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What are signs that i should just stop pursuing a girl?
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Has it been more than a few hours? If so time to stop
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>>17936293
She wants to find a guy like you....but not you. Time to look elsewhere.
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>>17936303
Concurred. Drop it like a baby OP.
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Lost erection before sex 2017-01-08 04:03:54 Post No.17936135
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Just tried to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few hours ago but for some reason as soon as I tried to penetrate her I was too soft to go in. We tried a few times but each time we tried I kept thinking about it more and more and it got worse. I've never had any issues with maintaining an erection during oral or when getting a handjob, I easily get erections from just kissing. We're both virgins.
What's wrong with me and how do I fix this?
It's happened to me once before with my previous girlfriend last year but we broke up before we got to try again.
Also is it normal for me to feel kind of angry at her for not seeming too concerned about how I might be feeling? She's said hardly anything since and hasn't asked if I'm okay
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She saw you fail at sex she's losing interest and respect for you the only thing that makes a women dry up faster than a soft dick is a man crying
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It's anxiety related, and it happens to a lot of guys. Don't try to think or anticipate it, just keep your head clear.
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>>17936165
Is there the possibility of it being to do with too much masturbation or desensitisation?
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My girlfriend has stood me up for sex again.
She refuses to talk about it.
This morning after giving her a massage and flirting with her she said she needed to brush her teeth, went to the bathroom, took a shower, got dressed and hopped into her computer without telling me, leaving me in bed.
I'm sick of this. How do you break up with someone? Give me the steps.
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"I want to break up because _____ ." Actually give her a chance to explain rather than just say "Oh she refuses to talk about it there's nothing I can do". From what you said, it sounds like she wasn't expecting to have sex while you were, which is why she just went off and did her own thing. Maybe you should actually try to communicate with her instead of us to learn why things are happening the way they are.
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>>17936002
Yeah what ^they said. Breaking with someone just because they won't have sex when you want to have sex sounds like a really shallow relationship.
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>>17936002
She don't need sex from you bc she's getting it somewhere else
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Hey /adv/, I need some help. I'm an 18 year old living in Australia, and I live with my parents. My parents are very religious, and so is the entirety of my extended family. Although they all live in different countries but mostly in the ME.
For the past few years I've been pretty depressed and have all around hated my lifestyle. Part of that is related to my religion (Islam). Up until very recently I've refrained from drinking alcohol, smoking marijuana, stuff like that. All due to my religious and the fear of my parents finding out.
At the start of December I took a trip to Japan and basically went all out with the alcohol and cigarettes, and fucked as many girls as I could. I had as much fun as I possibly could before I had to return. For that month, I was free from any consequences. I was free to do whatever I pleased, and I loved it. Now that I'm back in Australia I want to make sure my life doesn't go back to the way it was, and I want to make sure the change is permanent. I want to speak to my parents about this, but I'm afraid of what the consequences will be when I explain my feelings.
I mean shit, when I tried to purchase a Study Quran (I'm interested in the history of religions) that was written by a Shia Muslim, my mother forbid that I do so and threatened to disown me just because I wanted to read a book published a man who didn't believe in the same sect as her. I can't imagine what will happen when I tell her that I've grown away from Islam because it's done nothing good for me. And my dad probably won't be of much help. His family's side is Shia but my mother made him change to Sunni and agree that the Shia sect is wrong.
Please /adv/, what the fuck do I do?
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fake it til you make it on your own. and just do things behind your parent's backs like smoke and drink, fucking bitches, but hopefully those bitches don't come with aids or any other disease.
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watch out, angry christians coming thru
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>>17935569
I don't want to have to hide it though, anon. I'm sick of having to live like this, I've tried to kill myself twice before because of how depressed I was.
I've started looking for a job, whatever I can get, so I can at least have a source of income so that I no longer have to depend on them. I plan on joining the Air Force as soon as I can but that won't be for at least another year and a half.
I know that moving out at this point isn't a realistic goal, but if I can at least get myself a job then the only thing I'd need from my parents is the room I sleep in.
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I've always been libertarian-minded since I was a young kid and valued freedom, but over the past few months of pure thought and debate with a friend I've gone full anarcho-capitalist and it sometimes scares even me (my friend's come to a point where he doesn't think it has any major flaws, but will not identify himself as one since it's so unbelievably idealistic).
It's fucking crazy and I hate being this way, it makes me feel like a religious fanatic or a conspiracy loon, but the ethics are mostly solid and it would probably work very well (of course with some adjustments to the legal system to punish fraud, child neglect, unnecessary animal cruelty and the like). The free market works so well and government just seems to save up everything (though they can do a decent job at healthcare in countries like France and Switzerland, but theoretically the private sector can do the same thing too efficiently and affordably since there are no regulations). Private defense and private security are even better than a nationalized police five and military because they have to be accountable or lose customers to the competition. Private courts won't take bribes or they'll lose out to the competition. It's all so perfect. Too perfect.
I fetishize this maximization of liberty and I see it as the next intelligent development of human society. Am I delusional to ideal society where government coercion and violence is no longer used to maintain society and the free market will provide to everyone through voluntarism and peace? Anarcho-capitalism has to be flawed, but in theory, it's rock solid and works exceptionally well.
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It doesn't even work in theory. The prisoners' dilemma is an extremely simple example that shows that cooperation (even the sort of "gentlemen's agreement" competative cooperation so often idealized to exist in an anarcho-capitalist world) just isn't stable: someone is eventually going to be a cunt and profit massively from it.
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>>17935166
Are you violating the NAP right now you fucking Commie? That's it, I'm sending in my arsenal of thermonuclear icbms carried by all the orphaned infants I bought for bread. THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME YOU EVER VIOLATE THE NAP!
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>>17935166
The ideal society is one of core libertarian nature, with just enough socialism as lube that will allow its continued function and prevent catastrophic malfunction.
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I think my boyfriend stopped valuing me. I'm usually the one messaging and planning, but it's fine, because he didn't seem to be blowing me off before. And he did plan himself, too. But now he gets mad at me for asking why he's just not in the mood to see me, after almost a week of not seeing each other, or for trying to make plans the day he actually wants to see me (like what time to drive over to his house since he wakes up so late). He just seems so unenthusiastic and like he'd rather play video games all of the time. It used to be that he would want to spend time with me without playing video games, but now it's just "time to be an autist." We would spend three nights together and go to the gym those days, but now he doesn't want to go that one day we'll see each other.
No, I don't think he's cheating on me, because he literally just stays on the Internet all day and goes to work (and class when class sessions are in).
How do I make him more excited without actually confronting him about his? There are probably some obvious answers like don't talk to him for a week, but I do find that very difficult.
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>>17935011
>He just seems so unenthusiastic and like he'd rather play video games all of the time
really it's time for you to find a new bf
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>>17935022
You're probably right. Women have a tendency of staying in relationships where they're not valued.
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>>17935022
Is there any chance I can make him want me more? Or is this the point where men just use women and don't break up with them out of laziness?
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Crippled girl here. MD
Need some good pick up lines.
So far, all I got is "I give the best hand jobs because I have to use my mouth"
The dirtier the better.
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>I've never done anal. We'll not that I felt it...
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>>17934139
how crippled are we talking here? Full on quadriplegic?
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>>17934186
Muscular dystrophy. My limbs are noodles, but my pussy is magic
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-01-08 12:04:53 Post No.17933828
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Can someone "have a life" without ever experienced love or a relationship?
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Waiting for a report from the asexual anonette who is trying to convice her bf to fuck other girls
>>17933890
Define having a life
Paralitics can have a life
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>>17933941
Define a life for me pls
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share some of your favorite dirty talk lines during sex
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>>17933678
unf
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>remember when your dad used to do this
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>>17933678
>you promised you'd do anything for candy
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say it get it off your chest / vent 2017-01-07 06:14:16 Post No.17932825
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say it get it off your chest / vent
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I typed up a whole essay about being an edgy faggot and deleted it. Good enough. Have at it, ladies and gentlemen.
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I'm going to need you to take a leap of faith.
trust in me.
I love you.
-blanco amor
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Fuck off C
You made dump me. Say you want to be friends then start making comments for me to see. Thanks for forcing me to dump our mutual friends. I'm still salty over a year later. But you'll never care as all you did was gaslight me.
I'm sure some of your "friends" will see through your passive aggressive bullying eventually.
L
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I hope every single western women gets raped multiple times over and to end their suffering they kill themselves. Utterly worthless human beings.
Boyfriend is angry because whenever I post a picture on Facebook or Instagram I have friends who comment "kiss me/sit on my face/hot as fuck" etc, needless to say they're all women and I reply jokingly as well saying I will. It's banter. He does not believe this and gets jealous all the time though.
Is there something I'm not seeing here or is this incredibly silly?
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Stop posting shit that will trigger instability in your relationship. Stop infuriating your bf needlessly. Stop being an attention whore. And ffs get off those dumb ass social media sites if you plan to have a steady relationship.
Develop some inner strength, gtf off the apps n social media.
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>>17926875
Break up with this insecure faggot.
>needless to say they're all women
Oh Jesus. Also recommend him a counselor. Nigga got issues.
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>>17926900
I don't post anything triggering, just pictures, they are the ones who comment. And this is pretty common joking around here.
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Trust me, as depressing as these thread are it's better than most of the threads on /adv/ which consist of stupid teens wasting their time on 4chan instead of going out and making mistakes or 300+ post thread on whether or not you should marry a virgin.
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>>17921744
What do you want to talk about ?
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You should marry a virgin though. I don't want some dudes sloppy seconds
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>>17921755
Stupid teen wasting his time on 4chan detected
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Would you cheat on your girlfriend if you had the opportunity to fuck a JAV idol? (Assuming that was your thing)
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>>17937644
In this hypothetical situation, only if said idol had never been used as a human toilet before
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>>17937644
NO BECAUSE I'M NOT A PIECE OF SCUM WHO CHEATS.
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>>17937644
No.
It doesn't matter if it was my favourite idol/porn star/"my ideal woman" (physically), I wouldn't cheat my gf. I respect my relationship too much to throw it away for a one-time "adventure".
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I'm exhausted 24/7, it feels like someone is sitting on my chest. I've gotten checked out by a cardiologist. Nothing they can find.
I work an 8-5 job. Extremely depressed. What do
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>>17937507
>Extremely depressed.
Same happened to me when I was depressed. That's probably it
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Chances are it's your extreme depression and your likely working too much, or at least feeling that you work too much.
I can't really suggest much without you giving more information. You could work towards changing jobs, but the problem could remain.
All your post has said about you is that you work from 8-5, that you're extremely depressed, and that you've been checked out and have no physical reason for your tiredness. Think about what that tells me about you.
Mental health, particularly stress, really really really affects our well-being hugely. I would suggest the regular, meditation, good food, exercise, spending time outdoors, but this information is widely available online. Chances are you know what to do, just can't bring yourself to do it.
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>>17937507
By any chance, do you masturbate every day?
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Anyone have any ideas for stuff to do outside that doesn't require much effort? I think that getting some fresh air is a good way to fight depression, internet addiction, etc., but I usually don't feel up to typical outdoorsy stuff like hiking and sports.
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>>17937442
Hiking requires too much effort? You literally just need a pair of shoes.
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>>17937442
>that orange pollution in the river at the left
What is it? We've got a few of those around here, but I never figured out what it was.
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>>17937451
Algae