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>>17938943

what do you mean "actual work"?

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>>17938949
Like physical labor type stuff. Warehouse stuff I guess.

>>17938949
like having to do shit instead of just bumming around doing whatever you want.

>>17938935

I think you should talk to a professional. It sounds like you're having an emotional crisis that adv isn't fit to solve

>>17938935
>What's it like being straight?
Half the population gives you boners, getting laid is really difficult and fraught with risk, and life in general just sucks. I wish I could stop being straight

Looks like to me you falling down the rabbit hole, the deeper you go the worse the weeb/shut-in/fetish stuff, and white knighting gets.

The same could be said about a lot of professions anon.
From welding to programing.

If youre reading this and qe already have AIs who can do flawless translation disregard my message.
Dont fall for the translation and interpretation AI memes.
Both occupations are much more than what current AIs can achieve
There is always demand for translation. Depends on your language pairs. Just because they might be popular pairs, that shouldnt discourage you. A program or course should help you. a lot with some theoretical and practical stuff. I would need to know more about your experience and background to continue.
Computers cant translate perfectly, people cant translate perfectly. No such thing as a perfect translation.

>>17938919

Depends on how good you are and how many languages you're fluent in

>>17938909
Are you really that much of a cuck that you can't just tell her 'no' next time she asks to use it?

>>17938913
I have no issue telling her no. But it's obvious that I avoid her using my shit which makes me looks shady.

But if you have nothing to hide, why not let her use it?

>>17938876
Every one hits sad ruts, they can last months. You can have doubts and even have those things combined, but you're in crunch time. Do you love your husband? Do you want to be with him? ask those questions to yourself and they should be yes, otherwise you shouldn't have made him your husband and have only yourself to blame for that.

Don't you want to bring a life into existence that came from you? if you don't you should probably take some more time to appreciate the good parts of how great humanity is. At the worst we're pretty much second only to dogs in terms of how great we can be, humans can be pretty great.

You're starting a family, you have a much more active and vital role in how everything sails than you realize, just calm down and don't do stupid shit, it's a lot easier than you'd think.

you can still be a mom whilst following your dreams. hire a baby sitter. have a relative over. let you baby visit her grandparents so they can cover for you while you are working. remember, you only have to work for 8 hrs a day. or better yet get a baby when you're 30+. at least you have had a stable income by then or a business. just plan it out. don't get a baby too fast. it's not a thing you have to have early. enjoy yourselves while you are young.

>>17938885
i love him very much and i really want to have a family with him.
i just wsnt it all. if i do something, i want to do it right, no half assed stuff. that's why i don't want to try to keep doing a GOOD job at work and be a good mom too.
i know k can have both, but not at the same time. i'm probably just a bit jittery about all the changes that are coming at me.

>>17938903
the organizastion would not be a problem at all. that's easy. but i don't want to let others raise my kid. if i have a kid, i will look after it and be there for it. as i said above, no half assed stuff on my watch.

i'm already almost 30 and we both have a good income. so that's not a problem. i also don't think i missed out on anything. i'm ready to settle by any standart. i guess i just fear to end up like my mom. no own opinion and interests. no passion and no goals. basically just "existing" to attend to others needs and wants. i am disgusted by that.

>>17938864
RUN AWAY

There is only one acceptable reaction to blurting out 'I Love You' and that's not it.

>>17938870
I wouldnt mind a ltr with her though

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>>17938864
She thinks it's a mistake or she is not sure any more. Overall I think she is afraid of something. Also, text and writing is realm where bullshit lives - actions are what ultimately communicate intentions and opinion towards others, Yang.

>>17938829

sell out! it's the best!

>>17938836
What should my first mission be?

How does one sell out when there are no corporate sponsors?

Go to doctors.

I had pretty bad phimosis. Had to get circumcized when I was 19. Worth it though.

>>17938805
I saw a blog where a guy with terrible phimosis (think pinhole sized opening) gradually stretched his foreskin to the point where it would retract fully. If he can do it I'm sure you can. The alternative is to mutilate yourself like >>17938941
suggests.

Try to little by little especially in the shower, that's what I did and was fully able to in a month if that. Do this if you haven't actually been diagnosed with phimosis, a lot of guys get the cut when they don't need to. If there's no progress then go to doctors. If you have been diagnosed then yeah doctors.

>>17938789
Go to the library and send IM's to guys you know and ask if they want to fuck for $50 bucks.
>male btw
You're fucked senpai. It's not that hard to get a job, you just fucked around for too long.

>>17938801
> It's not that hard to get a job,
then why isn't anyone emailing me back and why didn't anyone call me back when I did have phone service

inb4
>ur a neet 2 long
I'm in the naval reserve, but it's all contract based and I haven't gotten a contract in a while

JO and play video games until you get kicked out and thrown on the street, might as well enjoy it while it lasts.

>>17938763
Have you ever been blacked out drunk?

Aside from amnesia, it just takes time. It seems to pass faster if you keep your schedule so busy that she won't be able to occupy a space in your thoughts. Or you know, you find someone else

>>17938772
No I don't get blacked out drunk, I always tend to crave for water while drinking which sobers me up.

I sure seem to be too obsessed over this woman in terms of my thoughts, she's all I ever think of lately.

Sorry man just deal with it until you het your own place.
You doing good deeds and buying her flowers, talking about your relationship... what the hell man.
Dont so that to yourself. youre proving your dependence on her and showing what a beta you are
nothing turns off them more.
I feel your pain but you must cut contact forever asap.

you'll be fine. you're old enough to be a dad

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>>17938714
i have less than 3000 savings between my gf and i
should i marry her before she delivers


should i get more shekels?

At least you're not 18.

>>17938683

Why don't you ask /fit/?

:^)

>>17938683
Don't weigh yourself everyday. The human body is derpy like that and doesn't always work how you'd think.

At least don't weigh yourself everyday expecting everything to go as planned. Once a week is good.

I'm assuming you're eating healthy and exercising because you are, right?

Well you're either not counting calories correctly or you're drinking too much water. There is no other alternative, as any other explanation violates the basic laws of physics.

There are no gfs in uni.

>>17938694
you're right i guess. i guess i'll have to live w/ the guilt of throwing away a wifey forever

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>>17938676
Why did you break up if I may ask

>>17938648
How old are you?

>>17938648
Talk to others put yourself out there. Context tho... you a student? Got a job? What's your environment?

>>17938651
20
>>17938654

i do, I was in a long term relationship and Ive been out for 6 months now

Work at a resteraunt and also a coffee place, i snowboard and I like to lift weights but havent in awhile

i got no car

>>17938641
And we have tried to get her a boyfriend, but she's too autistic

>>17938641

tell her you don't want to hang out with her. tell her why you don't want to hang out with her. Maybe she'll change her behavior. Maybe you'll hurt her feelings and never see you again. Sounds like a win win to me.

>>17938709
I literally went 2 months without even acknowledging her presence.
That made it worse for Sarah, so I apologized to Karen, and she got over it like nothing happened unfortunately. She's just too autistic to understand.