piano, and I've never had formal schooling in theory or composition (like a degree)

Personally, I think you should do neither and save yourself the money and just continue to experiment with what you're doing now. Find a style that you feel comfortable in (for me, it's a poppy swing feel), and just jam out in that and expand.

I didn't really like the piece you posted (take it from another music guy), but it wasn't bad, I could see something in a small app on an android. Believe me, I go through a lot of shit and half-baked pieces to get something good out. If you really don't want to leave schooling, I'd say go for electronic music just because of it's versatility (being able to use FL Studio is vastly better than being able to compose something wicked on the piano if you want to make soundtracks for videogames)

Just my two cents

>>17924959
No i'm not doing anything original right now i'm just mixing stuff up. I tried to copy something.
I'm scared. My teachers tell me one thing and you guys tell me something else and like I don't know who my audience is. I want so badly to do what you're saying but i worry too much. I'm experiencing like an existential crisis. Ok i'm gonna just try and not give a fuck what other people think because i just wanted to please everyone but obviously that won't work. I think i could definitely do good if i just let it go

>>17924978
Yeah you are right. I can definitely see why you didnt like my piece it's sloppy and i was clearly trying to copy something. fuck now i dont know what to do.
I will try to jam out and expand. I dont have anything i feel comfortable in besides my blues 3rd scale.
I'm panicking i dont know if this was all for nothing??? I know what instruments go well together and their ranges and how to write for a string quartet but thats not gonna fuckin help me right now!
i wanted to study 17th century counterpoint but yeah i think electronic media is more marketable??? ;_; i just i dont know man but thanks for helping me

>>17924858

Well, unless you go into some detail, all I can tell you is it's gonna be fine. Trust me, whatever it is, it will look small and not so important in a few years.

>>17924943
This, things good or bad will take its place soon enough. Youll get through it.

>>17924943
Thank you, guys

>>17924790
Sometimes women just don't message back after.

Ever start talking with someone you're sort of interested in, but not really? The kind of situation where you're 50-50 on whether you should keep going or not? It happens to women too.

Give it another day maybe.

>>17924814
I mean the rapport was immediate and the dialogue was rapid. Like it was like an instant messenger scenario. And like, she didnt drop off or anything, I ended the conversation, but she just didn't seem interested in talking via text message. Which seemed strange to me. Like why the enthusiasm to talk over the dating service, but not through the more convenient text messaging?

>>17924790
>TL;DR OP was hitting it off with a bot.

Why'd you tell her? What's the point? At least meme about it, like a joke

>>17924702

if you had to clarify it was platonic, it was weird.

even if the girl said it to you before, you have to rememebr that humans (and especially nto women) are not rational.

when YOU do something you think of it in the best light possible. someone else could do teh same thing and you'd think negative.

so in this case she thought of herself as the sweet little sister type sharing her bond with her surrogate brother.

but when you did it, she interpreted it the negative way.

watch two people argue. it starts with someone insulting the other. both will claim the other started it. even the one who admits they went first will say 'BUT MYI NSULT WAS PLAYFUL / NOT AS BAD'

I'm guessing the way you said it weirded her out. So tell us, how did you say it?

>>17924668

some good authors there but i'm not seeing

zola

i can't remember others

i used to read lots of classics

>>17924668
None of the above. Why do you ask?

Moby Dick